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fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 days ago

Harriette Cole: They say it's reckless for me to leave my tech job

I want to see the world, experience different cultures and give myself space to reflect on what I really want in life. Lately, though, whenever I bring up this idea to friends or family, they tell me it's irresponsible. They worry I'll fall behind in my career or lose my momentum in such a competitive industry. Some even say I'm being selfish for stepping away from a stable job when others are struggling to find one.
Productivity
Film
fromTODAY.com
4 days ago

Philip Seymour Hoffman's Son Cooper Opens Up About Wishing for His Dad's Advice

Cooper Hoffman expresses a longing for his late father, Philip Seymour Hoffman, seeking his advice as he begins his acting career.
#parenting
#music
#nostalgia
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago
Relationships

Everything My iPhoto Memories Has Chosen to Resurface

Reflection on life's moments through photos reveals both cherished memories and regrets.
fromFast Company
1 week ago

When the 'fun' in 'funemployment' fades away, the mental gymnastics kick in

Unemployment brings mixed feelings of freedom and anxiety, highlighting the struggle of purpose and financial stability.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

I was one of those pathetic males who barely noticed cats. Then I became smitten with my kitten

The narrator experiences an unexpected affection for a family cat despite initial ambivalence.
fromBusiness Insider
2 weeks ago

I spent almost $30,000 upgrading our garage to a dreamy laundry room. Now, doing laundry for my family of 7 feels peaceful.

"I had enough money but not enough time." That's what my stepmom said, multiple times through her two-decade journey with metastatic breast cancer.
Renovation
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

Diary of an Oasis superfan: 'When Liam told the hotel doorman, 'It's cool, she can stay', I felt my soul leave my body'

When we die, I believe we'll get to watch a supercut of our best bits, like when a contestant gets voted out of the Big Brother house.
London music
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Caleb Azumah Nelson: Virginia Woolf's London is the London I know'

In those quiet moments, I am reminded of the bustle of the city, or a lover's hand in mine, or the words that I couldn't quite say.
Writing
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 weeks ago

Tim Dowling: a tribute to my father-in-law, droll master of mischief

I had to put off calling my own mother, in case my future father-in-law said no. We drove up the road to my girlfriend's father's house, where he lived with his second wife.
Relationships
Writing
fromThe Atlantic
4 weeks ago

How I Came to Be in the Epstein Files

A chance meeting leads to a long, challenging friendship with someone who shares no common interests.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 weeks ago

Gurnaik Johal: I had no idea Zadie Smith was such a big deal!'

Early reading experiences shape preferences and influences.
Influential moments and books encourage exploration of new authors.
Revisiting books can dramatically change perspectives on literature.
Specific texts can create lasting emotional connections.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

You think God didn't make gay men?' Comedian Leslie Jones on religion, grief and getting famous at 47

"I'm the type of person who, if I'm happy, everybody in the room is going to be happy, and if I'm sad, it's going to be very quiet and tense. I'm a temperature guider in the room."
Humor
fromConde Nast Traveler
1 month ago

Natasha Lyonne Recalls a New Year's Day on a Beach in Puerto Rico with Her Dog, Rootbeer

I surfed a bit. I was a gymnast as a child, so I can ride a wave no problem, except that I'm five foot three and surfboards are, I don't know, closer to six feet, so if the wrong wave ever catches me-boom-I'm dust.
Travel
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

37 Heartbreaking Moments When People First Realized There Was Something "Off" About Their Family As Kids

Many individuals realize their family dynamics were unhealthy when they encounter healthier relationships outside of the family context.
fromJordivillar
1 month ago

Am I Becoming Irrelevant?

Transitioning to a leadership role brings feelings of frustration and a sense of diminished impact compared to previous hands-on contributions.
fromiRunFar
1 month ago

One More Go

Perseverance is essential in the face of physical and mental challenges during endurance racing.
fromYoga Journal
1 month ago

Mercury Retrograde Begins Tomorrow. Here's Everything You Need to Know, Including Your Horoscope

Mercury retrograde emphasizes personal reflection and alignment, inviting individuals to reconnect with their inner truths.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

A newly pregnant woman came up to me and asked, 'How do you do it all?' And I lied to her.

I fed this woman the same line, told her a story, and quite literally waved my hands fleetingly as if running a household of four young boys and managing a traveling spouse while working full time was no big deal.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Kids, don't look to me for career inspiration. Look to your electrician instead | Adrian Chiles

Finding a meaningful job is essential; professions like medicine inherently provide purpose.
fromwww.npr.org
1 month ago

The books, movies and music that shaped the Code Switch team

Childhood experiences with race and identity were influenced by impactful cultural works.
fromwww.mediaite.com
1 month ago

Trump Tells Fox Host His Ear Still Hurts From Assassination Says God Saved Him

Donald Trump credits God for saving him from an assassination attempt a year ago while reflecting on the aftermath and his responsibilities.
#family-dynamics
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
Relationships

My Mom's Disappearance Was A Mystery. Then I Saw An Old Photo That Left Me Shaken.

fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
Relationships

My Mom's Disappearance Was A Mystery. Then I Saw An Old Photo That Left Me Shaken.

#yoga
Germany news
fromSpiegel
3 months ago

Breaking the Silence: Looking Back at World War II Family Histories

Eva Neidlinger reflects on her great-grandfather's past as a Wehrmacht soldier and its implications on her understanding of family history and war.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I wanted to be a young mom. I had my kids at 37 and 40, and I'm glad I waited.

Parenting at an older age brings unique benefits and insights that differ from the experiences of young parents.
fromwww.bbc.com
1 month ago

'I'm here to tell the story for those who are not'

Although I lost parts of my body, I am still here to tell the story, to represent those who are not.
London
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

My cultural awakening: a Marina Abramovic show helped me to stop hating my abusive father

Experiencing Marina Abramovic's conceptual art led to a transformative emotional release and personal reflection during the performance.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

My husband and I stuck to traditional vows on our wedding day. 3 years later, I still regret that decision.

I always envisioned my wedding being an intimate affair, with my son walking me down the aisle, as I wanted it to reflect both our desires.
Relationships
fromThe Walrus
1 month ago

There Was a Time Canada Really Did Build, Baby, Build | The Walrus

The author reflects on their feelings of excitement and responsibility during their first cabinet meeting and the significance of historical shipbuilding in Ashbridges Bay.
Cars
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Sophie White: I'm a terrible driver. You know that person you see ambling along with their indicator on indefinitely? That's me

Lack of personal car ownership may be linked to driving ineptitude rather than environmental or economic reasons.
fromBrooklyn Eagle
1 month ago

Jeff Albies never lost his true love

Jeff Albies reflects on his enduring love for baseball despite early career challenges.
fromsilive
1 month ago

Staten Island backyard chicken dies at the remarkable age of 11

The passing of Linda, a cherished hen, marks the end of an era for the author and reflects on the joy pets bring.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'I believe that when you lose somebody you love, you meet them again' - former minister Mary Hanafin on the death of her husband and life after politics

Mary Hanafin emphasizes the importance of resilience in navigating the challenges of her political career.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
1 month ago

Your Trauma-Informed Yoga Probably Doesn't Look Like Mine

The article highlights the intersection of personal identity and systemic trauma faced by queer individuals and people of color.
fromBustle
1 month ago

Musician Japanese Breakfast Wants You To Read 'Infinite Jest'

Like a fine wine, I like to pair my books with my travels. So I was going to Madrid for the first time and read Death in the Afternoon [by Ernest Hemingway].
Books
fromwww.npr.org
1 month ago

Here are the nonfiction books NPR staffers have loved so far this year

The article highlights top nonfiction book recommendations from newsroom colleagues, focusing on diverse themes like optimism, cultural significance, and historical reflection.
fromFuncheap
2 months ago

Maris Kreizman: "I Want to Burn This Place Down" Political Essays (Corte Madera)

Kreizman’s wit and blunt self-reflection animate her collection, as she delves into her journey from a 'good Democrat' toward a profound disillusionment.
Left-wing politics
fromTheoldguybicycleblog
2 months ago

The Feeling I Get When I Ride My Bike on Rainy Days

But once I'm out there, there's no turning back-and I don't want to. The rhythm of the rain blends with the cadence of my legs, and suddenly, the world quiets.
Bicycling
fromRaymondcamden
2 months ago

Links For You (6/22/25)

I've shared Josh Comeau links many times here and his ability to explain technical matter with incredibly simple and well-built demos is easily the best in the industry.
Web development
fromOver the Monster
2 months ago

Minor Lines 6/17: Wilyer Abreu clutch in rehab appearance

The writer expresses deep sadness over the loss of their dog Cassie amidst a recap of minor league baseball games.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Remember When Letters Inside Envelopes Held Your Fate?

Hand-addressed letters evoke deep emotional connections worth the effort of writing and mailing them.
The act of checking a mailbox can hold significant emotional weight, especially for alumni revisiting the past.
#mental-health
fromAeon
3 months ago
philosophy

What if your body unravels, but no doctor can name the disease? | Aeon Essays

fromAeon
3 months ago
philosophy

What if your body unravels, but no doctor can name the disease? | Aeon Essays

SF LGBT
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

My unexpected Pride icon: as a bullied teenager, I found safety in slasher films

Horror films often intertwine with queer subtext, revealing complex themes of fear, desire, and identity.
Retirement
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

We Were About To Become Empty Nesters. Then My Husband Made A Shocking Decision.

The emotional struggle of a military spouse facing a long separation from their partner.
The husband's lifelong dream to serve in the Army, reflecting gratitude for his family's immigrant experience.
fromIndependent
2 months ago

Leaving Cert Diary: Walking out of that exam, I felt proud. It reminded me why I want to teach Biology in the future

Michaela Gillooly's final diary entry reflects on her emotional journey through the Leaving Cert exams.
fromwww.businessinsider.com
2 months ago

I have 4 kids and don't send them to sleepaway camp. I'd rather use that money for traveling together.

As a mom of four, I feel guilty I can't give my kids the same summer camp experience I cherished, despite its initial challenges.
Parenting
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Relationship Lab for Academics

Academics often neglect personal relationships due to their research commitments, leading to humorous reflections on the realities of love and connection.
Writing
fromHackernoon
2 months ago

You Don't Need an Extraordinary Life to Write Compellingly | HackerNoon

Observational writing captures the beauty of everyday moments, providing relatable stories that resonate with readers.
Parenting
fromDefector
2 months ago

I Had a Baby And Now I Can't Read! What Do I Do? | Defector

Balancing life responsibilities often disrupts reading habits, but finding the right book can reignite the passion for reading.
SF parents
fromThe Walrus
2 months ago

A Son, a Scientist, and the Secret of Bioluminescence | The Walrus

Fireflies produce light without heat through a chemical reaction involving luciferin and luciferase, raising questions about energy release.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

It's very easy to make yourself appear like Bono': Warren Ellis on opening an animal sanctuary in Sumatra

I never thought I'd put that much of myself in the film... I was very concerned at one point when we had half filmed it, and tried to get it stopped.
Independent films
fromNature
2 months ago

Digging foxholes in the dark

"Seeing family for the holiday?" The Lowe's cashier asks me as he rings up the shovel. "No," I answer, too quickly, recalling that first disaster of a trip."
Relationships
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I'm glad I don't have a washing machine. It gives me a reason to spend more time with my aging parents.

Finding meaning in everyday tasks can help cope with difficult family situations.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

I am a trans teenager. This is what it means to hate the shape of your own skin | Elsie Thwaites

The author explores a deep-seated discomfort with their skin and identity, rooted in shame and societal expectations.
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

Why Do Doctors Write?

In lonely strip malls and dusty markets, I began scribbling in notebooks. The boy on the metal table was the first ghost to come forward.
Medicine
#motherhood
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago
Relationships

My Boyfriend's Mom And I Were Close. Years After We Split, He Delivered A Devastating Message From Her.

The contrasting maternal influences in my life illustrate the profound effects of unconditional love versus timid parenting.
fromBusiness Insider
3 months ago
Parenting

I have no more babies in the house, and parenting just got so much more fun

Embracing the transition from baby years to enjoying freedom with older kids can bring a fulfilling sense of independence.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

My Boyfriend's Mom And I Were Close. Years After We Split, He Delivered A Devastating Message From Her.

The contrasting maternal influences in my life illustrate the profound effects of unconditional love versus timid parenting.
#grief
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

I found myself Googling: can brain cancer cause hiccups? How I fell into a hypochondriac rabbit hole

I had theories, of course. Looking back, these tended to change quite frequently, and yet the fear was always the same: in short, that I was dying, that I had some dreadful and no doubt painful disease.
Mental health
Mental health
fromAdvocate.com
2 months ago

As Mental Health Awareness Month ends, the three lives I tried to run from and the one I'm running toward

Mental Health Awareness Month encourages recognition of invisible struggles and the importance of supporting those who face them.
fromInsideHook
2 months ago

A New "Real Time With Bill Maher" Had Show Business on its Mind

Bill Maher and Barry Diller discussed the intersection of memoirs, longevity, and the impacts of AI on society and the entertainment industry.
fromOver the Monster
2 months ago

Red Sox 5, Braves 1: Expectations Subverted

Enjoying movies that defy expectations reflects deeper aspects of life and current situations.
The unpredictability in both movies and baseball can create suspense and emotional engagement.
Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

As a Muslim girl in Bradford, I saw my story in Jane Austen's novels. Now I've directed a TV series about her | Ali Naushahi

The author finds profound parallels between her life as a working-class British-Pakistani woman and the experiences depicted in Jane Austen's novels.
fromEarth911
2 months ago

Essay: Letting Go of Complicity, Complacency, and Convenience

Without us, the chickens wouldn't have been hatched. With us, they must live by our rules. And we, by theirs.
Everyday cooking
#identity
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I wore a fake engagement ring for a week and realized I'm not ready to get married

I wore a fake engagement ring for a week while traveling and was surprised at how emotionally resonant the experience was, reflecting my readiness for marriage.
Relationships
fromwww.npr.org
2 months ago

10 years later, Sufjan Stevens offers a startling reevaluation of 'Carrie & Lowell'

Sufjan Stevens reflects on the duality of success and personal failure in writing Carrie & Lowell, revealing evolving emotional truths.
fromScooter in the Sticks
3 months ago

Notes from the Sticks - Scooter in the Sticks

Balancing daily responsibilities with personal passions can be challenging, yet fulfilling. Channeling focus like a dog can enhance well-being.
fromThe Atlantic
3 months ago

First My Mother Died. Then My Home Got Hit by a Tornado.

The author felt a surprising sense of calm and connection to nature during a powerful tornado while reflecting on a personal loss.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 months ago

No Straight Road Takes You There by Rebecca Solnit review an activist's antidote to despair

Moral injury stems from recognizing our complicity in environmental harm, emphasizing the need for awareness and introspection.
fromBusiness Insider
3 months ago

My husband had kids when we met and didn't want to have more with me. It took time, but I'm happy with the family we have.

Through the years, I admired my married friends and their strong relationships with their children, and harbored a quiet yearning for that type of sharing and love, but I wasn't going to do it on my own.
Parenting
fromwww.vice.com
1 year ago

I Tried Getting A Vape Prescription and Was Prescribed Star Jumps Instead

Vaping is stupid as fuck but unfortunately I am addicted. The government vapes are apparently flavourless and colourless, and extremely expensive.
Mental health
fromScary Mommy
3 months ago

I've Never Been With A Woman & Now I Wonder If It's Too Late

Perimenopause is often romanticized but can bring feelings of regret and confusion about both personal choices and unfulfilled experiences.
fromDefector
3 months ago

Meet Chuck And Purrle, The Newest Members Of The Defector Pet Family | Defector

When I decided to let cats back into our lives after the fires, I realized pet adoption had evolved with social media, transforming the way we connect with animals.
Pets
fromBig Think
3 months ago

Samvega: The urgent realization that you need a more meaningful life

The subject of saṃvega is a disquieting feeling that we all experience at some point, reinforcing our sense of unease about life's purpose.
philosophy
Right-wing politics
fromThe Nation
3 months ago

I Thought David Horowitz Was a Joke-but He Foreshadowed the Trump Coalition

David Horowitz's ideological journey from radicalism to conservatism reveals broader themes of personal transformation and political discourse.
fromYoga Journal
3 months ago

30 Things I've Learned from 30 Years of Teaching Yoga

Your students are your greatest teachers. Reflect on their feedback, understand their needs, and always strive to grow alongside them.
Yoga
Parenting
fromFast Company
3 months ago

This simple trick can help you conquer uncertainty

The chaos and uncertainty of modern life create a persistent state of anxiety, affecting how we process daily challenges.
Travel
fromThe Verge
3 months ago

A lofi journaling kit for the digital age

Travel journaling is an authentic alternative to social media.
A good journaling kit includes quality pen, paper, and a photo printer.
The author values personal documentation enhanced by physical mementos.
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago

Identity Niches: Have You Found Yours?

People inevitably conclude that the terms they chose somehow differentiated them from others, with many listed characteristics highlighting experiences that shape their identities.
Relationships
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