In a letter to Abby, a woman expresses concern about her husband's changed behavior since moving to Kentucky to assist his mother. After years of caring for her own parents, she feels her husband's mental state has worsened; he has become petty and manipulative. The woman struggles with the expectation to care for her husband's mother, whom she dislikes. Abby advises her to prioritize her own feelings, emphasizing that her husband should take responsibility for his mother, while also suggesting that she save money for a future move if necessary.
Your husband may have married you so he'd have someone to take care of his mother. You paid your dues for seven years with your own parents.
Keep salting your money away, and when you have enough to make a new start, decide then whether you want to move on.
He has become petty and vindictive. He's kind of a bully. He watches nothing but conspiracy theory videos on YouTube.
I need to rebuild my credit after the last few years and save money. It is really hard to move past these last few horrible years.
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