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My 8-Year-Old Was Suffering From Cancer. To Keep Her Alive, I Made An Unthinkable Choice.

The U.S. lacks guaranteed paid family leave, disproportionately affecting women and single parents in caregiving situations.
#loss

When our mom died, my brothers and I spent the $75,000 inheritance on a South African safari. The trip helped us grieve.

Using a $75,000 inheritance to honor their mother, her children prioritized self-care and bonding through travel after years of caregiving.

The pet I'll never forget: I lost my mum, career, livelihood and hope but Bertie the cat was determined to fix me

Bertie's story highlights the power of compassion, companionship, and the deep connections formed through shared challenges and care.

When our mom died, my brothers and I spent the $75,000 inheritance on a South African safari. The trip helped us grieve.

Using a $75,000 inheritance to honor their mother, her children prioritized self-care and bonding through travel after years of caregiving.

The pet I'll never forget: I lost my mum, career, livelihood and hope but Bertie the cat was determined to fix me

Bertie's story highlights the power of compassion, companionship, and the deep connections formed through shared challenges and care.
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Feeling Overwhelmed? It's a Midlife Thing

Midlife women are often burdened by multiple roles and invisible labor, supporting families and communities while their contributions go unnoticed.
#disability

'These women are prisoners' - how means test keeps carers of children or disabled relatives trapped in abusive relationships

Women caring for disabled relatives often face poverty and abuse, lacking support systems like Carer's Allowance.

We want to take the sting out of shame': Kyla Harris and Lee Getty on narratives, nudity and normalising disabled bodies

The sitcom "We Might Regret This" confronts disability taboos by emphasizing bodily functions and the emotional dynamics between disabled and non-disabled characters.

'These women are prisoners' - how means test keeps carers of children or disabled relatives trapped in abusive relationships

Women caring for disabled relatives often face poverty and abuse, lacking support systems like Carer's Allowance.

We want to take the sting out of shame': Kyla Harris and Lee Getty on narratives, nudity and normalising disabled bodies

The sitcom "We Might Regret This" confronts disability taboos by emphasizing bodily functions and the emotional dynamics between disabled and non-disabled characters.
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A New Study Has Found That 'Eldest Daughter Syndrome' Is A Real Thing, So Call Your Sister And Let Her Know

Adrenal puberty in girls leads to mental readiness for caregiving, but not physical maturity for childbearing.
#mental-health

Parenting stress is a health issue US surgeon general's advisory report

Parents report higher stress levels than non-parents, impacting their wellbeing and their children's development.

Parental stress is an urgent public health issue, U.S. surgeon general says in new advisory

Parental stress negatively impacts children's mental health, necessitating a shift in societal attitudes toward parenting and caregiving.

Navigating the Struggles and Joys of Caring for Aging Loved Ones

The article highlights the increasing burden of caregiving and the feeling of isolation many caregivers experience in the U.S.

Suzanne Crowe: Being a carer upends your life, yet many in this situation - most of them women - don't get paid for the work they do

Caring for a loved one involves extensive responsibilities that greatly impact the caregiver's family life and emotional well-being.

Opinion | Easing the Stress Parents Face

The well-being of parents is crucial, highlighting the need for systemic support to address caregiving stress.
Urgent policy changes are necessary to alleviate the overwhelming stress faced by modern families.

Are you a caregiver for an adult? How has it changed you?

Caregiving profoundly impacts personal identity and growth in caregivers.

Parenting stress is a health issue US surgeon general's advisory report

Parents report higher stress levels than non-parents, impacting their wellbeing and their children's development.

Parental stress is an urgent public health issue, U.S. surgeon general says in new advisory

Parental stress negatively impacts children's mental health, necessitating a shift in societal attitudes toward parenting and caregiving.

Navigating the Struggles and Joys of Caring for Aging Loved Ones

The article highlights the increasing burden of caregiving and the feeling of isolation many caregivers experience in the U.S.

Suzanne Crowe: Being a carer upends your life, yet many in this situation - most of them women - don't get paid for the work they do

Caring for a loved one involves extensive responsibilities that greatly impact the caregiver's family life and emotional well-being.

Opinion | Easing the Stress Parents Face

The well-being of parents is crucial, highlighting the need for systemic support to address caregiving stress.
Urgent policy changes are necessary to alleviate the overwhelming stress faced by modern families.

Are you a caregiver for an adult? How has it changed you?

Caregiving profoundly impacts personal identity and growth in caregivers.
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#marriage

Dear Abby: She went on our date without me and says I need to get over it

Communication and boundaries are essential in balancing family responsibilities and personal relationships.
Strain from caregiving can impact marriages, necessitating intentional time together for couples.

I was thrown from a horse and broke multiple bones. My husband was my caretaker while I recovered and it strengthened our relationship.

The author's serious injury led to unexpected growth and strengthening of their relationship as her husband became the primary caretaker during recovery.

Dear Abby: She went on our date without me and says I need to get over it

Communication and boundaries are essential in balancing family responsibilities and personal relationships.
Strain from caregiving can impact marriages, necessitating intentional time together for couples.

I was thrown from a horse and broke multiple bones. My husband was my caretaker while I recovered and it strengthened our relationship.

The author's serious injury led to unexpected growth and strengthening of their relationship as her husband became the primary caretaker during recovery.
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#healthcare

CareYaya is enabling affordable home care by connecting healthcare students with elders | TechCrunch

CareYaya is disrupting the caregiving industry by matching families with healthcare students for affordable, in-home support.

'My son spends a lot of time in ICU, my carer's allowance isn't enough' - single mum in plea for more support in Budget

Carers save the State money but face financial difficulties due to insufficient allowances.

Sage Raises $35M to Modernize Senior Living Operations

The senior living industry struggles with a caregiver shortage, leading to innovations like Sage's cloud-based management system to improve care efficiency.

CareYaya is enabling affordable home care by connecting healthcare students with elders | TechCrunch

CareYaya is disrupting the caregiving industry by matching families with healthcare students for affordable, in-home support.

'My son spends a lot of time in ICU, my carer's allowance isn't enough' - single mum in plea for more support in Budget

Carers save the State money but face financial difficulties due to insufficient allowances.

Sage Raises $35M to Modernize Senior Living Operations

The senior living industry struggles with a caregiver shortage, leading to innovations like Sage's cloud-based management system to improve care efficiency.
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#motherhood

Hialeah teen has cerebral palsy and scoliosis. Expensive therapy is his best hope

Yordanka Fernandez's determination as a caregiver for her son Nicholas, who was born prematurely and later faced challenges from autism, is inspiring.

I Like Being a Mom. Here's Why I Don't Usually Admit It.

The challenges of voicing positive feelings about motherhood amid societal expectations and personal fears.

Hialeah teen has cerebral palsy and scoliosis. Expensive therapy is his best hope

Yordanka Fernandez's determination as a caregiver for her son Nicholas, who was born prematurely and later faced challenges from autism, is inspiring.

I Like Being a Mom. Here's Why I Don't Usually Admit It.

The challenges of voicing positive feelings about motherhood amid societal expectations and personal fears.
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#family-dynamics

Modern Love Podcast': Thanksgiving With My Wife and Girlfriend

Navigating caregiving and new love after a spouse's Alzheimer's diagnosis requires emotional complexity and resilience.

Balancing Caregiving and Your Own Mental Well-Being

As family sizes shrink, caregivers face increased challenges in providing support to aging loved ones, necessitating community resources.

Nell Freudenberger on Reckoning with a Family Dynamic

The story 'Attila' was inspired by a specific sentence about caregiving and dementia, with the rabbit playing a crucial yet secondary role.

Home Economics: Our father kept his new 'lady friend' from us. What if they marry? The family home is all we have

Maintaining social connections is crucial for the well-being of elderly individuals.

When I was 14, I helped my parents take care of foster kids. Now, I'm child-free by choice.

Childhood responsibilities can significantly shape experiences and development, particularly in caregiving.

Dear Abby: The fallout from the affair is destroying my sister

Forgiveness can be a complex process, and while some family members may forgive, others may struggle to do so, as seen in the case of the daughter.

Modern Love Podcast': Thanksgiving With My Wife and Girlfriend

Navigating caregiving and new love after a spouse's Alzheimer's diagnosis requires emotional complexity and resilience.

Balancing Caregiving and Your Own Mental Well-Being

As family sizes shrink, caregivers face increased challenges in providing support to aging loved ones, necessitating community resources.

Nell Freudenberger on Reckoning with a Family Dynamic

The story 'Attila' was inspired by a specific sentence about caregiving and dementia, with the rabbit playing a crucial yet secondary role.

Home Economics: Our father kept his new 'lady friend' from us. What if they marry? The family home is all we have

Maintaining social connections is crucial for the well-being of elderly individuals.

When I was 14, I helped my parents take care of foster kids. Now, I'm child-free by choice.

Childhood responsibilities can significantly shape experiences and development, particularly in caregiving.

Dear Abby: The fallout from the affair is destroying my sister

Forgiveness can be a complex process, and while some family members may forgive, others may struggle to do so, as seen in the case of the daughter.
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School stood by as bullies drove a 12-year-old to attempt suicide, lawsuit alleges

Bullying can lead to severe mental health consequences, including suicide attempts and lasting damage.
There is a growing crisis of youth mental health, particularly among children of color.
Societal desensitization towards bullying requires urgent accountability and action.
#financial-strain

Gen Xers are stumbling in saving for retirement as they face caring for both kids and parents

Caring for both children and parents significantly impacts Gen X's retirement savings.

Stankovich: Bay Area family caregivers face financial hurdles - San Jose Spotlight

Family caregivers are essential yet undervalued, struggling under financial and emotional burdens, especially in high-cost living areas like the Bay Area.

Gen Xers are stumbling in saving for retirement as they face caring for both kids and parents

Caring for both children and parents significantly impacts Gen X's retirement savings.

Stankovich: Bay Area family caregivers face financial hurdles - San Jose Spotlight

Family caregivers are essential yet undervalued, struggling under financial and emotional burdens, especially in high-cost living areas like the Bay Area.
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#parenting

I left a 6-figure career to raise my kids with special needs. I miss having a job, but my life is better now.

Prioritizing caregiving over career brought fulfillment despite challenges.

The Care Dilemma by David Goodhart review a flawed study of family life

David Goodhart's exploration of care in his new book reveals the complexities of family life and societal changes impacting parenthood.

A Doctor Offers The Best Advice To Prevent "Default Parenting" From Developing

Effective communication is critical for parents to share responsibilities.
Avoiding default parenting roles requires conscious effort and teamwork.

The Lemon Pasta That Made Me Feel Cared for as a New Mom

Birth and death are transitional processes both messy and expensive, supporting those going through it is invaluable.
Friends with children provided care for the parent, while friends without children cared for the baby.

I left a 6-figure career to raise my kids with special needs. I miss having a job, but my life is better now.

Prioritizing caregiving over career brought fulfillment despite challenges.

The Care Dilemma by David Goodhart review a flawed study of family life

David Goodhart's exploration of care in his new book reveals the complexities of family life and societal changes impacting parenthood.

A Doctor Offers The Best Advice To Prevent "Default Parenting" From Developing

Effective communication is critical for parents to share responsibilities.
Avoiding default parenting roles requires conscious effort and teamwork.

The Lemon Pasta That Made Me Feel Cared for as a New Mom

Birth and death are transitional processes both messy and expensive, supporting those going through it is invaluable.
Friends with children provided care for the parent, while friends without children cared for the baby.
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#pet-sitting

How to find a UK pet-sitter you can trust

Finding a reliable pet-sitter is essential for pet owners without nearby family or friends.

9 Computer-Less Work From Home Jobs for the Technically Challenged

Working from home doesn't have to involve screen time; there are many non-digital side gigs available.
Pet sitting, dog walking, and caregiving are viable work-from-home options.
These jobs can provide flexibility and personal satisfaction.

How to find a UK pet-sitter you can trust

Finding a reliable pet-sitter is essential for pet owners without nearby family or friends.

9 Computer-Less Work From Home Jobs for the Technically Challenged

Working from home doesn't have to involve screen time; there are many non-digital side gigs available.
Pet sitting, dog walking, and caregiving are viable work-from-home options.
These jobs can provide flexibility and personal satisfaction.
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Your Employees Are Also Caregivers. Here's How to Support Them.

Recognizing and supporting employee caregiving responsibilities is essential for enhancing workplace culture and productivity.

Why Women Get Less Exercise Time Than Men

Women often struggle to prioritize their own health and exercise due to caregiving responsibilities.
#friendship

"Heavy Snow," by Han Kang

Inseon's urgent message to me signifies an important matter regarding her life amidst the distance that has grown in our friendship.

Growing up we had no family who could watch my sister and me during the day. Our 68-year-old neighbor became like a grandma to us.

A neighbor's support can provide essential caregiving and enriching experiences for children in the absence of nearby family.

"Heavy Snow," by Han Kang

Inseon's urgent message to me signifies an important matter regarding her life amidst the distance that has grown in our friendship.

Growing up we had no family who could watch my sister and me during the day. Our 68-year-old neighbor became like a grandma to us.

A neighbor's support can provide essential caregiving and enriching experiences for children in the absence of nearby family.
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Joy and sorrow of caregiving at the heart of two new stage productions

The Art of Care celebrates human empathy and connection during crises, emphasizing care over trauma.

How Health Care Can Be Made More Equitable

The U.S. healthcare system must focus on equitable access, especially in caregiving and postpartum support.

Juxtapoz Magazine - Esther Pearl Watson: Generating Auras

Esther Pearl Watson's art reflects personal experiences and familial bonds, portraying her father's transformation through caregiving and inspiration drawn from comets.
#dementia

This Is The One Dementia Symptom We Don't Talk About Enough

Sundowning is a condition in dementia where confusion peaks during late afternoon and evening, causing distress to individuals.

Beverly Glenn-Copeland Says He's Been Diagnosed With Dementia

Beverly Glenn-Copeland announces dementia diagnosis, marking final tour with wife Elizabeth, while challenging negative perceptions of the illness.

Dear Abby: I'm coming into secret money. I might use it to leave my wife.

Emotional abuse is intolerable, leading to considerations of independence and leaving harmful situations.

My Mother Has Alzheimer's Disease. This Is How I Explained It To My Kids.

Ty Lewis found support lacking when her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and has since become an advocate for caregivers.
Lewis has created a community on her mother's Instagram page and has completed specialized training to help others with Alzheimer's and dementia.

Hope amid the hell of being a dementia carer | Letters

Caring for someone with dementia can be a challenging and isolating experience
The UK care sector is underresourced and incapable of providing adequate support

This Is The One Dementia Symptom We Don't Talk About Enough

Sundowning is a condition in dementia where confusion peaks during late afternoon and evening, causing distress to individuals.

Beverly Glenn-Copeland Says He's Been Diagnosed With Dementia

Beverly Glenn-Copeland announces dementia diagnosis, marking final tour with wife Elizabeth, while challenging negative perceptions of the illness.

Dear Abby: I'm coming into secret money. I might use it to leave my wife.

Emotional abuse is intolerable, leading to considerations of independence and leaving harmful situations.

My Mother Has Alzheimer's Disease. This Is How I Explained It To My Kids.

Ty Lewis found support lacking when her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and has since become an advocate for caregivers.
Lewis has created a community on her mother's Instagram page and has completed specialized training to help others with Alzheimer's and dementia.

Hope amid the hell of being a dementia carer | Letters

Caring for someone with dementia can be a challenging and isolating experience
The UK care sector is underresourced and incapable of providing adequate support
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Melinda French Gates: 'It's time to change the face of power in venture capital'

The venture capital industry needs to support women-led and Black women-led ventures to address systemic funding disparities and respond to caregiving needs.
#family-relationships

Choosing to Care: A Daughter's Journey With Alzheimer's

Irina chose to be her mother's primary caregiver, prioritizing their relationship over societal expectations of career advancement.

San Francisco Man Helps Mother Navigate New Life With Dementia - San Francisco Bay Times

Frank leverages technology and community support to care for his mother long-distance, emphasizing the importance of connection and understanding in caregiving.

Dear Abby: I was a stay-at-home mom, and now I take my ex's money. What's wrong with that?

Family relationships can be strained by financial issues and past grievances, causing emotional distress.

Choosing to Care: A Daughter's Journey With Alzheimer's

Irina chose to be her mother's primary caregiver, prioritizing their relationship over societal expectations of career advancement.

San Francisco Man Helps Mother Navigate New Life With Dementia - San Francisco Bay Times

Frank leverages technology and community support to care for his mother long-distance, emphasizing the importance of connection and understanding in caregiving.

Dear Abby: I was a stay-at-home mom, and now I take my ex's money. What's wrong with that?

Family relationships can be strained by financial issues and past grievances, causing emotional distress.
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#retirement

A boomer said he's struggling to survive on Social Security after retiring early to care full-time for his wife

Financial struggles intensify for retirees managing high medical expenses and taxes, impacting their savings despite having income from Social Security.

I'm in my 70s and don't babysit my grandchildren. I've already done my time raising kids.

Nirmala Sequeira values her independence in retirement and does not feel obligated to babysit her grandchildren, having already fulfilled her parenting duties.

Read an Excerpt from Stephen King's You Like It Darker'

Family support and dedication in caring for an elderly parent can be a significant responsibility and commitment.

A boomer said he's struggling to survive on Social Security after retiring early to care full-time for his wife

Financial struggles intensify for retirees managing high medical expenses and taxes, impacting their savings despite having income from Social Security.

I'm in my 70s and don't babysit my grandchildren. I've already done my time raising kids.

Nirmala Sequeira values her independence in retirement and does not feel obligated to babysit her grandchildren, having already fulfilled her parenting duties.

Read an Excerpt from Stephen King's You Like It Darker'

Family support and dedication in caring for an elderly parent can be a significant responsibility and commitment.
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Why are women who don't have children an easy target? | Letters

Criticism of childless women is often oversimplified and ignores the complexities of individual circumstances.
#financial-struggles

The cost of aging in place can be crushing'

Aging in place remains preferred for older Americans, yet the financial and emotional costs can be overwhelming.

A boomer who has had cancer and gets $2,200 a month in Social Security can't retire comfortably: 'It's a catch-22'

Older Americans with health issues often struggle financially despite Social Security, necessitating part-time work and conservative spending.

The cost of aging in place can be crushing'

Aging in place remains preferred for older Americans, yet the financial and emotional costs can be overwhelming.

A boomer who has had cancer and gets $2,200 a month in Social Security can't retire comfortably: 'It's a catch-22'

Older Americans with health issues often struggle financially despite Social Security, necessitating part-time work and conservative spending.
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Sometimes, Love Is Just What We Do

The author's experience of a broken back led to a deep realization of love and caregiving's importance through her husband's unwavering support.

Panda's Kitchen, London: It demands your full attention' restaurant review

Panda's Kitchen provides comfort food during challenging times, emphasizing the significance of meals beyond sustenance.

5 Books to Make Caregiving a Little More Manageable

Even those with medical expertise find caregiving challenging, illustrating the difficulties faced by non-professionals in America.

Samsung SmartThings Family Care wants to help caregivers

SmartThings Family Care provides caregivers with tools to manage the health and safety of loved ones using Samsung's connected technology.

Samsung's new Family Care service helps caregivers monitor loved ones

Samsung's Family Care leverages smart home tech to assist caregivers in monitoring their loved ones remotely.

14 People Who Ignored Their Doctors' Orders And Immediately Regretted It

Patients ignoring medical advice can lead to severe consequences like leakage of spinal fluid or falls at home.

How A Man's Brain Changes After Becoming A Dad

Parenthood leads to brain volume loss, potentially linked to caregiving engagement, sleep problems, and mental health symptoms.

12 Expert-Recommended Products To Help Someone With Dementia

Preventative practices can aid in slowing down dementia progression and possibly prevent onset.

Expert says women face unique retirement challenges: CNBC

Gender wage gap contributes to women's retirement challenges
Longer life span and caregiving responsibilities impact women's retirement prospects

New dressing robot can 'mimic' the actions of care-workers

Two-armed dressing robot mimics care-worker movements
Technology frees up care-workers for companionship and well-being checks

What we're reading: writers and readers on the books they enjoyed in February

Literary non-fiction explores big social questions.
Challenges in finding books on education, community, care, and inclusion.
#aging-population

100 hours of help, no pay for caregivers

People with dementia account for over 40% of unpaid caregivers' time
1 in 9 people over 65 has Alzheimer's disease

Shrinking Family Sizes May Change Our Experience with Aging

Extended families around the world are getting smaller as people live longer and have fewer children.
The declining availability of extended family support will increase the burden of caring for older people and children, especially in lower-income countries.

100 hours of help, no pay for caregivers

People with dementia account for over 40% of unpaid caregivers' time
1 in 9 people over 65 has Alzheimer's disease

Shrinking Family Sizes May Change Our Experience with Aging

Extended families around the world are getting smaller as people live longer and have fewer children.
The declining availability of extended family support will increase the burden of caring for older people and children, especially in lower-income countries.
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Helen Garner's Alienating Domesticity

Helen Garner's early writing was made possible by her experiments in caregiving and communal living
Garner's work explores the complexities and challenges of relationships and obligations in flux

The Man in Room 117

Andrey Shevelyov's mother is attempting to care for him after he stopped taking his medication for psychosis and experienced unpredictable and menacing outbursts.
The state is providing temporary housing for severely mentally ill individuals as a way to divert them from the criminal justice system.

Improved employment policies can encourage fathers to be more involved at home

Remote work during the pandemic has led to increased involvement of Canadian fathers in household work and childcare.
Access to policies like parental leave and remote work is limited, hindering their potential to promote gender equity in caregiving.

What she does for love: Caring for her son who is losing his ability to walk and talk

Kenia Cutie, a caregiver for her son with Sanfilippo syndrome, has been nominated for a Wish Book campaign to help her get a handicap-friendly van.
Cutie's main support system, Nayar Arzuaga, describes her struggles and exhaustion as a caregiver.

Women Revealed The Gruesome Mental Loads They Carry That Their Families Don't Have A Clue About

Women open up about the exhausting mental load they carry in their families, including caring for aging parents and dealing with mental illness.
The absence and lack of support from family members can greatly impact women's mental health and exacerbate anxiety disorders.
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