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Why Child Trauma Survivors Often Blame Themselves

Childhood trauma leads to self-blame in survivors, affecting their self-identity and relationships.
Unlearning shame and reframing experiences with compassion can aid recovery.

The Rollercoaster of Love: Growing Up With an Unstable Parent

Growing up with an unstable parent leads to emotional confusion, forcing children to censor their needs while healing requires acknowledging their experiences.

When Childhood Trauma Cannot Be Shared

Trauma must be expressed and shared with safe recipients to mitigate its long-term effects.
Secretiveness surrounding trauma rather than its nature influences its lasting impact.
Professional intervention may be necessary for effective healing from childhood trauma.

Healing Anxious Attachment Patterns to Create Space for Love - Tiny Buddha

Love conquers internal battles and childhood trauma to bring immense joy and healing.

4 Practical Techniques to Heal from Childhood Trauma - Tiny Buddha

Letting go of childhood trauma involves accepting, learning, and using experiences for growth and healing.

Why Child Trauma Survivors Often Blame Themselves

Childhood trauma leads to self-blame in survivors, affecting their self-identity and relationships.
Unlearning shame and reframing experiences with compassion can aid recovery.

The Rollercoaster of Love: Growing Up With an Unstable Parent

Growing up with an unstable parent leads to emotional confusion, forcing children to censor their needs while healing requires acknowledging their experiences.

When Childhood Trauma Cannot Be Shared

Trauma must be expressed and shared with safe recipients to mitigate its long-term effects.
Secretiveness surrounding trauma rather than its nature influences its lasting impact.
Professional intervention may be necessary for effective healing from childhood trauma.

Healing Anxious Attachment Patterns to Create Space for Love - Tiny Buddha

Love conquers internal battles and childhood trauma to bring immense joy and healing.

4 Practical Techniques to Heal from Childhood Trauma - Tiny Buddha

Letting go of childhood trauma involves accepting, learning, and using experiences for growth and healing.
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#relationships

We Learn to Hide Under a Mask Early in Life

Childhood experiences of masking emotions inhibit authentic relationships in adulthood, making connections feel harder and potentially isolating individuals.

How Triggered Immaturity Destroys Intimacy

Childhood trauma can influence adult relationship dynamics.
Couples often trigger each other's past traumas during conflicts.
Identifying triggers is essential for relationship health.

Stonewalling as a Form of Emotional Abuse

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that inflicts isolation and anxiety on victims.

Therapist Explains Why You're Worried About People Being Mad At You

Fear of disapproval often stems from childhood experiences where anger was equated with lack of love.

We Learn to Hide Under a Mask Early in Life

Childhood experiences of masking emotions inhibit authentic relationships in adulthood, making connections feel harder and potentially isolating individuals.

How Triggered Immaturity Destroys Intimacy

Childhood trauma can influence adult relationship dynamics.
Couples often trigger each other's past traumas during conflicts.
Identifying triggers is essential for relationship health.

Stonewalling as a Form of Emotional Abuse

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that inflicts isolation and anxiety on victims.

Therapist Explains Why You're Worried About People Being Mad At You

Fear of disapproval often stems from childhood experiences where anger was equated with lack of love.
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#family

'I've had my truth distorted, twisted' - Jason Corbett's daughter, Sarah, promises to tell 'my story' in memoir

A memoir revealing a daughter's quest for justice after her father's murder, reclaiming her narrative from distortion and demonstrating resilience and healing.

From clown to ethical role model: How Tom Hanks got the whole world to love him

Tom Hanks' childhood tragedies deeply influenced his personality and career, adding complexity to his public persona.

'I've had my truth distorted, twisted' - Jason Corbett's daughter, Sarah, promises to tell 'my story' in memoir

A memoir revealing a daughter's quest for justice after her father's murder, reclaiming her narrative from distortion and demonstrating resilience and healing.

From clown to ethical role model: How Tom Hanks got the whole world to love him

Tom Hanks' childhood tragedies deeply influenced his personality and career, adding complexity to his public persona.
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#mental-health

The making of an alleged school shooter: Missed warnings and years of neglect

The case of Colt Gray highlights the tragic consequences of neglect and inadequate support systems for troubled youth.

Doctors Told Her She Was Bipolar. That Ended Up Doing More Harm Than Good.

Overmedication in childhood treatment can lead to more behavioral issues rather than solutions.

Nadine Burke-Harris: A strong community can reverse childhood trauma'

Childhood trauma significantly impacts long-term health, and community support is essential for healing.

This is the No. 1 sign of childhood trauma in adults, according to a therapist

Childhood trauma significantly impacts adult relationships and mental health, often causing individuals to seek validation from difficult people.

How Having Kids Can Help You Recognize Your Childhood Trauma

Parents can better understand their childhood traumas by imagining their children going through similar experiences.

How to Identify the Subtle Traits of Toxic Relationships

Toxic individuals create stress and emotional pain, often stemming from underlying psychological issues and childhood trauma.

The making of an alleged school shooter: Missed warnings and years of neglect

The case of Colt Gray highlights the tragic consequences of neglect and inadequate support systems for troubled youth.

Doctors Told Her She Was Bipolar. That Ended Up Doing More Harm Than Good.

Overmedication in childhood treatment can lead to more behavioral issues rather than solutions.

Nadine Burke-Harris: A strong community can reverse childhood trauma'

Childhood trauma significantly impacts long-term health, and community support is essential for healing.

This is the No. 1 sign of childhood trauma in adults, according to a therapist

Childhood trauma significantly impacts adult relationships and mental health, often causing individuals to seek validation from difficult people.

How Having Kids Can Help You Recognize Your Childhood Trauma

Parents can better understand their childhood traumas by imagining their children going through similar experiences.

How to Identify the Subtle Traits of Toxic Relationships

Toxic individuals create stress and emotional pain, often stemming from underlying psychological issues and childhood trauma.
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#family-dynamics

Biden the Father vs. Biden the Institutionalist

Biden's presidency has been characterized by a tension between his roles as a father and a politician, culminating in his recent pardon of Hunter.

Navigating Family Life When You Have a History of Trauma

Parents with childhood trauma often struggle to regulate emotions, affecting their relationship with children.

"But I Don't Want to Blame My Parents!"

Processing childhood wounds is crucial for self-discovery and healing, despite the fear of blaming parents.

Ask Amy: Were we bad parents? Our daughters say we were.

Parents may not always be aware of their children's struggles even if they believe they provided a happy upbringing.

8 of the most surprising revelations from Martha Stewart's candid new Netflix documentary

Martha Stewart's childhood perfectionism was shaped by her father's guidance but marred by his abusive behavior and bigotry.

My Sister Wants to "Get Revenge" for Our Terrible Childhood. But I Don't Want Anyone to Know the Truth.

My sister struggles to recover from childhood trauma, while I have mostly moved on, creating a significant emotional gap between us.

Biden the Father vs. Biden the Institutionalist

Biden's presidency has been characterized by a tension between his roles as a father and a politician, culminating in his recent pardon of Hunter.

Navigating Family Life When You Have a History of Trauma

Parents with childhood trauma often struggle to regulate emotions, affecting their relationship with children.

"But I Don't Want to Blame My Parents!"

Processing childhood wounds is crucial for self-discovery and healing, despite the fear of blaming parents.

Ask Amy: Were we bad parents? Our daughters say we were.

Parents may not always be aware of their children's struggles even if they believe they provided a happy upbringing.

8 of the most surprising revelations from Martha Stewart's candid new Netflix documentary

Martha Stewart's childhood perfectionism was shaped by her father's guidance but marred by his abusive behavior and bigotry.

My Sister Wants to "Get Revenge" for Our Terrible Childhood. But I Don't Want Anyone to Know the Truth.

My sister struggles to recover from childhood trauma, while I have mostly moved on, creating a significant emotional gap between us.
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Joy to the World or Why Its Important to Be Kind During the Holidays

The impact of emotional baggage from childhood is profound, affecting individuals long into adulthood, especially during the holiday season.

Maurice Vellekoop wins $10K Toronto Book Award for graphic memoir I'm So Glad We Had This Time Together | CBC Books

Maurice Vellekoop's graphic memoir explores his journey of self-acceptance amidst childhood guilt and the AIDS crisis in 1980s Toronto.

Robin Wright addresses backlash to her 'anti-feminist' character in 'Forrest Gump'

Robin Wright defends her role as Jenny Curran in 'Forrest Gump' against anti-feminist critiques, emphasizing Jenny's complex character shaped by trauma.
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After 30 years of dieting I was exhausted. So I started to ask: what if I stopped? | Jason Prokowiew

Recognizing the impact of childhood body shaming and the resulting journey through self-image and diet culture.

I Was A School Bully. Here's Why I Terrorized My Classmates.

Childhood experiences shape adult behavior, often leading to unresolved trauma that affects daily life.

Gay actor Richard Armitage reveals he experienced 'physical, violent' bullying

Richard Armitage candidly discusses the painful experience of childhood bullying linked to his sexuality and its lasting effects on his self-worth.

Luke Evans says he was bullied by homophobic 'evil little b**tards' at school

Luke Evans shared experiences of homophobic bullying during his childhood, highlighting the emotional pain and lasting impact it had on him.

After 30 years of dieting I was exhausted. So I started to ask: what if I stopped? | Jason Prokowiew

Recognizing the impact of childhood body shaming and the resulting journey through self-image and diet culture.

I Was A School Bully. Here's Why I Terrorized My Classmates.

Childhood experiences shape adult behavior, often leading to unresolved trauma that affects daily life.

Gay actor Richard Armitage reveals he experienced 'physical, violent' bullying

Richard Armitage candidly discusses the painful experience of childhood bullying linked to his sexuality and its lasting effects on his self-worth.

Luke Evans says he was bullied by homophobic 'evil little b**tards' at school

Luke Evans shared experiences of homophobic bullying during his childhood, highlighting the emotional pain and lasting impact it had on him.
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"Blitz" Uses Classical Storytelling to Advance a Radical Vision of War

'Blitz' portrays the emotional turmoil and complexity of a child's experience during the wartime evacuation in London.
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Sometimes, Forgiveness Is Overrated

Therapists and scholars are redefining forgiveness and erasing the pressure to always forgive.

HowExhibiting ForgivenessExplores the Limits of Religion and Absolution

Titus Kaphar's film, Exhibiting Forgiveness, explores the complexities of forgiveness and childhood trauma through a fictional lens, diverging from traditional narratives.

Sometimes, Forgiveness Is Overrated

Therapists and scholars are redefining forgiveness and erasing the pressure to always forgive.

HowExhibiting ForgivenessExplores the Limits of Religion and Absolution

Titus Kaphar's film, Exhibiting Forgiveness, explores the complexities of forgiveness and childhood trauma through a fictional lens, diverging from traditional narratives.
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The Guide #159: Won't somebody think of the children? The shows that traumatised you as kids

Childhood exposure to intense media experiences often leaves lasting psychological impacts.
Terrifying scenes from films and TV shows are often remembered vividly into adulthood.

A Guide to the Provocative Artwork of Mike Kelley

Mike Kelley's art combines found objects and performance to explore profound themes related to childhood, trauma, and the complexities of teenage life.
#emotional-development

Why Do You Always Think Everyone Is Mad at You?

Childhood abuse disrupts emotional development, leading to low self-esteem and difficulties in relationships.

4 Signs You May Have Been 'Parentified' As A Child

Parentification can be emotionally harmful for children.
Parentification occurs when a child takes on the role of a parent.

Why Do You Always Think Everyone Is Mad at You?

Childhood abuse disrupts emotional development, leading to low self-esteem and difficulties in relationships.

4 Signs You May Have Been 'Parentified' As A Child

Parentification can be emotionally harmful for children.
Parentification occurs when a child takes on the role of a parent.
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#domestic-abuse

Victoria Derbyshire: My father threw scalding soup over me'

Victoria Derbyshire opens up about her abusive childhood, emphasizing the normalization of domestic violence within her family dynamics.

He took all the handles off the doors': The children living through domestic abuse

Jess's childhood was marked by severe domestic abuse, creating lifelong trauma and fear.
Escaping to a refuge provided Jess and her family a critical sense of safety.

Victoria Derbyshire: My father threw scalding soup over me'

Victoria Derbyshire opens up about her abusive childhood, emphasizing the normalization of domestic violence within her family dynamics.

He took all the handles off the doors': The children living through domestic abuse

Jess's childhood was marked by severe domestic abuse, creating lifelong trauma and fear.
Escaping to a refuge provided Jess and her family a critical sense of safety.
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Emily Hand, one year on from her kidnapping by Hamas: 'She knows how to deal with bad news and tragedy'

Emily Hand, a kidnapped victim, is on the mend, finding joy through activities and family support after her horrifying experience.

The Prince We Never Knew

Prince's genius thrived on innovative subtraction in music creation, showcased in his work on 'When Doves Cry.'
His troubled childhood and complex family dynamics significantly shaped his artistic identity and drive for recognition.
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Don't Be a "Good Mother"

Difficult childhoods can lead parents to create similar challenges in their children despite good intentions.
Perfection in parenting is about balance, not extremes; too much love can be harmful.

How can we break the cycle of childhood trauma? Help a baby's parents

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) can have a significant impact on the health of children as they grow up.
Adults who experienced trauma in childhood are more likely to experience stress as parents and have children at a higher risk of developmental delays and mental health problems.
Programs like HealthySteps help parents recognize and address the impacts of childhood trauma and provide better care for their own children.

Rory Feek defends his parenting after older daughters accuse him of abuse on social media

Rory Feek's parenting is publicly questioned by his daughters, revealing past familial trauma and their concerns over their sister's safety.

Ask Allison: My dad died in front of me when I was 11 - is it normal to still feel upset all these years later?

Unprocessed childhood trauma can resurface later in life affecting emotional wellness and relationships.

Don't Be a "Good Mother"

Difficult childhoods can lead parents to create similar challenges in their children despite good intentions.
Perfection in parenting is about balance, not extremes; too much love can be harmful.

How can we break the cycle of childhood trauma? Help a baby's parents

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) can have a significant impact on the health of children as they grow up.
Adults who experienced trauma in childhood are more likely to experience stress as parents and have children at a higher risk of developmental delays and mental health problems.
Programs like HealthySteps help parents recognize and address the impacts of childhood trauma and provide better care for their own children.

Rory Feek defends his parenting after older daughters accuse him of abuse on social media

Rory Feek's parenting is publicly questioned by his daughters, revealing past familial trauma and their concerns over their sister's safety.

Ask Allison: My dad died in front of me when I was 11 - is it normal to still feel upset all these years later?

Unprocessed childhood trauma can resurface later in life affecting emotional wellness and relationships.
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Ina and Martha Definitely Do Not Hate Each Other

Ina Garten's memoir reveals her tumultuous past and journey to becoming a resilient gay icon despite childhood hardships.

Ben Affleck once said there's not 'enough followers' to fulfill J.Lo's sense of 'longing' and 'pain'

Jennifer Lopez's childhood emotional neglect influences her adult life, as fame cannot fill the void of longing she experiences.

Elle King called her dad 'toxic.' Now, Rob Schneider says he hopes she can forgive him

Rob Schneider expresses regret to his daughter Elle King for past shortcomings as a father.
Elle King describes a toxic childhood relationship with her father, Rob Schneider.

Thom Gunn: A Cool Queer Life by Michael Nott review the poet laureate of Haight-Ashbury

Traumatic childhood experiences can deeply impact an individual, leading to a lifelong struggle with emotions.
Using writing as a form of defense and denial can manifest in the development of various personas and a detachment from personal emotions.

Ask Allison: My dad died in front of me when I was 11 and I feel I have never processed the grief

Unprocessed childhood trauma can manifest in adulthood, affecting the ability to cope and communicate emotions.

Plea deal may keep Miami-Dade man accused of child sex crimes off registry. Victim perturbed

Counselor Keisha Etienne, who guided abused children through trauma, dealt with childhood sexual assault and felt let down by the legal system.

The Gift of Self-Acceptance: Goodbye Filters, Hello Authentic Self - Tiny Buddha

Beauty is not about physical perfection, but the light in our eyes and radiance when comfortable in our skin.

Drag Race star Roxxxy Andrews wants fans to stop with the bus stop jokes

Fans mocking Roxxxy Andrews about her upsetting childhood are cruel, not funny.

One Twin Was Hurt, the Other Was Not. Their Adult Mental Health Diverged.

Twins offer insights on mental illness divergence due to genetics and childhood trauma.

Helen Oyeyemi Thinks We Should Read More and Stay in Touch Less

The author's new novel delves into a character's childhood in Prague during the 1980s.
Thea, the character in the novel, experiences childhood trauma which affects her behavior in adulthood.

Transforming Pain into Power: The Magic of Emotional Alchemy - Tiny Buddha

Overcoming challenges can lead to appreciating life more
Emotional alchemy can transform pain into something beautiful

Christine Angot, the writer who has produced images of incest: I didn't want to take revenge I wanted to hear those who remained silent'

Christine Angot overcame childhood trauma through art
Angot uses film to confront past and break silence

Woman stabbed her dinner lady mother to death after enduring childhood abuse

Hanaa Bennis, 22, has been jailed for stabbing her abusive mother to death after enduring a history of abuse.
Bennis filmed parts of the attack on her mobile phone, showing her mother covered in blood.

BEN VAUTIER (1935-2024)

Self-taught French artist Ben Vautier, known as Ben, passed away at 88, leaving a legacy of text-based art and the belief that 'everything is art.'
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5 months ago

I became an orphan at age 12. Now, I run a summer camp for kids like me.

Kids process grief differently from adults, needing specialized support.
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