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How to (Gently) Set Boundaries During the Holidays

Navigating uncomfortable family dynamics during the holidays often requires strategic planning to manage anxiety and control over situations.

I Live With My Parents. They Can Never Know What I've Been Doing With My Ex.

Your sex life is your business, and it's important to set clear boundaries with your parents about it.

Help! My Father-in-Law Insists on Kissing Me on the Lips.

Uncomfortable with father-in-law's lip kiss hello after years; seeks advice on addressing the issue diplomatically.

Dear Abby: The perverse walkers seem intent on a head-on sidewalk crash

Pedestrians should adhere to the rule of keeping to the right, just like drivers.

Help! I "Accidentally" Canceled My Entire Family's Thanksgiving. Oops.

Establishing personal boundaries is crucial, especially when family dynamics are unhealthy or unsupportive.

Miss Manners: A virtual stranger disrupted my bowling party, and nobody knew what to do

Communicating feelings about social dynamics can foster better relationships and ensure everyone's voice is heard.

How to (Gently) Set Boundaries During the Holidays

Navigating uncomfortable family dynamics during the holidays often requires strategic planning to manage anxiety and control over situations.

I Live With My Parents. They Can Never Know What I've Been Doing With My Ex.

Your sex life is your business, and it's important to set clear boundaries with your parents about it.

Help! My Father-in-Law Insists on Kissing Me on the Lips.

Uncomfortable with father-in-law's lip kiss hello after years; seeks advice on addressing the issue diplomatically.

Dear Abby: The perverse walkers seem intent on a head-on sidewalk crash

Pedestrians should adhere to the rule of keeping to the right, just like drivers.

Help! I "Accidentally" Canceled My Entire Family's Thanksgiving. Oops.

Establishing personal boundaries is crucial, especially when family dynamics are unhealthy or unsupportive.

Miss Manners: A virtual stranger disrupted my bowling party, and nobody knew what to do

Communicating feelings about social dynamics can foster better relationships and ensure everyone's voice is heard.
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#relationships

Should You Break Up Because Others Say So?

Be cautious about how much relationship information you share with others, as it can invite biased advice based on incomplete perspectives.

The moment I knew: I was an activist out at sea but all I wanted was to go home and marry Aaron

Being true to oneself and maintaining personal boundaries can coexist with deepening love and intimacy.

This Maid Of Honor Ditched Her Friend's Wedding, But People Think She Was 1000% Justified

Weddings can create complicated interpersonal dynamics, leading to difficult decisions for those involved.

Miss Manners: There's nothing wrong with me, I just loathe your dog

Effective communication is essential in navigating personal boundaries regarding pets, driving, and household duties.

Dear Abby: I found out my neighbor has been raiding my garden

Address personal boundaries clearly with friends and neighbors to maintain healthy relationships.
Emotional support from partners is important; seek alternatives if it's lacking.

Help! I Went on a Date With a Guy I Volunteer With. Now He's Gossiping About Me Like a Teen.

Handle inappropriate behavior with aloofness and confidence, showcasing that their antics do not affect you.

Should You Break Up Because Others Say So?

Be cautious about how much relationship information you share with others, as it can invite biased advice based on incomplete perspectives.

The moment I knew: I was an activist out at sea but all I wanted was to go home and marry Aaron

Being true to oneself and maintaining personal boundaries can coexist with deepening love and intimacy.

This Maid Of Honor Ditched Her Friend's Wedding, But People Think She Was 1000% Justified

Weddings can create complicated interpersonal dynamics, leading to difficult decisions for those involved.

Miss Manners: There's nothing wrong with me, I just loathe your dog

Effective communication is essential in navigating personal boundaries regarding pets, driving, and household duties.

Dear Abby: I found out my neighbor has been raiding my garden

Address personal boundaries clearly with friends and neighbors to maintain healthy relationships.
Emotional support from partners is important; seek alternatives if it's lacking.

Help! I Went on a Date With a Guy I Volunteer With. Now He's Gossiping About Me Like a Teen.

Handle inappropriate behavior with aloofness and confidence, showcasing that their antics do not affect you.
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#mental-health

Dear Abby: We were hard on our daughter and now she doesn't want to see us

Family dynamics can be complicated; past parenting styles can shape adult relationships.
Open communication and family therapy may be necessary to repair strained relationships.

Chappell Roan slams fans' 'creepy behavior': 'This is a random lady you don't know'

Chappell Roan addresses harassment and 'creepy behavior' from fans, emphasizing that such treatment isn't acceptable despite her celebrity status.

Help! I Invited My Coworkers Into a Very Personal Part of My Life. Now I Really Regret It.

Navigating discussions about fertility can be challenging; establishing boundaries is essential for personal well-being.

Tips for Setting Healthy Boundaries At Work | HackerNoon

Setting personal boundaries at work is crucial for productivity and mental health.

Dear Abby: I escaped my Jekyll-and-Hyde neighbor. Now he wants to visit.

It's important to prioritize mental health and well-being over past relationships, especially when toxic behavior is involved.

Asking for a friend: After some bad experiences, I want to try dating again but I am terrified of being catfished. How can I protect myself?

Take gradual steps in online dating by setting personal boundaries and being cautious about sharing your personal information.
Your anxiety is a legitimate response to past trauma; prioritize your comfort and safety when dating.
Research and verify matches to avoid being catfished or stood up.

Dear Abby: We were hard on our daughter and now she doesn't want to see us

Family dynamics can be complicated; past parenting styles can shape adult relationships.
Open communication and family therapy may be necessary to repair strained relationships.

Chappell Roan slams fans' 'creepy behavior': 'This is a random lady you don't know'

Chappell Roan addresses harassment and 'creepy behavior' from fans, emphasizing that such treatment isn't acceptable despite her celebrity status.

Help! I Invited My Coworkers Into a Very Personal Part of My Life. Now I Really Regret It.

Navigating discussions about fertility can be challenging; establishing boundaries is essential for personal well-being.

Tips for Setting Healthy Boundaries At Work | HackerNoon

Setting personal boundaries at work is crucial for productivity and mental health.

Dear Abby: I escaped my Jekyll-and-Hyde neighbor. Now he wants to visit.

It's important to prioritize mental health and well-being over past relationships, especially when toxic behavior is involved.

Asking for a friend: After some bad experiences, I want to try dating again but I am terrified of being catfished. How can I protect myself?

Take gradual steps in online dating by setting personal boundaries and being cautious about sharing your personal information.
Your anxiety is a legitimate response to past trauma; prioritize your comfort and safety when dating.
Research and verify matches to avoid being catfished or stood up.
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#communication-skills

Miss Manners: I was embarrassed by the hostess's muttered complaint about me

Being polite in social situations can sometimes lead to unexpected reactions from hosts, requiring diplomacy in communication.

A Foolproof Way to Respond to Awkward Personal Questions

Using prepared one-liners can help maintain boundaries in personal conversations and avoid oversharing.

Miss Manners: I was embarrassed by the hostess's muttered complaint about me

Being polite in social situations can sometimes lead to unexpected reactions from hosts, requiring diplomacy in communication.

A Foolproof Way to Respond to Awkward Personal Questions

Using prepared one-liners can help maintain boundaries in personal conversations and avoid oversharing.
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Dear Abby: I'm tired of her griping about the man she won't divorce

The friend must prioritize her own well-being while supporting Savannah's decision-making process.
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I find conversations with dates dissatisfying, specially when they tell me the plots of films | Ask Philippa

Many people feel drained by oversharing in conversation but seek meaningful connections with acquaintances.
Striking a balance between listening and sharing personal insights is key to fulfilling conversations.

13 Things to Say When Someone Asks Why You Haven't Had a Baby Yet

Pressure on couples to have children can lead to uncomfortable inquiries from family and friends, highlighting societal expectations around reproduction.

Harriette Cole: I want to shut down my friend's snooping without a lot of drama

Set clear boundaries with your friend about what information you are comfortable sharing
Ask your friend why they keep asking personal questions to understand their motivation

Miss Manners: The impertinent cashier makes another appearance

Proper etiquette requires sensitivity to personal circumstances, especially regarding topics like pregnancy.

Miss Manners: I got stuck in an awkward situation, and now my friend says I'm a liar

Communicate discomfort with unequal gift exchanges directly to avoid misunderstandings.

I Have an Extreme Limitation in the Bedroom. I'm Not Sure Men Will Take It Well.

Disclosing a medical condition when dating is a personal decision, varying based on individual preferences.
Communication is key in discussing sexual preferences and boundaries, especially when navigating dating and relationships.

I find conversations with dates dissatisfying, specially when they tell me the plots of films | Ask Philippa

Many people feel drained by oversharing in conversation but seek meaningful connections with acquaintances.
Striking a balance between listening and sharing personal insights is key to fulfilling conversations.

13 Things to Say When Someone Asks Why You Haven't Had a Baby Yet

Pressure on couples to have children can lead to uncomfortable inquiries from family and friends, highlighting societal expectations around reproduction.

Harriette Cole: I want to shut down my friend's snooping without a lot of drama

Set clear boundaries with your friend about what information you are comfortable sharing
Ask your friend why they keep asking personal questions to understand their motivation

Miss Manners: The impertinent cashier makes another appearance

Proper etiquette requires sensitivity to personal circumstances, especially regarding topics like pregnancy.

Miss Manners: I got stuck in an awkward situation, and now my friend says I'm a liar

Communicate discomfort with unequal gift exchanges directly to avoid misunderstandings.

I Have an Extreme Limitation in the Bedroom. I'm Not Sure Men Will Take It Well.

Disclosing a medical condition when dating is a personal decision, varying based on individual preferences.
Communication is key in discussing sexual preferences and boundaries, especially when navigating dating and relationships.
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Help! My Neighbors Are Taking Advantage of My Street's Generosity on Halloween.

Community traditions can evolve into stressors rather than joyful experiences, especially when expectations grow.

Golden Bachelorette Joan Was "Afraid" Of Breaking A Bachelor Nation Tradition

Joan Vassos changed the Fantasy Suites by removing beds to maintain personal boundaries during the show.

Jim Moore, political analysis: Just add water

Jim Moore's avoidance of cell phones reflects a prioritization of personal time and mental wellness.
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1 month ago

Three Perfect Responses For Unsolicited Pregnancy "Advice"

Women face unsolicited opinions during pregnancy, and there are effective ways to respond to such comments.
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Dear Abby: The amorous messages on my mom's phone are from my cousin

Family dynamics can be complicated, and adult behavior should be addressed directly by those involved.

We're Therapists. Here Are 8 Things We Refuse To Do At The Holidays.

Therapists set personal boundaries to maintain healthy relationships.
Showing empathy within boundaries helps children develop self-compassion and confidence.

Dear Abby: They think it's funny to make me uncomfortable like this

The person is uncomfortable with physical touch and wants their parents to respect their boundaries.
The person is seeking advice on how to address this issue with their parents.

Dear Abby: The amorous messages on my mom's phone are from my cousin

Family dynamics can be complicated, and adult behavior should be addressed directly by those involved.

We're Therapists. Here Are 8 Things We Refuse To Do At The Holidays.

Therapists set personal boundaries to maintain healthy relationships.
Showing empathy within boundaries helps children develop self-compassion and confidence.

Dear Abby: They think it's funny to make me uncomfortable like this

The person is uncomfortable with physical touch and wants their parents to respect their boundaries.
The person is seeking advice on how to address this issue with their parents.
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#celebrity-culture

Chappell Roan Came to the VMAs Clad for Battle

Chappell Roan embraces her megafame at the VMAs, reflecting on the challenges of newfound celebrity and public scrutiny.

TV host William Valdes finally addresses the rumors about his sexuality - Queerty

William Valdés addresses ongoing speculation about his sexuality, advocating for personal boundaries and awareness in media representation.

Chappell Roan Came to the VMAs Clad for Battle

Chappell Roan embraces her megafame at the VMAs, reflecting on the challenges of newfound celebrity and public scrutiny.

TV host William Valdes finally addresses the rumors about his sexuality - Queerty

William Valdés addresses ongoing speculation about his sexuality, advocating for personal boundaries and awareness in media representation.
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3 months ago

Do you not want children? Have you tried IVF? Any sign of a ring? An expert guide to dealing with intrusive questions

Navigating intrusive personal questions in social settings can be challenging; it's vital to redirect conversations to maintain personal boundaries.

Chappell Roan Reveals What's "Infuriating" About Her Overnight Success

Chappell Roan emphasizes the frustration of being recognized only after her music gains popularity, despite years of dedication.

Miss Manners: I'm not being snooty, I have to eat the special food

Creating an inclusive meal for guests while catering to personal dietary restrictions is essential.
Setting polite boundaries regarding personal inquiries about disabilities helps maintain comfort and respect.

Nicole Kidman Clarified That She "Didn't Feel Exploited" While Filming Her Sexually Graphic New Movie

The struggle between personal boundaries and professional demands in acting can lead to feelings of exposure and vulnerability.

18 Horrified House Guests Who Left Other People's Homes Determined Never, Ever, Ever To Return

People often reveal uncomfortable or unsettling experiences during home visits, highlighting personal boundaries and the impact of one's living space on guests.

Ben Affleck wasn't 'very comfortable' being Jennifer Lopez's muse

Ben Affleck is hesitant to publicly share details of his and Jennifer Lopez's private life, valuing personal boundaries despite supporting her artistic endeavors.

Rafe Spall says gay sex scene with male star was a 'high point'

Actor Rafe Spall shares his experience with sex scenes and why he has decided not to do them anymore.

How Long Is Too Long to Stay in Bed?

Hurkle-durkling trend celebrates leisure time in bed
Setting limits on morning relaxation in bed is essential to avoid stress

Long Live The Work Wife. Just Don't Call Her That.

The concept of having a work wife or work husband, a close colleague with whom you have a special bond, was popular in the past but is now considered dated.
Workplaces have changed, and there is a stronger emphasis on personal and professional boundaries, which has led to a decline in the acceptance of the work spouse dynamic.
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