An individual in a relationship with a significantly younger partner faced discomfort after a comment labeling her as a 'cougar' during a social gathering. Although she wishes to avoid embarrassing the man who made the remark, she feels it is crucial to address it directly if it occurs again. Meanwhile, in dealing with seemingly condescending questions from others, she contemplates the best way to respond—whether to answer sincerely or redirect the conversation with humor.
If the remark ‘cougar’ comes up again, turn that weak smile into something that does, in fact, betray your irritation, perhaps with a murmured ‘Not funny.’
Such questions like ‘Do you know about Harlem?’ may come off as condescending, but responding with a light laugh and asking the person to continue can be a graceful way to handle them.
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