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Should you correct people who mistake you for your kid's grandma?

Correcting someone who calls an older mom 'grandma' is important for the mother and the children.
Motherhood comes with varied experiences, including exhaustion and the desire for personal space.

Miss Manners: Apparently I was too harsh in telling her how the phone works

It's acceptable to stop inviting friends who don't reciprocate invitations, and it's important to communicate this politely.
Using polite reminders can help assert the rules in typically quiet spaces like train carriages.

Should you correct people who mistake you for your kid's grandma?

Correcting someone who calls an older mom 'grandma' is important for the mother and the children.
Motherhood comes with varied experiences, including exhaustion and the desire for personal space.

Miss Manners: Apparently I was too harsh in telling her how the phone works

It's acceptable to stop inviting friends who don't reciprocate invitations, and it's important to communicate this politely.
Using polite reminders can help assert the rules in typically quiet spaces like train carriages.
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#communication-issues

Dear Abby: Not to be a grinch, but this person's presence will ruin the holiday concert

It’s important to respect friends' choices about invitations, even when uncomfortable, to maintain harmony in relationships.

Quarter of Brits mute holiday group chats - do you find them annoying?

Group chats for holiday planning are popular in the UK, but poor etiquette can create stress and hinder decision-making.

Asking Eric: I lied to this guy about my pajama party. Was that terrible?

Curating a guest list to ensure comfort is entirely valid.
Addressing inappropriate behavior in friendships is beneficial.
Regularly eating without guests can create awkwardness in social situations.

Dear Abby: Not to be a grinch, but this person's presence will ruin the holiday concert

It’s important to respect friends' choices about invitations, even when uncomfortable, to maintain harmony in relationships.

Quarter of Brits mute holiday group chats - do you find them annoying?

Group chats for holiday planning are popular in the UK, but poor etiquette can create stress and hinder decision-making.

Asking Eric: I lied to this guy about my pajama party. Was that terrible?

Curating a guest list to ensure comfort is entirely valid.
Addressing inappropriate behavior in friendships is beneficial.
Regularly eating without guests can create awkwardness in social situations.
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#relationships

Take It From a Woman: Rules for Being a Good Plus-One

A good relationship allows partners to mingle at events without stress, demonstrating their character and respect for social settings.

Miss Manners: I want her in my wedding party but my fiance has a problem with that

Consider the implications of including family and significant others in wedding parties beyond traditional norms.

Miss Manners: My partner is overly committed to the dog-related feud

You are not obliged to dislike those your partner dislikes; maintaining neutrality is key.

13 Dealbreakers That Made Men Nope Right Out Of A First Date

Ditching someone on a first date can stem from feeling ignored and unappreciated, as experienced by the OP.

Miss Manners: Is it OK to plug in my car without asking the homeowner?

Ask permission before using amenities in someone else's home, even if they seem available.
Communication about relationships can help avoid misunderstandings during sensitive times.

Take It From a Woman: Rules for Being a Good Plus-One

A good relationship allows partners to mingle at events without stress, demonstrating their character and respect for social settings.

Miss Manners: I want her in my wedding party but my fiance has a problem with that

Consider the implications of including family and significant others in wedding parties beyond traditional norms.

Miss Manners: My partner is overly committed to the dog-related feud

You are not obliged to dislike those your partner dislikes; maintaining neutrality is key.

13 Dealbreakers That Made Men Nope Right Out Of A First Date

Ditching someone on a first date can stem from feeling ignored and unappreciated, as experienced by the OP.

Miss Manners: Is it OK to plug in my car without asking the homeowner?

Ask permission before using amenities in someone else's home, even if they seem available.
Communication about relationships can help avoid misunderstandings during sensitive times.
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#gift-giving

What is your most embarrassing regifting story? NPR wants to know

Regifting is a widespread practice during the holidays, raising questions about its social implications.

Miss Manners: What's wrong with these new neighbors?

Neighbors may choose not to engage socially, and retaining someone else's mail is considered impolite.

Miss Manners: I walked past a professor lying in the hallway. Was that rude of me?

Prioritizing personal commitments may lead to missed opportunities for support or connection in social situations.
Considering the appropriateness of gifts in relationships can prevent misunderstandings and discomfort.

Miss Manners: Can I announce my son's graduation but not his screw-up?

To avoid drawing attention to a negative situation, repurpose graduation announcements and focus on the accomplishment of finishing high school.

What is your most embarrassing regifting story? NPR wants to know

Regifting is a widespread practice during the holidays, raising questions about its social implications.

Miss Manners: What's wrong with these new neighbors?

Neighbors may choose not to engage socially, and retaining someone else's mail is considered impolite.

Miss Manners: I walked past a professor lying in the hallway. Was that rude of me?

Prioritizing personal commitments may lead to missed opportunities for support or connection in social situations.
Considering the appropriateness of gifts in relationships can prevent misunderstandings and discomfort.

Miss Manners: Can I announce my son's graduation but not his screw-up?

To avoid drawing attention to a negative situation, repurpose graduation announcements and focus on the accomplishment of finishing high school.
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Miss Manners: My friend started a charity, and I'm dreading this conversation

It's possible to maintain friendships despite differing beliefs and still support your friend without financially contributing to their cause.

Please stop showing me your phone

Engaging meaningfully in conversation is more important than distractions from phones.

Asking Eric: I'm embarrassed by my friend's doggie bag shenanigans

It's acceptable to allow hosts to set boundaries regarding leftovers.
If hosts are not troubled by a guest's behavior, it's not the observer's role to intervene.

Miss Manners: A virtual stranger disrupted my bowling party, and nobody knew what to do

Communicating feelings about social dynamics can foster better relationships and ensure everyone's voice is heard.

Miss Manners: She says she now has money' but she won't tell me where she got it

Respecting a family member's privacy is important, even if you're curious about their financial situation.

Miss Manners: I don't think she knows her text message went to me

Communicate gently when someone makes a social mistake, to avoid larger misunderstandings.
Be considerate as a host, even when the event theme doesn’t align with your interests.

Miss Manners: My friend started a charity, and I'm dreading this conversation

It's possible to maintain friendships despite differing beliefs and still support your friend without financially contributing to their cause.

Please stop showing me your phone

Engaging meaningfully in conversation is more important than distractions from phones.

Asking Eric: I'm embarrassed by my friend's doggie bag shenanigans

It's acceptable to allow hosts to set boundaries regarding leftovers.
If hosts are not troubled by a guest's behavior, it's not the observer's role to intervene.

Miss Manners: A virtual stranger disrupted my bowling party, and nobody knew what to do

Communicating feelings about social dynamics can foster better relationships and ensure everyone's voice is heard.

Miss Manners: She says she now has money' but she won't tell me where she got it

Respecting a family member's privacy is important, even if you're curious about their financial situation.

Miss Manners: I don't think she knows her text message went to me

Communicate gently when someone makes a social mistake, to avoid larger misunderstandings.
Be considerate as a host, even when the event theme doesn’t align with your interests.
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#relationship-advice

Dear Abby: I'm irked that my husband sent holiday cards to the wedding no-shows

Marriage can involve differing perspectives on relationships and family obligations.
Communication about etiquette can prevent misunderstandings in social situations.

Dear Life Kit: My daughter was left out of the holiday newsletter again!

Encourage open communication to resolve feelings of exclusion within family dynamics.

Dear Abby: I'm irked that my husband sent holiday cards to the wedding no-shows

Marriage can involve differing perspectives on relationships and family obligations.
Communication about etiquette can prevent misunderstandings in social situations.

Dear Life Kit: My daughter was left out of the holiday newsletter again!

Encourage open communication to resolve feelings of exclusion within family dynamics.
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Miss Manners: Is just holding a wine glass a trigger to a recovering alcoholic?

Be mindful of guests' comfort regarding alcoholic triggers in social settings.
Ensure that hosting does not lead to unintended responsibilities like unsupervised children.

Miss Manners: I paid for my seat, and I'm not going to ask permission to recline

Consideration for fellow passengers when reclining your seat is essential for a pleasant flying experience.
Expressing sympathy through thoughtful gestures is more meaningful than generic holiday wishes.
#parenting

Is it OK to invite just 1 twin to a kids' birthday party? An expert settles the heated debate

Kristen Fox highlights the emotional turmoil of one twin being invited to a party while the other is left out.

Miss Manners: Nobody acknowledges that it's a very intrusive question

Breastfeeding discussions can be intrusive and uncomfortable, prompting Miss Manners to suggest witty comebacks or dismissive stares as responses.

Is it OK to invite just 1 twin to a kids' birthday party? An expert settles the heated debate

Kristen Fox highlights the emotional turmoil of one twin being invited to a party while the other is left out.

Miss Manners: Nobody acknowledges that it's a very intrusive question

Breastfeeding discussions can be intrusive and uncomfortable, prompting Miss Manners to suggest witty comebacks or dismissive stares as responses.
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#friendship

Miss Manners: What's a polite way to deal with a fan intruding on my private time?

It's important to set boundaries when socializing, especially with friends, while also being gracious to admirers.

Miss Manners: It's a party invitation! Why do they act like it's some big chore?

Hosting a holiday open house is a privilege, not an obligation, and should be seen as a gift of friendship.

Miss Manners: Should I have told a stranger I could see her underwear?

It's often better to avoid addressing perceived fashion faux pas to prevent embarrassment for both parties.
You should prioritize your emotional well-being and distance yourself from unsupportive friends.

Miss Manners: What's a polite way to deal with a fan intruding on my private time?

It's important to set boundaries when socializing, especially with friends, while also being gracious to admirers.

Miss Manners: It's a party invitation! Why do they act like it's some big chore?

Hosting a holiday open house is a privilege, not an obligation, and should be seen as a gift of friendship.

Miss Manners: Should I have told a stranger I could see her underwear?

It's often better to avoid addressing perceived fashion faux pas to prevent embarrassment for both parties.
You should prioritize your emotional well-being and distance yourself from unsupportive friends.
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#conflict-resolution

We have to sign a 'family code of conduct' and agree to a dress code on Thanksgiving - or we can't eat dinner

Strict rules for Thanksgiving gatherings are becoming popular among families for promoting harmony, despite some viewing them as overreaching.

Tips for keeping your wedding from becoming a political battleground

Weddings can become politically charged events; preemptive strategies can help mitigate conflicts between opposing guests.

We have to sign a 'family code of conduct' and agree to a dress code on Thanksgiving - or we can't eat dinner

Strict rules for Thanksgiving gatherings are becoming popular among families for promoting harmony, despite some viewing them as overreaching.

Tips for keeping your wedding from becoming a political battleground

Weddings can become politically charged events; preemptive strategies can help mitigate conflicts between opposing guests.
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#customer-service

Paris Tips: Making Small Talk A La Parisienne

Learning local greetings and customs is crucial for social interactions in Paris.
The importance of proper greetings like 'bonjour' is critical in preserving social niceties and customer service.

Miss Manners: They're rude to me, but I can't afford to ignore them

Maintaining a polite yet firm response to customer complaints about pricing is essential for maintaining high ratings in an online shop.

Paris Tips: Making Small Talk A La Parisienne

Learning local greetings and customs is crucial for social interactions in Paris.
The importance of proper greetings like 'bonjour' is critical in preserving social niceties and customer service.

Miss Manners: They're rude to me, but I can't afford to ignore them

Maintaining a polite yet firm response to customer complaints about pricing is essential for maintaining high ratings in an online shop.
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17 WILDLY Unhinged Guests That Make Me Never Want To Invite People Over Again

Guests can exhibit bizarre behavior that crosses boundaries and leaves hosts in disbelief.

56 Host and Hostess Gifts to Get the Party Started

Thoughtful hostess gifts reflect the host's personality without needing to be expensive, strengthening relationships and ensuring future invites.

Delusional Rationalizations for Your Pathetically Low Uber Rider Rating

Drivers can have strong reactions to passenger requests or behaviors, often leading to misunderstandings and discomfort.
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Miss Manners: I'm a small but strong woman, and some customers don't like that

Women can excel in roles traditionally reserved for men, and societal attitudes need change.

Miss Manners: Years later, I'm wondering what I could have said to this uncalled-for remark

Expressing discomfort through vocalization helps convey disapproval of inappropriate comments without being overly confrontational.
In professional settings, addressing quirky behaviors should be done kindly, promoting a cohesive work environment.

Miss Manners: I'm a small but strong woman, and some customers don't like that

Women can excel in roles traditionally reserved for men, and societal attitudes need change.

Miss Manners: Years later, I'm wondering what I could have said to this uncalled-for remark

Expressing discomfort through vocalization helps convey disapproval of inappropriate comments without being overly confrontational.
In professional settings, addressing quirky behaviors should be done kindly, promoting a cohesive work environment.
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Blind date: Bouncers swarmed a table of guys near us and escorted one out, like in a gangster movie'

Harry was genuinely kind and open, making for a pleasant evening despite slight political overtones in conversation.
#interpersonal-relationships

Dear Abby: We booked a cruise with our new friends. Then we saw their social media.

Be cautious in social situations; initial kindness may hide deeper prejudices.
It is acceptable to confront individuals about their harmful beliefs, especially if they impact relationships.

Miss Manners: I asked him to Dune 2,' and his smart-alecky response stung

Memory lapses can be frustrating, but humor and understanding can help mitigate the discomfort they cause in social situations.

Dear Abby: We booked a cruise with our new friends. Then we saw their social media.

Be cautious in social situations; initial kindness may hide deeper prejudices.
It is acceptable to confront individuals about their harmful beliefs, especially if they impact relationships.

Miss Manners: I asked him to Dune 2,' and his smart-alecky response stung

Memory lapses can be frustrating, but humor and understanding can help mitigate the discomfort they cause in social situations.
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Miss Manners: I'm trying to tell them I'm pregnant. Am I overthinking this?

The quality of friendships can be reflected by how much friends show concern for one another's well-being.

Apple's AirPods will lower the volume so you can have a conversation in real life - but is that rude?

Apple's AirPods 4 introduce 'Conversation Awareness', allowing users to keep headphones in while conversing, challenging social norms about headphone etiquette.

All the Questions You're Too Afraid to Ask at the Wine Bar, Answered

Modern dining etiquette has evolved, emphasizing casual exploration over strict tradition, particularly in wine bars.

Guys list the bare minimums they expect from Grindr hosts - Queerty

Hosts should prioritize guest comfort by offering water, towels, and a relaxed atmosphere during visits.

Miss Manners: How do I tell my shirking co-worker that I don't buy her excuse?

Dealing with a coworker's constant complaints of health issues without picking up slack requires setting boundaries politely.

Miss Manners: Should I hide my bottle to deter wine poachers at the party?

Partial hosting can lead to drink-sharing issues at gatherings.
Bringing multiple bottles of a special drink may help manage requests from other partygoers.

How Late Is *Too* Late To Cancel Plans? Asking For... Myself

Canceling plans for self-care is important and not selfish.
The timing and manner in which you cancel plans can affect how it is perceived.

25 Worst Date Experiences That Prove That The Bar Is, Literally, In Hell

Dating horror stories can range from awkward to outright shocking, revealing the harsh realities of the dating world.
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