Asking Eric: How can they be my friends if they can't remember my kids' names?
Briefly

Friendships necessitate empathy and curiosity, where friends should engage with each other's lives, regardless of differing experiences. The lack of attention from younger friends to personal stories can be distressing, leading individuals to feel unvalued. Active engagement involves mutual interest, and it is concerning if one party does not reciprocate feelings, such as interest in family. Although one-sided friendship can feel rewarding due to diligence, it can become burdensome when emotional support is minimal on the other side.
Your friends should want to know the details of your life, even if they don't share the same experiences. They should care about what's important to you.
It appears that you're the conscientious one of your group. This can be a rewarding way to engage in friendship, and it can also be a burden.
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