"In college, my girlfriend cheated on me with a much older, dad bod-type guy. She told me about it, which was nice, and she felt awful, which was also nice, but I felt this weird, unexpected combination of hurt and arousal. I'd think about them together, and I'd feel sick, but I'd get hard. My mind would wander there when I'd masturbate, and the orgasms"
"I had were really intense. There was something about her being "insatiable" that turned me on. She needed more than I could give her. I've always been into naughtier, more sexually forward women, and this was a whole new level of that. It also killed me! I mean, we broke up. The turn-on of my girlfriend being with someone else stuck around, though"
Wyatt, a 39-year-old editor in Illinois, is sexually aroused by his wife having sex with other men and experiences mixed feelings about the kink. In college, a girlfriend's affair with an older 'dad bod' man produced simultaneous hurt and arousal, and vivid fantasies that intensified his orgasms. He hid the fetish for years because he felt it was wrong and lacked language for it. He met his wife through the kinky app Feeld; the cuckold fantasy remained a core part of his sexual life and played a role in their relationship dynamics, contributing to the couple's ability to navigate nonmonogamy.
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