There Is No Small Talk
Briefly

Summer brings about temperature-related small talk that often lacks depth, with common phrases feeling like simple greetings. Many conversations, such as 'How are you?' or 'What do you do?', can resemble mere reflexes rather than genuine connection. By lingering with one person and asking questions that delve into emotions, such as 'How are you good?', deeper connections can reveal personal stories and feelings. These interactions, when approached with intention, can transform routine exchanges into meaningful conversations that foster genuine connection.
In a world that can feel isolating, tiny doorways to connection exist in everyday small talk, but we must linger long enough to enter.
By asking 'How are you good?' instead of accepting the typical 'I'm good,' deeper conversations can emerge, revealing personal experiences and feelings.
Common questions like 'How's your week?' or 'What do you do?' often feel reflexive, resembling responses more than genuine connections.
Instead of letting small talk be a mere formality, approach it as an opportunity to engage authentically with others.
Read at Psychology Today
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