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#aging
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoNobody talks about why people in their late 60s stop chasing anything and start saying no to invitations they would have killed for at 40, and it isn't that life got smaller, it's that they finally stopped auditioning for a life they already had - Silicon Canals
Older adults often say no to activities not out of withdrawal, but to prioritize emotional well-being and make honest edits to their lives.
#resilience
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour agoPsychology says the most resilient people aren't the ones who never fell apart - they're the ones who fell apart quietly, rebuilt themselves with no audience, and never mentioned it - Silicon Canals
Strength comes from overcoming breakdowns, not from avoiding them.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour agoPsychology says the most resilient people aren't the ones who never fell apart - they're the ones who fell apart quietly, rebuilt themselves with no audience, and never mentioned it - Silicon Canals
Strength comes from overcoming breakdowns, not from avoiding them.
#masculinity
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI want to say something that my generation rarely says out loud: being tough your whole life doesn't actually protect you from loneliness - it just means you're better at hiding it from everyone, including yourself - Silicon Canals
Being tough can lead to loneliness and isolation, as it prevents genuine connections and vulnerability.
fromwww.theguardian.com
11 hours agoIn my apartment block's Room of Unlimited Magical Recycling Possibilities' I found not just freebies, but friends
The magic room was a community effort, maintained by many residents volunteering their time to keep it well organised and running smoothly. I often saw my neighbour, Wendy Showyin, when I stopped by.
Renovation
Social media marketing
fromFortune
22 hours agoMost Australian teens admit the social media ban isn't working as they try to sidestep age verification blocks with face masks and their parents' IDs | Fortune
Teenagers in Australia are successfully circumventing social media bans through various methods, despite age restrictions implemented by the government.
fromIndependent
1 day ago'You see the mums and dads on the sidelines screaming and shouting, I'd be thinking, I wish she was here'
Mark Rutherford's journey in football has been defined by pivotal moments that illustrate how small decisions can lead to significant life changes. He emphasizes that many of his experiences, including personal losses and challenges, have shaped his character and career.
Liverpool FC
Social justice
fromNonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
2 days agoHow Unity May Tear Us Apart | Nonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
Polarization is a top concern in the U.S., and the concept of unity varies significantly among people, potentially leading to harmful interpretations.
Agriculture
fromNonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
4 days agoA Vision of Food Justice, Collective Care, and Safety | Nonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
Food and medicine are interconnected, yet food policy often separates them, impacting access and equity in food justice.
Non-profit organizations
fromNonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
4 days agoFaster Than Authoritarianism: Rapid Response as a Frontline Strategy for Democracy Defense | Nonprofit Quarterly | Civic News. Empowering Nonprofits. Advancing Justice.
Rapid response is essential for effective movement building and defending democracy against authoritarian strategies.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 hours agoThe people who never ask follow-up questions about their friends' lives aren't disinterested. They're often so used to managing their own internal noise that taking on someone else's details feels like adding weight to a system already running at capacity - Silicon Canals
Conversations often avoid deeper topics due to cognitive load and emotional capacity, leading to surface-level exchanges.
#parenting
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people who grew up being described as the easy child are often the ones who, later in life, are quietly realizing they were never actually easy - they were just unseen - Silicon Canals
The label of 'easy child' often masks deeper issues of unmet needs and emotional neglect.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoI'm in my 60s and the hardest thing about being a parent wasn't the tiredness or the responsibility, it was watching my daughter expect good things to happen to her and realizing I'd spent my entire life bracing for bad ones, and I have no idea how to teach her something I never learned. - Silicon Canals
Anticipatory anxiety shapes perceptions and behaviors, contrasting the hopeful innocence of children with the cautious mindset developed through life experiences.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoChildren who grew up in the 1960s and 70s without structured schedules didn't just learn independence - they built an internal compass that modern children, supervised into adolescence, are rarely given the chance to develop - Silicon Canals
Children today have less freedom and fewer opportunities to solve problems independently compared to previous generations.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people who grew up being described as the easy child are often the ones who, later in life, are quietly realizing they were never actually easy - they were just unseen - Silicon Canals
The label of 'easy child' often masks deeper issues of unmet needs and emotional neglect.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoI'm in my 60s and the hardest thing about being a parent wasn't the tiredness or the responsibility, it was watching my daughter expect good things to happen to her and realizing I'd spent my entire life bracing for bad ones, and I have no idea how to teach her something I never learned. - Silicon Canals
Anticipatory anxiety shapes perceptions and behaviors, contrasting the hopeful innocence of children with the cautious mindset developed through life experiences.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoChildren who grew up in the 1960s and 70s without structured schedules didn't just learn independence - they built an internal compass that modern children, supervised into adolescence, are rarely given the chance to develop - Silicon Canals
Children today have less freedom and fewer opportunities to solve problems independently compared to previous generations.
fromPsychology Today
1 week agoKnowing Themselves Helps LGBTQ+ Teens Thrive
Research indicates that LGBTQ+ teens entering high school experience significantly higher anxiety symptoms compared to their cisgender heterosexual peers, highlighting the unique challenges they face during this transition.
LGBT
#family-dynamics
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThe hardest thing about healing isn't the work itself. It's the quiet grief of realizing how many years you spent believing the problem was you, when the actual problem was an environment that needed you to believe that in order to keep functioning - Silicon Canals
Family systems may require a child to remain unwell for their own functionality, leading to grief and loss when the child realizes their true self.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoA clinical psychologist explains that the adult children who check on their aging parents most often aren't the favorites - they're usually the ones still hoping for a conversation they stopped expecting years ago - Silicon Canals
The favored child often receives love, while the other sibling seeks recognition and validation through ongoing efforts and communication.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThe hardest thing about healing isn't the work itself. It's the quiet grief of realizing how many years you spent believing the problem was you, when the actual problem was an environment that needed you to believe that in order to keep functioning - Silicon Canals
Family systems may require a child to remain unwell for their own functionality, leading to grief and loss when the child realizes their true self.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
9 hours agoPsychology says the people described as having a strong personality aren't dominant or difficult, they're the ones who stopped softening themselves to make every room comfortable, and what reads as intensity from the outside is just the absence of the apology most people are still adding to every sentence - Silicon Canals
People often misinterpret strong personalities as difficult, but they may simply be unafraid to express themselves without apology.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThe people who never ask for help aren't independent. They learned somewhere along the way that needing something from someone always came with an invoice they couldn't afford to pay - Silicon Canals
Self-reliance often stems from early experiences that teach individuals to avoid asking for help, leading to a belief that needing others is a failure.
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks agoClassmates subjected a young teen to "relentless" homophobic bullying. Then tragedy struck. - LGBTQ Nation
Leyton's mother stated, 'None of the boys in that school accepted him. They told him they would never accept him for the way he spoke. He was a sassy speaker, more feminine - not the 'hard boy' type. This wasn't going on for just a little while.'
LGBT
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoMost people don't realize that the sharpest loneliness in midlife isn't having no friends - it's having friends who knew an earlier version of you and have no interest in meeting who you've become - Silicon Canals
Loneliness in midlife often stems from friends not updating their understanding of each other, rather than a lack of social connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says the people who finally meet themselves in their 60s and 70s aren't reinventing anything, they're meeting the original person who got buried under decades of being useful to everyone else, and the relief they feel is recognition, not discovery - Silicon Canals
Retirement can lead to self-discovery, revealing the original self buried under roles and responsibilities.
#child-development
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoThe people who were praised for being mature as children and punished for being needy as adults, and the decades it takes to untangle which one was actually true - Silicon Canals
Maturity in children often reflects adult expectations, leading to long-term consequences for the child's emotional development.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThere's a version of strength that only develops in people who had to figure out the rules of a place nobody explained to them. They don't talk about it because the people who had the rules handed to them wouldn't understand what was hard about it, and the people who also had to figure it out don't need the explanation. - Silicon Canals
Onsighting in climbing parallels navigating social systems, emphasizing perceptual capacity over resilience in understanding unwritten rules.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says people who grew up in the 1960s and 70s don't handle hardship better than everyone else because they are stronger - they handle it better because they were never offered the alternative, and a person who was never offered the alternative develops a relationship with difficulty that people who were offered it spend their whole lives trying to build in a gym - Silicon Canals
Struggling is a norm for my generation because we never knew life could be comfortable.
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