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fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Husband's Adult Daughter Got Sick and Moved in With Us. I Might Need to Flee.

"I was the oldest of six and was expected to parent my siblings. I remember changing my first diaper at age 4 and getting yelled at for warming bottles wrong around 5."
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

Help! I Thought My Housesitting Gig Went Perfectly. Then Came the Wildest Accusation of My Life.

In a world where personal items are valued differently, lighting a 'luxury' candle can lead to unexpected conflict over what is considered respectful behavior in someone else’s space.
Relationships
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

I used to be an escort, and a former client wants to be friends. What should I do? | Ask Annalisa Barbieri

Reconnecting with a past client can be positive or complicate established boundaries.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Miss Manners: Strangers want to take our photo, and they're bugged when I say no

A clever alternative to consider when responding to unwanted offers of help might be: 'Thank you so much, but it's just a thing we do,' accompanied by a self-deprecating laugh that indicates to onlookers that you find your activity amusing. This approach often encourages people to respect your boundaries more easily.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Harriette Cole: He says he wasn't himself on our disastrous first date. Must I give him another chance?

You can forgive him and not go out with him again. Tell him you accept his apology, but you are not interested in a second date.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

Help! My Husband's Manic Pixie Past Has Become a Full-Blown Threat to My Sanity.

Jealousy stems from an uneven emotional connection between a partner and an ex or old crush, which can sometimes feel more painful than an outright affair.
Relationships
#workplace-etiquette
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

This Person Asked The Internet How To Politely Tell Their Coworker They Don't Care About Their New Baby

While of course, I'm happy for her and her family, and was more than happy to look at the first few photos and congratulate her, I am, quite frankly, over it. It has been weeks of her showing me pictures of her baby doing nothing remarkable, with very little difference in the pictures.
Relationships
fromMedium
1 month ago

Test smart: how to escape burnout?

Burnout isn't easy to discuss, especially when you've faced it. However, in the fast-paced IT world, it is becoming increasingly relevant.
Mental health
#family-dynamics
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Relationships

Asking Eric: My sister wants me to have a baby and raise it in her cult

Establishing boundaries and seeking legal advice is crucial for avoiding toxic family dynamics.
fromNew York Post
4 months ago
Parenting

Dear Abby: My husband kisses his mother on the lips - it's disgusting

Normalizing a mother's affection varies by relationship; establish communication to address feelings of alienation.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Harriette Cole: I feel like she's using me as a prop for her online persona

Navigating the balance between supporting a loved one's ambitions and maintaining personal connections is crucial.
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I love weddings, but I leave them early - even if I adore the couple. It's not so wrong, especially if you do it right.

Leaving weddings early can be a form of self-care, even if it may be perceived as bad etiquette.
#etiquette
Humor
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Dear Abby: I heard my father-in-law sneak a woman into the basement

Silence might be the best option regarding your father-in-law's potential infidelity to avoid family conflict.
Consider counseling before deciding whether to return to your husband after a decade of marital difficulties.
You don't owe strangers an explanation about your personal situation, especially regarding your injury.
Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Dear Abby: Since she went no-contact, I tell people I don't have a child

Acknowledge estrangement truthfully without extensive explanations to avoid discomfort in social conversations.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

I'm so attractive I have to wear a fake wedding ring in public - just to keep men from flirting with me

Wearing a fake wedding ring effectively deters unwanted male attention for influencer Ju Isen.
Bootstrapping
fromBuzzFeed
3 months ago

Michelle Obama Finally Addressed Why She Skipped Trump's Inauguration

Michelle Obama emphasizes the importance of learning to say no and recognizing personal boundaries.
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