A friend expresses discomfort about including an opinionated childhood friend on future trips with other friends. Despite initial inclusion being acceptable, the apprehension stems from potential awkwardness and dynamics with the group. It's acknowledged that friendships can vary depending on the context, and it's noted that inviting oneself can be presumptuous. It’s suggested that open communication about preferences is crucial, along with proposing alternative ways to connect, like visiting each other or planning a private trip.
It's less about your friends being inconvenienced by her joining and more about your own discomfort. It's valid to feel this way about certain friendships.
It can be presumptuous for someone to invite themselves on trips without considering the dynamics of the existing group.
If you're uncomfortable having her participate, it's important to communicate directly that you'd rather keep the trip limited to your original friends.
Suggest alternative ways to maintain your connection with this friend, such as visiting her or planning a separate trip just for the two of you.
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