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fromSlate Magazine
8 hours ago

I Somehow Ended Up in Bed With Two of My Guy Friends. Then Things Took an Unexpected Turn.

We've known each other for a long time and never even flirted before this. I'd thought they were both straight, but there was touching and kissing in every combination that night, even if technically they only fucked me. We were all wasted and grieving, and it was a bad idea, but it was also very hot.
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#relationships
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fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

Is Bickering A Bad Sign In A Relationship, Or Is It Healthy?

Light, respectful bickering helps air small frustrations and prevents avoidance from allowing those issues to grow into larger resentments.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

2 Small Habits That Separate Good Couples From Great Ones

Small, consistent micro-behaviors—like asking instead of assuming and practicing mindfulness—reshape relationship dynamics by fostering curiosity, understanding, and thoughtful responses.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
16 hours ago

Dear Abby: My new husband gives me $400 a month. It's not enough.

Communicate clearly about finances and create a realistic budget to stop personal accounts from being drained; insist on fair sharing or reassess the relationship.
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

I Promised a Guy I Wouldn't Ghost Him. Then I Saw What He Was Like in Bed.

We mutually agreed that we value a strong connection that we want to bring to sexual encounters, which would ideally be repeat encounters even if it's just for casual sex.
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Education
fromeLearning Industry
2 days ago

Tips For Working Effectively With SMEs

Reset expectations and adjust collaboration strategies to work respectfully with SMEs, improving relationships and producing more effective instructional materials.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

This is how we do it: Asexuality is a spectrum. I don't experience sexual desire (but I do like having orgasms)'

After about six months of dating we decided to try an open arrangement so that Cameron could pursue people who are more sexual than I am. There were feelings of jealousy at first, but our relationship was strengthened because we had such strong communication, and I grew to feel really secure in our bond. It's been a huge blessing for us, because I've never loved sex.
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fromBusiness Insider
2 days ago

My friend is a terrible roommate. She keeps using my stuff and won't do her chores - what do I do?

Establish clear boundaries, regular communication, and enforceable agreements to prevent friends from violating shared-space expectations.
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fromAll Singles And Married
2 days ago

7 HABITS OF COUPLES WHO LAST IN MARRIAGE

Happy couples build lasting marriages through intentional daily habits like clear communication, appreciation, shared goals, respectful conflict resolution, and quality time.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Harriette Cole: When my mother prayed aloud for my wife's cold heart, we walked out. What now?

Address and resolve the conflict between spouse and parent through honest conversations, investigation of causes, and joint mediation with apologies when appropriate.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Dear Abby: My neighbor is going to know if I try to escape her over-the-top party

You are not obligated to attend the entire New Year's Eve party; communicate flexible plans and RSVP later, attending briefly if desired.
Digital life
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

Why do I use LOL so much in my texts?

Habitual use of 'LOL' functions as conversational punctuation, levity, and emotional crutch, prompting a weeklong experiment to stop and reassess communication habits.
UX design
fromInfoQ
5 days ago

Scaling the BBC Design System: Tooling, Community, Governance and Gardening

Lack of documentation, unclear ownership, poor communication, and deferred maintenance create intertwined dependencies that lead to costly, complex repairs.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 days ago

Miss Manners: My upset boyfriend skipped dinner because I didn't text him it was ready

We share the cooking, and due to shift work and other reasons, dinner can be anywhere between 6 p.m. and 8 p.m.Usually, when dinner is ready, whoever cooked it will send a message in the group chat to call everyone to the table. (People might be spread out on three different floors, or outside.) Recently, my boyfriend and I went on an outing during the day. We had an amazing day of hiking.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The One Simple Secret to Better Communication

Moving hands while speaking aids word retrieval and improves communication; suppressing gestures or self-consciousness hinders expressive ability.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

3 Relationship Lessons from "The Summer I Turned Pretty"

All these elements make for great entertainment, but it can be argued that the show has more than just good storytelling - it also offers lessons about what is (and isn't) healthy in our relationships. The Summer I Turned Pretty offers the viewers solid examples of what healthy relationships look like, and what behaviours we should be seeking from the people around us, as well as those to avoid.
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fromBustle
1 week ago

The "10 Minute Rule" Is A Low-Effort Way To Reconnect With Your Partner

When was the last time you had an uninterrupted chat with your partner? It's so easy to come home from a busy day, turn on a show, and then go to bed without really catching up. While it's fine to coexist on occasion - let's be real, sometimes you're just too tired to talk - it's still important to check in regularly.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Your Partner Is Not a Dumpster!

Respect relational boundaries by sharing needs with reciprocity, framing requests, and using varied outlets to avoid emotionally dumping on a partner.
#parenting
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
2 weeks ago

Parenting Confession of the Week: My Kids Are Making Me Lose My Mind

Give clear, single-step, positively phrased directions and praise first-time compliance to reduce frustration and teach children to follow requests.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

What's the Best Way to Tell Kids About Divorce?

Use age-appropriate, reassuring language that emphasizes love and stability when telling children about divorce, avoids blame, and preserves routine.
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
1 week ago

Middle School Teacher Says 'Let Your Kids Date," and the Internet Is Divided

Banning middle and high schoolers from dating cuts off communication and prevents parental guidance when teens pursue relationships secretly.
fromFast Company
1 week ago

14 mistakes leaders make when giving feedback

"You're not a team player" is an example of feedback that makes an assertion about a person's character. The receiver of this feedback is likely to experience a "fight, flight, or freeze" response because the feedback conversation has just become deeply personal. As a result, the feedback will not be heard by the receiver and therefore misses the opportunity to promote learning, growth, or improvement.
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#common-knowledge
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago
Psychology

When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows by Steven Pinker review communication breakdown

Human communication is shaped by recursive assumptions and unacknowledged baggage, complicating exchanges and requiring reason to achieve mutually beneficial outcomes.
fromHarvard Gazette
1 week ago
Books

Why is your head not exploding? Steven Pinker can explain. - Harvard Gazette

Common knowledge is the mutual, iterated awareness that enables coordination, social bonds, humor, language, and collective behavior.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Stop Enabling Passive Aggression

Have you run into someone who is always bubbly, upbeat, and never seems down on life? The truth is, everyone experiences both positive and negative emotions-and when someone seems incapable of acknowledging anything less than happiness or joy in their lives, it could be a sign they're avoidant of more uncomfortable feelings. Yes, allowing yourself to recognize and experience sadness, guilt, shame, embarrassment, and anger can be unpleasant. It can bring up painful memories or cause worry about current relationships.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Girlfriend's Body Is Not Like Many Other Women's. It's Kind of Freaking Me Out.

First figure out what exactly is making intimacy difficult. Is it sheer aesthetics? Is your fear that this person is living an unhealthy lifestyle distracting you? What is the real issue here? She is a grown woman who is allowed to care for herself and her body however she sees fit. Through observations, you have made certain inferences, but if you haven't really had conversations with her about her views on what constitutes fitness, you're just supposing that something is awry.
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#friendship
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fromThe Gottman Institute
1 week ago

Lack of Emotional Connection in Relationships: Signs of Emotional Disconnection

Emotional disconnection gradually erodes intimacy but can be rebuilt through open communication, empathy, shared activities, and professional support.
Remote teams
fromArnie Nicola
1 week ago

Before You Go Remote: 16 Disadvantages of Working from Home - arnienicola

Remote work increases isolation, burnout, distractions, and communication gaps, requiring intentional social contact, clear boundaries, dedicated workspaces, and improved digital communication practices.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Girlfriend Has More Orgasms Than I Can Count. The Problem Is What Happens to Me.

If a partner's frequent, intense orgasms during intercourse prevent your orgasm, pursue alternative sexual activities and communicate needs to achieve satisfaction.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

What Do You Expect From Me?: Blending Traditions and Cultures

For cross-cultural marriages, traditions from both backgrounds often dictate aspects such as wedding ceremonies, gender roles, career ambitions, and family dynamics. As a result, couples frequently navigate differences in expectations and traditions to foster their foundation. This blending of traditions necessitates ongoing negotiation and compromise. Partners learn to recognize which aspects of their respective cultures are most meaningful and decide together how to integrate (or adapt) them within their shared lives.
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fromBig Think
1 week ago

Meet the philosopher outsmarting me since kindergarten

Clear reasoning and artful giving of reasons persuades more effectively than vague reassurances and is a crucial intellectual skill for changing minds.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago

Harriette Cole: I got a great job, and my mom is trying to make me feel guilty about it

Your mom just misses you and is dealing with her raw feelings. Tell her you miss her but you are working hard to build your life. Let her know you need her support more than her criticism. She raised you to be an independent person, and that's who you are becoming. Ask her to stop berating you. In turn, promise to call her more and visit whenever you can.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

How to Talk to a Loved One About Getting Mental Health Help

You may notice changes in your loved one before they recognize the shift in themselves. For example, they may be having trouble managing their emotions (e.g., get angry more easily or seem down). You also might start to see the ways that their actions or inactions are unhealthy. They may have started increasing the amount of alcohol they drink each weekend, or they've stopped engaging in activities that they used to enjoy.
Mental health
fromObserver
2 weeks ago

Difficult Conversations in a Hybrid World: Why Leaders Must Rethink Connection

When the world of work turned upside down in 2020, we quickly adapted to Zoom calls, Slack threads and digital whiteboards. At first, this newfound flexibility felt liberating. But as we settle into a long-term hybrid reality, cracks are appearing. Misunderstandings multiply, trust frays and decisions stall when colleagues aren't physically together. As a coaching psychologist working with leaders and teams across industries, the strain that hybrid structures place on communication has become clear.
Remote teams
#consent
Business
fromEntrepreneur
2 weeks ago

The 10 Word Phrase That Can Resolve Any Conflict | Entrepreneur

Ask "It seems like you've got a reason for saying that" when others react to small issues to reveal deeper motives and enable constructive resolution.
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fromwww.bbc.com
2 weeks ago

I didn't want sex with my husband after having our baby

Loss of libido commonly follows childbirth; open communication and removing pressure can help restore intimacy between partners.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

I had sex with another man while my husband slept. Is he right to be furious?

Open relationships require explicit boundaries, honest communication, and mutual respect; unclear expectations during group sex can cause hurt, silence, and eroded trust.
Careers
fromFortune
2 weeks ago

Harvard Business School's top negotiation expert has career advice for Gen Z: It's not about you | Fortune

Career advancement depends on prioritizing connection and communication, using curiosity and a learning mindset rather than forceful persuasion.
Public health
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

What to Expect When Your Loved One Is Dying: The Good Death

Understanding three end-of-life phases and offering compassionate, educational support can transform dying into a peaceful, dignified process.
Parenting
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago

When Is It Rude To Ban (Or Bring) Kids As Guests?

Clear, kind communication and common sense determine whether events are child-free; guests should ask if unsure and hosts should state policies explicitly.
Remote teams
fromRemotive Blog
2 weeks ago

[Newsletter] Small Tweaks, Big Shifts

Small, targeted changes in language, mindset, ergonomics, and applications produce meaningful improvements in communication, work comfort, productivity, and job-seeking success.
fromLondon Business News | Londonlovesbusiness.com
2 weeks ago

Respect and clarity: Practical steps to an amicable divorce - London Business News | Londonlovesbusiness.com

Going through a divorce is one of the most difficult and emotional journeys you'll ever face, but it doesn't have to be defined by conflict. Approaching the process with respect, empathy, and constructive communication can make a big difference for both partners (and for any children involved). There's no one method or process of divorce and finding the right path often depends on how well you can work together.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Asking Eric: People say I'm rude. Should I tell them why that is?

Different communication styles between autistic and neurotypical people can make interactions seem rude, but explaining how one communicates improves understanding.
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fromwww.npr.org
2 weeks ago

Life Kit's advice for handling conflict with neighbors

Identify underlying needs and address neighbor conflicts calmly to find practical compromises rather than focusing on entrenched positions.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

How to Love Well for a Long Time

Connection in long-term relationships is a mental state and a choice; choosing connection improves well-being and makes problems easier to overcome.
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fromFortune
2 weeks ago

This Shark Tank star became a millionaire by 26-he tells Gen Z to be great at just one thing because 'the world doesn't reward general talent' | Fortune

Master one skill—communication—to stand out, spot technical talent, and build a successful cybersecurity and entrepreneurial career from humble immigrant beginnings.
fromBusiness Insider
2 weeks ago

After 17 years of marriage, my husband still won't buy me the ring he promised. I'm getting resentful - what do I do?

Seventeen years ago, when my now-husband proposed to me, he gave me a small Our 10th anniversary came and went. I reminded my husband about the ring, but we had some significant expenses at the time, and ended up prioritizing an anniversary trip over gifts. I've tried to have a good attitude about this, but in recent years, it's started to hurt my feelings.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Asking Eric: How do we talk to our neighbors about their baffling parking routine?

Address minor neighborhood parking annoyances calmly by politely asking neighbors to change daytime parking location and offering reasons and alternatives to avoid conflict.
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fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

My Wife Recently Started Making More Money. It Was Awesome-Until I Found Out How.

A wife secretly earning money on OnlyFans breached trust by lying, prompting marital conflict over honesty, monogamy, and sexual boundaries.
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Culture, Stress, and Teens: The Power of Family Support

Adolescence can be characterized as a period of development, experimentation, and discovery. However, for the majority of teenagers, it is also a period with added stress. School pressures, social media influence, shifting friendships, and identity exploration can become a heavy load on adolescents. While some stresses involved are inevitable when growing up, too much stress that isn't dealt with properly can become harmful and lead to anxiety, burnout, or illness in the long run.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

When Three's a Crowd: The Dynamics of Friendship Fallout

Group friendships originating from dyads require explicit emotional communication, clear boundaries, and ongoing care to prevent blurred roles, shifting loyalties, and relational breakdown.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

When Your Boss Is Indifferent

If a boss is indifferent, proactively seek direction, document interactions, keep them updated, and ask for help to protect yourself.
Marketing
fromHer Campus
2 weeks ago

What PR Teaches You About Life (Even if You Don't Want to Work in PR)

Public relations teaches communication, personal branding, and crisis-management skills that apply to everyday life, relationships, and professional development for students and young adults.
fromwww.esquire.com
2 weeks ago

I Survived a Near-Fatal Car Crash, But It Gave Me a Problem with Premature Ejaculation

I was twenty-two when I pulled my car across six lanes of traffic in Delaware. I should've made a right, circled around, and waited for the light. Instead, I aimed straight for the median, a shortcut I'd taken a dozen reckless times before. Headlights came at me fast. Then the slam: metal folding into metal, my body flung sideways, glass exploding. I wasn't wearing a seatbelt. If I had been, I believe the door would have cut me in half.
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fromBusiness Insider
2 weeks ago

A senior software engineer says the 'most important survival skill' in a tech job isn't just coding - it's communication

Communication, continual learning, observing colleagues' habits, and understanding the human side of tech enable career advancement from junior to senior engineer.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

"Resentment Hygiene" Could Be The Key To Fighting Less In Your Relationship

Small, unaddressed slights accumulate into deep resentment that fuels recurring conflicts in long-term relationships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Asking Eric: He has every detail of their wedding planned, but he won't propose

Sure, it's possible. It'll be even more likely to happen if your friend and her boyfriend have an honest, frank conversation about their wants and the details of their individual timetables. While it might seem obvious that, after 20 years, he should want to propose, especially considering he's already designed a dream wedding, the only way to find out what he's really thinking is talking to him about it. This is also the only way for your friend to let him know what she's thinking.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

What's the best way to apologise? I'm sorry, but I disagree with the newest suggestion | Adrian Chiles

Concise, appropriately phrased apologies—especially emphasizing the final words—significantly increase perceived sincerity and aid forgiveness.
#leadership
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fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Girlfriend Finally Moved In. But What She Does in Her Sleep Might Be the Ultimate Dealbreaker.

Cohabitation requires mutual compromise, respectful communication, and practical strategies to manage sexual bodily-fluid issues and sleep disruptions.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Can Your Marriage Survive Retirement?

Retirement often strains couples' relationships because increased togetherness, differing aging views, financial worries, relocations, social mismatches, and health changes require communication, space, and outside help.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Ask Allison: I find it very difficult to get past my wife's facial hair but all hell breaks loose if I mention it. What should I do?

We are a couple (husband and wife) in our mid-60s. Over the last 10 years or so, my wife has developed facial hair - it is fair coloured. She goes for electrolysis and a facial about every three weeks, but as far as I can see there is no improvement at all.
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fromBusiness Insider
3 weeks ago

My dad lives in an apartment I own. The value has doubled, and I want to sell it - what should I do?

Sell the apartment, buy a similar nearby unit for the father, use proceeds to reduce the mortgage, and prioritize transparent communication and the relationship.
fromYoga Journal
3 weeks ago

Your Weekly Horoscope, September 14-20, 2025: Letting Your Life Be Easier

Our planet of thoughts, communication, and all that is in our minds, Mercury enters Libra on September 18, 2025, where it will remain until October 6, 2025. Whereas Mercury is thinking, Libra is harmonizing. It is beauty, connection, and balance, although the air sign brings the kind of balance that can be measured not only in tangible ways but in the harmonic frequency of the moment.
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Science
fromHarvard Gazette
3 weeks ago

Our viral vocabulary - Harvard Gazette

Social media algorithms centralize content delivery and actively reshape language, communication styles, and cultural transmission by prioritizing platform-aligned expressions and formats.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Asking Eric: Is it out of line to ask my neighbors to remove this eyesore?

Address neighbor property concerns gently through casual conversation, express observations without demanding changes, and offer suggestions while tempering resentment.
fromAbove the Law
3 weeks ago

The Secret To Longevity In Client Relationships - Above the Law

Are you struggling to bring order to the chaos of a litigation practice and build long-term client relationships?
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fromBusiness Insider
3 weeks ago

I got married less than a year after meeting my husband. We've been together for 35 years now.

Sustained long-distance communication, mutual commitment, and prioritizing each other enabled a marriage to endure for 35 years.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Miss Manners: Should we give any warning before our shiny new fence goes up?

When anyone wishes to express indignation about an unwelcome encroachment, the accepted metaphor is not, Can you believe So-and-so was in my living room, uninvited, playing my piano?! The expression is, Can you believe this was going on in my own backyard?! Miss Manners mentions this as a reminder that if you want to maintain good relations with the neighbors, you will absolutely have to be considerate, which means: giving notice of your plans; reassuring them that you are available to handle any unintended inconveniences
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fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Let My Sister and Her Boyfriend Move In. An Amazon Delivery Revealed What They Were Keeping From Me.

Require removed belongings and payment by a firm written deadline to reclaim living space for the new baby while maintaining respectful family boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

Help! I Moved Across the World for My Husband. Apparently, That Still Isn't Enough.

A non-Swedish-speaking spouse feels excluded at family events where relatives speak Swedish, creating communication barriers and perceptions of emotional distance.
Business
fromBusiness Insider
4 weeks ago

He was a Google VP and Stripe's CTO. He has 2 pieces of advice for conducting engaging meetings.

Leaders should spend at least 30 minutes preparing for meetings and pause to explain why questions matter to maintain attention and engagement.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 weeks ago

Harriette Cole: It was funny when we googled my new boyfriend, and then it wasn't

If discrepancies arise about someone's family or life, ask them directly and assess whether their values match yours before ending contact.
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Parents, Adolescents, and the Power of Regret

Looking back, most parents and adult children are going to have some regrets about their adolescent time together. They may regret what they did (commission) or didn't do (omission)-mistakes made or opportunities missed. Commission regrets might be: "I wish I hadn't lied to them about so much and grown so far away." Dishonesty costs intimacy, creating distance from distrust. Or: "We held onto her too tight when we should have done more letting go!" Their need to control delayed important youthful learning from life experience.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

1 Couple Skill That Makes or Breaks a Relationship

Ask any couple what makes a relationship work, and you'll likely hear the usual suspects: good communication, shared values, physical intimacy, maybe even laughter. But there's one emotional skill that rarely makes it to the list, and yet, it quietly determines whether a relationship thrives or simply survives. That skill is "emotional sovereignty." It's not at all flashy. But once a couple begins to practice it, everything changes. From how they argue, to how they reconnect, to how safe they feel in each other's presence.
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Business
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

From hedge funds to banks: 3 execs reveal their go-to hiring question

Top Wall Street interviewers use unconventional, revealing questions to evaluate communication, pressure management, and problem-solving rather than relying on predictable stock interview questions.
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