I used to be an escort, and a former client wants to be friends. What should I do? | Ask Annalisa Barbieri
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Previously a high-end escort, I formed respectful relationships with clients, one of whom was an intelligent man on the autism spectrum. I ran into him recently, and he showed interest in friendship. Though I value his personality, I am conflicted about reconnecting due to our past and possible stigma from his past as a client. I consulted a psychologist about the nature of our relationship, which could be complicated by our shared history.
Reconnecting might add something positive to my life or blur boundaries I've worked hard to establish and maintain. The stigma directed at men seeing escorts complicates the dynamic.
Though he might hope for more than friendship, he's likely to accept a no gracefully. Our past acquaintance impacts the potential of this new connection.
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