Harriette Cole: He says he wasn't himself on our disastrous first date. Must I give him another chance?
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A first date turned out disappointing due to the guy's behavior, leaving the dater skeptical. Despite his apologies and desire for a second chance, feelings of discomfort lingered. In another situation, parents struggle with their daughter's dependence on their bed for sleep, recognizing the need for her to learn independence. They seek ways to transition her back to her room without inducing anxiety or feelings of rejection.
You can forgive him and not go out with him again. Tell him you accept his apology, but you are not interested in a second date.
You know she needs to learn independence and feel confident sleeping on her own. My husband and I also want our own space back since it's starting to affect our sleep and overall stress levels.
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