I'm a 23-year-old graduate student. My significant other is 28; we met in school and have been together for two and a half years. We make excellent life partners, have supported each other through good times and bad, and feel aligned on the key issues. We both come from poor backgrounds and have at times struggled with money. After a rough career pivot, where my significant other almost hit rock bottom, they landed an extremely lucrative and stable job in finance. They're now making more than 15 times what I make! (Yes, literally.)
My wife is an amazing, caring, kind person. She is a deeply committed mother to our three children, as well as being an incredibly generous, pleasant and warm person. When people meet her, they like her. She has that effect. Of course, there is a 'but', otherwise, why would I be writing to you? The 'but' is that she is very untidy and this is causing us big problems.
I really feel like the cultural norm around proposals is fundamentally silly and outdated. I wish more people would consider that women can propose too! It doesn't have to come from the male partner in heterosexual relationships. I asked my now-husband to marry me, and it was the best choice I've ever made. I think it's really interesting that this wasn't even mentioned in your advice-which goes to show how embedded this heteronormative idea about who gets to propose really is.
The day I married my husband was cool and quiet, and filled with the kind of calm that feels sacred. I wore my favorite color, indigo-purple, and my soon-to-be husband, Allan, looked dapper in cobalt blue. Our best friend, who served as our witness at Brooklyn City Hall, wore the perfect shade of green to complete the moment. As our names were called to step into the chapel, I could feel my heart racing, and my breath was shallow with anticipation.
"I married somebody who is the opposite of me. He is so organized," Lawrence said during an appearance on Tuesday's episode of the "Smartless" podcast. "He's an anchor. Everything is ordered, like on the sink. Like I have to, you know, like keep the closet doors closed, and I have like my little jobs that I work really hard to do," she said.
I don't. And that's exactly why I stopped. Rewind the clock 15 years. When an event planner gave us a truly ridiculous quote for a small wedding, my partner and I booked a flight to Las Vegas the very next day. We were married before noon at the Little Chapel of Flowers. No drama. No chair covers. Just vows and relief. It was a very good day.
I'm a 52-year-old woman, and 20 years ago, I had what I guess is now called a situationship with a guy named "George." For several years, we slept together a few times a month. It was amazing, incredible sex. He was clear that he didn't want to be my boyfriend, but also clear that he liked me. We had fun together, and I never hated myself after. Well, mostly. But I probably should have stopped seeing him sooner than I did.
When Violet and I finally decided to get married, I was in the middle of a depression so deep it had developed into something more like psychosis. I felt like I was pretending to be myself. I don't mean I was playing "the role" of the husband-to-be, the good son, the whatever. I mean I was going around thinking, What would I do right now if I were Malcolm?
For the nine years we've been a couple, my husband and I have taken countless flights together. We've visited family in the Carolinas, Tennessee, Montana, and Maryland. We've wandered around the Duomo in Florence, enjoyed tacos and tequila in Mexico City, and explored the breathtaking Normandy coastline. Now that we live in London, travel has ramped up. We're in our late 20s and early 30s, and wedding season has us flying back to the US on a near-monthly basis for our friends' nuptials ... in addition to other scheduled trips.
I'm back on social media, I'm back in the fight, and i'm here to stay.For a quick update, 6 months ago I made the best decision of my life and married my best friend. @BellRittenhouse, I couldn't be happier. I love you beautiful.More big announcements coming soon... pic.twitter.com/7gjG3wwZgy- Kyle Rittenhouse (@rittenhouse2a) December 10, 2025
“The unimaginable has happened,” “My beautiful husband has been taken from us. The light of my life. I was the luckiest to be loved and adored by you Jamie. I love you endlessly, not just now, but eternally.”
It's definitely been a lovely and unexpected season for me. I think since I was a teenager I have been so focused on boxing I had very little room for relationships and, honestly, even the thought of a relationship was out of the way for me. It's so lovely that love snuck up on the later stages of my career. Myself and my husband Sean, we have a lovely quiet life in Connecticut. We're very happy, thank God.
"We keep it very simple. We have a very different kind of life than we expected to. I mean, we don't have kids. We don't have cats and dogs. We don't have gerbils," Garten told host Amy Poehler. "It's just the two of us. And if we're trying to figure out what to do, we figure out what he wants to do and what I want to do."
In college, my girlfriend cheated on me with a much older, dad bod-type guy. She told me about it, which was nice, and she felt awful, which was also nice, but I felt this weird, unexpected combination of hurt and arousal. I'd think about them together, and I'd feel sick, but I'd get hard. My mind would wander there when I'd masturbate, and the orgasms
Marriage is not just a union of two bodies; it is the joining of two hearts, two histories, two minds, and two souls. Your spouse's self-esteem is sacred ground, fragile yet powerful. If handled with care, it blossoms. If mishandled, it withers away silently until all that remains is a broken version of the one you once loved.
I remember the moment it happened - the single spark that set my body aflame. Cecelia stood behind me on the Pilates reformer and pressed her legs into my back, her hands into my shoulders. The strength of her long, lean limbs drove me into submission. Her perfectly-highlighted blonde hair tickled the back of my neck. "Connect your pubic bone to your sternum. Hold it." Her voice was deep, throaty.
Remember the wonderful times because they're precious if you lose your spouse. But truth? Marriage is flat-out determined work every day; you must keep at it and not give up, only thinking about yourself. I loved my wife; some days, I'm sure she wanted to kill me, but she still loved me - only married people will understand that. But to make it work for us for the 38 years we were together, it was truly day-by-day solid effort every day.
In "This Is 40," which premiered Dec. 21, 2012, Leslie Mann and Paul Rudd play Debbie and Pete, a married couple both about to turn 40 while dealing with struggling businesses, parenting two daughters and trying to rediscover a connection in their marriage. I'd been looking forward to seeing the movie for weeks, knowing my husband and I could use a date night with some comic relief, with some way to focus on someone else's marital problems instead of our own.
This timeless wisdom reminds us that within the sacred bond of marriage lies an abundance of divine favor, waiting to be unlocked. But what does it truly mean to "obtain" this favor? To obtain is to recognize and access something that already exists; it's about unlocking the blessings without force. So, how can husbands tap into this wellspring of favor that comes with their wives? Here are seven transformative strategies to cultivate a thriving marriage and attract divine blessings.