Relationships
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52 minutes agoMarriage 911 - After the Affair, There Are Two People in Pain
Affairs cause real trauma for both partners, so healing requires acknowledging each person’s pain and allowing space to recover.
Immediately, I started imagining how I would look at my wedding. The woman who appeared in my mind had different hair, different teeth and a completely different body than me. I will transform my arms by the time of my wedding, I kept thinking, though I did not take any action to transform my arms. It was inconceivable that I would show up to my wedding looking like myself.
My career in HR helped me figure out people's personalities and how they like to be recognized. It's very satisfying when I hear that the present hit the mark.