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#friendship
fromSilicon Canals
8 hours ago
Psychology

The friendships that survive months of silence and pick up exactly where they left off aren't casual. They're evidence that someone once knew you beneath the performance, and the connection lives at a layer that doesn't require maintenance because it was never built on the surface in the first place. - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I haven't had a real conversation with anyone other than my spouse in over a year - not because I'm antisocial but because every friendship I had required me to perform a version of myself I don't have the energy for anymore - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as personal identities evolve, leading to a disconnect between past selves and current realities.
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Psychology

I turned 37 and looked at my phone contacts and realized I had 247 numbers but couldn't name a single person I'd call if I got genuinely bad news - and that's when I understood that losing friends in your 30s isn't about distance, it's about finally admitting proximity was doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
8 hours ago

The friendships that survive months of silence and pick up exactly where they left off aren't casual. They're evidence that someone once knew you beneath the performance, and the connection lives at a layer that doesn't require maintenance because it was never built on the surface in the first place. - Silicon Canals

Low-maintenance friendships can be deep connections that endure silence and distance, indicating a strong underlying bond.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I haven't had a real conversation with anyone other than my spouse in over a year - not because I'm antisocial but because every friendship I had required me to perform a version of myself I don't have the energy for anymore - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as personal identities evolve, leading to a disconnect between past selves and current realities.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as individuals change and evolve, often without conflict or clear reasons for the loss.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I turned 37 and looked at my phone contacts and realized I had 247 numbers but couldn't name a single person I'd call if I got genuinely bad news - and that's when I understood that losing friends in your 30s isn't about distance, it's about finally admitting proximity was doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Friendships in adulthood often diminish in depth despite an abundance of acquaintances, highlighting the importance of meaningful connections over mere proximity.
Startup companies
fromTechCrunch
16 hours ago

A new dating app, Sonder, has a deliberately annoying sign-up process (and it's working) | TechCrunch

Sonder aims to revolutionize dating apps by creating a more authentic and engaging user experience through unstructured profiles and unique in-person events.
#loneliness
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

There's a specific kind of loneliness that hits hardest at 35. Not the loneliness of being alone on a Friday night, but of realizing you could disappear for a week and the only people who'd notice are the ones who need something from you. - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can peak in mid-thirties, often unnoticed despite a busy life.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Introverts often don't realize it but psychology says the way they experience loneliness is fundamentally different from most people - they rarely feel it from being alone, they feel it most in groups where the conversation never drops below surface level - Silicon Canals

Loneliness for introverts often stems from unsatisfying social interactions rather than solitude, highlighting the need for meaningful connections.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Behavioral scientists found that loneliness at 25 and loneliness at 75 share the same core feeling - the belief that you've become optional to the people you thought were permanent, and that realization hits identically whether you're scrolling Instagram in a studio apartment or sitting in a paid-off house watching your phone not ring - Silicon Canals

Loneliness at different ages stems from feeling optional to once-essential relationships.
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Mental health

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I have two hundred contacts in my phone and not a single person I could call at 2 AM without feeling like I was being a burden - and that math broke something in me - Silicon Canals

Digital life
fromenglish.elpais.com
9 months ago

Your loneliness is our business: The multi-million-dollar industry of social isolation

The loneliness epidemic is growing despite constant technological connectivity, revealing a paradox that affects mental health and business productivity.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

There's a specific kind of loneliness that hits hardest at 35. Not the loneliness of being alone on a Friday night, but of realizing you could disappear for a week and the only people who'd notice are the ones who need something from you. - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can peak in mid-thirties, often unnoticed despite a busy life.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Introverts often don't realize it but psychology says the way they experience loneliness is fundamentally different from most people - they rarely feel it from being alone, they feel it most in groups where the conversation never drops below surface level - Silicon Canals

Loneliness for introverts often stems from unsatisfying social interactions rather than solitude, highlighting the need for meaningful connections.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Behavioral scientists found that loneliness at 25 and loneliness at 75 share the same core feeling - the belief that you've become optional to the people you thought were permanent, and that realization hits identically whether you're scrolling Instagram in a studio apartment or sitting in a paid-off house watching your phone not ring - Silicon Canals

Loneliness at different ages stems from feeling optional to once-essential relationships.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I have two hundred contacts in my phone and not a single person I could call at 2 AM without feeling like I was being a burden - and that math broke something in me - Silicon Canals

Social connections can be numerous yet lack depth, leading to feelings of isolation despite being socially active.
Digital life
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

3 Ways to Assign Social Meaning in the Digital Age

Belonging is essential for fulfillment, especially in challenging times, yet the digital age complicates genuine connections.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

People Are Sharing "Young Person" Habits They Adopted That They Now Swear By

Older generations are adopting habits from younger generations to stay relevant and connected.
Dining
fromElite Traveler
1 week ago

The Six Hottest Supper Club Tickets to Book in NYC Right Now

Supper clubs blend dining and socializing, evolving from underground gatherings to polished events with renowned chefs and a focus on community connections.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 week ago

Why Some Men Struggle to Keep Up With Friendships

Men are increasingly struggling to maintain friendships, with many feeling lonely and disconnected.
Books
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

The Importance of a Few Good Friends

Decades of research demonstrates that high-quality friendships are crucial for longevity and mental health, with strong social connections reducing early mortality risk by two to three times.
Humor
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

People who maintain a genuine sense of humor in their retirement years aren't just naturally funnier - they also practice these habits - Silicon Canals

Maintaining a sense of humor in retirement requires intentional choices: surrounding yourself with people who laugh, learning to laugh at yourself, and staying engaged in activities that bring joy rather than dwelling on complaints.
Real estate
fromtherealdeal.com
1 month ago

Meet David Mitchell: The down-on-his-luck real estate guy Jeffrey Epstein kept close

Jeffrey Epstein invested at least $7 million in David Mitchell's troubled real estate ventures to gain social connections and enhance his stature.
Wellness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

7 daily practices of people who stay mentally sharp into their 90s - none involve puzzles or brain games - Silicon Canals

Consistent simple daily habits—regular movement, deep social connections, and mindfulness—preserve cognitive sharpness into the 90s.
#longevity
#retirement
Retirement
from24/7 Wall St.
8 months ago

American Retirees Face Unexpected Emotional Challenges: Tech Founder Reveals Key Lessons

Retirement can lead to unexpected emotional challenges despite financial success.
fromMedium
2 months ago

Why remote work stopped working for me

When the lockdowns ended, we had the option to keep working from home and I took it. However, there were still some moments that pulled me into the office, like team building activities, or client workshops. Every time I had to go it felt like punishment, but after a couple of weeks, I noticed something in my mood diary. On the days I went in, I was in a better mood at the end of the day and I slept better.
Remote teams
Beer
fromMarketing Dive
2 months ago

Miller Lite centers IRL social interaction with new creative platform

Miller Lite launched "Legendary Moments Start with a Lite" with Christopher Walken to drive real-world social connections and introduce the Damp January Club.
#healthy-aging
Food & drink
fromBustle
4 months ago

Your Tarot Reading For The Week Of November 24 - 30

The Empress tarot energy brings creativity, abundance, warm hosting vibes, improved social connections, and unexpected kindness this week.
fromArs Technica
4 months ago

Chris Hemsworth and dad fight Alzheimer's with a trip down memory lane

Millions of people around the world are living with the harsh reality of Alzheimer's disease, which also significantly impacts family members. Nobody is immune, as A-list actor Chris Hemsworth discovered when his own father was recently diagnosed. The revelation inspired Hemsworth to embark on a trip down memory lane with his father, which took them to Australia's Northern Territory. The experience was captured on film for A Road Trip To Remember, a new documentary film from National Geographic.
Public health
fromPsychology Today
4 months ago

The Goods That Matter: Real Friends and Deep Connections

when my cardiologist friend-the one who runs marathons and tracks his heart rate variability like it's the stock market-turned to me and said, "You know who's going to live longest? You." I laughed. Actually laughed. "Seth, you're literally the picture of health. You've got perfect labs. You eat salmon and blueberries. I had wine for breakfast." (Kidding. Mostly.) He looked at me with that doctor face, the one that means he's about to tell you something that matters.
Public health
Mobile UX
fromTechCrunch
5 months ago

Airbnb is becoming more social by allowing users to connect with fellow travelers | TechCrunch

Airbnb adds social features to Experiences letting users see and connect with fellow participants, improves search suggestions, and enhances Maps with points of interest.
#happiness
fromSun Sentinel
10 months ago
Miami food

Weekend things to do: Margaret Cho, Beatles by candlelight, Delray GreenMarket finale, Celia Cruz Bobblehead Day

fromSun Sentinel
10 months ago
Miami food

Weekend things to do: Margaret Cho, Beatles by candlelight, Delray GreenMarket finale, Celia Cruz Bobblehead Day

#relationships
fromIndependent
10 months ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: My husband is everything I could want in a partner, except for one thing - he has no friends

fromIndependent
10 months ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: My husband is everything I could want in a partner, except for one thing - he has no friends

fromwww.npr.org
7 months ago

Here, together: Images of community from NPR station photographers

Valentina Stone, 14, sits in her bedroom as her mom, a correctional officer, helps her get ready for a school dance in the mobile home community next to the recently closed Federal Correctional Institution. When the prison shut down, families were told they had to leave, but most can't sell their homes or get back what they invested. This is a huge loss in the Bay Area, where the cost of living is already so high. I was drawn to this quiet act of care between mother and daughter, which felt especially meaningful given the uncertainty of their future.
US news
LGBT
fromTechCrunch
7 months ago

Les Amis, the European app helping women form friendships, launches in New York | TechCrunch

Modern technology aids adults in forming friendships, especially after relocating, with apps like Les Amis targeting specific communities.
fromPsychology Today
7 months ago

The Power of Kindness

Research suggests that when we offer kindness to others, it increases positive emotions and life satisfaction, especially when done autonomously and effectively.
Mindfulness
fromBusiness Insider
7 months ago

I moved to Malaysia in my 30s and struggled to make friends, so I started a club to make the community I needed

I realized I didn't really know anybody. I'd moved around so much by then, and the longest I'd ever stayed in one place was two or three months.
Digital life
fromPsychology Today
8 months ago

Good Gossip: Idle Talk for the Curious and Highly Reflective

Good gossip plays an important role in keeping us connected. It increases group cooperation because it acts as a backstop against some of our individualistic urges.
Relationships
NYC food
fromHighsnobiety
8 months ago

Refresh Your Rhythm: Stef Dag's Guide To Chewing Through the Noise of NYC

'Refresh Your Rhythm' channels the spontaneous social energy of NYC by encouraging connections through simple actions like sharing gum.
Psychology
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
8 months ago

Optimists Are Alike, but Pessimists Are Unique, Brain Scan Study Suggests

Optimists exhibit similar brain activity patterns, while each pessimist's brain patterns are unique, reflecting differences in imagining the future.
fromPsychology Today
8 months ago

Are We Hardwired for Trust?

Trust connects everything-our friendships, families, communities, and even how we run businesses or build nations. It's easy to think of trust as something we're taught by society, but it runs deeper than that.
Philosophy
fromBusiness Insider
8 months ago

Why the next app for relationships won't look like a dating app, according to a VC

"There's an agentic social network basically that I think is going to emerge that is not packaged as a dating app. It's packaged more as this operating system for relationships."
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
8 months ago

Horoscopes July 4, 2025: Melanie Fiona, plan to entertain more

Participating in activities and interest groups can expand your circle of friends and be as productive as traditional networking if done with enthusiasm.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
8 months ago

Amal Clooney has a strict rule for house guests that helps protect her kids' privacy

"Creating private moments and spaces is becoming increasingly difficult. But that's also why we entertain a lot at home. I now have a phone basket that I use to take everyone's phones away."
Privacy professionals
fromBustle
9 months ago

These 3 Zodiac Signs Overshare The Most

Libras thrive in social settings and often overshare personal stories, driven by a desire for deeper connections. Their open nature fosters intimacy with friends.
Relationships
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
9 months ago

I was getting lonely. Here's what happened when I tried to make new friends in my 30s

Social isolation is a growing public health concern, influenced by changes in living conditions and social behaviors.
Digital life
fromenglish.elpais.com
9 months ago

Remote work, takeout, binge-watching TV... Are we becoming more antisocial?

Excessive technology use is leading to increasing antisocial behavior and self-imposed loneliness in society.
#ai
fromFortune
9 months ago
Artificial intelligence

Mark Zuckerberg's dream for AI chatbots to become your friend is as unhealthful as 'junk food,' Hinge CEO says

fromFortune
9 months ago
Artificial intelligence

Mark Zuckerberg's dream for AI chatbots to become your friend is as unhealthful as 'junk food,' Hinge CEO says

Wellness
fromPsychology Today
9 months ago

Why Tennis Pro Jannik Sinner Chose Home Over More Training

Jannik Sinner highlights the importance of recovery through relaxation and social connections after loss, emphasizing the body's needs over mental pressure.
Board games
fromPsychology Today
9 months ago

Why Is Golf So Fun?

Golf uniquely balances challenge and skill, making it deeply engaging.
It provides psychological escape for adults amid life stress.
The sport creates natural social connections through shared experiences.
Diverse courses maintain long-term interest and motivation.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Humans Are Elephants, Not Tigers

The absence of social connections disrupts our bodily rhythms and emotional well-being, highlighting the importance of relationships in regulating our lives.
fromBusiness Insider
10 months ago

I stopped drinking when I turned 50. Learning to travel sober was the hardest part.

Each course arrived paired with a thoughtfully crafted elixir, like the rhubarb-kombucha aperitif that tingled on my palate, showcasing that sober experiences could be remarkable.
Wine
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Friendless and Fine? Rethinking Loneliness

New research complicates our understanding of being 'friendless', revealing that some people find fulfillment in solitude, challenging the notion that it always equates to loneliness.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

College Love Lessons: What High School Grads Need to Know

Don't bring your high school relationship to college. Presenting a partner from high school limits your freedom and ability to form new friendships; it can stifle your growth.
Relationships
#health
Wellness
fromtime.com
10 months ago

What My Two 98-Year-Old Patients Taught Me About Longevity

Mrs. L. R., at 98, exemplifies resilience and the impact of social connections on health despite a diagnosis of hypertrophic cardiomyopathy.
fromThe Nation
10 months ago

How Should Los Angeles Rebuild After the Fires?

All I could think after reading her post was that there had to be a mechanism for rebuilding what was lost, not just the tangible homes but the connections between people.
Los Angeles
#aging
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago
Wellness

The Four C's of Successful Aging

Successful aging is determined by the quality of life, not just longevity.
Focus on doing more effectively and embrace challenges as part of aging.
Maintaining social connections enhances happiness in later years.
fromBuzzFeed
10 months ago
Wellness

If You Want To Age Well, Experts Say You Should Start Doing These Very Simple Things Immediately

Aging well involves physical health, emotional connections, and mental support according to medical experts.
Wellness
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

The Four C's of Successful Aging

Successful aging is determined by the quality of life, not just longevity.
Focus on doing more effectively and embrace challenges as part of aging.
Maintaining social connections enhances happiness in later years.
Wellness
fromBuzzFeed
10 months ago

If You Want To Age Well, Experts Say You Should Start Doing These Very Simple Things Immediately

Aging well involves physical health, emotional connections, and mental support according to medical experts.
frommindbodygreen
10 months ago

3 Neurologist-Approved Tips To Sharpen Your Mind During Downtime

One of my biggest tips is to know when to unplug. Sometimes we get so flooded with information that it can be extremely stressful.
Mental health
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
10 months ago

How Nostalgia Keeps Friendships Alive

Nostalgia brings temporary feelings of connectedness and motivates individuals to seek and achieve social connections, particularly during times of disconnection.
Relationships
Digital life
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

When Cell Phones Replace People

Excessive smartphone use worsens depression and anxiety, creating a harmful cycle.
Physical presence does not equate to meaningful connection due to distractions.
Creating phone-free zones can help restore genuine human connections.
Renovation
fromArchDaily
10 months ago

BREEZZE Market / Dispacement Architectural Design

Revitalizing commercial spaces relies on understanding resident needs and making connections between people and merchants.
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Loneliness Makes Us Procrastinate More

Loneliness is not merely an absence of others but a feeling of having too few friends, potentially leading to procrastination as tasks seem overwhelming.
Online Community Development
fromNew York Post
11 months ago

US beaten by neighboring country in new 'flourishing' ranking - here's why we're lagging

Indonesia ranked highest in flourishing due to strong social connections, contrasting with Japan, where wealth is high but social ties are weak.
Mental health
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
11 months ago

Want Better Relationships? Start With the Circles of Support

Building friendships as an adult, particularly for neurodiverse individuals, can be navigated effectively through the Circles of Support model.
fromPsychology Today
11 months ago

How to Let Today Change You (Just a Little)

If big personal changes feel out of reach, there are plenty of opportunities to grow through small moments.
Mental health
fromNew York Post
11 months ago

Work wives and happy hours are becoming extinct - here's how to bond with co-workers

"Offices are more insular, with people in their own microcosms ignoring colleagues," workplace psychologist Craig Jackson told Cosmopolitan UK, noting the spike in noise-canceling headphone sales.
Remote teams
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