Happy Birthday: Pay attention to spending, overhead and investments. Focus on where you benefit most and head in that direction. Create opportunities, and the rewards will offer greater satisfaction. Draw the line when dealing with people who tend to be a bad influence. Saying no to excess and indulgent behavior will enhance your reputation and encourage you to foster stronger relationships. Be a leader, not a follower.
Happy Birthday: Be cautious about sharing too much information or agreeing to something without verifying the facts and what others expect of you. You need a clear conscience to move forward without regret. A domestic change will impact your emotional well-being and require time, patience and personal effort to maintain the freedom necessary to fulfill your heart's desires. Trust your instincts, not what others tell you. Your numbers are 8, 14, 23, 28, 31, 37, 42.
If I respond that I don't have whatever she is looking for, she usually replies, That's OK, I found something else to use, as if it is my fault she doesn't have something in her house. It is very irritating, to say the least! This is a neighbor who, when she is out of the house, is more interested in her phone than in talking to my husband or me.
In a world where personal items are valued differently, lighting a 'luxury' candle can lead to unexpected conflict over what is considered respectful behavior in someone else’s space.
A clever alternative to consider when responding to unwanted offers of help might be: 'Thank you so much, but it's just a thing we do,' accompanied by a self-deprecating laugh that indicates to onlookers that you find your activity amusing. This approach often encourages people to respect your boundaries more easily.
While of course, I'm happy for her and her family, and was more than happy to look at the first few photos and congratulate her, I am, quite frankly, over it. It has been weeks of her showing me pictures of her baby doing nothing remarkable, with very little difference in the pictures.