"Regaling you with tales of his awful treatment of previous sexual partners, especially without a hint of regret, is extremely concerning on its own. If that's not enough to go ahead and [move on]. His repeated comments about how unusual his behavior is with you—staying after sex, enjoying your natural scent—frame you as an exception rather than indicating genuine change in his character or values."
"He even told me a story about kicking a woman out of his house after she came from another state to visit him, and leaving her alone on the street in the rain in an unfamiliar city. This demonstrates a pattern of callous disregard for other people's wellbeing and dignity, raising legitimate concerns about his fundamental character."
A woman in a six-month relationship experiences intense physical and sexual chemistry with her partner, who treats her exceptionally well. However, he frequently shares stories about mistreating previous partners, including kicking women out of his home without remorse. He expresses surprise at his attraction to her, contrasting it with his typical behavior of leaving immediately after sex. While she feels genuinely valued, she worries about whether this special treatment will last and questions whether she should remain with someone who has demonstrated a pattern of poor treatment toward other women. The advice emphasizes trusting her instincts about his concerning behavior.
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