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Your Love Life This Week, According To A Tarot Reader

This week brings positive energy for love and relationships, encouraging nurturing, high standards for singles, and self-reflection on romantic goals.

What October's Jupiter Retrograde Means for You, According to Your Astrological Sign

Jupiter retrograde offers a period for self-reflection and realignment before future progress.

Your October 2024 Horoscope: Travel Will Reveal Big Truths About Your Friendships

October's horoscope emphasizes confronting uncomfortable truths and engaging in self-reflection during challenging circumstances to foster personal growth.

Here's Your Horoscope For Thursday, October 3

Embrace introspection and prioritize inner peace today, Virgo.

Here's Your Horoscope For Thursday, October 17

The full moon in Aries can trigger emotional turmoil, but reflection can help you regain perspective and find stability.

Rob Brezsny's Free Will Astrology for Oct. 3-9, 2024

Aries should reflect on personal shackles and replace them with empowering connections.
Taurus will gain recognition for their modest strength and resilience.
Gemini is encouraged to explore new interests to inspire personal growth.
Cancer should seek new mentors for guidance in their journey.

Your Love Life This Week, According To A Tarot Reader

This week brings positive energy for love and relationships, encouraging nurturing, high standards for singles, and self-reflection on romantic goals.

What October's Jupiter Retrograde Means for You, According to Your Astrological Sign

Jupiter retrograde offers a period for self-reflection and realignment before future progress.

Your October 2024 Horoscope: Travel Will Reveal Big Truths About Your Friendships

October's horoscope emphasizes confronting uncomfortable truths and engaging in self-reflection during challenging circumstances to foster personal growth.

Here's Your Horoscope For Thursday, October 3

Embrace introspection and prioritize inner peace today, Virgo.

Here's Your Horoscope For Thursday, October 17

The full moon in Aries can trigger emotional turmoil, but reflection can help you regain perspective and find stability.

Rob Brezsny's Free Will Astrology for Oct. 3-9, 2024

Aries should reflect on personal shackles and replace them with empowering connections.
Taurus will gain recognition for their modest strength and resilience.
Gemini is encouraged to explore new interests to inspire personal growth.
Cancer should seek new mentors for guidance in their journey.
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The Overconfidence Trap

Confidence does not equate to competence; we often underestimate our ignorance.
Challenging our knowledge encourages deeper learning and personal growth.
Recognizing our biases is essential for mitigating the Dunning-Kruger effect.
#coaching

Want to Be a Better Coach? Focus on This One Overlooked Skill | Entrepreneur

Focus on the process of development over immediate results to enhance long-term team effectiveness.

Jerod Mayo expecting to make Year 2 leap as a head coach

Coaches, like players, are expected to make significant improvements from their first to second year, reflected through self-analysis and learning.

Want to Be a Better Coach? Focus on This One Overlooked Skill | Entrepreneur

Focus on the process of development over immediate results to enhance long-term team effectiveness.

Jerod Mayo expecting to make Year 2 leap as a head coach

Coaches, like players, are expected to make significant improvements from their first to second year, reflected through self-analysis and learning.
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#friendship

Sapphire

The author explores feelings of loneliness and disconnection amid the vibrant atmosphere of a strip club.

My friend group suddenly ghosted me without explanation, and I blamed myself. I'm still learning to trust people again.

Experiencing ghosting by friends can lead to self-blame and insecurity, but it is essential for personal growth and healing.

Sapphire

The author explores feelings of loneliness and disconnection amid the vibrant atmosphere of a strip club.

My friend group suddenly ghosted me without explanation, and I blamed myself. I'm still learning to trust people again.

Experiencing ghosting by friends can lead to self-blame and insecurity, but it is essential for personal growth and healing.
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#personal-growth

My passion for an argument was relentless and damaging. Then my granddaughter intervened | Sergey Maidukov

The author reflects on how the need to be right damages relationships, ultimately realizing the importance of enjoying moments with loved ones instead.

Let's Start Things! Let's End Things!

Reflecting on what isn't working in life can lead to powerful changes.
Acknowledging and addressing unhappiness can guide life decisions toward fulfillment.

A Simple Formula for Making Career Decisions

Your brain may resist beneficial choices due to fear of pain and risk, even when change promises growth.
Dissecting your reasoning can clarify your true motivations for making decisions.

Is Your Career Heading in the Right Direction?

Pausing for reflection quarterly can help you assess career satisfaction, align values, and make necessary changes for improvement.

Comfort Has a Cost, and Its Currency is Regret | HackerNoon

Choices made for comfort can lead to a life of regret, undermining dreams and fulfillment.

My anxiety makes me feel like a liar in relationships. Slowing down has changed how I view love.

Exploring therapy and self-awareness leads to significant personal growth and understanding of anxiety.

My passion for an argument was relentless and damaging. Then my granddaughter intervened | Sergey Maidukov

The author reflects on how the need to be right damages relationships, ultimately realizing the importance of enjoying moments with loved ones instead.

Let's Start Things! Let's End Things!

Reflecting on what isn't working in life can lead to powerful changes.
Acknowledging and addressing unhappiness can guide life decisions toward fulfillment.

A Simple Formula for Making Career Decisions

Your brain may resist beneficial choices due to fear of pain and risk, even when change promises growth.
Dissecting your reasoning can clarify your true motivations for making decisions.

Is Your Career Heading in the Right Direction?

Pausing for reflection quarterly can help you assess career satisfaction, align values, and make necessary changes for improvement.

Comfort Has a Cost, and Its Currency is Regret | HackerNoon

Choices made for comfort can lead to a life of regret, undermining dreams and fulfillment.

My anxiety makes me feel like a liar in relationships. Slowing down has changed how I view love.

Exploring therapy and self-awareness leads to significant personal growth and understanding of anxiety.
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#empathy

Molly Shannon says parents should change their attitude about raising teenagers

Molly Shannon encourages parents to view their teens as individuals, fostering stronger relationships by avoiding negative stereotypes.

Why Empathy Requires Slowing Down

Empathy can be cultivated through active listening and self-reflection, though it remains a societal challenge requiring time and emotional vulnerability.

I just dropped my son off at college. I now wonder if I was a good enough mom.

Parenting often involves self-reflection, questioning whether the balance of support and independence given to children is sufficient for their success.

Molly Shannon says parents should change their attitude about raising teenagers

Molly Shannon encourages parents to view their teens as individuals, fostering stronger relationships by avoiding negative stereotypes.

Why Empathy Requires Slowing Down

Empathy can be cultivated through active listening and self-reflection, though it remains a societal challenge requiring time and emotional vulnerability.

I just dropped my son off at college. I now wonder if I was a good enough mom.

Parenting often involves self-reflection, questioning whether the balance of support and independence given to children is sufficient for their success.
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1 week ago

It was 'great relief' for Haruki Murakami to finish his latest novel

Haruki Murakami revisits and rewrites a decades-old novella with 'The City and its Uncertain Walls,' blending past themes with contemporary reflections.

The best advice I've ever been given': celebrities share their wisdom

Good advice empowers recipients, respects autonomy, and is timely, offering clarity without control.
#family-dynamics

Disclaimer Finale Recap: She Said

Catherine's reflections highlight the fragility of memory and the emotional turmoil stemming from past decisions, revealing a complex narrative of guilt and fear.

Harriette Cole: She's afraid of what people will say about her divorce

Your sister should prioritize her happiness and well-being when considering divorce, regardless of external judgments or gossip.

Disclaimer Finale Recap: She Said

Catherine's reflections highlight the fragility of memory and the emotional turmoil stemming from past decisions, revealing a complex narrative of guilt and fear.

Harriette Cole: She's afraid of what people will say about her divorce

Your sister should prioritize her happiness and well-being when considering divorce, regardless of external judgments or gossip.
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#horoscope

Your October Money Horoscope

Balance spending and saving during Libra season; engage in financial discussions.
Prepare for intense financial change, especially around the solar eclipse in October.
Use self-trust to navigate challenges presented by the full moon.

Here's Your Horoscope For Friday, November 8

Embrace creativity and innovative thinking today.
Trust yourself to handle challenges that arise.
Reassess feelings about romantic ideals versus reality.

Here's Your Horoscope For Tuesday, October 29

Old emotional patterns influence current behaviors, prompting people-pleasing tendencies.
To heal familial relationships, release childhood pains rather than doing it for others.

Your October Money Horoscope

Balance spending and saving during Libra season; engage in financial discussions.
Prepare for intense financial change, especially around the solar eclipse in October.
Use self-trust to navigate challenges presented by the full moon.

Here's Your Horoscope For Friday, November 8

Embrace creativity and innovative thinking today.
Trust yourself to handle challenges that arise.
Reassess feelings about romantic ideals versus reality.

Here's Your Horoscope For Tuesday, October 29

Old emotional patterns influence current behaviors, prompting people-pleasing tendencies.
To heal familial relationships, release childhood pains rather than doing it for others.
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#relationships

Maybe Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Best Friend

Expecting one person to fulfill all roles in a relationship can lead to disappointment; real fulfillment requires a broader support system.

I love my trans boyfriend, but sometimes I miss a certain body part - Queerty

It's natural to miss past experiences in a relationship, and it doesn't diminish your love for your partner.

Does Anyone Really Know You?

People can feel profoundly unknown even amidst loving relationships; this inner solitude can be both a source of sorrow and comfort.

Modern Morals: I think my boyfriend is about to propose - but I'm not ready and I can't ignore this feeling of dread

Understand that feeling conflicted about settling down is common.
Take the time to reflect on your feelings before any major commitment.
Communicate openly with your partner about your doubts and desires.

Maybe Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Best Friend

Expecting one person to fulfill all roles in a relationship can lead to disappointment; real fulfillment requires a broader support system.

I love my trans boyfriend, but sometimes I miss a certain body part - Queerty

It's natural to miss past experiences in a relationship, and it doesn't diminish your love for your partner.

Does Anyone Really Know You?

People can feel profoundly unknown even amidst loving relationships; this inner solitude can be both a source of sorrow and comfort.

Modern Morals: I think my boyfriend is about to propose - but I'm not ready and I can't ignore this feeling of dread

Understand that feeling conflicted about settling down is common.
Take the time to reflect on your feelings before any major commitment.
Communicate openly with your partner about your doubts and desires.
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#humor

Ways to Respond When You're Stressed and Someone Tells You "Not to Stress"

Emotional turmoil can lead to unexpected expressions of anger and stress release.

I asked ChatGPT to roast my Instagram feed - here's how you can too

ChatGPT provides a humorous and brutally honest critique of Instagram feeds, encouraging users to not take social media too seriously.

Men Are Sharing When They Had No Idea A Woman Was Hinting That She Liked Them, And It's Truly So Funny

The author reflects on a moment that triggered deep self-reflection and regret related to a seemingly trivial conversation about lip gloss.

Ways to Respond When You're Stressed and Someone Tells You "Not to Stress"

Emotional turmoil can lead to unexpected expressions of anger and stress release.

I asked ChatGPT to roast my Instagram feed - here's how you can too

ChatGPT provides a humorous and brutally honest critique of Instagram feeds, encouraging users to not take social media too seriously.

Men Are Sharing When They Had No Idea A Woman Was Hinting That She Liked Them, And It's Truly So Funny

The author reflects on a moment that triggered deep self-reflection and regret related to a seemingly trivial conversation about lip gloss.
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When Past Mistakes Influence Present Opportunities

Ghosts of past negotiations affect current performance; addressing them fosters resilience and clarity.

I Was A School Bully. Here's Why I Terrorized My Classmates.

Childhood experiences shape adult behavior, often leading to unresolved trauma that affects daily life.

Tim Dowling: my wife and I are swimming against the tide on our day at the beach

Traveling with dogs is a challenging adjustment filled with amusing observations and unintended realizations about societal behaviors.

Tell Me The "Trendy" Internet Things You've Bought, But Would Never Buy Again

Many people buy trendy products believing they will change their lives, but often end up disappointed.
#extroversion

From the Extroverted Ideal to Being Externally Referenced

Extroversion has become an ideal that leads individuals to identify themselves externally rather than embracing their internal identities.

I've been a people person' since before I could talk. But am I an extrovert?

The author reflects on the complexity of being an extrovert while battling anxiety, revealing that social interactions sometimes mask deeper insecurities.

From the Extroverted Ideal to Being Externally Referenced

Extroversion has become an ideal that leads individuals to identify themselves externally rather than embracing their internal identities.

I've been a people person' since before I could talk. But am I an extrovert?

The author reflects on the complexity of being an extrovert while battling anxiety, revealing that social interactions sometimes mask deeper insecurities.
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'Frantic' Martha Stewart 'tore her hair out' over husband's affair with her assistant

Martha Stewart experienced severe emotional distress due to her ex-husband Andrew's affair, as depicted in the documentary 'Martha.'

Lady Gaga Spreads 'Disease,' Looks Sickening

Lady Gaga's music video for "Disease" explores themes of inner demons and self-acceptance, reflecting her personal struggles with chaos and darkness.
#art

Juxtapoz Magazine - Staying Inside: An Interview with Felicia Chiao

Felicia Chiao finds peace in a solitary life, appreciating solitude while acknowledging challenges like potential loneliness and health issues.

Juxtapoz Magazine - Adam Lupton's "Soliloquy"

Adam Lupton's work showcases his artistic mastery through intimate narratives and self-reflection in his painting style.

Juxtapoz Magazine - Staying Inside: An Interview with Felicia Chiao

Felicia Chiao finds peace in a solitary life, appreciating solitude while acknowledging challenges like potential loneliness and health issues.

Juxtapoz Magazine - Adam Lupton's "Soliloquy"

Adam Lupton's work showcases his artistic mastery through intimate narratives and self-reflection in his painting style.
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21 Store-Bought Toppings That Will Upgrade Your Starbucks Frappuccino - Tasting Table

Embracing honesty about indulgent habits can enhance your enjoyment of treats like Frappuccinos, turning them into delightful desserts with added toppings.

Hasan Minhaj's Career Isn't the Only Thing the New Yorker Controversy Derailed

Hasan Minhaj's new special addresses previous controversies, showcasing his resilience and ability to blend humor with self-reflection amidst critical scrutiny.
#emotional-intelligence

Stress isn't all bad. Here's when it can help

Stress can be reframed as a positive response that prepares us for challenges, serving as motivation rather than a detriment.

Eva Mendes Gets Emotional About Her Biggest Parenting Struggle

Eva Mendes discusses breaking the cycle of parenting by fear and her struggle with yelling at her children.

These 4 Zodiac Signs Are Masters Of Self-Reflection

The zodiac signs that excel in self-reflection help balance impulsive traits by encouraging mindfulness and emotional awareness.

Stress isn't all bad. Here's when it can help

Stress can be reframed as a positive response that prepares us for challenges, serving as motivation rather than a detriment.

Eva Mendes Gets Emotional About Her Biggest Parenting Struggle

Eva Mendes discusses breaking the cycle of parenting by fear and her struggle with yelling at her children.

These 4 Zodiac Signs Are Masters Of Self-Reflection

The zodiac signs that excel in self-reflection help balance impulsive traits by encouraging mindfulness and emotional awareness.
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A Tarot Reading About Money: Week Of October 21 - 25, 2024

Scorpio season encourages self-reflection and confronting financial truths for personal growth and fulfillment.

A Foolproof Way to Respond to Awkward Personal Questions

Using prepared one-liners can help maintain boundaries in personal conversations and avoid oversharing.

What To Expect This Cuffing Season, According To A Tarot Reader

Autumn is a time to reassess love lives, broaden horizons in dating, and embrace new opportunities.
#personal-development

How to get better at finishing things

Humans struggle to finish tasks due to waiting for the perfect moment, which is unattainable.

5 ChatGPT Prompts To Write Your Principles (And Live By Them)

Creating written principles can empower decision-making and clarify personal values.

Creating Massive Change: How to Get Out of Our Own Way - Tiny Buddha

Self-subconscious beliefs can hinder personal growth and change, often manifesting through fears of commitment and connection.

How to get better at finishing things

Humans struggle to finish tasks due to waiting for the perfect moment, which is unattainable.

5 ChatGPT Prompts To Write Your Principles (And Live By Them)

Creating written principles can empower decision-making and clarify personal values.

Creating Massive Change: How to Get Out of Our Own Way - Tiny Buddha

Self-subconscious beliefs can hinder personal growth and change, often manifesting through fears of commitment and connection.
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Pamela Anderson Is Cooking Up Something Special at Her 100-Year-Old Farmhouse

Pamela Anderson's career is experiencing a renaissance, driven by self-reflection and creative opportunities following a personal home renovation.

'ME' Review: Don Hertzfeldt's Brilliant New Short Is an Apocalyptic Musical About Narcissism

The film critiques modern narcissism as a defense mechanism against unavoidable pain and mortality.

How to Live Each Day With a Childlike Heart

Reclaiming childlike wonder requires overcoming the conditioning of our minds that dulls present experiences.

How milestone birthdays can derail CEO focus-and harm company performance

CEOs experience significant self-reflection and behavioral changes as they approach milestone birthdays, impacting their management and corporate performance.

Unleashed: John Crace digests Boris Johnson's memoir podcast

Boris Johnson's memoir may intend to redeem him but likely reopens old resentments rather than foster renewed affection.
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1 month ago

In a Pair of Musicals, Gabriel Kahane Seeks America and Himself

Kahane's works provide a thoughtful reflection on personal struggles during pivotal historical events like the 2016 election and the COVID pandemic.

Ryan Coogan: I took this new viral personality test - and realised something shocking about myself

The perception of intelligence varies, with 'common sense' often dismissed in favor of book smarts.
from BKReader
1 month ago

L'Shana Tova, Brooklyn! Here's How to Celebrate The Jewish New Year

Rosh Hashanah is a significant Jewish holiday for reflection, renewal, and celebrating the new year.

The 3-Step Approach to Building a Secure Relationship

Understanding attachment styles is key to forming healthy emotional connections that can disrupt cycles of insecurity.

How Can I Do the Right Thing?

Goodness is an internal quality cultivated through habits, aligning with Aristotle's virtue ethics that emphasize character over external rules.
#leadership

Five Ways to Mistake-Proof Your Thinking

Understanding cognitive biases can help leaders make better decisions and avoid mistakes.
Recognizing the inherent limitations in our thinking improves our decision-making processes.

Why Every Leader Should Write a "How to Work With Me" Manual | Entrepreneur

Creating a 'How to Work With Me' manual enhances team collaboration by clarifying communication preferences and leadership styles.

Five Ways to Mistake-Proof Your Thinking

Understanding cognitive biases can help leaders make better decisions and avoid mistakes.
Recognizing the inherent limitations in our thinking improves our decision-making processes.

Why Every Leader Should Write a "How to Work With Me" Manual | Entrepreneur

Creating a 'How to Work With Me' manual enhances team collaboration by clarifying communication preferences and leadership styles.
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#mental-health

A New Study Shows Your Dementia Risk May Increase If You Have This Mental Health Condition

Identifying and reducing anxiety triggers is crucial for managing anxiety and potential dementia connections.

How to Stop Self-Obsessing and Be Happier

Excessive introspection can entrap individuals in depression, leading to a cycle of misery rather than self-discovery.

Romola Garai: For a lot of my 20s, I was rude, annoying and a brat'

Romola Garai candidly addresses her fears, vulnerabilities, and admiration for healthcare workers, accentuating her complex personality and creative journey.

A New Study Shows Your Dementia Risk May Increase If You Have This Mental Health Condition

Identifying and reducing anxiety triggers is crucial for managing anxiety and potential dementia connections.

How to Stop Self-Obsessing and Be Happier

Excessive introspection can entrap individuals in depression, leading to a cycle of misery rather than self-discovery.

Romola Garai: For a lot of my 20s, I was rude, annoying and a brat'

Romola Garai candidly addresses her fears, vulnerabilities, and admiration for healthcare workers, accentuating her complex personality and creative journey.
moremental-health
#entrepreneurship

Considering a Big Career Change? Michelle Obama Said 16 Words You Need to Hear

Consider the insight of Michelle Obama when facing big career changes: your doubts are worth listening to.

The First 5 Things I'd Do if I Were Starting My Business Over Today

Consistent self-reflection and simplifying processes are key for entrepreneurial success.

Considering a Big Career Change? Michelle Obama Said 16 Words You Need to Hear

Consider the insight of Michelle Obama when facing big career changes: your doubts are worth listening to.

The First 5 Things I'd Do if I Were Starting My Business Over Today

Consistent self-reflection and simplifying processes are key for entrepreneurial success.
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This Woman Accepted A "Shut Up Ring," And She's Sharing Her Story So You Don't Make This Mistake

Monica's experience illustrates that external symbols of commitment do not resolve underlying relationship issues.

Let Your Tears Flow: The Proven Benefits of Crying - Tiny Buddha

Crying is a courageous expression of emotions that aids self-understanding and emotional regulation.

Olga Steinepreis' self portraits unpack the pressure to be the 'perfect' mother

Olga uses photography to cope with motherhood's challenges and represents the struggle against gendered expectations in parenting.

What do YOU see first? Optical illusion test reveals deepest desires

The way you perceive optical illusions can reveal your deepest desires and personality traits.

I'm Sober. Do I Have to Feel Bad About the Good Times I Had Drinking?

Sobriety does not require denying past enjoyable experiences with alcohol, but reflecting on their impact is essential for recovery.

A gratitude and compassion meditation exercise, and living in the real world (Earth School)

Gratitude meditation fosters a deep connection to oneself and others, emphasizing love, understanding, and acceptance of individual journeys through life.

I regret having a big wedding. If I could go back in time, I would elope instead.

The wedding planning process often becomes about pleasing others rather than the couple's desires.

'E.B., what are you doing?' Eric Bieniemy blames himself for UCLA's rocky start

Eric Bieniemy emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and accountability as he navigates challenges in his first season as UCLA's offensive coordinator.

Jude Law: Playing Henry VIII messed up my back. I'm still trying to sort it out'

Jude Law reflects on his formative years in theater and a shift in perspective on acting roles throughout his career.
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