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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 hours agoI'm 66 and I just realized that the things I used to call my personality - punctual, tidy, self-sufficient, never dramatic - were survival strategies I developed before I was ten and kept running long after they stopped being necessary - Silicon Canals
Coping mechanisms developed in childhood can become mistaken for core personality traits, impacting adult behavior and identity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
7 hours agoResearch suggests that people who pursue happiness directly almost never find it - but people who pursue meaning, connection, and acceptance report a quiet contentment that outlasts every peak experience - Silicon Canals
Pursuing happiness directly often leads to disappointment and lower satisfaction, as expectations create a gap between reality and feelings.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
18 hours agoPsychology suggests people who become difficult to be around with age are almost always carrying an unprocessed grief - for the life they expected and didn't get, for the recognition they believed they had earned and never received, for the version of themselves they were supposed to become - and the difficulty is what that grief sounds like when it has been stored as resentment for long enough to become the way they experience everything - Silicon Canals
Unprocessed grief can manifest as bitterness and negativity, stemming from unfulfilled dreams and unmet expectations in life.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
22 hours agoNot unique to war': millions of Americans suffer from moral injury. What's causing it?
Moral injury, recognized by the American Psychiatric Association, arises from actions contradicting deeply held beliefs, affecting mental health across various contexts.
#solitude
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
23 hours agoThe quiet power of doing nothing - why highly sensitive people who protect their solitude aren't avoiding life, they're preserving the energy most people burn through by noon - Silicon Canals
Solitude is often undervalued in a culture that glorifies constant activity and productivity.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPsychology says people who genuinely enjoy being alone aren't missing the need for connection - they've located the one condition under which their full self is available, and that condition happens to require an empty room, and there is nothing wrong with that except that the world was not designed with them in mind and has been making them feel guilty about it ever since - Silicon Canals
Society often mislabels the need for solitude as a deficiency, while those who recharge alone are more emotionally stable and focused.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThe emptiness many people feel after 70 isn't the absence of purpose - it's the absence of an audience, and those are completely different problems with completely different solutions - Silicon Canals
Retirement often leads to a loss of audience, not purpose, causing feelings of uselessness among retirees.
fromwww.businessinsider.com
1 day agoAfter a disappointing college experience, I was determined to make postgrad life better. Now I'm thriving.
Social anxiety and depression had other plans, leaving me in an ugly cycle of self-isolation and rumination. Terrified of rejection, I'd meet someone interesting during one of my English lectures and invite them out for frozen yogurt in my head.
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Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoI have no close friends and I do not say that as a confession or a complaint - I say it as the most accurate thing I know about my life right now, and I am trying to hold it with honesty rather than explanation, and some days the honesty is enough and some days it is the loneliest sentence I know how to say - Silicon Canals
Not having close friends can lead to freedom and clarity rather than feelings of failure.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPsychology suggests people who were never taken seriously as children grow into adults who either compulsively over-explain or go completely silent - and both responses are the same wound wearing different clothes - Silicon Canals
Over-explaining often stems from trauma and anxiety, leading to chronic justification of one's presence in conversations.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPsychology says people who feel a persistent low-level sadness they cannot attribute to any specific cause aren't depressed in the clinical sense - they're experiencing the accurate emotional response to a life that has drifted, incrementally and without announcement, away from the one they meant to live, and the sadness is not a symptom, it is a signal, and signals are not treated, they are followed - Silicon Canals
Low-grade melancholy may signal a disconnect between current life and expectations, rather than being a symptom of depression.
#lgbtq
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 days agoBeing less shallow, frolicking on nude beaches & no more closeted Republicans: Gays share how they've changed over the years - Queerty
Gay individuals experience continuous evolution, particularly through coming out, learning from mistakes, and prioritizing mental health and relationships.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPsychology says boomers who learned to 'just get on with it' aren't emotionally stunted - they built a coping architecture that millennials are now paying therapists to reconstruct - Silicon Canals
UK spending on private therapy has risen over 40% in a decade, with millennials as the largest demographic seeking treatment for emotional issues.
fromwww.mediaite.com
1 day ago5-Year-Old Detained by ICE Tells CBS He's Still Scared of La Inmigracion' Parents Say He's Now Very Different'
Liam's parents reported that their son remains deeply scarred by his time in ICE detention, regularly seeing a psychologist to cope with his fears and trauma.
NYC parents
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThe person who cancels plans at the last minute often committed with genuine intention. The problem is that the version of them who said yes on Tuesday and the version who can't leave the house on Saturday are experiencing completely different levels of internal capacity, and neither one is lying - Silicon Canals
Commitments can change due to fluctuating internal resources, not necessarily dishonesty or unreliability.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoResearch suggests the 1960s and 70s produced adults who could self-soothe, entertain themselves, and tolerate boredom - not because their parents were wise but because their parents were simply elsewhere - Silicon Canals
Modern parenting emphasizes structured activities, contrasting sharply with past generations' unstructured play, which may have fostered resilience and independence in children.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThe hardest thing about being the calm one in a family is that your steadiness becomes load-bearing. Everyone leans on it, nobody asks what holds it up, and the day you finally crack, people don't comfort you. They panic. Because your collapse threatens the architecture, and the architecture was always more important than you were. - Silicon Canals
The calm family member often bears the burden of emotional labor, managing others' feelings while suppressing their own.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says the most emotionally strong people aren't the ones who never fall apart - they're the ones who fall apart privately, reassemble without fanfare, and never use their recovery as a reason for anyone else to feel guilty - Silicon Canals
Emotional strength involves acknowledging feelings and recovering privately, not denying vulnerability or pretending to be unbreakable.
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