Leave the hurt behind! How to let go of a grudgeSome grudges, even if minor, can significantly affect our perceptions and interactions for decades.
Hotel worker caught stealing money from newlyweds' wedding cardsA hotel staff member stole money from newlyweds' wedding cards, leading to a devastating experience for the couple.
Should I Take or Waive Alimony or Child Support During My Divorce?The decision to waive spousal or child support hinges on various emotional and financial factors.Emotional implications of support payments can be profound, affecting self-worth and closure.
OpenAI says ChatGPT might be making its most frequent users more lonelyChatGPT's high usage may correlate with increased loneliness, particularly among 'power users.'Voice interactions initially alleviate loneliness, but long-term use may reverse benefits.
My Brother's Dog Viciously Attacked My 6-Year-Old. His Reaction Has Left Me Shaken.Family dynamics can change drastically after a traumatic event, impacting relationships and decisions on participation in family gatherings.
Adults Are Recalling The Childhood Experiences They Believed To Be "Normal" When, In Fact, They Weren'tMany children grow up anticipating their parent's mood before interacting, impacting their emotional development.
Is 'Flow' scary for young kids? The animated Oscar winner has some dark themes'Flow' is a visually stunning film but may evoke strong emotional responses in some children.
Mom shares her seven-year-old's heartbreaking drawing of her working - and it hits you right in the heartThe emotional conflict of balancing work and parenting during the pandemic is universal among parents.
My husband refuses to hold our baby because she's a girlSammie Head's recent TikTok clip depicting her husband's rejection of their daughter was met with widespread horror rather than humor.
Teenagers Are Sharing Specific Things Their Parents Do That Really, Really Bother ThemNegative parental reactions can lead to secrecy and a fear of sharing information.Parental disapproval can cause frustration and impact a child's confidence.
My Brother's Dog Viciously Attacked My 6-Year-Old. His Reaction Has Left Me Shaken.Family dynamics can change drastically after a traumatic event, impacting relationships and decisions on participation in family gatherings.
Adults Are Recalling The Childhood Experiences They Believed To Be "Normal" When, In Fact, They Weren'tMany children grow up anticipating their parent's mood before interacting, impacting their emotional development.
Is 'Flow' scary for young kids? The animated Oscar winner has some dark themes'Flow' is a visually stunning film but may evoke strong emotional responses in some children.
Mom shares her seven-year-old's heartbreaking drawing of her working - and it hits you right in the heartThe emotional conflict of balancing work and parenting during the pandemic is universal among parents.
My husband refuses to hold our baby because she's a girlSammie Head's recent TikTok clip depicting her husband's rejection of their daughter was met with widespread horror rather than humor.
Teenagers Are Sharing Specific Things Their Parents Do That Really, Really Bother ThemNegative parental reactions can lead to secrecy and a fear of sharing information.Parental disapproval can cause frustration and impact a child's confidence.
Karen Read case: Docuseries finale reveals Read's emotions as she awaited her fateKaren Read's emotional struggles are revealed during the jury deliberations of her murder trial.
Karren Brady left terrified after burglar targets 6million Belgravia home in series of raidsBaroness Karren Brady expresses feeling unsafe in her home after multiple burglaries, highlighting the emotional impact of crime on personal security.
The Pitt Recap: Cheap ShotsThe episode poignantly explores the emotional toll on medical staff after a distressing case involving a child's drowning.
Adolescence to The Virtues: the most heartbreaking TV of all timeAdolescence is a profoundly impactful show that may require viewers to decompress afterwards.
The Human Cost of 18-Wheeler Accidents: Navigating the Legal Landscape18-wheeler accidents lead to devastating injuries and fatalities, requiring victims to navigate complex emotional, physical, and legal challenges.
The 2 hours sex with my BossTrauma from sexual violence can lead to complex feelings of both pleasure and pain in survivors.
The Pitt Recap: Cheap ShotsThe episode poignantly explores the emotional toll on medical staff after a distressing case involving a child's drowning.
Adolescence to The Virtues: the most heartbreaking TV of all timeAdolescence is a profoundly impactful show that may require viewers to decompress afterwards.
The Human Cost of 18-Wheeler Accidents: Navigating the Legal Landscape18-wheeler accidents lead to devastating injuries and fatalities, requiring victims to navigate complex emotional, physical, and legal challenges.
The 2 hours sex with my BossTrauma from sexual violence can lead to complex feelings of both pleasure and pain in survivors.
'Tarzan' Is The Saddest Disney Movie. Full Stop.Tarzan evokes profound emotions, especially when revisited as a parent, highlighting poignant themes of loss and love that resonate deeply.
Never fails to make my day': readers on their feelgood moviesNostalgia plays a significant role in how people connect with classic movies.Many viewers cherish films for their emotional depth and relatable themes.
I don't care what they play at my funeral. I'm not going to be there': Ross Kemp's honest playlistMusic has a powerful emotional impact and can evoke strong memories, both positive and negative.
'Tarzan' Is The Saddest Disney Movie. Full Stop.Tarzan evokes profound emotions, especially when revisited as a parent, highlighting poignant themes of loss and love that resonate deeply.
Never fails to make my day': readers on their feelgood moviesNostalgia plays a significant role in how people connect with classic movies.Many viewers cherish films for their emotional depth and relatable themes.
I don't care what they play at my funeral. I'm not going to be there': Ross Kemp's honest playlistMusic has a powerful emotional impact and can evoke strong memories, both positive and negative.
Mandy Moore's real reaction to Jack's 'This Is Us' death? 'Relief'Mandy Moore expressed relief over revealing her character's husband's death on 'This Is Us,' allowing her character to start healing.
Divorced Men Revealed "Dark Secrets" From Their Previous Marriage That Other Men Should KnowNavigating relationships and separations can be complex, highlighting the emotional, physical, and relational challenges individuals face.
THE DANGER OF A CHEATING WIFE OR INFIDELITY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP.Infidelity causes lasting emotional harm and distrust in relationships, impacting all involved parties significantly.
When Pain Becomes PurposeChildhood trauma profoundly impacts adult relationships and emotional health.
The Silent Social Struggles of Autistic PeopleAutism impairs social communication and leads to emotional challenges, often resulting in social rejection and loneliness for those affected.
My ex made more money than I did. Eventually, it tore us apart.Financial disparity can create significant emotional strain in a relationship, often leading to feelings of isolation and eventual breakdown.Open discussions about financial issues are crucial, but they can alter the dynamic of a relationship.
Asking for a friend: I've been ghosted by a guy I really liked. The sex was amazing and we had a strong connection. I'm devastated...The experience of ghosting can be devastating, especially after building a strong connection.
Divorced Men Revealed "Dark Secrets" From Their Previous Marriage That Other Men Should KnowNavigating relationships and separations can be complex, highlighting the emotional, physical, and relational challenges individuals face.
THE DANGER OF A CHEATING WIFE OR INFIDELITY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP.Infidelity causes lasting emotional harm and distrust in relationships, impacting all involved parties significantly.
When Pain Becomes PurposeChildhood trauma profoundly impacts adult relationships and emotional health.
The Silent Social Struggles of Autistic PeopleAutism impairs social communication and leads to emotional challenges, often resulting in social rejection and loneliness for those affected.
My ex made more money than I did. Eventually, it tore us apart.Financial disparity can create significant emotional strain in a relationship, often leading to feelings of isolation and eventual breakdown.Open discussions about financial issues are crucial, but they can alter the dynamic of a relationship.
Asking for a friend: I've been ghosted by a guy I really liked. The sex was amazing and we had a strong connection. I'm devastated...The experience of ghosting can be devastating, especially after building a strong connection.
Are Any Aggressions Really Micro?Microaggressions, though subtle, can significantly affect emotional well-being.Focusing on the recipient's experience is crucial to address harm.Educating individuals on microaggressions is critical for reducing their occurrence.
Opinion | I Have a Disability. This Is What It's Like for Me to Read.Struggling readers experience frustration and insecurity that can hinder their ability to engage with text, regardless of topic interest.
Commentary: After the fires, starting from scratch in their 70s, 80s and 90sOlder adults face unique challenges when rebuilding their lives after losing their homes to fires.
After the FiresThe Felix Art Fair served as a backdrop for artists grappling with personal and collective trauma amid recent wildfires and political unrest.
With their Los Angeles-area homes still smoldering, families return to search the ruins for memoriesThe devastation from wildfires in Los Angeles has left communities facing significant challenges in rebuilding after the loss of over 12,000 structures.
Letter to Los Angeles from another disaster zoneEmotional experiences following natural disasters involve significant trauma, loss, and the struggle to regain normalcy.
This week's tablehopper: with love. (free)The ongoing fires in LA have caused significant loss and emotional strain, prompting gratitude for life's simple blessings amidst the turmoil.
After the FiresThe Felix Art Fair served as a backdrop for artists grappling with personal and collective trauma amid recent wildfires and political unrest.
With their Los Angeles-area homes still smoldering, families return to search the ruins for memoriesThe devastation from wildfires in Los Angeles has left communities facing significant challenges in rebuilding after the loss of over 12,000 structures.
Letter to Los Angeles from another disaster zoneEmotional experiences following natural disasters involve significant trauma, loss, and the struggle to regain normalcy.
This week's tablehopper: with love. (free)The ongoing fires in LA have caused significant loss and emotional strain, prompting gratitude for life's simple blessings amidst the turmoil.
Sharks' Warsofsky feels for young forward after Zetterlund trade: He just lost his best friend'The Sharks are emotionally affected by trades, especially William Eklund after the loss of friend Fabian Zetterlund to Ottawa.
Volunteers help fired federal workers re-enter the job marketFederal employees are facing emotional and practical challenges after being abruptly terminated, seeking support and resources for their next steps.
UC Berkeley community rallies after Eaton Fire destroys Cal football player's homeCalifornia wildfires have devastated families, including that of UC Berkeley football player Camden Jones, leading to emotional turmoil and community support.
"It's Disgusting": Jimmy Kimmel Spots "Vile" LA Fires Reaction From RepublicansKimmel spoke emotionally about the duality of recent tragedies: shock and loss juxtaposed with community support and resilience.
Volunteers help fired federal workers re-enter the job marketFederal employees are facing emotional and practical challenges after being abruptly terminated, seeking support and resources for their next steps.
UC Berkeley community rallies after Eaton Fire destroys Cal football player's homeCalifornia wildfires have devastated families, including that of UC Berkeley football player Camden Jones, leading to emotional turmoil and community support.
"It's Disgusting": Jimmy Kimmel Spots "Vile" LA Fires Reaction From RepublicansKimmel spoke emotionally about the duality of recent tragedies: shock and loss juxtaposed with community support and resilience.
The Wi-Fi Code Is TrumpLovesYou,' but the Cafe's Clients Aren't Feeling ItUS military aid suspension leaves Ukrainians feeling abandoned and distressed.
At a Draft Site in Ukraine, an Anguished Wait for a Chance to Say GoodbyeFamilies anxiously await men's departure for military service, revealing the emotional toll of war and the abrupt nature of recruitment in Ukraine.
The Wi-Fi Code Is TrumpLovesYou,' but the Cafe's Clients Aren't Feeling ItUS military aid suspension leaves Ukrainians feeling abandoned and distressed.
At a Draft Site in Ukraine, an Anguished Wait for a Chance to Say GoodbyeFamilies anxiously await men's departure for military service, revealing the emotional toll of war and the abrupt nature of recruitment in Ukraine.
What kids took with them when they fled the L.A. wildfiresChildren faced difficult choices during evacuations due to wildfires, learning the importance of personal belongings they cherish.
Losing Homes, and the Dream of OneThe desire for homeownership amid a crisis poses emotional dilemmas for individuals affected by disasters.
More Than a Week After the Fires, Los Angeles Evacuees Remain in LimboWildfires have displaced residents, leaving them in a state of uncertainty and emotional turmoil as they navigate recovery and loss.
Anthony Davis reveals he had to evacuate home during wildfiresAnthony Davis discussed the emotional turmoil of evacuating his home during the wildfires, highlighting the impact on his family and community.
What kids took with them when they fled the L.A. wildfiresChildren faced difficult choices during evacuations due to wildfires, learning the importance of personal belongings they cherish.
Losing Homes, and the Dream of OneThe desire for homeownership amid a crisis poses emotional dilemmas for individuals affected by disasters.
More Than a Week After the Fires, Los Angeles Evacuees Remain in LimboWildfires have displaced residents, leaving them in a state of uncertainty and emotional turmoil as they navigate recovery and loss.
Anthony Davis reveals he had to evacuate home during wildfiresAnthony Davis discussed the emotional turmoil of evacuating his home during the wildfires, highlighting the impact on his family and community.
The Trade, three weeks on: Doncic, Davis and the art of the NBA breakupLuka Doncic's emotional reunion with Dallas Mavericks highlights the complex and human side of sports trades.
People Are Dishing On The Wildest Wedding Drama They've Witnessed, And That's It, I'm Eloping In SecretFamily tensions can overshadow significant life events like weddings.Negative family dynamics can lead to emotional distress during joyous occasions.
My dead parents lied about being poorThe woman discovered expensive items in her deceased parents' home, contradicting their claims of financial hardship during her upbringing.
When Racial Microaggressions Harm White People, TooRacial microaggressions can inflict profound harm on both individuals targeted and their loved ones, creating feelings of helplessness and shame.
People Are Dishing On The Wildest Wedding Drama They've Witnessed, And That's It, I'm Eloping In SecretFamily tensions can overshadow significant life events like weddings.Negative family dynamics can lead to emotional distress during joyous occasions.
My dead parents lied about being poorThe woman discovered expensive items in her deceased parents' home, contradicting their claims of financial hardship during her upbringing.
When Racial Microaggressions Harm White People, TooRacial microaggressions can inflict profound harm on both individuals targeted and their loved ones, creating feelings of helplessness and shame.
Nearly one million British children scammed online in last yearYoung people, especially those aged 13, are significantly impacted by online scams, leading to emotional distress and financial loss.Parents desire more support and guidance to help navigate online safety discussions with their children.
What Hook-Up Culture Means for Your TeenHook-up culture prevalent among teens often obscures genuine emotional needs.Most teens may feel pressured to hook up rather than understanding the implications of their actions.
From Government Lawyer To Private Sector Lawyer: How To Prepare For A Legal Career Change - Above the LawFederal government lawyers are facing challenges in transitioning to the private sector amidst market shifts and executive orders.
Infertility and the Fear of VanishingInfertility can trigger thanatophobia, highlighting fears of mortality and legacy.
When I retired I didn't feel carefree, I felt lost. Turns out, I needed a schedule.Early retirement can lead to emotional struggles, even if financially prepared.
I'm Pushing 50 With a $9.4 Million Net Worth but I'm Scared to Retire. What's Wrong With Me?Retiring early is complex, considering healthcare, financial access, and emotional impacts.Significant savings can make early retirement viable, but challenges remain.
When I retired I didn't feel carefree, I felt lost. Turns out, I needed a schedule.Early retirement can lead to emotional struggles, even if financially prepared.
I'm Pushing 50 With a $9.4 Million Net Worth but I'm Scared to Retire. What's Wrong With Me?Retiring early is complex, considering healthcare, financial access, and emotional impacts.Significant savings can make early retirement viable, but challenges remain.
Ask a money coach: 'My partner earns a lot less than me but I don't want to pay more towards our shared bills'Income disparities in relationships can lead to discomfort about financial responsibilities.
'I didn't know Marie Kilmartin was my mother at her funeral - now I'm on a quest to find justice for her'A daughter seeks justice for her mother's murder after 30 years, emphasizing the need for community involvement in cold cases.
East Bay siblings sentenced for roles in October 2021 murder of missing Carmel teenJessica Yesenia Quintanilla was sentenced to 25 years to life for fatal shooting, while her brother received four years for being an accessory.
'I didn't know Marie Kilmartin was my mother at her funeral - now I'm on a quest to find justice for her'A daughter seeks justice for her mother's murder after 30 years, emphasizing the need for community involvement in cold cases.
East Bay siblings sentenced for roles in October 2021 murder of missing Carmel teenJessica Yesenia Quintanilla was sentenced to 25 years to life for fatal shooting, while her brother received four years for being an accessory.
She wanted to be a mom. So she chose a cancer treatment that gave her a chanceMaggie Loucks' journey highlights the emotional impact of breast cancer on motherhood aspirations and the advancements in targeted cancer treatments.
Why the Egg Industry Is Losing the Battle with Bird FluThe emotional and financial strain of managing avian flu outbreaks weighs heavily on poultry producers like Herbruck's Poultry Ranch.
Federal Workers Grapple With Trump's War on BureaucracyThe abrupt mass firings at U.S.A.I.D. have left employees in emotional turmoil, fearing retribution and worrying about global impacts.Jacqueline Devine highlights the personal grief of those affected by the firings, revealing the emotional toll and uncertainty they now face.
How to Not Lose It Completely During Trump's Second PresidencyMany felt 'punch-drunk' after Trump's probable reelection, a sentiment echoing emotional trauma from the current political landscape.
Federal Workers Grapple With Trump's War on BureaucracyThe abrupt mass firings at U.S.A.I.D. have left employees in emotional turmoil, fearing retribution and worrying about global impacts.Jacqueline Devine highlights the personal grief of those affected by the firings, revealing the emotional toll and uncertainty they now face.
How to Not Lose It Completely During Trump's Second PresidencyMany felt 'punch-drunk' after Trump's probable reelection, a sentiment echoing emotional trauma from the current political landscape.
Circles of lifeThe plane crash in 1961 profoundly impacted the figure skating community, shaping generations of skaters and highlighting the sport's emotional depth.
Justin Baldoni admits he 'had an intense year' in emotional interview to air amid Blake Lively legal battleJustin Baldoni reflects on a difficult year amid legal battles with Blake Lively, claiming anxiety and emotional strain from the accusations.
Inhuman': As Modi visits Trump, outrage over shackled Indian deporteesUS deported 104 Indians, escalating concerns over immigrant treatment; raises questions about Modi's influence over Trump ahead of his Washington visit.
The 3 Worst Financial Decisions I've Made All Have One Thing in Common-Here's What I Wish I Knew SoonerBuying a house prematurely often leads to significant financial losses.Emotional decisions can negatively impact financial outcomes.
Watching Your House Burn on a Ring CameraHome-security technology allows real-time monitoring of natural disasters, creating emotional distress for homeowners witnessing their properties in peril.
The Agony of the ListWildfires in California have devastating impacts, forcing homeowners to document their lost belongings for insurance amid severe market challenges.
Watching Your House Burn on a Ring CameraHome-security technology allows real-time monitoring of natural disasters, creating emotional distress for homeowners witnessing their properties in peril.
The Agony of the ListWildfires in California have devastating impacts, forcing homeowners to document their lost belongings for insurance amid severe market challenges.
The Weather Station: HumanhoodThe Weather Station's 'Humanhood' explores personal trauma and environmental crisis through immersive music, reflecting the potential for rebuilding after destruction.
Brokeback Mountain at 20: the gay cowboy flick' now rightfully regarded as a tragic masterpieceBrokeback Mountain's emotional impact intensifies over time, reflecting deep themes of love, freedom, and societal confinement.
Emotional NTSB Spokesman Asks Media To Advocate For Change After DC Crash: It's Not Fair, It Could Be Your Family'NTSB member Todd Inman stressed the emotional toll on families after a fatal mid-air collision and called for safety improvements in aviation.
Palestinians in Gaza look ahead with hope and fear amid uncertain ceasefireResidents of Deir el-Balah experience a mix of relief and grief after the ceasefire, hopeful yet haunted by personal losses during the conflict.
Not Returning Breaks My Heart.' A Gazan in Egypt Considers Where to Go NextAmal Murtaja's experience reflects the deep ambivalence and emotional turbulence of seeking safety after trauma in Gaza.
I told my son to keep strong let's wait for dad': Thailand hopes for return of its last Hamas hostageThe emotional struggle of families awaiting news of loved ones held hostage in Gaza is profound, marked by sorrow and uncertainty.
Palestinians in Gaza look ahead with hope and fear amid uncertain ceasefireResidents of Deir el-Balah experience a mix of relief and grief after the ceasefire, hopeful yet haunted by personal losses during the conflict.
Not Returning Breaks My Heart.' A Gazan in Egypt Considers Where to Go NextAmal Murtaja's experience reflects the deep ambivalence and emotional turbulence of seeking safety after trauma in Gaza.
I told my son to keep strong let's wait for dad': Thailand hopes for return of its last Hamas hostageThe emotional struggle of families awaiting news of loved ones held hostage in Gaza is profound, marked by sorrow and uncertainty.
Oscars 2025 Best Picture Nominees, Ranked by How Much They'll Bum You OutOscar-nominated films are often seen as important yet emotionally heavy, prompting alternative rankings based on viewer enjoyment rather than critical quality.
How Survivors Can Provide Cancer First AidCancer survivors experience complex emotions when learning about new cancer diagnoses among acquaintances.Compassionate presence can help combat feelings of helplessness in those supporting cancer patients.
Pictures of a Ruined CityDevin Oktar Yalkin captures the emotional aftermath of the Eaton Canyon fire, emphasizing ethical photography amidst disaster.
Falling in love with a chatbotAI romantic connections face limitations due to context memory restrictions.The story highlights the emotional struggles associated with AI relationships.
Hostages Are Being Freed. Some Israelis Ask: At What Cost?The release of hostages raises conflicting emotions in Israel due to the price of freeing Palestinian prisoners.
The Surprising Grief of Having Your Home Survive a WildfireSurviving a devastating fire brings mixed emotions of relief and grief for lost community and cherished memories.
How Will L.A. Rebuild? Tubbs Fire Recovery in Wine Country Offers Clues.The Williamsons' collection is a metaphor for resilience amidst loss and the long recovery journey faced by wildfire survivors.
The Surprising Grief of Having Your Home Survive a WildfireSurviving a devastating fire brings mixed emotions of relief and grief for lost community and cherished memories.
How Will L.A. Rebuild? Tubbs Fire Recovery in Wine Country Offers Clues.The Williamsons' collection is a metaphor for resilience amidst loss and the long recovery journey faced by wildfire survivors.
I handled inheritances all the time as an elder lawyer. Receiving my own made me less afraid of retirement - but I wasn't prepared for the guilt.Inheritance can bring both financial gain and emotional turmoil, especially for self-made individuals.
The gripping story of how Oreo the dog was rescued from the L.A. firesIn sudden evacuations, people often leave pets behind, leading to devastating emotional distress.
Teenager who stabbed schoolgirl to death in row over a teddy bear guilty of murderA teenager was convicted of murdering Elianne Andam after a confrontation escalated over a missing teddy bear.
Review: Flawed people come beautifully alive in Samantha Schoech's short storiesSamantha Schoech's debut collection, "My Mother's Boyfriends," effectively evokes lasting emotional impressions through its rich storytelling and poignant endings.
Consistent Color-Emotion Correspondences Across 128 YearsColors influence emotions, but interpretations are context-dependent, as highlighted by recent research.
Retractions caused by honest mistakes are extremely stressful, say researchersRetraction of research papers due to honest mistakes causes significant stress to authors, highlighting emotional impacts rarely discussed in scientific publishing.
Chronic Pain Afflicts Billions of People. It's Time for a Revolution.Chronic pain is often misunderstood and can lead to emotional and physical struggles for sufferers.
When 17 Women Refused To Date Their Male Best Friends, Their Relationships Took An Unfortunate TurnRejection of romantic advances can severely alter friendship dynamics, sometimes leading to exploitation and loss of trust.
I evacuated Los Angeles with my wife and 2 young sons. We're focusing on keeping things as routine as possible and reminding them they're safe.Dr. Warsh's family evacuated due to the Palisades fire, highlighting concerns about both physical safety and kids' emotional well-being.
The Pitt Recap: Physician Heal ThyselfThe Pitt explores the intersection of intense medical drama and the emotional experiences of patients and their families in emergency medicine.
How power changes leadersPower changes leaders at a cognitive and emotional level, impacting their relationships and decision-making processes.
Heidi Montag reduced to tears after her and Spencer Pratt's house destroyed in Palisades Fire: 'I just want to go home'Heidi Montag expresses profound sadness over losing her family home to the Palisades Fire, while also being grateful for their safety.
Tell us about the times you feel TV has gone too farTV shows often push boundaries, leading to viewer discomfort and discussions about what is acceptable in entertainment.
Our Fight Against Trumpism Must Center Respect for Human DignityMany people felt overwhelmed and stunned by Trump's reelection announcement, significantly impacting their emotional state.Trump's administration's plans have intensified feelings of disorientation and concern among those opposing him.
My Husband Sent Me A Seemingly Innocent Text. It Led Me To Discover He'd Been Cheating For Years.Discovering my husband's infidelity just days before Valentine's Day highlighted the irony of discussing healthy relationships amidst personal turmoil.
Sorry, but purple is the worst colorPurple is a confusing color for branding, conveying indecision and emotional ambiguity.