Height differences between adults and children affect perception and emotional interactions. When a taller adult approaches a child angrily, the child perceives this as a threat, triggering a survival response rather than feelings of guilt or defiance. Experts recommend that parents reduce this intimidation by physically lowering themselves to a child's eye level. This behavior encourages co-regulation, allowing children to engage more collaboratively in resolving problems and making better choices without feeling threatened.
"Right now, when I look down at you, you're about the size your kid is when you walk up on them. Now imagine if I walk up on you angrily. Your brain isn't going to think 'Am I in trouble?' it's going to think 'Am I safe?'"
"So instead, get down on their level. Hold a boundary with them without becoming a threat. Co-regulate with them. Invite them to solve the problem with you, then practice the better choice together."
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