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This Christmas I'll be grieving. Here's how I'll be finding joy.

Loss transforms the holiday experience into one of isolation and sorrow, rather than enjoyment.

I'd always enjoyed alcohol but my mother's sudden, violent death made me a heavy drinker overnight'

Grief and sudden loss can lead to destructive coping mechanisms, such as alcohol abuse, affecting family dynamics significantly.

My Mom Said One Word On Her Deathbed That Made Me Look At My Life In A Way I Never Had Before

The narrator reflects on family, friendship, and the inevitability of loss during their mother's final moments.

I became an optimist the night my wife died': a science writer on loss and letting go of rationalism

Different people respond to terminal illness with varied beliefs about hope and reality, as seen in the author's experience with his wife's cancer diagnosis.

My Son Is Gone. Our Conversation Goes On.

The author maintains a journal conversation with her deceased son, reflecting on his aspirations and their bond.

My Father And My Mother Died Within Months Of Each Other. Then I Found Out I Had Cancer.

The author experienced profound grief after losing both father and mother in quick succession, feeling deeply connected yet isolated in their pain.

This Christmas I'll be grieving. Here's how I'll be finding joy.

Loss transforms the holiday experience into one of isolation and sorrow, rather than enjoyment.

I'd always enjoyed alcohol but my mother's sudden, violent death made me a heavy drinker overnight'

Grief and sudden loss can lead to destructive coping mechanisms, such as alcohol abuse, affecting family dynamics significantly.

My Mom Said One Word On Her Deathbed That Made Me Look At My Life In A Way I Never Had Before

The narrator reflects on family, friendship, and the inevitability of loss during their mother's final moments.

I became an optimist the night my wife died': a science writer on loss and letting go of rationalism

Different people respond to terminal illness with varied beliefs about hope and reality, as seen in the author's experience with his wife's cancer diagnosis.

My Son Is Gone. Our Conversation Goes On.

The author maintains a journal conversation with her deceased son, reflecting on his aspirations and their bond.

My Father And My Mother Died Within Months Of Each Other. Then I Found Out I Had Cancer.

The author experienced profound grief after losing both father and mother in quick succession, feeling deeply connected yet isolated in their pain.
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Man's family plead 'ease our pain' a year on from Haringey murder

Jonah Ho-Shue's family continues to seek information about his unsolved murder one year later.
#tragedy

As Life Roars Back on Bourbon Street, Locals Question City's Priorities

New Orleans' nightlife is impacted by recent tragedy, blending levity with mourning amidst the vibrant celebrations.

South Korea's Muan turns into mass funeral site after deadly plane crash

The atmosphere at Muan International Airport is somber, as families grieve the loss of loved ones from a tragic plane crash.

'Part of me still doesn't want to be here': Nurse who lost husband and kids in drowning tragedy on battle to keep going

Geraldine Mullan's story is a testament to resilience after losing her entire family in a tragic incident.

Harlan Coben says quite a bit of tragedy' in his 20s made him a better writer

Tragedy in Coben's youth improved his writing ability.

As Life Roars Back on Bourbon Street, Locals Question City's Priorities

New Orleans' nightlife is impacted by recent tragedy, blending levity with mourning amidst the vibrant celebrations.

South Korea's Muan turns into mass funeral site after deadly plane crash

The atmosphere at Muan International Airport is somber, as families grieve the loss of loved ones from a tragic plane crash.

'Part of me still doesn't want to be here': Nurse who lost husband and kids in drowning tragedy on battle to keep going

Geraldine Mullan's story is a testament to resilience after losing her entire family in a tragic incident.

Harlan Coben says quite a bit of tragedy' in his 20s made him a better writer

Tragedy in Coben's youth improved his writing ability.
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Nicole Kidman bursts into tears during public tribute to her late mom: 'I'm still grieving'

Nicole Kidman paid tribute to her late mother at the 2025 Palm Springs International Film Festival, reflecting on her family's influence on her career.
#friendship

Bridget Everett on 'Somebody Somewhere' series finale and not giving up on yourself

The show Somebody Somewhere explores themes of friendship, grief, and self-identity through the lens of a woman's journey back to her roots.

Harriette Cole: My friend died, and only then did I learn he wasn't my friend

Focus on positive memories to cope with grief and let go of past resentments.

'We lost our friend to cancer - then found healing in the same unexpected way'

Cold water swimming served as a healing method for Saskia and Madison after losing a close friend to cancer.

American Realism

The gathering aimed to recreate beauty amid sadness as Galina faces her husband's terminal illness.

Harriette Cole: I need to say no to my friend, but I feel bad about it

Setting boundaries is crucial in relationships where one person constantly borrows without returning.
Coping with grief from losing a parent can be overwhelming and requires seeking external support.

Harriette Cole: How can I keep them from posting about our friend's death?

Gather friends' emergency contact information to avoid future distress
Communicate delicately about death to respect family privacy
Request discretion when sharing news of a death

Bridget Everett on 'Somebody Somewhere' series finale and not giving up on yourself

The show Somebody Somewhere explores themes of friendship, grief, and self-identity through the lens of a woman's journey back to her roots.

Harriette Cole: My friend died, and only then did I learn he wasn't my friend

Focus on positive memories to cope with grief and let go of past resentments.

'We lost our friend to cancer - then found healing in the same unexpected way'

Cold water swimming served as a healing method for Saskia and Madison after losing a close friend to cancer.

American Realism

The gathering aimed to recreate beauty amid sadness as Galina faces her husband's terminal illness.

Harriette Cole: I need to say no to my friend, but I feel bad about it

Setting boundaries is crucial in relationships where one person constantly borrows without returning.
Coping with grief from losing a parent can be overwhelming and requires seeking external support.

Harriette Cole: How can I keep them from posting about our friend's death?

Gather friends' emergency contact information to avoid future distress
Communicate delicately about death to respect family privacy
Request discretion when sharing news of a death
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#endangered-species

This orca's grief stunned the world. Now she's mourning the loss of another calf.

Orca mother Tahlequah experienced profound grief once again after losing her newborn calf, mirroring her previous mourning in 2018.

An orca that carried her dead calf for weeks in 2018 is doing so once again

Endangered orca Tahlequah (J35) is grieving for her deceased calf, demonstrating profound emotional responses similar to other intelligent species.

This orca's grief stunned the world. Now she's mourning the loss of another calf.

Orca mother Tahlequah experienced profound grief once again after losing her newborn calf, mirroring her previous mourning in 2018.

An orca that carried her dead calf for weeks in 2018 is doing so once again

Endangered orca Tahlequah (J35) is grieving for her deceased calf, demonstrating profound emotional responses similar to other intelligent species.
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#mental-health

Mother channels grief over son's suicide into mission of mental health awareness

Donna Thomas founded James' Warriors to combat suicide stigma and promote mental health after her son James died by suicide.

Through 'The Loss Mother's Stone,' mothers share their grief from losing a child to stillbirth

Photography can serve as a therapeutic outlet for processing grief and experiences related to birth trauma.

The Soul Knows When It's Time to Go

Suicidal individuals often believe that change is impossible and see only one way out.

I thought I didn't want kids. My father's sudden death changed my mind.

The death of my father sparked a change in my perspective about having children.

Opinion | I Wrote a Memoir About Grief. That Was the Beginning.

The response to my memoir on loss revealed a deep societal need to share experiences of grief and suicide.

Do Your Overwhelming Emotions Cause You to Panic?

People may face intense emotions leading to panic attacks, necessitating effective coping strategies.
Addressing underlying emotional issues is crucial for those who frequently experience panic.

Mother channels grief over son's suicide into mission of mental health awareness

Donna Thomas founded James' Warriors to combat suicide stigma and promote mental health after her son James died by suicide.

Through 'The Loss Mother's Stone,' mothers share their grief from losing a child to stillbirth

Photography can serve as a therapeutic outlet for processing grief and experiences related to birth trauma.

The Soul Knows When It's Time to Go

Suicidal individuals often believe that change is impossible and see only one way out.

I thought I didn't want kids. My father's sudden death changed my mind.

The death of my father sparked a change in my perspective about having children.

Opinion | I Wrote a Memoir About Grief. That Was the Beginning.

The response to my memoir on loss revealed a deep societal need to share experiences of grief and suicide.

Do Your Overwhelming Emotions Cause You to Panic?

People may face intense emotions leading to panic attacks, necessitating effective coping strategies.
Addressing underlying emotional issues is crucial for those who frequently experience panic.
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#family

Grieving the Gaza granddad who wept for the soul of his soul'

Khaled Nabhan's legacy embodies profound grief and resilience, symbolizing the human suffering caused by ongoing violence in Gaza.

My parents kept my adoption a secret. At 47, I discovered a whole new family

The author navigates complex family dynamics and grief, ultimately seeking connections beyond what he previously knew about his family.

Dear Abby: My wife gives flimsy reasons for barring my brothers from our home

The article discusses the struggles of balancing family relationships and a partner's boundaries in a long-term, same-sex marriage.

Karissa Chen mines love, hardship and loss in the shadow of the Chinese Civil War and beyond

The novel "Homeseeking" explores themes of separation, love, and the quest for home across decades and geographic locations.

For years, a Sandy Hook dad blamed himself for conspiracy theories. How it all changed

The importance of forming connections with other grieving families can lead to healing and understanding in the aftermath of trauma.

Brian Thompson, the UnitedHealthcare CEO fatally shot in NYC, remembered as 'good father'

Brian Thompson, UnitedHealthcare CEO, was remembered as a loving family man and dedicated professional, tragically killed in a targeted shooting.

Grieving the Gaza granddad who wept for the soul of his soul'

Khaled Nabhan's legacy embodies profound grief and resilience, symbolizing the human suffering caused by ongoing violence in Gaza.

My parents kept my adoption a secret. At 47, I discovered a whole new family

The author navigates complex family dynamics and grief, ultimately seeking connections beyond what he previously knew about his family.

Dear Abby: My wife gives flimsy reasons for barring my brothers from our home

The article discusses the struggles of balancing family relationships and a partner's boundaries in a long-term, same-sex marriage.

Karissa Chen mines love, hardship and loss in the shadow of the Chinese Civil War and beyond

The novel "Homeseeking" explores themes of separation, love, and the quest for home across decades and geographic locations.

For years, a Sandy Hook dad blamed himself for conspiracy theories. How it all changed

The importance of forming connections with other grieving families can lead to healing and understanding in the aftermath of trauma.

Brian Thompson, the UnitedHealthcare CEO fatally shot in NYC, remembered as 'good father'

Brian Thompson, UnitedHealthcare CEO, was remembered as a loving family man and dedicated professional, tragically killed in a targeted shooting.
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Water by John Boyne audiobook review confronting grief and betrayal

The novella "Water" by John Boyne explores themes of grief, betrayal, and the quest for self-identity through the character Willow's difficult past.

He Didn't Know His Father Was on Doomed South Korean Flight Until It Crashed

The tragic crash of Jeju Air Flight 7C2216 killed 179 people, including families and couples, causing immense grief at Muan County airport.
#character-development

No Good Deed Recap: Fathers & Sons & Uncles & Nephews

The episode explores the complexities of family dynamics following grief, showcasing Paul's struggle with unresolved anger and the impact on his relationships.

'Landman' Star Paulina Chavez Says Ariana's & Cooper's "Connection Is So Pure": "He Shows Her What True Love Might Really Be"

Ariana is a complex character representing resilience and vulnerability in the face of grief.

Shrinking Recap: Jonesing for a Fix

Jimmy's healing obsession distracts from his grief, leading to emotional turmoil as seen in 'The Drugs Don't Work.'
Alice evolves by confronting Louis but struggles with her father's inability to forgive.

No Good Deed Recap: Fathers & Sons & Uncles & Nephews

The episode explores the complexities of family dynamics following grief, showcasing Paul's struggle with unresolved anger and the impact on his relationships.

'Landman' Star Paulina Chavez Says Ariana's & Cooper's "Connection Is So Pure": "He Shows Her What True Love Might Really Be"

Ariana is a complex character representing resilience and vulnerability in the face of grief.

Shrinking Recap: Jonesing for a Fix

Jimmy's healing obsession distracts from his grief, leading to emotional turmoil as seen in 'The Drugs Don't Work.'
Alice evolves by confronting Louis but struggles with her father's inability to forgive.
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Family of OpenAI whistleblower Suchir Balaji demand FBI investigate death

Poornima Ramarao doubts the suicide ruling of her son Suchir Balaji's death and demands a thorough investigation amid concerns about circumstantial issues.

The Best Video Game Character of the Year Helped Me Face My Own Anxiety

Dragon Age: The Veilguard resonates personally for players, especially through its character Emmrich Volkarin, echoing themes of anxiety and grief.
#personal-growth

A moment that changed me: A year after losing my parents, I spent Christmas Day cycling around London alone

Embracing solitude on Christmas can lead to unexpected joy and new connections, redefining personal experiences of the holiday.

After my mom died, I thought I'd never enjoy the holidays again. It took me years to find joy in my grief.

Grieving can coexist with joy; new traditions help in rediscovering love for the holidays after loss.

No Good Deed Recap: Cracking the Case

The characters in No Good Deed face personal turmoil, confronting grief and relationships as they try to move forward in a crumbling emotional landscape.

Brendan Courtney: 'They say there's three things you have to manage and get over - death, divorce and disease. I've had a divorce, and the matriarch in the family is very sick.'

Brendan Courtney navigates significant life changes, including grief from losing his mother and anticipation of a new living space.

Maia Dunphy: 'Picking tomatoes in Australia was my worst ever job. We started at 4.45am to get in an eight-hour shift before the sun became hot enough to kill you'

Maia Dunphy discusses personal loss, self-expression through fashion, and shares her effective hangover cure.

Chaz Ebert on Loss, Intuition and Her 'Cougar' Group Chat

Chaz Ebert discusses evolving perspectives on grief, intuition, and connection ten years after the death of her husband, Roger Ebert.

A moment that changed me: A year after losing my parents, I spent Christmas Day cycling around London alone

Embracing solitude on Christmas can lead to unexpected joy and new connections, redefining personal experiences of the holiday.

After my mom died, I thought I'd never enjoy the holidays again. It took me years to find joy in my grief.

Grieving can coexist with joy; new traditions help in rediscovering love for the holidays after loss.

No Good Deed Recap: Cracking the Case

The characters in No Good Deed face personal turmoil, confronting grief and relationships as they try to move forward in a crumbling emotional landscape.

Brendan Courtney: 'They say there's three things you have to manage and get over - death, divorce and disease. I've had a divorce, and the matriarch in the family is very sick.'

Brendan Courtney navigates significant life changes, including grief from losing his mother and anticipation of a new living space.

Maia Dunphy: 'Picking tomatoes in Australia was my worst ever job. We started at 4.45am to get in an eight-hour shift before the sun became hot enough to kill you'

Maia Dunphy discusses personal loss, self-expression through fashion, and shares her effective hangover cure.

Chaz Ebert on Loss, Intuition and Her 'Cougar' Group Chat

Chaz Ebert discusses evolving perspectives on grief, intuition, and connection ten years after the death of her husband, Roger Ebert.
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Families search for pieces of memorial benches destroyed from Santa Cruz Wharf collapse

A mother mourns her son after a memorial bench was destroyed in a wharf collapse, seeking a piece of it that may still be lost at sea.

Grieving my estranged mother while she was still alive taught me how to get through the holidays

Estrangement from loved ones can intensify feelings of grief during the holidays, prompting a journey towards emotional healing.

Asking Eric: Our marriage almost came apart after I got hit by a car

Empathy is crucial for overcoming personal and relational trauma.

RHOP Star Karen Huger Found Guilty on DUI Charges

Karen Huger was found guilty on multiple charges related to her DUI, raising concerns about accountability and the intersection of personal grief and public conduct.

As her son's killers are jailed for murder, mother describes how he died in her arms

Grief and loss profoundly affect families, as exemplified in a mother's devastating experience following her son's murder in Bristol.

Chaz Ebert on the Slate Podcast "Death, Sex & Money" | Chaz's Journal | Roger Ebert

Chaz Ebert reflects on her evolving understanding of grief and loss over the past ten years, embracing her intuitive experiences.

Ben Kweller announces first album since son's death, unveils new song "Optimystic"

Ben Kweller's new album 'Cover the Mirrors' reflects his emotional journey after the loss of his son, emphasizing personal grief and healing through music.
#family-dynamics

Cleaning Out Your Parents' House? Get Ready to Ride the Roller Coaster.

Sorting through parents' possessions involves unique emotional stages, extending beyond traditional grief, necessitating an updated framework.
The experience is laden with sentimentality, calculation, avoidance, and ultimately closure.

Asking Eric: They say they like my girlfriend but not my songs about her

Joy in songwriting may need to be shared with a different audience during times of family transition.

Cleaning Out Your Parents' House? Get Ready to Ride the Roller Coaster.

Sorting through parents' possessions involves unique emotional stages, extending beyond traditional grief, necessitating an updated framework.
The experience is laden with sentimentality, calculation, avoidance, and ultimately closure.

Asking Eric: They say they like my girlfriend but not my songs about her

Joy in songwriting may need to be shared with a different audience during times of family transition.
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How Two Sandy Hook Parents Learned to Live

Robbie Parker emphasizes the importance of focusing on others amid personal tragedy, reflecting profound emotional pain while coping with loss.

Jennifer Love Hewitt Made a Christmas Movie to Help Process Her Grief

Jennifer Love Hewitt finally stars in a Lifetime Christmas movie influenced by her own experiences with grief and the loss of her mother.

Opinion | UnitedHealth Group C.E.O.: Brian Thompson Was Never Content With the Status Quo

Brian Thompson's legacy is one of kindness and dedication to improving health care for all, amidst a tragedy that highlights broader systemic issues.
#resilience

Are we your perfect victims now?

The article reflects on the complexities of grieving a stranger with profound significance, particularly in the context of conflict and humanity.

A dead-end staircase leads to higher ed's purpose (opinion)

The author transformed a neglected space into a personal sanctuary for grief; demonstrating the power of community support during profound personal loss.

Side Hustle: She Made Over $300k in a Year Wrapping Gifts | Entrepreneur

Michelle Hensley's journey from grief to entrepreneurship showcases resilience and the importance of seeking help after loss.

Are we your perfect victims now?

The article reflects on the complexities of grieving a stranger with profound significance, particularly in the context of conflict and humanity.

A dead-end staircase leads to higher ed's purpose (opinion)

The author transformed a neglected space into a personal sanctuary for grief; demonstrating the power of community support during profound personal loss.

Side Hustle: She Made Over $300k in a Year Wrapping Gifts | Entrepreneur

Michelle Hensley's journey from grief to entrepreneurship showcases resilience and the importance of seeking help after loss.
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#comedy

Rachel Bloom

Rachel Bloom's new special, 'Death, Let Me Do My Special,' explores grief through humor and music following the loss of her songwriting partner Adam Schlesinger.

Netflix's "No Good Deed" Is a Fantastic Black Comedy About the Woes of Homebuying | TV/Streaming | Roger Ebert

The series blends comedy with deep emotional themes of grief, secrets, and the challenge of letting go of a traumatic past.

Rachel Bloom

Rachel Bloom's new special, 'Death, Let Me Do My Special,' explores grief through humor and music following the loss of her songwriting partner Adam Schlesinger.

Netflix's "No Good Deed" Is a Fantastic Black Comedy About the Woes of Homebuying | TV/Streaming | Roger Ebert

The series blends comedy with deep emotional themes of grief, secrets, and the challenge of letting go of a traumatic past.
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I'm responsible for my whole family's holiday magic. It's exhausting.

Life changes drastically after a parent's death, leading to overwhelming responsibilities and mental exhaustion.
#literature

The 10 Best Nonfiction Books of 2024

The best nonfiction books of 2024 explore themes of grief and survival through personal narratives that connect universally.

Karina Sainz Borgo discusses her new book 'No Place to Bury the Dead'

The novel "No Place to Bury the Dead" explores themes of grief and responsibility through a mother's journey after losing her twins.

The 10 Best Nonfiction Books of 2024

The best nonfiction books of 2024 explore themes of grief and survival through personal narratives that connect universally.

Karina Sainz Borgo discusses her new book 'No Place to Bury the Dead'

The novel "No Place to Bury the Dead" explores themes of grief and responsibility through a mother's journey after losing her twins.
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NFL player requests help to pursue surrogacy after stillbirth of baby boy

Hakeem and Kayla Adeniji are pursuing surrogacy after the stillbirth of their son, seeking support from their community during this difficult time.
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A "Blank Canvas" in Queens Turned into a Warm Home Filled With Books and Art

Troy Saenz transformed his New York apartment into a creative outlet while grieving his father's passing, reflecting shared interests through art and personal items.

NYPD widow Stephanie Diller receives 'Stephen Siller Back the Blue' honor at Fox Nation's Patriot Awards

Widow of slain NYPD Detective Jonathan Diller honored with an award, focusing on resilience and legacy after her husband's tragic death.
from Psychology Today
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How Some Choose to Move Forward When Their Partner Lies or Cheats

Uncovering undisclosed issues in relationships after losing a partner can lead to profound emotional turmoil and require support to heal.

Opinion | Orli's Gift, in Her Life and Death

The article emphasizes the importance of candid conversations about mortality in pediatric care.
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