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fromwww.mercurynews.com
8 hours ago

Harriette Cole: My friend never mentioned her partner's arrest. Maybe she doesn't know?

Offer discreet, nonjudgmental support while respecting privacy and avoid pressing for details; communicate availability and concrete ways to help without creating pressure.
Relationships
fromBustle
13 hours ago

Your Tarot Reading For The Week Of February 2 - February 8

Two of Cups signifies unity, partnership, attraction, and increased connection; encourages honest communication to deepen romantic or friendship relationships and resolve compatibility issues.
fromSlate Magazine
14 hours ago

The New Game of Thrones Show Finally Gives Us Its Villain

Nadira Goffe: Jenny! I'm so excited to gab about this episode for a bit, because woof-or should I say hoof?-what an episode it was. I would call it egg-cellent, because most of it is about Egg, the adorable, mysteriously bald stable boy who becomes Dunk's squire. It's 30 minutes of the unlikely friends just hangin' out, really living up to the title of the George R.R. Martin novellas that the show is based on, Tales of Dunk and Egg. Dunk teaches Egg how to mend a patch in clothing, they cheer over the day's jousts, and there's a scene in which the two role-play a conversation about eating salt beef that is so stinkin' cute I had a lopsided smile on my face the whole time. At one point, the gentle giant cooks his tiny squire a meal with goose eggs that have yolks so large I instantly sensed that there was some sort of subtext going on as they sizzled in the pan.
Television
#grief
fromQueerty
2 days ago

Jesse Tyler Ferguson recalls Nathan Lane's adult joke to his 5-year-old son - Queerty

'You know, my friend Nathan's coming over and he's bringing our friend Pam,'', Ferguson recalled telling his sons. 'You know Nathan, of course. You've listened to him, you know his voice from [Timon in] The Lion King.' So I played 'Hakuna Matata' and on my way to school they were singing 'Hakuna Matata' and I was like, 'This is Nathan who is coming to dinner!'
Television
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says if you prefer quality over quantity in friendships, you display these 9 rare strengths - Silicon Canals

Choosing a few deep friendships reflects emotional intelligence and psychological strengths, often stronger than having many superficial acquaintances.
fromBustle
4 days ago

On TikTok, People Love Weekly "Friend Dates"

All the swiping, chatting, and meeting up on Thursday nights - even when you're super tired or not in the mood to go out. Now imagine putting that same effort into seeing your friends. On TikTok, people are talking about the importance of friendship and how easy it is to deprioritize your besties. While you might love your friends, it's not uncommon to go weeks, and sometimes even months, without seeing them.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

I don't like organised fun, but Dungeons and Dragons is my shining nerdy light amid the darkness | Patrick Lenton

I wish this was a one-off blip in my regimented friendship schedule, but all through 2025 I played the world's slowest game of message tennis. I'd invite a pal for dinner, only for the world to turn, the seasons pass, grey hairs gather at my temples, before a date was finally locked in. This sentiment seems to be common among my circle.
Relationships
#boundaries
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

You be the judge: should my wannabe influencer friend stop using me for content?

A friendship is strained by one friend’s constant filming and expectation that the other serve as an unpaid videographer, creating embarrassment and boundary issues.
Mindfulness
fromTiny Buddha
1 month ago

How to Stay Kind Without Losing Yourself to Toxic Behavior - Tiny Buddha

Remain kind despite others' hurtful behavior, but recognize when repeated disrespect requires ending the relationship to protect personal well-being.
#conflict-resolution
#parenting
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago
Parenting

My Son Accidentally Hurt His Friend at a Sleepover. His Parents Have Made It a Friendship-Ending Offense.

fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago
Parenting

My Son Accidentally Hurt His Friend at a Sleepover. His Parents Have Made It a Friendship-Ending Offense.

Relationships
fromHuffPost
5 days ago

10 Passive-Aggressive Phrases You Shouldn't Use With Your Friends

Passive-aggressive behavior undermines friendship communication and resilience; addressing hurt feelings directly strengthens relationships and prevents tension.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
5 days ago

I'm wealthy thanks to an inheritance and good investments. My friends aren't, and it's straining our friendship - what do I do?

Remain empathetic, set firm boundaries, decline loan requests, and offer nonfinancial support while protecting personal finances and preserving relationships.
fromThe Nation
6 days ago

A Living Archive of Peter Hujar

From the 1950s until his death in 1987, Hujar documented the creative lodestars of downtown New York, many of whom were his friends, lovers, or sometimes both. He photographed the likes of Susan Sontag and John Waters stretched in repose, or the Warholian legend Candy Darling, encircled by flowers and solemn chiaroscuro on her deathbed. He often photographed himself, too, but the rarest shots of Hujar are those taken by others, candid glimpses that divulge some secret relation.
Film
Mental health
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 days ago

Asking Eric: She shows up late and then teases me for being uptight about time

Request reliable communication and set compassionate boundaries, balancing support for ADHD-related challenges with honest, blame-free conversations about mutual needs.
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I watched my childhood best friend become a millionaire while I stayed broke-here's what nobody tells you about that experience - Silicon Canals

Matt and I started from the same place. Same middle-class neighborhood, same public schools, same dreams of making it big someday. We'd spend hours in his garage talking about the companies we'd build, the problems we'd solve, the money we'd make. The difference? He actually did it. Last month, I scrolled through Instagram and saw him closing on his third investment property. Three months before that, it was the Tesla. Six months before that, the startup exit that set him up for life.
Relationships
fromMedium
3 years ago

When It Comes to Friendships, It's OK to Be the Planner

In any given relationship or group, there is always one person who makes things happen. Everyone says "hey, we should get together!" but this person finds a date and makes the restaurant reservation. After a family meet-up in a park, everyone says "we should do this again!" but this person suggests meeting next Saturday at the children's museum at 10 a.m. since the forecast calls for rain.
Books
fromwww.npr.org
1 week ago

'Crux' author Gabriel Tallent says taking risks doesn't always guarantee a safety net

Two teenage climbers confront mental illness, working-class tensions, intense friendship, and the perilous, cooperative risks and exhilaration of rock climbing.
Books
fromThe New Yorker
1 week ago

Tessa Hadley on the Power of Memory

A lasting friendship rests on shared sensibility, mutual trust to perceive and understand, and an affinity of insight beyond mere shared experiences.
#aging
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
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I'm a retired Boomer and every friend I had in my 50s is either dead, sick, or we just stopped calling-here's what nobody tells you about aging - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
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I'm a retired Boomer and every friend I had in my 50s is either dead, sick, or we just stopped calling-here's what nobody tells you about aging - Silicon Canals

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fromHuffPost
1 week ago

This 1 Well-Meaning Favor Might Be More Risky For Your Friendships Than You Think

Only lend what you can afford to lose; prefer gifting and set expectations to protect finances and friendships.
Relationships
fromFortune
1 week ago

Michelle Obama says friendships are 'as important as the degree that you got in college,' your job title, and your salary | Fortune

Choosing and cultivating early-career friendships strategically accelerates professional success by providing support, honest feedback, opportunities, and resilience.
#reconnection
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago
Relationships

After years of losing myself and my female friendships, I got divorced. Now, I've built a life I love with my best friend.

fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago
Relationships

After years of losing myself and my female friendships, I got divorced. Now, I've built a life I love with my best friend.

Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

As I navigated the hazy days of early parenting, voice messages from friends kept me afloat | Samantha Allemann

Voice notes serve as a practical, less intrusive alternative to phone calls, sustaining friendships and easing the logistical challenges of parenting and everyday life.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

Host A Dinner Party For Your Friends, And We'll Tell You A Quality About You Annoys Them

True friendships involve liking someone despite their flaws, while still experiencing occasional annoyances that remain normal and forgivable.
Writing
fromThe New Yorker
2 weeks ago

"Light Secrets," by Joseph O'Neill

Hidden rumors and secrets complicate a lunch between friends, revealing humor, vulnerability, and a belief that everyone has concealed darkness and hidden goodness.
#mental-health
Arts
fromwww.npr.org
2 weeks ago

Yes, introverts and extroverts can be good friends. Here's how

Introverts and extroverts have different social needs; communicating differences early prevents resentment and helps friendships accommodate varying energy and interaction styles.
#infidelity
fromBusiness Insider
2 weeks ago

Mandy Moore says motherhood has reshaped her friendships

"I've had to sort of mourn in a way, not the loss of those friendships, but like how they've changed," Moore said.
Music
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

I fell in love with him on the spot': Alan Rickman remembered, 10 years after his death

Alan was my best friend, my brother and my everything. I don't stop thinking about him. For me, there's no replacement; I just have a void. If I could speak to him I'd say: Come back, because I can't really bear being without you. We saw each other or spoke every day since 1980. I was a third party in the marriage, but Rima was never jealous.
Film
Relationships
fromTiny Buddha
2 weeks ago

Why Your Friendships Make You Feel Anxious and Overthink Everything - Tiny Buddha

Attachment styles formed in childhood shape adult friendships and explain behaviors like people-pleasing, overthinking, and pushing others away.
Music
fromConsequence
3 weeks ago

Trey Anastasio Pays Tribute to Bob Weir: "He Was the Last Actual Hippie"

Trey Anastasio grew close to Bob Weir, cherishing intimate beachside visits, learning from Weir's losses, and admiring his humility and joy in playing.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

'That day in Fairview Park was the first time he kissed a girl' - translator on the brutal attack that changed Guido Nasi's life

Translator who broke the rules to become decades-long friend of Guido Nasi tells of their relationship and the lives destroyed by one brutal act
Miscellaneous
#venting
Online learning
fromThe Walrus
3 weeks ago

The Secret to Making Friends at University? Ask Introverts | The Walrus

COVID-19-era digital communication created intense, codependent friendships that carried into in-person school and made moving to university emotionally challenging.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Asking Eric: There was an incident while I was pet-sitting, and I'm still worrying about it

Dear Eric: I recently pet-sat for somewhat new friends. I had been invited on a weekend trip with them but had a work commitment that meant I couldn't go. I offered to pet-sit for them, which is something I've done for other friends from time to time. During the weekend there was an incident which wasn't really anyone's fault that resulted in some minor property damage. I let them know via text what happened and explained the situation and offered to cover any damages.
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fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Made a Mistake With My Best Man Before the Wedding. There's No Coming Back From This.

Prioritize wedding stability by setting clear boundaries and communicating honestly with the friend while treating them with dignity.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
3 weeks ago

The Friend-Group Fallacy

Many adults maintain primarily one-on-one friendships rather than integrated friend groups, and this pattern can produce both fulfillment and loneliness.
#youth-basketball
fromHuffPost
2 months ago
Relationships

I Became Friends With A White Woman. Then 1 Cringeworthy Conversation Changed Our Relationship Forever.

fromHuffPost
2 months ago
Relationships

I Became Friends With A White Woman. Then 1 Cringeworthy Conversation Changed Our Relationship Forever.

#relationships
fromBustle
4 weeks ago
Relationships

The "Brunch Table Theory" Will Help You Choose Better Friends

Imagine a potential friend at a familiar brunch table to judge if they relax, align with values, and could become a long-term, green-flag relationship.
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago
Relationships

I Adored My Boyfriend's Family And Friends. Then We Broke Up - And Things Got Weird.

She prioritized a cultivated circle of friendships over romance, entered a complicated relationship, and concealed discomfort when her partner threatened to take mutual friends after a breakup.
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago
Relationships

I Adored My Boyfriend's Family And Friends. Then We Broke Up - And Things Got Weird.

Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 weeks ago

Harriette Cole: Should I tell my friends why I want to celebrate my birthday alone?

Prioritize honest communication about feelings of isolation and choose a solo birthday celebration for genuine self-care rather than to punish friends.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
4 weeks ago

I stopped being the first to reach out to friends. It made me realize I don't need to be liked by everyone.

Stopping to initiate contact reveals which friendships are mutual, leading to deeper, loyal relationships and less fear of rejection.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 weeks ago

Harriette Cole: I'm really not high-maintenance but this first date was unacceptable

Early-date choices reveal willingness to invest effort; set standards, communicate expectations, and move on from people who consistently show minimal effort.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Make That Phone Call

Ein Freund, ein guter Freund, ist das Beste was es gibt auf der Welt [A friend, a good friend, is the best thing you can have in this world].―The Comedian Harmonists I dedicate this essay to my friend Gerhard Almstedt, who was taken from us in 2023. Friendship is an underappreciated topic in psychological research, although having good friends is one of the cornerstones of a successful and rewarding social life. It is a source of happiness (Pezirkianidis et al., 2023).
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#communication
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Mismatched Friendships Can Feel Unhealthy

Friendships exist in layered closeness; they change over time and require mutual support, shared values, and balanced communication to remain healthy.
Mental health
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

This Critical Phone Mistake Could Be Damaging Your Relationships

Smartphone presence and modern media reduce the depth of adult conversations, contributing to increased loneliness and difficulty forming meaningful friendships.
Music
fromCurbed
1 month ago

The Look Book Goes to The Carlyle Hotel

Amber Martin visited Café Carlyle to see longtime friend Rufus and brought a vinyl of their duet to give him, unaware he knew.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: I'm a grown woman who feels like a party-crashing middle-schooler

Cultivate individual connections, set boundaries, and accept that established social groups may not fully include newcomers despite friendly gestures from some members.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

My mom has built an incredible life for herself in her 60s. I still learn valuable life lessons during our weekly visits.

Sustained relationships rely on small, thoughtful efforts, regular connection, and cherishing life phases rather than waiting for perfect timing.
Germany news
fromBavarian Football Works
1 month ago

Uli Hoene never let business disagreements get personal with Karl-Heinz Rummenigge at Bayern Munich

Uli HoeneĂź and Karl-Heinz Rummenigge preserved a long-standing personal friendship despite frequent, heated business disagreements while serving together.
Parenting
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Modern Morals: My friends with children leave me out of all their plans and it really hurts my feelings

Friends who become parents may drift away and stop inviting childfree friends, causing isolation and hurt for those who want children.
London music
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

My big night out: I went to a White Stripes gig with a colleague and she became my best friend

Two office colleagues form a close, lasting friendship after sharing a liberating White Stripes concert and small workplace rebellions that ease twentysomething pressures.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Help! My Best Friend Is About to Ask Me to Be a Part of Her Wedding. I'm Honored. But There's a Problem With Her Evil Twin.

Maintain no-contact boundaries while honestly discussing expectations with the bride and offering support without sharing personal contact or accepting maid-of-honor duties if uncomfortable.
#etiquette
Books
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

Nell Zink on German and American Stereotypes

Two longtime friends from Bavaria confront clashing personalities and cultural differences during a tense summit walk along Mt. Niesen in the Swiss Alps.
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I watched Stand By Me with Rob Reiner. Both film and man changed my life

Stand By Me centers on childhood friendship, grieving and parental neglect, showing how close adolescent bonds sustain emotional survival and identity formation.
Mental health
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Harriette Cole: What I saw at my friend's place was alarming

Poor hygiene can reflect neglect or mental-health issues; maintain contact, ask about life and goals, encourage self-care, and offer hands-on help.
National Hockey League
fromRMNB
1 month ago

Ryan Leonard and Pierre-Luc Dubois, looking like a father and son, attend Washington Wizards game

Pierre-Luc Dubois and Ryan Leonard attended a Wizards game together, twinning outfits and publicly showing their close friendship and former roommate relationship.
Relationships
fromAll Singles And Married
1 month ago

20 Untold Truths About Intimacy That Every Married Couple Must Learn

Marriage blossoms through deep intimacy beyond sex, built on emotional connection, friendship, openness, daily gestures, and shared dreams.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I was thrilled to tell my best friend I was having twins. She then got pregnant with triplets.

Two best friends in Alabama became pregnant with twins and triplets at the same time. Their shared experience of parenting multiples created a strong support system for both families. Living close together, they help each other manage the challenges of raising five young children. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation Madison Knight. It has been edited for length and clarity.
Relationships
LGBT
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Friends Keep Trying to Set Me Up on Dates. I Don't Know How to Tell Them I've Been Lying for Years.

Tell close friends the truth about being asexual; genuine friends will accept the honesty and not hold past teen lies against you.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I threw a dinner party to avoid spending money on holiday gifts for friends. Now, it's my annual tradition.

Dozens of women who considered me their gay best friend sounded great until it was time to exchange presents with all of them during the holidays. I was too cheap to buy all my friends expensive Christmas gifts but too classy to give them something, well, cheap. I had also grown tired of spending $50 on something pointless in bulk, usually a criminally overpriced novelty item.
Food & drink
fromPinkNews | Latest lesbian, gay, bi and trans news | LGBTQ+ news
1 month ago

'I directed Miriam Margolyes - there are parts of her people don't see'

Nestled within that outrageousness was swift promotion of her beautiful new short film, A Friend of Dorothy. In it, she plays Dorothy, an elderly widow with limited mobility who meets young, closeted queer man JJ (played with startling fragility by newcomer Alistair Nwachukwu) after he accidentally kicks his football into her garden. A friendship blossoms, as they provide a sense of belonging and stability to one another at a time when, despite their different life stages, both are feeling cast adrift.
Film
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

A Surprising Secret to Maintaining Friendships

Many friendships fade due to changing shared contexts rather than incompatibility, and treating friendships as flexible enables reconnection and long-term sustainability.
Relationships
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

They Were Friends in High School - Then Life Took a Joyful Twist No One Saw Coming

Two longtime family friends became mutual grandmothers after their daughters and a brother from the friend group formed a relationship that produced a grandson.
Psychology
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

"Understanding the Science," by Camille Bordas

Middle-aged friends confront superficiality, health obsessions, and social pressures while resisting self-discovery and dietary guilt at a celebratory dinner.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

With direct flights and a warm welcome, could Canada be the new US for Irish visitors?

A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles, as travel writer Tim Cahill said. As a Pacific Northwest writer who frequently travels to Canada, I couldn't agree more. Living barely an hour south of the Canadian border, I've had the pleasure of hopping the 49th parallel countless times. The real magic of crossing that line is not just the immediate sense of spaciousness, but the feeling of a familiar, open-hearted welcome.
Canada news
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Friend Seems to Think She's My Life Coach. It Makes Being Around Her Excruciating.

Persistent unsolicited advice ignoring boundaries erodes trust, hampers emotional support, and can seriously strain friendships and job-seeking confidence.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Dear Abby: The bartender said he'd give the cash to the bride. Was I wrong to involve her mother?

Asking whether a cash wedding gift was received was reasonable; such questions can be perceived as criticism and strain friendships.
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

"Safety," by Joan Silber

Dictators like to move people around. Stalin, for instance. From the summer of 1941 through the fall of 1942, with the Russian front facing massive bombardment and Nazi troops on the ground, he decided to relocate civilians, and entire industries, to safer regions in the eastern Soviet Union. The Urals, Siberia, the middle Volga, Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan, and Tajikistan eventually received sixteen million evacuees, perhaps the most ever moved across land by a single directive.
Photography
Miscellaneous
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

Man donates kidney to woman he met after crash

Two friends, connected after a tragedy, reunited when one donated a kidney to the other, enabling recovery and renewed activities.
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
2 months ago

He Asked for a Hot Nanny. His Wife Agreed and That's When Things Got ... Interesting

A laid-off friend became an indispensable full-time caregiver after stepping in during a pandemic childcare emergency, turning a joke into reality.
fromThe Atlantic
2 months ago

What to Do When Your Friends Disappoint You

The friendship breakup has become a feature of modern life: Online, advice abounds on "how to aggressively confront, or even abandon, friends who disappoint us," Olga noted. But what if another solution exists? Instead of firing your friends, psychologists told her, it helps to expand your circle, allowing more people to provide you with different types of support or camaraderie: "Rather than resting on one pillar, healthy friendship is better imagined as crowd-surfing-many hands holding you up," Olga writes.
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Food & drink
fromEpicurious
2 months ago

Eggplant Roasted in Satay Sauce

Indonesian satay sauce exemplifies joy, trustworthiness, and respectful versatility, earning a prized place among condiments and symbolizing an ideal, dependable culinary companion.
Film
fromBustle
2 months ago

Cynthia Erivo Addressed Ariana Grande's Scary 'Wicked' Fan Encounter

Cynthia Erivo physically protected Ariana Grande from a red-carpet intruder, reflecting a close off-screen friendship formed while making Wicked.
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I spent a week in Bali with 70 singles. I didn't fall in love, but I discovered something I didn't know I needed.

I was 28 and fed up with the dating scene. Swiping had become a ritual of ghosting, small talk, and scheduling conflicts. I work in business development for a US law firm in Hong Kong and was chasing a promotion, so it was easy to tell myself romance could wait. Then, one night, a casual scroll on Instagram inspired me to try something different.
Travel
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Rich Friend and I Are Great Travel Partners-Except for One Thing We Always Disagree On.

Travel companions can reasonably choose different transport preferences; each should pay for their chosen convenience when a cheaper feasible option exists.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Help! One Night, I Sent a Slightly Unhinged Text to My Husband's Best Friend. He Still Hasn't Forgiven Me.

A wife's apology failed to restore relations with her husband's friend, who refuses contact and won't attend his birthday despite the couple's reconciliation.
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