The article shares two letters to advice columnist Dear Abby from individuals struggling with intrusive neighbors and friends. The first letter discusses a long-time employee who faces scrutiny from neighbors regarding their vacation days. The writer feels hurt by their judgments and is taking measures to avoid them. The second letter concerns a woman whose friend dismisses her health complaints, creating discomfort in their close relationship. Abby suggests handling intrusive questions with discretion and promotes understanding between friends regarding support without crossing boundaries.
"I have been at the same job for 20-plus years and have accrued a lot of vacation days... It frosts me because they're implying I'm doing something wrong..."
"Could some of those old-timers suffer from cognitive impairment, which is why they persist in asking these questions?"
"I told her I can't complain to my loved ones all the time... She told me she gets worried every time I do it."
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