Feeling All the Feels
Briefly

Experiencing mixed emotions is a natural and healthy aspect of being human. People often feel more than one emotion simultaneously, exemplified by both pride and heartbreak in complex relationships. The idea of emotional granularity aids in recognizing and naming multiple feelings to foster resilience and inner calm. Cultural conditioning often prompts simplified emotional responses, which may lead to disconnect. Allowing space for the messiness of competing feelings encourages equanimity, providing a wealth of emotional richness in experiences.
Human emotions don't show up one at a time; rather, they overlap, compete, and coexist. You can feel grateful and exhausted, angry and loving, proud and hurt.
The challenge isn't that these emotions conflict; it's that we've been taught they shouldn't be felt at the same time.
Naming your feelings builds resilience. Putting words to complex emotions helps calm your mind and body.
Equanimity means allowing space for conflict and messiness, not forcing.
Read at Psychology Today
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