What exactly constitutes a meltdown? As Lorain Moorehead, an individual and family therapist, explains, a meltdown is, on some level, a child's expression of their opinion or preference. "Their body is dysregulated either because of their real or perceived need not being met, and they are communicating it with the tools they have available in the moment, which in the case of a meltdown might be tears, volume, or other means to return to a state of control," she says.
In South American Indigenous communities, a child's place is wherever they choose to be. Babies crawl on the earthen floor, approach the fire, investigate anthills, and experience the world with their whole bodies. They learn by feeling: discovering limits, recognizing dangers, and gathering lessons no manual could ever teach. In urban contexts, by contrast, children are often confined to spaces designed for adults, filled with rules that-though well-intentioned-tend to distance them from essential experiences.
"Me help? Me help?" If you're a parent to a toddler, you've likely heard this enthusiastic phrase countless times. Toddlers are naturally curious and thrive on routine, and they genuinely get a sense of joy and accomplishment from helping around the house. However, finding toddler-friendly chores that are safe, age-appropriate, and manageable can sometimes be a challenge. Many household chores require fine or gross motor skills that toddlers simply haven't mastered yet, making it essential to find tasks that fit their abilities.
While part of me feels guilty that we didn't work on the core skills as intended, I probably wouldn't do things differently even if we could somehow do the summer over again. My daughter made significant advances in vocabulary from all of her audiobooks, now using words like "quivering" in sentences.
"When children enjoy what they are doing and where they are going, the entire family unit is strengthened. Happy, contented children are more motivated, focused, and have greater attention spans."
As children, we are taught, by parents and supportive adults which behaviors are expected to navigate our society successfully. One aspect of this learning includes adopting societal norms and a moral code that determines when interactions and situations are deemed "right" and "wrong."