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2 hours ago

Harriette Cole: We just found out my sister's irresponsibility could cost us our house

Estate disputes and entrenched family conflicts can require legal action or difficult choices to protect property, finances, and emotional well-being.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 hour ago

Asking Eric: I never saw the recommendation letter he submitted with my name

I wrote something short (less than a page) that I thought was truthful and adequate. I inserted my name in the signature block but did not sign it. I told him he could edit it, expecting he would send me the edited version. He added text about projects we'd worked on together, plus awards he'd gotten and been nominated for. The day of the application deadline, I wrote him for the edited version and learned that he'd submitted it.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 hour ago

I Went to the Exclusive California Retreat Where Incel Men Pay to Learn How to Seduce Women. It Was Quite a Weekend.

A 32-year-old man traveled to a secluded, sex-positive retreat to experience first physical intimacy through guided, gentle encounters in a curated sensual setting.
#etiquette
fromBuzzFeed
8 hours ago

The Government Dropped A Bombshell On Me After My 30-Year Marriage Ended That Left Me Stunned

Mom worked for almost two decades after her divorce, but could not financially make up for the years she spent as a housewife. The low-paying jobs she had while married - cleaner, waitress, and such - counteracted her higher income as an administrative assistant. She ended up grossing $575.00 a month from social security, despite the fact that she could have drawn against my father's social security allotment for more than double that amount.
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fromBustle
7 hours ago

Your Horoscope For Friday, December 5

Expect a restless morning as you weigh up your best course of action. The practical Virgo moon is locked into a square-off with motivated Mars, encouraging careful thought and intentional action. But before you can take a step forward, sudden disruptions could alter your routine as cosmic wild-card Uranus aligns with the moon. Instead of perfecting old projects, focus on something new. What you've already completed is good enough, even if Neptune lurking in opposition to the moon makes you think otherwise.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 day ago

Asking Eric: My son's holiday plan doesn't seem fair to me

Address holiday concerns after the season by planning next-year arrangements, advocate calmly for alternating visits while respecting the couple’s developing traditions.
#friendship
fromTODAY.com
2 days ago
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They Were Friends in High School - Then Life Took a Joyful Twist No One Saw Coming

Two longtime family friends became mutual grandmothers after their daughters and a brother from the friend group formed a relationship that produced a grandson.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago
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Asking Eric: I didn't know why my friends ditched me and then I remembered Paulo

Address estranged friends directly with open, nondefensive conversations and use I-statements; reconsider the intermediary relationship rather than confronting them first.
fromTODAY.com
2 days ago
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They Were Friends in High School - Then Life Took a Joyful Twist No One Saw Coming

#family-dynamics
#orgasm-gap
#holiday-stress
fromIndependent
1 day ago
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Sophie White: It's almost Christmas and my husband and I are at each other's throats. But if we're arguing at least it means we're not Quiet Divorcing

fromIndependent
1 day ago
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Sophie White: It's almost Christmas and my husband and I are at each other's throats. But if we're arguing at least it means we're not Quiet Divorcing

fromPsychology Today
17 hours ago

You Don't Have to Be Fully Healed to Love Again

Listen, if we all waited until we were fully healed, evolved, and spiritually polished, the planet would be a monastery. You don't have to be perfect to be in a relationship. You don't have to purge every childhood wound or meditate yourself into sainthood. You don't have to finish the book, the course, the cleanse, or the shadow-work workbook with all the gold stars.
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fromPsychology Today
21 hours ago

2 Habits That Could Be Holding Back Your Love Life

Trying to conceptualize love - to understand it, define it, or finally get it right in your own life - can feel like a complicated game you never quite win. People often try to read or reflect on the promise to try to do things differently. Yet, somehow, the same patterns can seem to circle back. It's not that you don't want love or that you're not ready for it. Unconsciously, you may have built habits that keep you safe but also keep you stuck.
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#boundaries
fromwww.esquire.com
16 hours ago

My Fiance Left Me, Then I Answered a Muff Dive Request on Reddit. I Didn't Expect to Meet My Future Wife.

Platforms like Reddit have become informal hubs for casual sex encounters. Users post specific requests, everything from hookup logistics to kink-driven invitations. In this story, that began with a muff dive request, slang for a woman seeking someone to go down on them. The dynamic that followed grew into elements of femdomconsensual female-led power exchangeand CFNM, or clothed female, nude male, a kink centered on exposure, contrast, and negotiated control.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

Help! I Won the Thanksgiving Wishbone Split. My Wish Has Blown Up in My Face.

Poorly phrased remarks about a partner's weight can cause lasting hurt; a sincere apology and coached communication skills can help repair the relationship.
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fromPsychology Today
15 hours ago

What the 'Chair Theory' Says About Dating and Relationships

Gimmicky tests like the 'Chair Theory' are unreliable; evaluate relationships by consistent, long-term treatment rather than single gestures.
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fromPsychology Today
16 hours ago

Feeling Unheard? Here's How toBridge Gaps in Everyday Chats

People overestimate mutual understanding; specifying question types and listening receptively improves clarity and conversation outcomes.
fromTravel + Leisure
13 hours ago

This Over-165-year-old Matchmaking Festival Is Perfect for Singles Burned Out by Dating Apps

For most of the year, the quiet town of Lisdoonvarna, nestled along the rugged coastline of the Wild Atlantic Way in western Ireland, boasts just a few thousand residents. But each September, upwards of 60,000 visitors flock to the small town, all looking for the same thing: love. The Lisdoonvarna Matchmaking Festival, which runs for the whole month, brings singles not only from Ireland but from other countries far and wide, like the U.S., Germany, and Russia.
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fromHuffPost
1 day ago

There Are 6 Types Of Gift Givers. Which Are You?

Thoughtful, attentive gift giving delights recipients, strengthens relationships, and often requires listening to small details rather than relying on impulse or convenience.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 days ago

Asking Eric: I had a doozy of a year, and I let it all hang out in my Christmas card

Authentic, concise, and sometimes playful holiday announcements can honestly acknowledge divorce while emphasizing family continuity and minimizing discomfort.
fromTechCrunch
2 days ago

Hinge CEO steps down to launch Overtone, an AI dating app | TechCrunch

Match Group, the dating giant that owns apps like Hinge, Tinder, and OkCupid, is backing Overtone with pre-seed financing and plans to take a "substantial ownership position," according to a press release. With Match's support, Overtone was incubated as a project inside of Hinge. McLeod and a dedicated team spent the year developing the idea of Overtone, which is described as "an early-stage dating service focused on using AI and voice tools to help people connect in a more thoughtful and personal way."
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fromForbes
1 day ago

How Coaches Guide Leaders To Embrace Emerging Hybrid Work Trends

Leaders must build intentional presence, structure inclusive practices, and reinforce trust to align and support productive hybrid and asynchronous teams.
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fromBustle
2 days ago

"False Intimacy" Is A Red Flag You Might Not Notice When Dating Someone New

False intimacy is an accelerated illusion of emotional closeness created by rapid, constant online messaging that mimics real connection without genuine acquaintance.
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fromBuzzFeed
1 day ago

Dating App Couples Are Sharing How They Met, And I'm Suddenly Believing In Love Again

Online dating and app algorithms increasingly facilitate long-term relationships and marriages, replacing much in-person dating.
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fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Tired of Faking It? How to Finally Feel Confident

Genuine confidence is an experienced internal state, not a performed facade; self-knowledge enables choosing compatible partners rather than changing oneself to fit someone else.
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fromIndependent
2 days ago

Saoirse Hanley: My boyfriend does most of the housework and it puts me to shame. Can I rebrand my laziness as some sort of feminist stance?

A woman lacks homemaking skills, admits she would make a poor tradwife, and relies on her boyfriend who handles most household tasks.
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fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

The Five-Step Path From Rupture to Repair

Effective conflict resolution in relationships requires learned skills like pausing, vulnerability, and deliberate repair rather than relying on love alone.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 days ago

Dear Abby: I'm worried about my friend's sudden interest in men

Elderly individuals with dementia may develop new sexual interests; friends should encourage informed, medically guided decision-making to address health and safety risks.
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

I Finally Asked My Husband Why He Refuses to Do My Favorite Thing in Bed. I Wish I Didn't Know.

My first thought, upon reading your letter, was a curious: What are the differences for your husband between penetrating your vagina with his penis and performing oral sex on you, in the context of the fact of your having given birth? My second thought was that, in your position, I would have a very difficult time calmly asking that question from a place of genuine inquisitiveness.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

My Stepsiblings Are Jealous of My Wealth and "Lifestyle." Even Though They Know Its Sad Origin.

An inheritance eased financial strain but provoked longstanding stepsibling jealousy, causing family conflict, accusations of bragging, and estrangement from the narrator.
#family-conflict
fromIndependent
3 days ago
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Family estrangement is on the rise - why are so many of us going 'no contact' and what is the fallout?

fromIndependent
3 days ago
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Family estrangement is on the rise - why are so many of us going 'no contact' and what is the fallout?

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fromApartment Therapy
1 day ago

I Started "the Big Four" Gift Tradition with My Friends, and I Never Want to Go Back to Regular Presents

Secret Santa 'Big Four' exchange: give one need, one want, one reminder, and one favorite-color item while keeping to an agreed budget.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 days ago

Miss Manners: They publicly oppose my rights, then accuse me of intolerance

When I learn that an acquaintance supports stripping my rights away, I distance myself from them. Because of this, I've received some comments like, It's such a shame that you can't even be friends with me because we disagree on politics.
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#unemployment
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago
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I'm Not Mad at My Husband for Losing His Job. It's Everything That's Come After That Infuriates Me.

A long-term unemployed partner's refusal to seek work places financial and health burdens on the employed spouse, requiring firm consequences rather than empty threats.
fromAol
2 days ago
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Oregon woman, 25, says her boyfriend has been out of work for 3 months - here's why The Ramsey Show says that should 'scare the crap' out of her

A partner remaining unemployed and refusing lower-paying work while relying on the other’s income creates significant financial strain and relationship risk.
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago
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I'm Not Mad at My Husband for Losing His Job. It's Everything That's Come After That Infuriates Me.

fromAol
2 days ago
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Oregon woman, 25, says her boyfriend has been out of work for 3 months - here's why The Ramsey Show says that should 'scare the crap' out of her

fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

I've Discovered Something That's Supercharged My Sex Life With My Husband. At First, It Was Exhilarating. Now It's Borderline Terrifying.

I met my now-husband at a local kink event. At first, we were having sex daily-mind-blowing, bed-soaking, thigh-shaking encounters. My husband is so good in bed; the first time we had sex was the first time I squirted in my life. Now that is just regular practice. However, we then had a baby, and life got difficult. After a year post-partum, we are rediscovering how to connect sexually.
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fromLondon Business News | Londonlovesbusiness.com
1 day ago

UK's leading family mediation service launches London branch to support capital's families through separation - London Business News | Londonlovesbusiness.com

Specialist fixed-fee family mediation in London helps families resolve separation disputes quickly, avoiding lengthy court proceedings and protecting business owners' time, finances, and livelihoods.
#christmas-spending
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fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Relationship Journal Draws Line Against Sex Addiction

Sex addiction and porn addiction lack scientific validity; their continued use harms patients and clinicians should use sex-positive, evidence-based approaches.
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fromTravel + Leisure
2 days ago

A Flight Attendant Shares the Unwritten Rules for Claiming an Empty Middle Seat on a Plane

Empty middle seats offer extra space and conveniences, but etiquette requires shared access and polite permission rather than first-come, first-served claiming.
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fromScary Mommy
1 day ago

A Mom Discovered That When She Stopped Sending Holiday Cards, She Stopped Getting Them, Too

Holiday card reciprocity depends on initiation; stopping sending cards leads to a rapid, lasting decline in cards received and reduces perceived value of the tradition.
fromHuffPost
2 days ago

Kimora Lee Simmons Explains How She Found Out Her Daughter Was Dating A Man 44 Years Older Than Her

"First of all, I know this guy. But I didn't know this guy in that capacity like with my kid or that you were even dating my kid," she explained in a clip from the podcast, per People. "I know this guy growing up myself. He's a restaurateur. I don't want to get into troubles legally, but I think his reputation probably precedes him. Is that OK to say legally? So I was learning some of these things as I went along, too."
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fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

4 Reasons Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are Becoming Popular

Women increasingly choose younger partners, reflecting shifts in financial independence, self-expansion motives, and changing norms around gender, power, and romantic roles.
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

What Is 'Relationship Anarchy?'

"The rules are there ain't no rules." That's what the Scorpions leader told Danny Zucko right before their big drag race against each other in the 1978 movie Grease. That statement could apply as well to what's known as relationship anarchy. Relationship anarchy is a dating or mating approach that rejects traditional relationship rules, hierarchies, norms, and expectations. The emphasis instead is on flexibility, autonomy, and doing whatever you and your partner or partners feel like doing.
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fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago

Help! My Twin Swears I'm Out to Get Her. Uh, All I Did Was Deny Her Very Bizarre Demand for My Eggs.

I had a learning disorder, and my sister would constantly correct people and say she wasn't the "stupid" one-I was. My sister started the college track in ninth grade while I went to a middling school. Our parents did their best to treat us equally and celebrate our accomplishments, but you really can't compare taking a beauty school test to getting a master's at 21.
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fromHuffPost
2 days ago

My Mom Said The Exact Thing I Hadn't Dared To Hope For. It Left Me In Tears.

A formerly addicted mother attains sobriety, embraces faith, and tries to rebuild a strained maternal relationship through domestic rituals and steady presence.
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fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

What if People Came With Instructions?

Create and share personal user manuals describing work styles, preferences, habits, and collaboration tips to improve understanding, reduce misunderstandings, and boost team effectiveness.
#infidelity
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago
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I Caught My Brother-in-Law Doing Something Salacious at a Family Party. I Promised to Stay Quiet, But I'm Not Sure I Can.

fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago
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When My Husband Disappeared at a Party, I Thought Nothing Of It. Days Later, He Made a Shocking Confession.

fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago
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I Caught My Brother-in-Law Doing Something Salacious at a Family Party. I Promised to Stay Quiet, But I'm Not Sure I Can.

fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago
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When My Husband Disappeared at a Party, I Thought Nothing Of It. Days Later, He Made a Shocking Confession.

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fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

My Husband Is Careful Not to Fall Into the Same Dark Traps His Father Did. But He's Taken It Too Far.

A partner provides financial support but consistently neglects daily household and childcare responsibilities, creating imbalance, resentment, and financial strain.
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fromBuzzFeed
2 days ago

Younger Generations Revealed What They Want Older Generations To Stop Doing, And It Might Be Hard To Hear

Younger generations blame older generations for housing, economic and political failures and demand respect for their choices, struggles, and calls for policy and cultural change.
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fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

There's Something Specific Women Do in Their Daily Lives That Drives Me Wild. My Wife Won't Indulge Me.

Open communication, consent, and sex-focused couples therapy can reconcile a fetish for worn underwear with marriage while preventing secrecy and boundary violations.
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fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why Adult Children Resent the Divorce Years Later

Adult children of divorce can harbor long-lasting anger, grief, and role-based resentments that surface decades later and affect relationships and attachment.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Dear Abby: My ex-wife is our housemate, and my girlfriend isn't happy about it

Enforce clear boundaries with cohabitants and insist on respectful behavior; address reluctance about returning to church by acknowledging guilt and considering gradual reengagement.
#family-boundaries
fromBusiness Insider
2 days ago

When Santa stopped being magical, so did Christmas in my interfaith family. I finally found a fix.

She'd recently turned 11, and in my heart, I knew she no longer believed in Santa. "Mom! Don't forget, I want Monopoly," she casually called back. I scrunched my eyelids together, holding back hot tears. Santa, the only arbiter of Christmas gifts in our household, was also the magic link to my Italian Catholic childhood for me and for my Jewish children, whom I'm raising in my husband's faith.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Miss Manners: Can I wear this at my wedding without upsetting my new husband?

Opera-length gloves are impractical and aesthetically inappropriate for a morning bridal gown; tipping remains an obligatory social norm for traditionally tipped service workers.
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fromApartment Therapy
2 days ago

My Grandpa's "Rule of 3" for Hosting Saves Me So Much Stress (It's So Smart!)

Set a three-day maximum for overnight guests to maintain host comfort and prevent visitors from overstaying in small living spaces.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 days ago

Asking Eric: My own husband mooches expensive meals off me

Chronic frugality driven by fear of financial insecurity can strain a marriage; joint budgeting and financial-adviser guidance can align money habits and values.
fromBusiness Insider
3 days ago

My husband handles 100% of the holiday magic, and I buy the gifts. He has the much harder job.

Since we started dating, and way before we had kids, my husband has always been the one to bring the holiday spirit to our home. From getting me my first ugly sweater to buying a tiny tree to fit in our Brooklyn apartment, he loves the holidays and wants to lean in fully. I, on the other hand, kind of don't care.
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fromIndependent
4 days ago

Ask Allison: My husband drinks heavily, like his father did and now my son is following suit. I can't bear it anymore

A married partner drinks heavily every weekend for decades without acknowledging a problem despite repeated attempts to address it.
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fromMedium
1 week ago

Designing (or not) for community

Over-design and perfectionism stall community formation; proximity, repetition, simple invitations, and unplanned presence foster real connection.
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fromMail Online
3 days ago

The average close female friendship lasts 37 YEARS, study reveals

Close female friendships average 37 years, often originate in childhood, and provide long-term emotional support and joy for many women.
#singlehood
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago
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Help! I Thought Once I Reached My Late 30s, This Phase of My Life Would Be Over. It's Back and More Painful Than Ever.

fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago
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Help! I Thought Once I Reached My Late 30s, This Phase of My Life Would Be Over. It's Back and More Painful Than Ever.

fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Write Your Own (Relationship) Script

One of my specialties is working with clients in individual therapy in combination with their experience in couples therapy. Oftentimes, when two people engage in couples therapy, the work starts out on communication and relationship dynamics, but eventually, we get to a point where we realize that the work that really needs to be done to improve the relationship is individual work.
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fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

My Parents Have Made Some Horrible Financial Decisions. They Just Told Me Their Retirement Plans, and Somehow, It Gets Worse.

A family is financially enabling an unemployed brother and redirecting inherited and retirement funds, leaving one sibling facing expected lifelong support obligations.
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fromBuzzFeed
4 days ago

A Father Won't Help With Chores Because His Wife Stays Home, And The Internet Is Furious

A full-time working father refuses household cleaning because his stay-at-home wife with two young children is not keeping the house to his expectations.
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fromHuffPost
5 days ago

Vanilla Sex Can Be Great, But These 5 Things Will Make It Steamier

Vanilla sex can be as pleasurable as kink and can be enhanced through sensory play, stage-setting, and open communication to increase intimacy and pleasure.
fromYogaRenew
3 days ago

Citta

There is a shy, young man who finds a woman he knows extremely attractive. For months he has endeavored to work up the courage to ask her out, and finally... he does! To his great amazement, she says YES! The days leading up to the date, his thoughts are only on her. What her smile will look like, the touch of her hand in his. He walks about in a happy cloud of thoughts for days. The big day arrives. She looks as beautiful as he had imagined.
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fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

I Shared the Most Romantic Night of My Life With My Crush. The Next Few Days Were Hell On Earth.

Do not confess now; respect his apparent fear, ease off, and trust friends' protective signals to preserve any possible future dynamic.
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fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

The Best Way to Heal a Broken Heart

Breakups can result from unmet expectations, daily incompatibilities, and refusal to accommodate a partner, causing emotional pain and identity disruption.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
5 days ago

Dear Abby: Parents' cute idea leaves teacher in stressful situation

At the end of every school year, many parents ask me to write a personal note to their student as an inscription in a certain children's book. They request this of all of their kids' teachers, then give the book as a graduation gift. It's a cute idea, but what it amounts to is a large stack of paperwork at a time of the school year when I'm already drowning in paperwork.
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fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Achieving Intimacy in an Angry World

Intimacy grows through authentic self-disclosure, appreciation of individual separateness, emotional sensitivity, mutual support, and shared enriching experiences as passion wanes.
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fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

3 Ways to Master the Art of 'Micro-Romance'

Sustained love grows from small, intentional daily acts of attention, appreciation, and re-noticing rather than grand, performative gestures.
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fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

How to Play It Cool While Dating

Playing it cool means showing measured interest, keeping interactions equal, preserving personal life and boundaries, and seeking mutual fit rather than trying to impress someone.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
5 days ago

Asking Eric: I'm banned from their house because of what I said about the kids' violent game

The punishment doesn't fit the crime. Banishment is too extreme. However, it's worth looking at what's happening outside of the frame. First, the word disrespectful was tossed around a lot. Is it possible that your daughter-in-law felt you were criticizing her parenting in an unwarranted way? This isn't to say that the kids should have been punching their uncle. It wouldn't have been my choice. But Uncle Rick also has bodily autonomy and may have chosen not to stop them because he didn't mind.
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fromHuffPost
6 days ago

5 Sexual Kinks People Are Curious To Explore

BDSM and other non-vanilla sexual interests have become more mainstream, with many people exploring or fantasizing about kinks under explicit consent and communication.
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fromBuzzFeed
4 days ago

55 Toxic Mothers-In-Law And Fathers-In-Law So Unhinged, They Could Be Villains In A Movie

In-law interference can include controlling reproductive assumptions, threatening to remove children over alleged mental health concerns, and pressuring wedding guest lists against couple's decisions.
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fromenglish.elpais.com
6 days ago

What's the harm in a like'? This is how micro-cheating' works on your cell phone

Digital technologies have transformed infidelity: virtual interactions can violate emotional intimacy and be as damaging as physical affairs.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 days ago

Harriette Cole: I keep replaying what my friend said about my child

Address hurtful comments directly by asking for clarification, listening to concerns, and expressing how the remark harmed you.
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fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

The moment I knew: we were discussing Jane Austen when I told her I wanted to be with her for ever

A Sydney native moves to Oxford for studies, finds comfort in heritage, immerses in university life, and unexpectedly falls for Miranda, an energetic, intimidating presence.
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