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2 days ago
Parenting

Dear Abby: Since she went no-contact, I tell people I don't have a child

Acknowledge estrangement truthfully without extensive explanations to avoid discomfort in social conversations.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago
Relationships

When Independence Becomes Isolation

Independence in a relationship is crucial but can lead to emotional distance if not managed carefully.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago
UK news

You be the judge: should my boyfriend stop spitting in public?

Cultural differences in habits can cause misunderstandings in relationships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Relationships

Dear Abby: Is it true that my standards are too high? These guys just don't check the boxes

High standards can limit dating prospects; consider flexibility in partner traits.
Setting boundaries around home visits is valid and should be communicated clearly.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
8 months ago
NYC food

Miss Manners: There's nothing wrong with me, I just loathe your dog

Effective communication is essential in navigating personal boundaries regarding pets, driving, and household duties.
fromBuzzFeed
3 months ago
Books

This Woman Wants To Run A Background Check On Her Boyfriend, But People Think He Should Refuse

Trust in relationships can be complicated by past traumas and the need for security.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 days ago
Parenting

Dear Abby: Since she went no-contact, I tell people I don't have a child

Acknowledge estrangement truthfully without extensive explanations to avoid discomfort in social conversations.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago
Relationships

When Independence Becomes Isolation

Independence in a relationship is crucial but can lead to emotional distance if not managed carefully.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago
UK news

You be the judge: should my boyfriend stop spitting in public?

Cultural differences in habits can cause misunderstandings in relationships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Relationships

Dear Abby: Is it true that my standards are too high? These guys just don't check the boxes

High standards can limit dating prospects; consider flexibility in partner traits.
Setting boundaries around home visits is valid and should be communicated clearly.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
8 months ago
NYC food

Miss Manners: There's nothing wrong with me, I just loathe your dog

Effective communication is essential in navigating personal boundaries regarding pets, driving, and household duties.
fromBuzzFeed
3 months ago
Books

This Woman Wants To Run A Background Check On Her Boyfriend, But People Think He Should Refuse

Trust in relationships can be complicated by past traumas and the need for security.
more#relationships
fromNew York Post
5 days ago
Relationships

I'm so attractive I have to wear a fake wedding ring in public - just to keep men from flirting with me

Wearing a fake wedding ring effectively deters unwanted male attention for influencer Ju Isen.
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

Michelle Obama Finally Addressed Why She Skipped Trump's Inauguration

Michelle Obama emphasizes the importance of learning to say no and recognizing personal boundaries.
Bootstrapping
#disability-awareness
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Forced Intimacy: How Prying Questions Can Cause Harm

Intrusive questions about sight loss can distress blind individuals and trigger traumatic memories, necessitating permission before inquiry.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: I'm not being snooty, I have to eat the special food

Creating an inclusive meal for guests while catering to personal dietary restrictions is essential.
Setting polite boundaries regarding personal inquiries about disabilities helps maintain comfort and respect.
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Forced Intimacy: How Prying Questions Can Cause Harm

Intrusive questions about sight loss can distress blind individuals and trigger traumatic memories, necessitating permission before inquiry.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: I'm not being snooty, I have to eat the special food

Creating an inclusive meal for guests while catering to personal dietary restrictions is essential.
Setting polite boundaries regarding personal inquiries about disabilities helps maintain comfort and respect.
more#disability-awareness
#family-dynamics
fromSlate Magazine
10 months ago
Writing

Help! My Father-in-Law Insists on Kissing Me on the Lips.

Uncomfortable with father-in-law's lip kiss hello after years; seeks advice on addressing the issue diplomatically.
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago
Relationships

Help! My Sister and Her Little Girl Are in a Shelter. They Could Easily Live With Me, but Only Under One Condition.

Do not let your sister move in to avoid chaos and protect yourself.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
9 months ago
Digital life

Asking Eric: This mom at my kids' school said I send the wrong message

It's important to remember that wearing makeup is a personal choice and should not be judged by others based on their own perceptions or beliefs.
fromSlate Magazine
10 months ago
Writing

Help! My Father-in-Law Insists on Kissing Me on the Lips.

Uncomfortable with father-in-law's lip kiss hello after years; seeks advice on addressing the issue diplomatically.
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago
Relationships

Help! My Sister and Her Little Girl Are in a Shelter. They Could Easily Live With Me, but Only Under One Condition.

Do not let your sister move in to avoid chaos and protect yourself.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
9 months ago
Digital life

Asking Eric: This mom at my kids' school said I send the wrong message

It's important to remember that wearing makeup is a personal choice and should not be judged by others based on their own perceptions or beliefs.
more#family-dynamics
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago
Parenting

Help! I Moved Into a New Apartment Building. Then a Neighbor Explained What Would Be "Expected" of Me.

The expectation to assist neighbors should not be an obligation, especially when life demands are high.
#social-media
fromLos Angeles Times
8 months ago
Music

Chappell Roan slams fans' 'creepy behavior': 'This is a random lady you don't know'

Chappell Roan addresses harassment and 'creepy behavior' from fans, emphasizing that such treatment isn't acceptable despite her celebrity status.
fromNew York Post
1 month ago
NYC parents

Flier and 'chronic people pleaser' shares what happened after denying seat-swapper's request

Passengers often face requests to swap seats on flights; one user decided to decline.
fromLos Angeles Times
8 months ago
Music

Chappell Roan slams fans' 'creepy behavior': 'This is a random lady you don't know'

Chappell Roan addresses harassment and 'creepy behavior' from fans, emphasizing that such treatment isn't acceptable despite her celebrity status.
fromNew York Post
1 month ago
NYC parents

Flier and 'chronic people pleaser' shares what happened after denying seat-swapper's request

Passengers often face requests to swap seats on flights; one user decided to decline.
more#social-media
#social-etiquette
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: My neighbor invited me to dinner, then humiliated me in front of the other women

Address awkward situations with humor to diffuse tension.
It's permissible to express discomfort with smoking in a friend's car.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: I fear I reacted inappropriately to the cigarette burn

Conflict aversion can complicate how we respond to others' recklessness, affecting our sense of dignity and propriety.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
Digital life

Miss Manners: Years later, I'm wondering what I could have said to this uncalled-for remark

Expressing discomfort through vocalization helps convey disapproval of inappropriate comments without being overly confrontational.
In professional settings, addressing quirky behaviors should be done kindly, promoting a cohesive work environment.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: My neighbor invited me to dinner, then humiliated me in front of the other women

Address awkward situations with humor to diffuse tension.
It's permissible to express discomfort with smoking in a friend's car.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: I fear I reacted inappropriately to the cigarette burn

Conflict aversion can complicate how we respond to others' recklessness, affecting our sense of dignity and propriety.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
Digital life

Miss Manners: Years later, I'm wondering what I could have said to this uncalled-for remark

Expressing discomfort through vocalization helps convey disapproval of inappropriate comments without being overly confrontational.
In professional settings, addressing quirky behaviors should be done kindly, promoting a cohesive work environment.
more#social-etiquette
Writing
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

I discovered my 'friend' alone in the bathroom with my 6-year-old: 'Felt sick to my stomach'

Trust your instincts as a parent.
Some adult behaviors around children can cross boundaries.
Different perceptions about appropriate behavior can lead to conflict.
#communication
fromtime.com
5 months ago
Wellness

13 Things to Say When Someone Asks Why You Haven't Had a Baby Yet

Pressure on couples to have children can lead to uncomfortable inquiries from family and friends, highlighting societal expectations around reproduction.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: The impertinent cashier makes another appearance

Proper etiquette requires sensitivity to personal circumstances, especially regarding topics like pregnancy.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Books

Asking Eric: I didn't think living with my friend would be like this, and I'm about to explode

You need to address your housing needs as the current living situation is impacting your friendship. Setting boundaries is essential.
fromtime.com
5 months ago
Wellness

13 Things to Say When Someone Asks Why You Haven't Had a Baby Yet

Pressure on couples to have children can lead to uncomfortable inquiries from family and friends, highlighting societal expectations around reproduction.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: The impertinent cashier makes another appearance

Proper etiquette requires sensitivity to personal circumstances, especially regarding topics like pregnancy.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Books

Asking Eric: I didn't think living with my friend would be like this, and I'm about to explode

You need to address your housing needs as the current living situation is impacting your friendship. Setting boundaries is essential.
more#communication
fromSlate Magazine
3 months ago
Relationships

I Gave My Boyfriend an STI. Now I'm Being Held Hostage in the Relationship.

You have the right to redefine your relationship according to your needs and desires.
fromSlate Magazine
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Confessions of Paid Caregivers

Caregivers play a vital role in our lives, facing emotional challenges and potential exploitation in their work.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Flight passenger stirs heated debate after refusing to swap seats with older woman in viral post

A viral social media post highlights the dilemma of personal boundaries versus courtesy in airplane seating etiquette.
#communication-skills
fromSlate Magazine
8 months ago
Digital life

Help! I Invited My Coworkers Into a Very Personal Part of My Life. Now I Really Regret It.

Navigating discussions about fertility can be challenging; establishing boundaries is essential for personal well-being.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: I was embarrassed by the hostess's muttered complaint about me

Being polite in social situations can sometimes lead to unexpected reactions from hosts, requiring diplomacy in communication.
fromSlate Magazine
8 months ago
Digital life

Help! I Invited My Coworkers Into a Very Personal Part of My Life. Now I Really Regret It.

Navigating discussions about fertility can be challenging; establishing boundaries is essential for personal well-being.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: I was embarrassed by the hostess's muttered complaint about me

Being polite in social situations can sometimes lead to unexpected reactions from hosts, requiring diplomacy in communication.
more#communication-skills
fromBustle
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Golden Bachelorette Joan Was "Afraid" Of Breaking A Bachelor Nation Tradition

Joan Vassos changed the Fantasy Suites by removing beds to maintain personal boundaries during the show.
fromPortlandTribune.com
6 months ago
Medicine

Jim Moore, political analysis: Just add water

Jim Moore's avoidance of cell phones reflects a prioritization of personal time and mental wellness.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago
Digital life

Dear Abby: The amorous messages on my mom's phone are from my cousin

Family dynamics can be complicated, and adult behavior should be addressed directly by those involved.
fromIndependent
7 months ago

Do you not want children? Have you tried IVF? Any sign of a ring? An expert guide to dealing with intrusive questions

Navigating intrusive personal questions in social settings can be challenging; it's vital to redirect conversations to maintain personal boundaries.
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#chappell-roan
fromBustle
7 months ago
Music

Chappell Roan Reveals What's "Infuriating" About Her Overnight Success

Chappell Roan emphasizes the frustration of being recognized only after her music gains popularity, despite years of dedication.
fromVulture
7 months ago
Music

Chappell Roan Came to the VMAs Clad for Battle

Chappell Roan embraces her megafame at the VMAs, reflecting on the challenges of newfound celebrity and public scrutiny.
fromBustle
7 months ago
Music

Chappell Roan Reveals What's "Infuriating" About Her Overnight Success

Chappell Roan emphasizes the frustration of being recognized only after her music gains popularity, despite years of dedication.
fromVulture
7 months ago
Music

Chappell Roan Came to the VMAs Clad for Battle

Chappell Roan embraces her megafame at the VMAs, reflecting on the challenges of newfound celebrity and public scrutiny.
more#chappell-roan
fromBuzzFeed
8 months ago
Writing

18 Horrified House Guests Who Left Other People's Homes Determined Never, Ever, Ever To Return

People often reveal uncomfortable or unsettling experiences during home visits, highlighting personal boundaries and the impact of one's living space on guests.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
8 months ago
Startup companies

Dear Abby: I escaped my Jekyll-and-Hyde neighbor. Now he wants to visit.

It's important to prioritize mental health and well-being over past relationships, especially when toxic behavior is involved.
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