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#loneliness
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fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThe epidemic isn't loneliness - it's the number of people who've been lonely so long they've stopped registering it as loneliness and started calling it personality - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can be misinterpreted as independence or preference, leading to a lack of recognition of the feeling itself.
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6 days agoMental health
There's a version of loneliness that only arrives inside a crowded room full of people who like you, and it comes from the slow realization that what they like is a performance you can no longer remember choosing to start - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can persist even in social settings, stemming from a disconnect between one's true self and the persona they project.
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fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoLoneliness doesn't always look like an empty room. Sometimes it looks like a person who laughs at every joke, remembers every birthday, shows up at every event, and drives home afterward in total silence wondering why none of it ever reaches the part of them that's still starving. - Silicon Canals
Social starvation and social performance can coexist, leading to a deeper crisis of loneliness that isn't solely defined by the absence of social contact.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThe epidemic isn't loneliness - it's the number of people who've been lonely so long they've stopped registering it as loneliness and started calling it personality - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can be misinterpreted as independence or preference, leading to a lack of recognition of the feeling itself.
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fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoThe loneliest men in any family aren't the ones who left - they're the ones who stayed, paid every bill, fixed every problem, and died without anyone knowing what they actually felt - Silicon Canals
Loneliness often stems from being the reliable one, carrying burdens silently while others remain unaware of the emotional struggles beneath the surface.
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fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says the most dangerous form of loneliness isn't being alone. It's being surrounded by people while performing a version of yourself that none of them would recognize if they saw you at home on a Sunday afternoon. - Silicon Canals
The gap between one's public persona and private self creates a profound sense of loneliness.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoThere's a version of loneliness that only arrives inside a crowded room full of people who like you, and it comes from the slow realization that what they like is a performance you can no longer remember choosing to start - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can persist even in social settings, stemming from a disconnect between one's true self and the persona they project.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoLoneliness doesn't always look like an empty room. Sometimes it looks like a person who laughs at every joke, remembers every birthday, shows up at every event, and drives home afterward in total silence wondering why none of it ever reaches the part of them that's still starving. - Silicon Canals
Social starvation and social performance can coexist, leading to a deeper crisis of loneliness that isn't solely defined by the absence of social contact.
#anxiety
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fromPsychology Today
1 day agoGrandma's Snake Phobia: The Real Cause of Her Anxiety
Anxiety and phobias may indicate suppressed emotions that, when addressed, can lead to rapid relief from anxiety.
#emotional-suppression
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fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says the unhappiest men in any room aren't the ones who complain - they're the ones who've become so skilled at performing contentment that they've lost the ability to locate their own actual feelings beneath the performance - Silicon Canals
Many men mask their true feelings behind a facade of competence and ease, leading to emotional disconnection and confusion about their own emotions.
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fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoMost men who grew up in the 1960s and 70s were taught that admitting you needed help was a character flaw. Finally, we are discovering that openness has its own kind of strength. - Silicon Canals
Men are taught to suppress emotions, leading to loneliness and health issues.
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fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoMy father worked two jobs my entire childhood and I never once heard him complain - and now that I understand what that cost him, I can't stop crying about a man who never cried once - Silicon Canals
Silence can be a heavy burden, leading to unexpressed needs and emotional suppression that negatively impacts health and longevity.
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fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoPsychology says the reason so many people crash emotionally in their early 60s isn't retirement or aging - it's the first time in decades they've had enough silence to hear their own thoughts and they don't recognize the person thinking them - Silicon Canals
Highly functional individuals often face delayed emotional collapse in their sixties due to decades of avoidance and relentless life pressures.
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fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoI hit every goal I set - the title, the income, the house - and sat in my car in the driveway for 20 minutes on a Tuesday not knowing why I wasn't happy - Silicon Canals
Achieving goals can lead to disorientation and emptiness if they are extrinsic rather than intrinsic.
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fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says the most isolating part of getting older isn't having fewer people around you - it's having fewer people who knew you when you were whole and fast and full of plans, because the version of you that exists in other people's memory is shrinking at the same rate as the guest list, and one day you'll be the only person alive who remembers what you were capable of - Silicon Canals
The hardest part of aging is losing connections to those who remember different versions of ourselves.
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fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology explains people who forgive easily aren't weak or naive - they've simply done the math on what resentment actually costs the person carrying it and decided the debt isn't worth collecting, because forgiveness isn't about the other person deserving peace, it's about refusing to let someone who already hurt you once continue to take up space in a body they no longer have any right to occupy - Silicon Canals
Forgiveness is essential for personal well-being and mental health, freeing individuals from the burden of resentment.
#burnout
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fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people most frequently mistaken for lazy aren't the ones who never worked hard - they're the ones who worked so hard for so long without acknowledgment or recovery that their system shut down the way any system shuts down when it's been running past its limit and nobody thought to check the gauge - Silicon Canals
Laziness is often a misconception; many labeled as lazy are actually experiencing burnout from chronic overwork and stress.
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoMental health
I'm 66 and I've realized that there's a specific kind of exhaustion that belongs to people who spent four decades being the one who always said yes - it doesn't show up as burnout, it shows up as a faint feeling that your life belongs to everyone except you - Silicon Canals
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fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people most frequently mistaken for lazy aren't the ones who never worked hard - they're the ones who worked so hard for so long without acknowledgment or recovery that their system shut down the way any system shuts down when it's been running past its limit and nobody thought to check the gauge - Silicon Canals
Laziness is often a misconception; many labeled as lazy are actually experiencing burnout from chronic overwork and stress.
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fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoI'm 66 and I've realized that there's a specific kind of exhaustion that belongs to people who spent four decades being the one who always said yes - it doesn't show up as burnout, it shows up as a faint feeling that your life belongs to everyone except you - Silicon Canals
Burnout stems from a lack of personal agency, not just exhaustion from overcommitment.
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fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoPeople who grew up in houses where money was a source of tension often become adults who can afford things comfortably but still feel a small flinch at the register, and the flinch isn't financial anymore, it's a nervous system that never got the memo that the emergency is over. - Silicon Canals
Money anxiety often stems from childhood experiences rather than current financial situations, affecting emotional responses to spending.
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fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says people who check on everyone else during a crisis before acknowledging their own fear aren't selfless - they learned that being needed is the only form of safety their childhood ever reliably delivered - Silicon Canals
Composure in crises often masks unresolved childhood fears and the need to fulfill others' expectations.
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fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoNot everyone who avoids looking at their bank account is financially irresponsible. Some people grew up in households where money conversations preceded every serious conflict, and the avoidance is a nervous system trying to prevent a fight that already happened decades ago. - Silicon Canals
Money avoidance often stems from past trauma rather than a lack of financial knowledge or discipline.
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fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoSome people are exhausted not because they do too much but because they feel too much and have nowhere to put it. The emotion doesn't leave when it's unexpressed. It circulates, looking for an exit that was sealed shut decades ago, and that circulation costs more energy than most physical labor ever could. - Silicon Canals
Exhaustion can stem from unacknowledged emotions rather than physical factors like sleep or nutrition.
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fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoI grew up in a family where asking for help was the same as admitting weakness - and now I'm 66 and sitting alone with problems I don't know how to solve because I never learned how to say "I'm struggling" - Silicon Canals
Asking for help is often perceived as a weakness, rooted in deep-seated beliefs about masculinity and self-reliance.
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fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPeople who are excellent in emergencies and fall apart during ordinary weeks aren't wired wrong. Their nervous system was calibrated for crisis, and calm registers as the absence of signal rather than the presence of safety. They function brilliantly when the house is burning because fire is the only temperature that feels familiar. - Silicon Canals
The autonomic nervous system has a social engagement system that affects how individuals respond to stress and calm.
#social-media
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fromEngadget
6 days agoMost US teens say TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat aren't hurting (or helping) their mental health
Most teens report social media apps like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat do not harm their mental health, but some experience negative effects on sleep and productivity.
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fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology suggests men who are deeply unhappy in life but hide it well aren't being strong - they're running a performance that costs them every real connection they have, and the people closest to them almost never see it coming - Silicon Canals
Men often mask their depression with busyness and distraction, making it difficult to recognize their true emotional state.
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days agoI was peeing blood constantly': my ketamine hell and what made me stop
The reason people use drugs of any kind is because they want to escape, Delaney says. I had suicidal ideations from a very, very young age because I assumed that, if I was dead, maybe my mum and dad wouldn't be arguing.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThere's a type of person who only feels permission to rest when they're physically sick, and the illness isn't the problem. The problem is the invisible equation they absorbed decades ago that says rest must be earned through suffering and a healthy body has no valid claim to stillness. - Silicon Canals
Sickness is often the only socially acceptable reason for rest, revealing deep-rooted beliefs about productivity and morality.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThe person who thrives during a crisis and falls apart during ordinary weeks isn't broken. Their entire operating system was built for emergencies, and peace registers as a system error because they never learned what competence feels like without urgency underneath it. - Silicon Canals
Crisis-thrivers are often dysregulated, struggling with normalcy after emergencies, revealing a deeper issue with their nervous system's response to stress.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI realized at 66 that the reason I'm always tired has nothing to do with sleep. I've been running an internal monitoring system since childhood that tracks other people's moods, and it never shuts off, not even when I'm alone. - Silicon Canals
Emotional exhaustion can stem from lifelong habits of managing others' emotional states, leading to fatigue that sleep cannot alleviate.
#self-reliance
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says people who describe themselves as self-sufficient aren't always describing a strength. Sometimes they're describing the scar tissue that formed where the need for other people used to be, and they've carried it so long they genuinely mistake the numbness for peace. - Silicon Canals
Self-reliance is often mistaken for strength, but true strength includes the ability to seek help and share vulnerabilities.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI'm 66 and I recently understood that the reason I find it so hard to ask for help is not independence - it is the very specific and very old belief that needing something from another person is the first step toward becoming a burden, and a burden, in the house I grew up in, was the one thing nobody was allowed to be - Silicon Canals
Independence can often mask fear, leading to a reluctance to ask for help and a belief that needing assistance is a weakness.
fromPsychology Today
1 week agoFinding Order in Disorder, a Bipolar Memoir
When I was diagnosed, my mother took to the camera to film, record, analyze, and critique our lives. Our relationship took a turn for the better when I shared my writing with her, and she began to capture our journey on film. This was a breakthrough moment in the way we viewed each other, and we realized that both were in this together and neither needed to deal with it alone.
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fromThedrum
1 week agoTime to Change - Raising awareness of men's mental health with Messenger
The campaign got men's attention with video ads on Facebook and Instagram. A lighthearted introductory video showed a man crushed by a tree, while a friendly squirrel asks him if he is okay. He responds by saying he is 'fine', until questioned a second time.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week agoMy Child Has Autism: How Do I Know the Program Is Working?
If the application of behavioral techniques does not produce large enough effects for practical value, then the application has failed. Practical value is whatever you define as meaningful for your child's life.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the adults most likely to end up in therapy aren't the ones who had dramatic or obviously painful childhoods - they're the ones who grew up in households where everything was technically fine, nobody was cruel, and something essential was quietly missing in a way that took decades to find the words for - Silicon Canals
Emotional neglect in seemingly fine childhoods can have profound effects, leaving individuals feeling their inner world doesn't matter.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI'm 37 and the happiest I've ever been arrived the year I stopped trying to be happy - not because I gave up but because I finally understood that happiness isn't a thing you build, it's a thing you notice when you stop building long enough to look around - Silicon Canals
Happiness cannot be treated as a goal; it emerges when one stops pursuing it as a project.
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