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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 hours ago

The friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals

Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
Relationships
fromConsequence
15 hours ago

Marisa Tomei, Sherry Cola, Ciara Bravo, and Marco Pigossi on You're Dating a Narcissist: Podcast

The film explores narcissism and its effects on relationships through a mother-daughter dynamic and friendship, emphasizing ambiguity in character motivations.
Paris food
fromTasting Table
16 hours ago

'We Loved To Argue' - Jacques Pepin's Favorite Memories Of Julia Child - Tasting Table

Jacques Pépin and Julia Child shared a 50-year friendship marked by culinary collaboration and friendly disagreements over cooking techniques.
Bicycling
fromBikerumor
18 hours ago

Scott's New Film Reminds Us that Things May Change, But Mountain Biking Stays the Same

Three friends reconnect through mountain biking, exploring new places while reflecting on their past dreams and the enduring nature of their passion.
Independent films
fromwww.theguardian.com
20 hours ago

Being Ola review a sweet and gentle film about disability, friendship and abandonment

Ola Henningsen navigates his feelings of friendship and abandonment in a gentle film set in a Norwegian community for individuals with disabilities.
#personal-growth
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
23 hours ago

I'm 34 and I've started noticing that the friends I made in my twenties loved the version of me that was convenient for them. The version that said yes, split the bill when I couldn't afford it, and never made my problems anyone else's weight. Growing out of that person cost me half my contacts and none of my peace. - Silicon Canals

Social circles can shrink as people evolve, reflecting personal growth rather than failure in maintaining friendships.
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago
Relationships

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

The hardest conversation in any long friendship isn't the fight. It's the moment one person has genuinely changed and the other person keeps responding to who they used to be, and neither of them can name why every interaction now feels like a translation exercise. - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
23 hours ago

I'm 34 and I've started noticing that the friends I made in my twenties loved the version of me that was convenient for them. The version that said yes, split the bill when I couldn't afford it, and never made my problems anyone else's weight. Growing out of that person cost me half my contacts and none of my peace. - Silicon Canals

Social circles can shrink as people evolve, reflecting personal growth rather than failure in maintaining friendships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as individuals change and evolve, often without conflict or clear reasons for the loss.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The hardest conversation in any long friendship isn't the fight. It's the moment one person has genuinely changed and the other person keeps responding to who they used to be, and neither of them can name why every interaction now feels like a translation exercise. - Silicon Canals

Friendships often erode not through conflict, but when one person changes and the relationship fails to adapt.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The friends you can call after six months of silence and pick up exactly where you left off aren't low maintenance. They're the only people who ever loved the version of you that exists between performances. - Silicon Canals

Friendships that endure long silences are often deeper and more honest than those requiring constant interaction.
NYC music
fromTime Out New York
2 days ago

Review: Two friends makes a great escape in Mexodus ()

Brian Quijada and Nygel D. Robinson create a musical that highlights the historical escape of enslaved Black people to Mexico.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

The Hidden Cost of Being the 'Good Friend'

Self-abandonment involves neglecting one's own needs to maintain relationships, leading to feelings of loneliness despite being perceived as a good friend.
Cancer
fromIrish Independent
4 days ago

'I'm so glad we were together' - Lucy Kennedy on supporting radio co-host Colm Hayes' through wife's illness and death

Hayes reflects on the last four years of his marriage as the best, despite the challenges of his wife's illness.
Relationships
fromThe Washington Post
1 week ago

$500 tee times, private yachts: Bachelor(ette) trips are out of control

Bachelorette trips have become increasingly elaborate and expensive, with average costs rising significantly over the past decade.
#mental-health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago
Relationships

If a man has quietly given up on life he probably won't tell you - he'll just become very agreeable, very easy to be around, but very difficult to actually reach, and the people who love him will spend years mistaking the calm for contentment and the distance for peace - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Psychology

The loneliest people in most social circles aren't the ones nobody likes - they're the kind, helpful people everyone appreciates but nobody thinks to check on because they seem so self-sufficient and together - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

If a man has quietly given up on life he probably won't tell you - he'll just become very agreeable, very easy to be around, but very difficult to actually reach, and the people who love him will spend years mistaking the calm for contentment and the distance for peace - Silicon Canals

Men may appear calm and agreeable while actually experiencing quiet resignation and internal struggle.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The loneliest people in most social circles aren't the ones nobody likes - they're the kind, helpful people everyone appreciates but nobody thinks to check on because they seem so self-sufficient and together - Silicon Canals

People who appear strong and reliable often struggle silently, leading others to overlook their need for support.
fromTODAY.com
4 days ago

After Heartache and Grief, 2 Friends Get Well-Deserved Girls Trip With Jenna & Sheinelle

Lindsay texted Ella, 'ARE YOU WATCHING? WE HAVE TO APPLY' and within hours they hatched a plan to make the video and enlisted the help of Ella's twin sister, Olivia Dombkowski, to help.
SF parents
Online Community Development
fromTNW | Apps
5 days ago

A new app wants to cure loneliness by getting people off their phones and into the same room

Friending is a social platform designed to help people make friends through in-person meetings, addressing loneliness as a public health issue.
Books
fromThe New Yorker
5 days ago

Louise Erdrich on Novels of Parentless Children

Louise Erdrich's recent reading focuses on children's loss of parents, highlighting the urgent stakes of a chaotic world.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

The loneliest men aren't the ones who live alone - they're the married men who've funneled every ounce of emotional intimacy into one relationship and have no backup system when that well runs dry or their partner passes away - Silicon Canals

Many men rely solely on their spouses for emotional support, leading to loneliness even in marriage.
Film
fromEntrepreneur
5 days ago

Brat Pack Icon Andrew McCarthy: "I Realized How Much Fear Had Dominated My Life"

Fear can hinder success; recognizing and confronting it is essential for personal growth.
#aging
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who reach their 60s without a large circle of friends aren't lonely - they're the ones who figured out the one relationship truth that emotionally intelligent people swear by, which is that one person who truly sees you is worth more than a hundred people who only know your name - Silicon Canals

Aging often leads to fewer but deeper friendships, resulting in better well-being rather than increased loneliness.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

Why making friends after 50 feels so much harder and it's not because something is wrong with you - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago
Relationships

I'm a retired Boomer and every friend I had in my 50s is either dead, sick, or we just stopped calling-here's what nobody tells you about aging - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who reach their 60s without a large circle of friends aren't lonely - they're the ones who figured out the one relationship truth that emotionally intelligent people swear by, which is that one person who truly sees you is worth more than a hundred people who only know your name - Silicon Canals

Aging often leads to fewer but deeper friendships, resulting in better well-being rather than increased loneliness.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

Why making friends after 50 feels so much harder and it's not because something is wrong with you - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago
Relationships

I'm a retired Boomer and every friend I had in my 50s is either dead, sick, or we just stopped calling-here's what nobody tells you about aging - Silicon Canals

Games
fromKotaku
6 days ago

Pokemon Pokopia, Let Me Give Mimikyu A Hug

Mimikyu, a ghost/fairy-type Pokémon, seeks friendship while hiding its true form under a Pikachu disguise, reflecting themes of acceptance and loneliness.
LGBT
fromQueerty
6 days ago

"Something I did not see coming": Niecy Nash reveals the "crabby" moment she fell for Jessica Betts - Queerty

Niecy Nash realized her feelings for Jessica Betts during a casual crab dinner, marking a significant shift in their long-standing friendship.
Europe news
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

My friend died in a diving accident. Then I was arrested for his murder

Dan Frolec's diving trip in Croatia turns tragic as he searches for his missing friend Michael, leading to a life-altering experience.
#relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago
Psychology

I turned 37 and looked at my phone contacts and realized I had 247 numbers but couldn't name a single person I'd call if I got genuinely bad news - and that's when I understood that losing friends in your 30s isn't about distance, it's about finally admitting proximity was doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The saddest part of having no close friends isn't the loneliness - it's realizing that most of your relationships were held together by proximity, routine, or obligation, and when those structures fell away there was nothing underneath - Silicon Canals

Many friendships are superficial, relying on circumstances rather than genuine connection.
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

Adults who reach their 60s without close friends aren't the ones who couldn't maintain connection - they're often the ones who maintained every connection single-handedly for decades until the effort of always being the one who calls, always being the one who remembers, always being the one who shows up became heavier than the loneliness of letting it all go - Silicon Canals

Friendships require mutual effort; imbalance can lead to loneliness without realization.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

People who are warm and generous but somehow still end up alone in their 60s usually display these 9 behaviors without realizing it - Silicon Canals

Warm, generous people can lose meaningful relationships through neglect, burnout, and assuming past closeness will persist without regular, intentional tending.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I turned 37 and looked at my phone contacts and realized I had 247 numbers but couldn't name a single person I'd call if I got genuinely bad news - and that's when I understood that losing friends in your 30s isn't about distance, it's about finally admitting proximity was doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Friendships in adulthood often diminish in depth despite an abundance of acquaintances, highlighting the importance of meaningful connections over mere proximity.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The saddest part of having no close friends isn't the loneliness - it's realizing that most of your relationships were held together by proximity, routine, or obligation, and when those structures fell away there was nothing underneath - Silicon Canals

Many friendships are superficial, relying on circumstances rather than genuine connection.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Adults who reach their 60s without close friends aren't the ones who couldn't maintain connection - they're often the ones who maintained every connection single-handedly for decades until the effort of always being the one who calls, always being the one who remembers, always being the one who shows up became heavier than the loneliness of letting it all go - Silicon Canals

Friendships require mutual effort; imbalance can lead to loneliness without realization.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

People who are warm and generous but somehow still end up alone in their 60s usually display these 9 behaviors without realizing it - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromGothamist
1 week ago

Single? These New Yorkers want to pitch you on their friends.

'Date My Friend' events allow friends to promote their single friends to potential partners in a fun, engaging environment.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The reason many boomers have no close friends to lean on isn't that they didn't try - it's that their generation was handed a script where real friendship meant loyalty and proximity, not emotional intimacy or mutual vulnerability - Silicon Canals

Friendships among older men often lack emotional depth, making them fragile during challenging times.
Online Community Development
fromLos Angeles Times
1 week ago

L.A. Times Concierge: 'It's hard to make friends as an adult in L.A. What are some groups I can join?'

Building adult friendships can be challenging, but social clubs and community spaces in L.A. offer opportunities for connection and shared interests.
fromIndependent
1 week ago

Martin Breheny: My friend Michael Lyster - the consummate professional who made it all look so simple

Michael Lyster's reaction to any serious discussion about himself would be swift and direct: 'None of that old rubbish - throw it in the bin.' This reflects his disdain for self-importance.
Writing
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

It's always me who makes the effort to see my friends. Don't they value me? | Ask Annalisa Barbieri

Friendship dynamics can be confusing, especially when one person consistently initiates contact while others do not.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Research says the more intelligent a person is the fewer friends they have - not because they're difficult to be around, but because the older they get the less willing they become to spend their limited social energy on conversations that go nowhere and people who stay on the surface - Silicon Canals

Highly intelligent individuals may prefer fewer social interactions, finding satisfaction in deeper relationships rather than frequent socializing.
Books
fromEngadget
1 week ago

What to read this weekend: Revisiting Project Hail Mary and The Thing on the Doorstep

The miniseries adapts Lovecraft's story, focusing on friendship, murder, and the gradual descent into madness with unsettling visuals.
#support
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Child Just Had a Terrifying Medical Crisis. I'm Shocked by My Best Friend's Response.

Friendship requires mutual support, and absence during crises can lead to feelings of hurt and disappointment.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Relationships

Harriette Cole: My friend never mentioned her partner's arrest. Maybe she doesn't know?

Offer discreet, nonjudgmental support while respecting privacy and avoid pressing for details; communicate availability and concrete ways to help without creating pressure.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Child Just Had a Terrifying Medical Crisis. I'm Shocked by My Best Friend's Response.

Friendship requires mutual support, and absence during crises can lead to feelings of hurt and disappointment.
Los Angeles Rams
fromESPN.com
1 week ago

Michigan-Saint Louis shaped by Dusty May, Josh Schertz friendship

Coaches Dusty May and Josh Schertz share a unique bond, exchanging practice footage and ideas, enhancing their teams' preparations for the NCAA tournament.
#loneliness
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Research says the health consequences of having no close friends are not metaphorical - the immune system is measurably weaker, the cognitive decline measurably faster, and the recovery from illness measurably slower, which means the body is not waiting for a person to feel lonely before it starts responding to the fact that they are - Silicon Canals

Friendships are crucial for health; loneliness has measurable physical effects on the body, impacting immune response and increasing disease risk.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

If you're still doing these 9 things heading into your 70s, psychology says you're setting yourself up for the loneliest decade of your life - Silicon Canals

Sustained social engagement and proactive relationship-building prevent profound loneliness in later life; waiting, withdrawing, or relying on chance connections leads to isolation in old age.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

People who have no close friends to rely on usually display these 8 behaviors without realizing it - Silicon Canals

Close friendships require intentional maintenance; habitual behaviors like dominating conversations, prioritizing work identity, and mistaking busyness for connection prevent deep, sustaining bonds.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Research says the health consequences of having no close friends are not metaphorical - the immune system is measurably weaker, the cognitive decline measurably faster, and the recovery from illness measurably slower, which means the body is not waiting for a person to feel lonely before it starts responding to the fact that they are - Silicon Canals

Friendships are crucial for health; loneliness has measurable physical effects on the body, impacting immune response and increasing disease risk.
OMG science
fromEsquire
1 week ago

'Project Hail Mary' Is Actually About Male Loneliness

Project Hail Mary uses a sci-fi premise to explore the challenges of adult friendship and loneliness in modern life.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

If you're still doing these 9 things heading into your 70s, psychology says you're setting yourself up for the loneliest decade of your life - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

People who have no close friends to rely on usually display these 8 behaviors without realizing it - Silicon Canals

fromTODAY.com
1 week ago

Thanks to Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, First Grade 'KC Swifties' Have a 'Love Story' With Flag Football

The girls chose their NFL team uniforms - the Kansas City Chiefs, of course - and rather than adding names to their jerseys, the girls adopted the name of their favorite Taylor Swift song.
Los Angeles Rams
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says people who are extremely kind but have no close friends aren't socially inept - they're operating with a version of kindness that prioritizes other people's comfort so completely that it never creates the vulnerability required for actual friendship - Silicon Canals

Vulnerability is essential for developing close friendships, yet many kind individuals struggle to initiate self-disclosure.
Relationships
fromBustle
1 week ago

The Case for Doing Absolutely Nothing at Girls' Night (And Making It the Best One Yet)

Unstructured social gatherings with close friends create deeper connections and more memorable moments than elaborately planned events.
Relationships
fromTheroot
2 weeks ago

The Long Friendship Between These Two Women Will Make You Cry

Two best friends demonstrate unwavering support as one battles cancer, maintaining their life traditions and adventures together while navigating treatment.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: I wish my friend would chill out about religious holidays

Cultural and religious traditions hold deep personal significance beyond regular practice, and acknowledging them strengthens friendships and shows respect for identity.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Pieced Together review poignant narrative game gathers bittersweet fragments of a friendship

Through the ingenious medium of an interactive scrapbook, we play as Connie, glueing in photos, notes and memories of her friend after years of separation. The game begins with several attempts to write Connie a letter, before we cut-out, stick and sort the story of their lives together.
Video games
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says people who have only 2 or 3 close friends instead of a wide social circle display these 9 strengths most people underestimate - Silicon Canals

But here's what nobody tells you: while everyone's busy accumulating hundreds of "friends" on social media and casual acquaintances at happy hours, those of us with just a handful of close friends might actually have it figured out. Psychology research is increasingly showing that people who maintain smaller, tighter social circles display unique strengths that often fly under the radar. We're talking about genuine advantages that most people completely overlook or even misinterpret as weaknesses.
Relationships
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Dear Mary: My childhood friend's new house is decorated to look like my parents' home. Should I be flattered or weirded out?

A childhood friendship formed through shared musical passion endured across socioeconomic differences and benefited from generous family hospitality, prompting later parental reflection.
Television
fromQueerty
1 month ago

A silver fox gets by with a little help from his friends in this series about gays in their 50s - Queerty

A darkly comic series follows gay men in their 50s navigating midlife crises, friendship, loss, and identity with humor and emotional honesty.
#introversion
fromwww.npr.org
1 month ago

U.S. women's figure skaters could've been rivals. Instead, they're the 'Blade Angels'

The "Blade Angels" are about to take off. That's the official trio nickname for Amber Glenn, Alysa Liu and Isabeau Levito, the figure skaters representing Team USA in the individual women's competition. They voted on the name last month (it was Liu's suggestion) and were re-introduced to the world this week in a video narrated by none other than Taylor Swift.
World news
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I lost touch with most of my childhood friends and grieved that loss until I realized I was mourning who I was, not who they are - Silicon Canals

Nostalgia often reflects grief over lost self-continuity—mourning the person one used to be rather than solely the lost friendships.
#social-isolation
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
Relationships

21 Unexpected Things People Started Experiencing In Their 30s, From Painful Friendships Shifts To "Second Puberty"

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

Psychology says people who become completely isolated after 60 usually displayed these 7 warning signs in their 50s without realizing it - Silicon Canals

fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
Relationships

21 Unexpected Things People Started Experiencing In Their 30s, From Painful Friendships Shifts To "Second Puberty"

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Mental health

Psychology says people who become completely isolated after 60 usually displayed these 7 warning signs in their 50s without realizing it - Silicon Canals

#grief
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Mental health

Help! My Best Friend's Entire Personality Changed After a Traumatic Event. I Can't Stand the "New Her."

fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Mental health

Help! My Best Friend's Entire Personality Changed After a Traumatic Event. I Can't Stand the "New Her."

Film
fromwww.aljazeera.com
1 month ago

Locked Out, Locked In: Witnessing the Gaza War from afar

Two longtime friends are separated by war: one trapped in Gaza facing bombardment and survival, the other helplessly watching from Beirut.
fromwww.npr.org
1 month ago

How to hone your 'friendship intuition'

If it's been awhile since you've sought out a new friend and you're feeling a bit rusty, try developing what Vellos calls "friendship intuition." That means knowing who to prioritize, how to spend time together and what to do if the vibes just aren't there. In a conversation with Life Kit, Vellos shares insights on how to turn a stranger into a friend, based on scientific research and her work as a friendship coach. This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
Relationships
Soccer (FIFA)
fromBavarian Football Works
1 month ago

Bayern Munich defender Dayot Upamecano says Dembele's Ballon d'Or win brought him to tears

Dayot Upamecano and Ousmane Dembélé are childhood friends who share a close bond on and off the pitch, celebrating each other's successes.
#trust
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: 10 years after the Easter dinner, my friend is exacting her punishment

My friend said, I am going to be very selective about who I include because there are some people who seem to think the more, the merrier,' and we just can't have that. The time you asked me to include your mother at Easter, my table was at its max capacity. I was shocked. That request was made 10 years ago and was cheerfully accommodated.
Dining
Wellness
fromwww.amny.com
1 month ago

Olympics not just about the medal count, says Team USA greats | amNewYork

Medals bring accomplishment, but friendships, pursuing passions, personal growth, and purposeful action are the primary sources of happiness for Olympians.
fromQueerty
1 month ago

Guys over 40 offer advice to men in their 20s in the most wholesome viral thread - Queerty

Get to know and be friends with other gays," said one. "Meaningful, genuine, healthy romantic relationships come from friendship. Not from passionate s*xual encounters with strangers. And focus on your health, your style, hobbies, mental clarity through expunging all the toxins built up from ... mistreatment in your childhood.
LGBT
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

You don't need dozens of friends: the research on how many close connections actually matter - Silicon Canals

Ever wonder why you're exhausted trying to maintain relationships with everyone from your high school lab partner to that person you met at a conference three years ago? Here's something that might surprise you: anthropologist Robin Dunbar's research suggests our brains can only handle about 150 social connections, and of those, only five make up our innermost circle. That's right, five.
Relationships
Relationships
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

Jenna Bush Hager Reflects on Being Pregnant While Hoda Kotb Was Trying to Adopt

Honest, compassionate conversations when a friend becomes pregnant while another is trying to grow a family can ease pain and preserve the friendship.
Relationships
fromBustle
1 month ago

This Is Your Sign To Go "Color Hunting" With Friends

Color hunting is a simple, free activity that helps friends meet, explore surroundings, photograph finds, and create shared, colorful photo collections.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Help! My Childhood Best Friend Keeps Stalking Me for Attention. I'm Considering Drastic Measures.

Throughout my childhood and adolescence, my closest friend was "Kate." We kept in touch throughout college but drifted apart a bit afterwards. Kate stayed in our hometown after I moved away. Long story short, I abruptly cut Kate out of my life several years ago after she made a racist comment to the person I was dating at the time (Kate and I are both white, my ex was not).
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

5 friendship patterns that predict who'll still be in your life a decade from now - Silicon Canals

The friends who stick around are the ones who text back when you're having a mundane Tuesday crisis about whether to switch internet providers. They're interested in your boring work drama. They remember to ask how your dentist appointment went. I have this group chat called "The Debrief" with four friends from different parts of my life. We don't just share the highlight reel stuff.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

After high school, a friend I was very close to drifted away. Should I seek closure from her? | Leading questions

Should I try to seek closure with a person I used to love but drifted apart from, or is it best to leave them be? There's a person I used to be really close to who doesn't talk to me any more. We didn't have a fight. We just drifted, but I still think about them all the time. We were really close from year 7 to year 12. The truth is I had a devastating crush on her. I told her about it one day; she let me down very sweetly and our friendship continued. She was the first (and so far only) person I've ever felt I loved. She's the reason I identify as bi. And I believed for a few years she loved me too, if in a different way to how I hoped.
Relationships
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

People who drift away from everyone as they age tend to display these 8 subtle behaviors - Silicon Canals

Gradual social withdrawal often begins with small, quiet behaviors signaling emotional exhaustion and a decline in initiating social contact.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Know My Best Friend Isn't a Charity Case. But I Still Want to Give Her My Extra Cash.

Offer financial help transparently and respectfully: ask permission, discuss needs and boundaries, and provide sustainable support without stigma or unsolicited gifts.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Help! My Friend Found Religion and Is Happier Than Ever. I Can't Help But Judge Her.

Support a friend's spiritual change by listening without judgment, setting boundaries, and accepting differences while maintaining your own values.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Why friendships become more important than family the older you get - Silicon Canals

Friendships often become primary emotional supports in adulthood because they are chosen, mutually empathetic, and adapt to shared life experiences.
Relationships
fromBustle
1 month ago

Your Tarot Reading For The Week Of February 2 - February 8

Two of Cups signifies unity, partnership, attraction, and increased connection; encourages honest communication to deepen romantic or friendship relationships and resolve compatibility issues.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

The New Game of Thrones Show Finally Gives Us Its Villain

Nadira Goffe: Jenny! I'm so excited to gab about this episode for a bit, because woof-or should I say hoof?-what an episode it was. I would call it egg-cellent, because most of it is about Egg, the adorable, mysteriously bald stable boy who becomes Dunk's squire. It's 30 minutes of the unlikely friends just hangin' out, really living up to the title of the George R.R. Martin novellas that the show is based on, Tales of Dunk and Egg. Dunk teaches Egg how to mend a patch in clothing, they cheer over the day's jousts, and there's a scene in which the two role-play a conversation about eating salt beef that is so stinkin' cute I had a lopsided smile on my face the whole time. At one point, the gentle giant cooks his tiny squire a meal with goose eggs that have yolks so large I instantly sensed that there was some sort of subtext going on as they sizzled in the pan.
Television
fromQueerty
1 month ago

Jesse Tyler Ferguson recalls Nathan Lane's adult joke to his 5-year-old son - Queerty

'You know, my friend Nathan's coming over and he's bringing our friend Pam,'', Ferguson recalled telling his sons. 'You know Nathan, of course. You've listened to him, you know his voice from [Timon in] The Lion King.' So I played 'Hakuna Matata' and on my way to school they were singing 'Hakuna Matata' and I was like, 'This is Nathan who is coming to dinner!'
Television
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says if you prefer quality over quantity in friendships, you display these 9 rare strengths - Silicon Canals

Choosing a few deep friendships reflects emotional intelligence and psychological strengths, often stronger than having many superficial acquaintances.
fromBustle
1 month ago

On TikTok, People Love Weekly "Friend Dates"

All the swiping, chatting, and meeting up on Thursday nights - even when you're super tired or not in the mood to go out. Now imagine putting that same effort into seeing your friends. On TikTok, people are talking about the importance of friendship and how easy it is to deprioritize your besties. While you might love your friends, it's not uncommon to go weeks, and sometimes even months, without seeing them.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I don't like organised fun, but Dungeons and Dragons is my shining nerdy light amid the darkness | Patrick Lenton

I wish this was a one-off blip in my regimented friendship schedule, but all through 2025 I played the world's slowest game of message tennis. I'd invite a pal for dinner, only for the world to turn, the seasons pass, grey hairs gather at my temples, before a date was finally locked in. This sentiment seems to be common among my circle.
Relationships
#boundaries
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

9 Proven Tools for Nurturing Old and New Friendships

Close friendships provide emotional safety, mutual support, and resilience through disagreements and require attention, honesty, and avoidance of judgment or competition.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Son Accidentally Hurt His Friend at a Sleepover. His Parents Have Made It a Friendship-Ending Offense.

A few weeks ago, our son's friend "Derek" came over for a sleepover and during the night somehow my son bruised his nose. We didn't know until he went home the next day and his parents texted us. Of course, we apologized and our son said it was an accident, but his friend's father refused to let him play anymore. Apparently the boy wanted to go home at 3am, but he didn't say so to us. (They were up late playing games).
Parenting
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

10 Passive-Aggressive Phrases You Shouldn't Use With Your Friends

Passive-aggressive behavior undermines friendship communication and resilience; addressing hurt feelings directly strengthens relationships and prevents tension.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I'm wealthy thanks to an inheritance and good investments. My friends aren't, and it's straining our friendship - what do I do?

Remain empathetic, set firm boundaries, decline loan requests, and offer nonfinancial support while protecting personal finances and preserving relationships.
fromThe Nation
2 months ago

A Living Archive of Peter Hujar

From the 1950s until his death in 1987, Hujar documented the creative lodestars of downtown New York, many of whom were his friends, lovers, or sometimes both. He photographed the likes of Susan Sontag and John Waters stretched in repose, or the Warholian legend Candy Darling, encircled by flowers and solemn chiaroscuro on her deathbed. He often photographed himself, too, but the rarest shots of Hujar are those taken by others, candid glimpses that divulge some secret relation.
Film
Mental health
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Asking Eric: She shows up late and then teases me for being uptight about time

Request reliable communication and set compassionate boundaries, balancing support for ADHD-related challenges with honest, blame-free conversations about mutual needs.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

I watched my childhood best friend become a millionaire while I stayed broke-here's what nobody tells you about that experience - Silicon Canals

Matt and I started from the same place. Same middle-class neighborhood, same public schools, same dreams of making it big someday. We'd spend hours in his garage talking about the companies we'd build, the problems we'd solve, the money we'd make. The difference? He actually did it. Last month, I scrolled through Instagram and saw him closing on his third investment property. Three months before that, it was the Tesla. Six months before that, the startup exit that set him up for life.
Relationships
fromMedium
3 years ago

When It Comes to Friendships, It's OK to Be the Planner

In any given relationship or group, there is always one person who makes things happen. Everyone says "hey, we should get together!" but this person finds a date and makes the restaurant reservation. After a family meet-up in a park, everyone says "we should do this again!" but this person suggests meeting next Saturday at the children's museum at 10 a.m. since the forecast calls for rain.
Books
fromwww.npr.org
2 months ago

'Crux' author Gabriel Tallent says taking risks doesn't always guarantee a safety net

Two teenage climbers confront mental illness, working-class tensions, intense friendship, and the perilous, cooperative risks and exhilaration of rock climbing.
Books
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

Tessa Hadley on the Power of Memory

A lasting friendship rests on shared sensibility, mutual trust to perceive and understand, and an affinity of insight beyond mere shared experiences.
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