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fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago
Women in technology

One of Our Colleagues Ruins the Mood of Every Office Party With His Approach to "Fun"

Be mindful that workplace events can be seen differently by colleagues.
Avoid engaging with those whose behavior you find annoying, focusing instead on your own experience.
fromBusiness Insider
5 days ago
Parenting

I'm no longer writing thank-you notes, and I'm not making my kids do it, either

Thank-you notes are often rooted in obligation and guilt rather than genuine gratitude.
Expressing gratitude can take various forms, and traditional etiquette should not dictate how it's done.
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago
Dining

"I Ghosted My Friend After She Asked To Split Her Birthday Bill. Was I Unfair?"

The restaurant owners charged guests for a private birthday celebration, which many assumed was complimentary.
#interpersonal-relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Cooking

Miss Manners: They urge me to reconcile with my parents, but they don't know the true story

Polite acknowledgment can deflect invasive inquiries about personal family matters.
fromAll Singles And Married
2 weeks ago
Relationships

SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT MAY HELP YOU.

Politeness and respect are essential in social interactions.
It’s important to acknowledge that personal boundaries exist in conversations.
Demonstrating integrity reinforces trust in relationships.
Treat everyone with dignity, regardless of their status.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Cooking

Miss Manners: They urge me to reconcile with my parents, but they don't know the true story

Polite acknowledgment can deflect invasive inquiries about personal family matters.
fromAll Singles And Married
2 weeks ago
Relationships

SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT MAY HELP YOU.

Politeness and respect are essential in social interactions.
It’s important to acknowledge that personal boundaries exist in conversations.
Demonstrating integrity reinforces trust in relationships.
Treat everyone with dignity, regardless of their status.
more#interpersonal-relationships
#family-dynamics
Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: After years in the woods, I have trouble with my new suburban neighbors

Establish personal boundaries with neighbors and family without being confrontational, prioritizing personal space and individual preferences.
fromNew York Post
5 months ago
NYC parents

We have to sign a 'family code of conduct' and agree to a dress code on Thanksgiving - or we can't eat dinner

Strict rules for Thanksgiving gatherings are becoming popular among families for promoting harmony, despite some viewing them as overreaching.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: They insist on calling me by my husband's name and I'm the rude one?

Respecting individuals' choices about their names is important to avoid legal confusions and personal conflicts.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
East Bay (California)

Dear Abby: Not to be a grinch, but this person's presence will ruin the holiday concert

It’s important to respect friends' choices about invitations, even when uncomfortable, to maintain harmony in relationships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago
NYC parents

Miss Manners: What do I say to their implication that my grandchildren aren't real?

It's important to affirm the reality of all family members, regardless of biological connections, and to address inquiries about them tactfully.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
Digital life

Miss Manners: Years later, I'm wondering what I could have said to this uncalled-for remark

Expressing discomfort through vocalization helps convey disapproval of inappropriate comments without being overly confrontational.
In professional settings, addressing quirky behaviors should be done kindly, promoting a cohesive work environment.
Parenting
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: After years in the woods, I have trouble with my new suburban neighbors

Establish personal boundaries with neighbors and family without being confrontational, prioritizing personal space and individual preferences.
fromNew York Post
5 months ago
NYC parents

We have to sign a 'family code of conduct' and agree to a dress code on Thanksgiving - or we can't eat dinner

Strict rules for Thanksgiving gatherings are becoming popular among families for promoting harmony, despite some viewing them as overreaching.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: They insist on calling me by my husband's name and I'm the rude one?

Respecting individuals' choices about their names is important to avoid legal confusions and personal conflicts.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
East Bay (California)

Dear Abby: Not to be a grinch, but this person's presence will ruin the holiday concert

It’s important to respect friends' choices about invitations, even when uncomfortable, to maintain harmony in relationships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago
NYC parents

Miss Manners: What do I say to their implication that my grandchildren aren't real?

It's important to affirm the reality of all family members, regardless of biological connections, and to address inquiries about them tactfully.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
7 months ago
Digital life

Miss Manners: Years later, I'm wondering what I could have said to this uncalled-for remark

Expressing discomfort through vocalization helps convey disapproval of inappropriate comments without being overly confrontational.
In professional settings, addressing quirky behaviors should be done kindly, promoting a cohesive work environment.
more#family-dynamics
fromInsideHook
3 weeks ago
Canada news

A Gracious Guide for Americans Visiting Greenland

Understanding and respecting Inuit culture is crucial when visiting Greenland.
#public-transport
fromwww.newsshopper.co.uk
1 month ago
London

The most embarrassing things you should never do on the London Underground

Avoiding embarrassing behaviors on the London Underground is crucial for maintaining social harmony.
Social faux pas like stopping at escalators and using loudspeakers on phones invite second-hand embarrassment among Londoners.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Hell is other people who won't wear headphones | Letters

People often ignore the impact of their loud phone usage in public spaces, reflecting selfishness and inconsideration.
fromwww.newsshopper.co.uk
1 month ago
London

The most embarrassing things you should never do on the London Underground

Avoiding embarrassing behaviors on the London Underground is crucial for maintaining social harmony.
Social faux pas like stopping at escalators and using loudspeakers on phones invite second-hand embarrassment among Londoners.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Hell is other people who won't wear headphones | Letters

People often ignore the impact of their loud phone usage in public spaces, reflecting selfishness and inconsideration.
more#public-transport
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago
SF food

What is a 'fanum tax'? The meaning behind the slang term

'Fanum tax' is a humorous concept originating from streamer Fanum, referring to the expectation of sharing food among friends.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago
Food & drink

The best possible wedding gift? Leaving the reception without saying goodbye | Polly Hudson

Guests should quietly leave weddings instead of saying goodbye to allow the couple to enjoy their special day without interruptions.
#public-behavior
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: I fear I reacted inappropriately to the cigarette burn

Conflict aversion can complicate how we respond to others' recklessness, affecting our sense of dignity and propriety.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: I fear I reacted inappropriately to the cigarette burn

Conflict aversion can complicate how we respond to others' recklessness, affecting our sense of dignity and propriety.
more#public-behavior
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
US news

This Person Called Out Americans For Wearing Shoes In The House, And It Sparked A Worldwide Debate

Cultural differences in shoe etiquette highlight varying practices between Americans and people from other countries regarding cleanliness and respect in homes.
Food & drink
fromNew York Post
1 month ago

Parents are now asking for tips to cover kids' birthday party costs - and other moms and dads are enraged: 'Absofrigginglutely not'

Tipping at children's birthday parties is becoming an expected norm, prompting debate among parents about its appropriateness.
Retirement
from24/7 Wall St.
2 months ago

Has Tipping Gotten Out of Hand? Here Are the Current Social Rules

Tipping culture in America is expanding, fueled by digital payment systems and evolving social expectations.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Photography

Miss Manners: A well-off volunteer took a gift card I put out for our homeless clients

Volunteers should communicate that donated items are strictly for those in need, not for personal use.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: Someone should have reined in these kids at the theater

Audience behavior norms have evolved; participation is increasingly common, and expectations vary by venue.
It is possible to respectfully decline supporting a controversial charity while still supporting a friend.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Writing

Asking Eric: I get uncomfortable when they compliment my hair

You can accept compliments on your wig without guilt and choose how much to share about it.
#gift-giving
fromwww.npr.org
4 months ago
Arts

What is your most embarrassing regifting story? NPR wants to know

Regifting is a widespread practice during the holidays, raising questions about its social implications.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: I want no part of the gift grab. What do I tell the host?

Milestones shouldn't solely be gift-grabbing events; genuine appreciation is important.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: What's wrong with these new neighbors?

Neighbors may choose not to engage socially, and retaining someone else's mail is considered impolite.
fromwww.npr.org
4 months ago
Arts

What is your most embarrassing regifting story? NPR wants to know

Regifting is a widespread practice during the holidays, raising questions about its social implications.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: I want no part of the gift grab. What do I tell the host?

Milestones shouldn't solely be gift-grabbing events; genuine appreciation is important.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: What's wrong with these new neighbors?

Neighbors may choose not to engage socially, and retaining someone else's mail is considered impolite.
more#gift-giving
#neighbor-relations
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: He brought us fruit at 9 p.m. Were we supposed to let him in?

It's acceptable to not invite neighbors in if your home isn't ready or if the timing is inconvenient.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: My neighbor invited me to dinner, then humiliated me in front of the other women

Address awkward situations with humor to diffuse tension.
It's permissible to express discomfort with smoking in a friend's car.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
East Bay (California)

Miss Manners: He brought us fruit at 9 p.m. Were we supposed to let him in?

It's acceptable to not invite neighbors in if your home isn't ready or if the timing is inconvenient.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: My neighbor invited me to dinner, then humiliated me in front of the other women

Address awkward situations with humor to diffuse tension.
It's permissible to express discomfort with smoking in a friend's car.
more#neighbor-relations
#communication
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: My partner is overly committed to the dog-related feud

You are not obliged to dislike those your partner dislikes; maintaining neutrality is key.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: Strangers keep telling me distressing stories. How do I prevent this?

Unsolicited stories of pet tragedies from strangers can be distressing and unwelcome during light-hearted conversations.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: My partner is overly committed to the dog-related feud

You are not obliged to dislike those your partner dislikes; maintaining neutrality is key.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: Strangers keep telling me distressing stories. How do I prevent this?

Unsolicited stories of pet tragedies from strangers can be distressing and unwelcome during light-hearted conversations.
more#communication
fromMail Online
4 months ago
Canada news

Quarter of Brits mute holiday group chats - do you find them annoying?

Group chats for holiday planning are popular in the UK, but poor etiquette can create stress and hinder decision-making.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
6 months ago
Writing

Miss Manners: Should I have told a stranger I could see her underwear?

It's often better to avoid addressing perceived fashion faux pas to prevent embarrassment for both parties.
You should prioritize your emotional well-being and distance yourself from unsupportive friends.
fromThe New Yorker
6 months ago
Writing

Delusional Rationalizations for Your Pathetically Low Uber Rider Rating

Drivers can have strong reactions to passenger requests or behaviors, often leading to misunderstandings and discomfort.
fromwww.theguardian.com
7 months ago
JavaScript

Blind date: Bouncers swarmed a table of guys near us and escorted one out, like in a gangster movie'

Harry was genuinely kind and open, making for a pleasant evening despite slight political overtones in conversation.
fromBusiness Insider
7 months ago
JavaScript

Apple's AirPods will lower the volume so you can have a conversation in real life - but is that rude?

Apple's AirPods 4 introduce 'Conversation Awareness', allowing users to keep headphones in while conversing, challenging social norms about headphone etiquette.
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