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fromPsychology Today
1 hour ago

When Your Partner Is Not Helping With Wedding Planning

Unfortunately, you cannot force someone to be interested in anything. Willingness is a key component to developing interest. My plea for those in this situation is to not overpersonalize the lack of interest shown so far, but instead communicate what you want directly. You are not without options to address this, but there are effective and ineffective ways to handle it.
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fromSlate Magazine
2 hours ago

My Boyfriend Had Some Choice Words About Older Women. It's Haunting Me.

A partner's casual ageist or appearance-focused remarks can break trust and make a previously secure partner feel scrutinized and unsafe.
fromMedium
1 week ago

From Graphs to Generative AI: Building Context That Pays-Part 1

Every year, poor communication and siloed data bleed companies of productivity and profit. Research shows U.S. businesses lose up to $1.2 trillion annually to ineffective communication, that's about $12,506 per employee per year. This stems from breakdowns that waste an average of 7.47 hours per employee each week on miscommunications. The damage isn't only interpersonal; it's structural. Disconnected and fragmented data systems mean that employees spend around 12 hours per week just searching for information trapped in those silos.
Data science
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fromPsychology Today
2 hours ago

Love Stayed, Desire Didn't-Now What?

Intimacy depends on shared desire and truthful communication; mismatched sexual desire, often arising from life changes or growth, cannot be fixed by pressure.
#marriage
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago
Relationships

Ask Allison: There's no sex and my husband just wants to stay at home. We're only in our early 40s. Should I leave?

fromIndependent
2 weeks ago
Relationships

Ask Allison: There's no sex and my husband just wants to stay at home. We're only in our early 40s. Should I leave?

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who are a joy to talk to often display these 7 subtle qualities that draw others in - Silicon Canals

Small, learnable conversational habits—undivided attention, remembering details, and subtle behaviors—create a magnetic, energizing presence in conversations.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

2 Responses to Avoid When Someone Opens Up to You

Responses to vulnerability determine whether people feel safe, accepted, and willing to share again; supportive reactions deepen connection while harmful ones can permanently close relational doors.
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

Help! My Girlfriend Overreacts to ... Everything. There's No Delicate Way to Put This.

You could tell your girlfriend what you think about her reactions and ask her to change them, but I have a better, more efficient idea: Change your own response to her meltdowns. You mention a couple of times in this letter what you're "having to" do to accommodate the emotional spirals, and that's the part I think we should examine. It's what you're doing, but is it actually required?
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fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

If you can't name a single person who'd drop everything for you, these 9 unconscious behaviors probably explain why - Silicon Canals

Unconscious patterns—like only contacting friends when needing favors and turning interactions into competitions—erode friendships and require intentional, reciprocal behavior changes.
#relationships
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

8 things you should never tolerate from someone who claims they 'care about you' - Silicon Canals

Consistent respectful actions, not convenient contact or boundary violations, indicate genuine care; recurring one-sided behavior should not be tolerated.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Therapists say this common phrase damages relationships more than arguments - Silicon Canals

Absolute phrases like "You always" and "You never" erode trust by turning specific complaints into character attacks and invalidating past efforts, damaging relationships.
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

8 phrases naturally charismatic people use that make everyone want to talk to them - Silicon Canals

Ever notice how some people just draw you in? I used to think it was pure charisma, something you either had or didn't. Then I spent years interviewing over 200 people for articles, and something clicked. The most magnetic people, the ones who made me lose track of time during our conversations, all had something in common: They used certain phrases that made me feel genuinely heard and valued. It wasn't about being the loudest or most entertaining person in the room. These naturally charismatic
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Soccer (FIFA)
fromBavarian Football Works
2 days ago

Jonathan Tah praises Bayern Munich head coach Vincent Kompany's 'really impressive' attention to detail

Vincent Kompany's detailed positional coaching and emphasis on on-pitch communication has measurably improved Jonathan Tah's defensive positioning and team coordination.
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fromBustle
2 days ago

Here's Your Horoscope For Tuesday, February 10

Moon shifts into Sagittarius and Venus into Pisces, sparking adventurous optimism, romantic openness, and urging integrity and clear communication amid potential misunderstandings.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

"We're Just Different Now": Why Couples Drift and What to Do

Change in long-term relationships is inevitable; partners must adapt together, normalize emotional conversations, address resentment early, and shift from winning to understanding patterns.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Asking Eric: I want this nasty woman out of my life, but my husband feels guilty

Decline the trip; communicate directly, prioritize emotional and financial boundaries, and allow spouses to hold different expectations without guilt.
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

My New Guy Asked Me the Most Awkward Question During Sex. I Don't Think He Wants to Hear My Answer.

You are being asked to play into the contorted (you might even say deluded) way that many obsess about penis size. Inflation runs especially high on apps, where (at least in the gay world) it is wise to subtract an inch (or two!) from whatever number a guy presents. Continuing the charade IRL can feel like actively thrusting yourself into absurdism. You don't have to lie to anyone for the sake of their penis-shaped ego.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

This is how we do it: Having sex with other people brought us closer, but also exposed insecurities'

A couple navigates sexual dissatisfaction, low libido, opening their relationship, and the necessity of honest communication while coping with hormonal changes and insecurity.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 days ago

Asking Eric: My girlfriend is acting entitled. Could it be that I'm a sugar daddy?

Communicate clear expectations about financial support and boundaries, using honest I-statements and concrete ways to give and receive love.
Relationships
fromIndependent
5 days ago

Asking for a friend: I've caught feelings for the guy I've been having a fling with. It's been mostly just sexual but I think we could be more. Should I risk telling him?

A casual fling shifted into unreciprocated romantic feelings, and revealing those feelings risks losing the connection but might also uncover mutual feelings.
#friendship
fromTODAY.com
6 days ago
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Jenna Bush Hager Reflects on Being Pregnant While Hoda Kotb Was Trying to Adopt

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
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People who have no close friends to rely on usually display these 8 behaviors without realizing it - Silicon Canals

fromTODAY.com
6 days ago
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Jenna Bush Hager Reflects on Being Pregnant While Hoda Kotb Was Trying to Adopt

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

People who have no close friends to rely on usually display these 8 behaviors without realizing it - Silicon Canals

Writing
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

7 things people do when telling stories that make others tune out immediately without realizing it - Silicon Canals

Storytellers often lose listeners by burying the lead, offering excessive setup, and failing to consider how their words land with the audience.
#boundary-setting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Relationships

I kept attracting draining people until I changed these 7 small habits in how I showed up socially - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
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I kept attracting draining people until I changed these 7 small habits in how I showed up socially - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

The one phrase people use when they're about to criticize you but want to seem nice-psychology explains why it never works - Silicon Canals

Prefacing criticism with "No offense, but..." triggers defensive threat responses and amplifies the negative impact rather than softening feedback.
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says couples who grocery shop together have these 7 unique relationship dynamics - Silicon Canals

Ever notice how some couples navigate the grocery store like a well-choreographed dance while others seem to be having entirely different shopping experiences in the same aisle? Last weekend, I watched a couple in the produce section operate with this almost telepathic efficiency - one grabbed tomatoes while the other weighed bananas, no words needed. Meanwhile, my partner and I were having our usual debate about whether we really needed three types of cheese.
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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

9 clever phrases that instantly stop someone from dumping their stress on you - Silicon Canals

Use empathetic, redirecting phrases to set healthy emotional boundaries while preserving relationships and avoiding rudeness.
Education
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

7 words highly intelligent people use in conversation that average people mispronounce - Silicon Canals

Correct pronunciation of commonly mispronounced words often reflects extensive reading, attention to language, and habitual auditory correction rather than showing off.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Resentment: The Most Unsexy of Emotions

To start, resentment is a complex emotion rooted in anger and typically involves feeling slighted in some way. In my clinical experience, because of a sense of being slighted, mistreated, or wronged, many people direct their resentment toward someone else and focus on that person and the mistreatment. And since I am a sex and couples therapist, in my office, someone else is typically their partner.
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#emotional-intelligence
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

You might be a difficult person to be around if these 7 behaviors feel normal to you - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

8 conversation habits that signal low emotional intelligence-and most people who have them think they're great communicators - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

You might be a difficult person to be around if these 7 behaviors feel normal to you - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

8 conversation habits that signal low emotional intelligence-and most people who have them think they're great communicators - Silicon Canals

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fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

7 phrases to use when you're done explaining yourself to people who don't deserve it - Silicon Canals

Use concise, firm phrases to end draining conversations and stop justifying personal decisions to people more interested in being right than understanding.
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

If you're easily bored by surface-level discussions, you probably have these 8 traits of advanced thinkers - Silicon Canals

You're not alone. And you're definitely not rude. Some of us are simply wired differently. We crave depth, substance, and meaning in our interactions. Small talk feels like eating cotton candy when you're hungry for a real meal. Growing up, my family dinners were never just about passing the salt. They turned into passionate debates about ideas, politics, and the meaning of life.
Philosophy
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

These 2 Personality Types Couldn't Be More Opposite. But Experts Say They're A Solid Romantic Match.

There are two types of people in the world: type A and type B. Or so common wisdom says, anyway - of course, as with anything human, we're all much more complex than that. Still, sorting people into type A and type B categories can sometimes serve as useful shorthand for understanding ourselves and others. This is especially true in romantic relationships.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

I Tried to Make a Joke About a Change in Our Sex Life. Now My Wife Is Staging a Strike.

How often do you make jokes that offend your wife? If this happens a lot, I'd apologize for the whole pattern and let her know in very direct language that you want to work on it. If this is a one-time issue, consider whether you've clearly apologized. Ideally, an apology contains a direct acknowledgement of what you did, an accurate description of how that hurt the other person, and some fairly feasible statement of what you're doing to prevent recurrence of the same issue.
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Careers
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

The fastest way to lose authority at work is explaining these 7 things too much - Silicon Canals

Over-explaining credentials, decisions, or actions undermines professional authority; let results and contributions demonstrate expertise.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Securing the Sweet Spot for Effective Decision-Making

Missing crucial information in communication shapes outcomes; improving attention, metacognition, and deliberate pauses reduces errors and strengthens cooperation with smarter tools.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Is Premarital Counseling Worth the Time?

At its core, premarital counseling is meant to prepare you and your partner for all the challenges that will test your commitment to one another. It's important to explore topics such as finances, family size, and how to manage in-laws before marriage, but we also need to recognize that the plan decided before marriage may not always apply in 5, 10, or 20 years. Premarital counseling can potentially teach you how to communicate effectively and what you need to discuss.
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Medicine
fromHarvard Gazette
1 week ago

It's time to get more comfortable with talking about dying - Harvard Gazette

Most Americans want to talk about death but feel uncomfortable; growing post‑pandemic conversations and palliative resources can improve end‑of‑life communication.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says these are the 7 moments when staying quiet is your smartest move - Silicon Canals

Strategic silence increases influence and prevents harm; knowing when to remain quiet is a powerful professional and interpersonal tactic.
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fromFast Company
1 week ago

Oprah Winfrey says long-term success and happiness come down to a timeless principle

Work becomes more effective and satisfying when people share ideas, credit, stress, and progress, fostering trust, inclusion, and collective energy.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago

Dear Abby: They posted photos of the whole family' brunch. I wasn't there.

Address exclusion by asking your son if you offended Shelly, then invite them to activities yourself and include Shelly's mother.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Should Being in a Relationship Feel Like Work?

To have a good relationship, you have to put in effort. Your effort should go towards communicating well, for example, learning to bring up concerns in a considerate way and working on listening rather than getting defensive. You should also have the necessary, but uncomfortable, conversations that help a relationship thrive, such as conflict repair discussions and talks that help you work as a team to meet each other's needs.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

These conversation habits make people lose respect for you within seconds - Silicon Canals

Small conversational habits like unnecessary apologies, interruptions, and finishing others' sentences erode credibility and cause people to mentally check out.
Health
fromBustle
1 week ago

A Practical Guide To Talking About Migraines When Dating

Dating with migraine requires clear communication, flexible planning, and boundary-setting to manage unpredictable attacks, common social triggers, and associated fatigue or brain fog.
#leadership
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fromBustle
1 week ago

Your Tarot Reading For The Week Of February 2 - February 8

Two of Cups signifies unity, partnership, attraction, and increased connection; encourages honest communication to deepen romantic or friendship relationships and resolve compatibility issues.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

7 phrases emotionally mature people use during disagreements that others never think to say - Silicon Canals

Emotionally mature people use empathetic, clarifying phrases during disagreements to lower defenses, foster understanding, and resolve conflict constructively.
Digital life
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

9 phone call rituals boomers remember that cell phones completely changed - Silicon Canals

The shift from landlines to smartphones transformed communication rituals, boundaries, attention, and memory, altering social behaviors, availability, and presence.
#remote-work
fromRealagriculture
1 week ago

What sets successful farm transitions apart?

Based on years of post-transition reviews, MNP has identified seven traits common to successful farm families, MacLean says. First, they start early. Early planning allows flexibility and time to work through the tough stuff. Clear, respectful communication is the second trait - and it's essential. Families who talk openly and establish expectations avoid the dangerous territory of unspoken assumptions. Farms that navigate the process well have a shared vision.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

How Work Stress Hijacks Your Sex Life

Work-related stress and burnout reduce sexual desire and satisfaction for both partners, creating mutual avoidance unless emotional closeness and open communication intervene.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why Do Dogs Need a Tail?

Careful kinematic research, such as that done by a Japanese team headed by Naomi Wada, has determined that the dog's tail was designed to assist the dog with balance. When a dog is running and turns quickly, he throws the front part of his body in the direction he wants to go. This causes his back to bend; however, the forward velocity is such that his hindquarters will tend to continue in the original direction.
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fromBig Think
1 week ago

7 must-read books for mastering essential life skills

Mastery is an endless process; with discipline and effort, you can continually deepen foundational skills but never fully finish improving.
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

I Got Into Bed With a Couple. When Our Clothes Came Off, I Had a Reaction I Couldn't Control.

I am a bisexual, 50-year-old woman who enjoys threesomes, including with the most common configuration of a bisexual woman partnered with a straight male. All my past encounters have been amazing-open communication, everyone hot for everyone, natural transitions between constellations of two and three people interacting. However, last night I ended up in bed with a couple, and once we got our clothes off, something happened.
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#astrology
Mindfulness
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Embrace the imperfect and don't try to keep everyone happy: readers share their tips on doing less in 2026

Doing less—setting boundaries, embracing imperfection, delegating responsibility, simplifying choices, and favoring phone calls—reduces stress and conserves emotional energy.
Books
fromThe Walrus
2 weeks ago

Speakerphone | The Walrus

Prayer as keeping an open line fosters mutual, attentive silence and faint shared speech amid everyday noises and distance.
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fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

23 Apology Texts To Send Your Partner If You Need To Say Sorry

Use brief, sincere apology texts to follow up minor conflicts, while prioritizing in-person apologies for serious or unforgivable actions.
#parenting
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago
Relationships

The Internet Is In Flames Over This Note A Husband Left His Family Before Going On A Work Trip

fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago
Relationships

The Internet Is In Flames Over This Note A Husband Left His Family Before Going On A Work Trip

#relationship-conflict
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

The 5-Second Hack That Can Change Your Life

Pausing five to ten seconds before responding enables emotional self-regulation and produces thoughtful, controlled responses instead of impulsive reactions.
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fromIrish Independent
2 weeks ago

Met Eireann issues new rain warning for Thursday after Housing Minister accuses forecaster of 'withholding' vital flood alerts

Minister James Browne criticized Met Éireann for withholding adverse weather information and demanded transparent, improved communication to better protect communities from storm-related flooding.
fromIrish Independent
2 weeks ago

Housing Minister James Browne accuses Met Eireann of 'withholding' vital weather warnings and vows to haul in forecaster

Mr Browne, under whose departmental remit Met Éireann falls, said that communication and forewarning are essential components in preventing the types of flood damage currently being experienced by households and businesses in eastern counties as a result of Storm Chandra which continues to affect communities, particularly in Wexford, Wicklow and Dublin. The minister said there is a distinct deficiency in information-sharing on adverse weather events coming down the tracks that could severely hit communities.
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fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

11 calm phrases that immediately shift the power dynamic when someone is trying to intimidate you - Silicon Canals

But here's what I've learned: the most powerful response isn't to match their energy or disappear into the background. It's to stay calm and use specific phrases that completely flip the script. Growing up, I watched my father navigate thirty years of sales management with varying degrees of success. Some days he'd come home victorious after defusing a tense situation.
Psychology
Mental health
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Asking Eric: She shows up late and then teases me for being uptight about time

Request reliable communication and set compassionate boundaries, balancing support for ADHD-related challenges with honest, blame-free conversations about mutual needs.
fromRubyflow
2 weeks ago
Ruby on Rails

How I Actually Use AI to Write Ruby on Rails Code

Layered project context and documentation enable AI-assisted development to accelerate app delivery and require communication skills more than fast coding.
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Surprising Ways You're Being Judged During Video Calls

Intuition might have you thinking that face-to-face contact is better at getting the creative juices flowing than a voice-only phone call. A 2022 study led by business professor Melanie Brucks, however, found that videoconferencing was detrimental to creative idea generation because communicators feel obligated to stare at the screen. The experiment pitted videoconference groups against in-person groups to see which could find more creative uses for different objects.
Remote teams
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

This is how we do it: I'd compare myself with other women and end up having panic attacks'

I had some messed up ideas around a woman's role and the influence of porn on that Jake was my first. I was 17 and he was 18. I lost my virginity way later than all my friends; sex had been so far out of my comfort zone. For me it was like social currency and I put a lot of pressure on myself to get it done.
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Arts
fromwww.npr.org
2 weeks ago

Tired of bad haircuts? 3 stylists share tips on how to get the do of your dreams

Avoid bad haircuts by finding a skilled stylist, communicating clearly about desired results, and speaking up during the appointment if something goes wrong.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Why You're Both Intimacy Virgins

Both partners often share similar emotional limitations; therapy aims to equalize roles, improve emotional communication, and build mutual intimacy.
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fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Want Better Sex in 2026? Start With These 5 Books

Better sex is a learnable skill: understanding desire, developing communication and pleasure tools, and replacing myths with accurate information improves sexual wellbeing.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Why Repair Attempts Fail (Even When You Mean Them)

Repair requires readiness, genuine listening, and timing; premature or self-serving apologies can silence and widen relational ruptures.
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fromScary Mommy
3 weeks ago

I'm So Over My Partner's Toxic Positivity

A relentlessly optimistic partner who avoids negative observations can frustrate a more skeptical partner and inhibit honest debriefing and emotional authenticity.
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Thought We'd Reached the Easy Stage of Parenting. Now My Wife Wants to Risk It All.

My wife and I have two kids, boys aged 4 and 6. I'm very happy with our family as it is. The kids are both out of diapers and in school all day. They're sleeping, we're sleeping. I feel like we've got a handle on this thing. But now my wife is saying she wants another one. She's 40, I'm 45-it's not totally out of the realm of possibility that we could have another one.
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fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How AI Reshapes the Battle of Persuasion

We live in a paradox. Never before has humanity had access to more information, faster. Yet our decisions, from what we eat to whom we vote for, what we watch and who we date, remain stubbornly resistant to facts alone. Public health campaigns armed with statistics fail to shift behavior. Climate science, however substantive, struggles to ignite action. Heavy economic data rarely changes minds about policy. The uncomfortable truth? We are not the rational creatures we pretend to be.
Public health
Careers
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I've Been Promised a Promotion for Five Years. It's Finally Happening, But There's One Big Problem.

When succeeding a beloved mentor, lead with empathy, clear communication, and respect for legacy while asserting the role's responsibilities to serve the organization.
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