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#friendship
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago
Relationships

Name one person who knows what you're actually going through right now. Not the curated version. The real one. If it took you more than three seconds, that's not a failure of friendship - that's the architecture of modern adulthood working exactly as designed - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

Psychology says the loneliest part of getting older isn't being alone - it's realizing that some friendships were only meant for a season, and not everyone grows with you - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

Psychology says the number of close friends you actually need as you get older is far lower than most people assume - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The friendships that survive months of silence and pick up exactly where they left off aren't casual. They're evidence that someone once knew you beneath the performance, and the connection lives at a layer that doesn't require maintenance because it was never built on the surface in the first place. - Silicon Canals

Low-maintenance friendships can be deep connections that endure silence and distance, indicating a strong underlying bond.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I haven't had a real conversation with anyone other than my spouse in over a year - not because I'm antisocial but because every friendship I had required me to perform a version of myself I don't have the energy for anymore - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as personal identities evolve, leading to a disconnect between past selves and current realities.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Name one person who knows what you're actually going through right now. Not the curated version. The real one. If it took you more than three seconds, that's not a failure of friendship - that's the architecture of modern adulthood working exactly as designed - Silicon Canals

Friendships in adulthood are endangered due to the challenges of fostering new connections and renegotiating old ones.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says the loneliest part of getting older isn't being alone - it's realizing that some friendships were only meant for a season, and not everyone grows with you - Silicon Canals

Friendships often fade as adults prioritize responsibilities and seek deeper connections, leading to feelings of loneliness even among familiar faces.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says the number of close friends you actually need as you get older is far lower than most people assume - Silicon Canals

The number of close friends needed for fulfillment is between three and five, not a large group.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

The friendships that survive months of silence and pick up exactly where they left off aren't casual. They're evidence that someone once knew you beneath the performance, and the connection lives at a layer that doesn't require maintenance because it was never built on the surface in the first place. - Silicon Canals

Low-maintenance friendships can be deep connections that endure silence and distance, indicating a strong underlying bond.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I haven't had a real conversation with anyone other than my spouse in over a year - not because I'm antisocial but because every friendship I had required me to perform a version of myself I don't have the energy for anymore - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as personal identities evolve, leading to a disconnect between past selves and current realities.
#retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Retirement

Psychology says there's a specific version of loneliness that only shows up in retirement - not the absence of colleagues or the silence of mornings, but the slow understanding that the version of you the world was interested in was the one producing, performing, solving, and the version sitting at home in a quiet kitchen is someone the world has gently agreed to stop asking about - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago
Retirement

I'm 66 and the loneliest I have ever felt in my life wasn't when I lost my parents or when my kids moved away - it was the first winter of retirement when I realized my entire social world had been held together by a building I no longer had a reason to enter - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Retirement

Research suggests the loneliness people feel after a long career ends isn't about missing the work - it's about discovering that most of their relationships were infrastructure, not friendship - Silicon Canals

Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says there's a specific version of loneliness that only shows up in retirement - not the absence of colleagues or the silence of mornings, but the slow understanding that the version of you the world was interested in was the one producing, performing, solving, and the version sitting at home in a quiet kitchen is someone the world has gently agreed to stop asking about - Silicon Canals

Retirement loneliness stems from losing one's identity and purpose, not just from missing social connections.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I'm 66 and the loneliest I have ever felt in my life wasn't when I lost my parents or when my kids moved away - it was the first winter of retirement when I realized my entire social world had been held together by a building I no longer had a reason to enter - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to unexpected loneliness as social connections tied to work diminish.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Research suggests the loneliness people feel after a long career ends isn't about missing the work - it's about discovering that most of their relationships were infrastructure, not friendship - Silicon Canals

Retirement often leads to unexpected loneliness due to the loss of social structures that support friendships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Most people don't realize that the sharpest loneliness in midlife isn't having no friends - it's having friends who knew an earlier version of you and have no interest in meeting who you've become - Silicon Canals

Loneliness in midlife often stems from friends not updating their understanding of each other, rather than a lack of social connections.
Podcast
fromInsideHook
4 days ago

Bill Maher on AI: Useful Tools or "Psychopaths"?

The episode focused on technology, CEOs, and the elitism of their ventures, particularly in relation to longevity and health care.
#loneliness
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Somewhere around 55 a man realizes that every friend he has is actually his wife's friend's husband, and if the dinner invitations ever stopped coming, he would not have a single person to call, and he knows this, and he has never said it out loud - Silicon Canals

Loneliness in men often increases with age, despite societal beliefs that marriage and family provide social fulfillment.
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago
Mental health

There's a version of loneliness that only arrives inside a crowded room full of people who like you, and it comes from the slow realization that what they like is a performance you can no longer remember choosing to start - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Mental health

Psychology says the loneliest generation in history isn't Gen Z - it's the boomers who raised everyone, hosted everything, and are now sitting in quiet houses wondering where everybody went - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

There's a specific kind of loneliness that hits hardest at 35. Not the loneliness of being alone on a Friday night, but of realizing you could disappear for a week and the only people who'd notice are the ones who need something from you. - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can peak in mid-thirties, often unnoticed despite a busy life.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Introverts often don't realize it but psychology says the way they experience loneliness is fundamentally different from most people - they rarely feel it from being alone, they feel it most in groups where the conversation never drops below surface level - Silicon Canals

Loneliness for introverts often stems from unsatisfying social interactions rather than solitude, highlighting the need for meaningful connections.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Somewhere around 55 a man realizes that every friend he has is actually his wife's friend's husband, and if the dinner invitations ever stopped coming, he would not have a single person to call, and he knows this, and he has never said it out loud - Silicon Canals

Loneliness in men often increases with age, despite societal beliefs that marriage and family provide social fulfillment.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

There's a version of loneliness that only arrives inside a crowded room full of people who like you, and it comes from the slow realization that what they like is a performance you can no longer remember choosing to start - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can persist even in social settings, stemming from a disconnect between one's true self and the persona they project.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says the loneliest generation in history isn't Gen Z - it's the boomers who raised everyone, hosted everything, and are now sitting in quiet houses wondering where everybody went - Silicon Canals

The loneliest generation today is not Gen Z, but the baby boomers who once held social connections together.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

What Happens When We Simultaneously Seek and Avoid Intimacy?

Loneliness has escalated to a public health crisis, significantly impacting mortality rates and emotional well-being.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

There's a specific kind of loneliness that hits hardest at 35. Not the loneliness of being alone on a Friday night, but of realizing you could disappear for a week and the only people who'd notice are the ones who need something from you. - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can peak in mid-thirties, often unnoticed despite a busy life.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Introverts often don't realize it but psychology says the way they experience loneliness is fundamentally different from most people - they rarely feel it from being alone, they feel it most in groups where the conversation never drops below surface level - Silicon Canals

Loneliness for introverts often stems from unsatisfying social interactions rather than solitude, highlighting the need for meaningful connections.
Mental health
fromenglish.elpais.com
6 days ago

Toxic relationships (especially in the family or at work) accelerate aging

Toxic relationships can accelerate biological aging and increase health risks, emphasizing the importance of distancing from negative social connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

8 things people in their 30s quietly stop doing that everyone in their 20s thinks are essential - Silicon Canals

People in their 30s reassess priorities, realizing that not all friendships or activities require equal investment of time and energy.
#birthdays
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

Psychology suggests people who downplay their birthday don't want less - they want the specific thing most birthdays have never delivered, which is the felt sense of being genuinely celebrated rather than obligatorily acknowledged, and they stopped asking for it because stopping felt better than hoping and being let down again - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology suggests people who downplay their birthday don't want less - they want the specific thing most birthdays have never delivered, which is the felt sense of being genuinely celebrated rather than obligatorily acknowledged, and they stopped asking for it because stopping felt better than hoping and being let down again - Silicon Canals

Some people avoid celebrating birthdays due to feelings of disconnection from superficial acknowledgments.
Startup companies
fromTechCrunch
2 weeks ago

A new dating app, Sonder, has a deliberately annoying sign-up process (and it's working) | TechCrunch

Sonder aims to revolutionize dating apps by creating a more authentic and engaging user experience through unstructured profiles and unique in-person events.
Digital life
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

3 Ways to Assign Social Meaning in the Digital Age

Belonging is essential for fulfillment, especially in challenging times, yet the digital age complicates genuine connections.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

People Are Sharing "Young Person" Habits They Adopted That They Now Swear By

Older generations are adopting habits from younger generations to stay relevant and connected.
Dining
fromElite Traveler
1 month ago

The Six Hottest Supper Club Tickets to Book in NYC Right Now

Supper clubs blend dining and socializing, evolving from underground gatherings to polished events with renowned chefs and a focus on community connections.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Why Some Men Struggle to Keep Up With Friendships

Men are increasingly struggling to maintain friendships, with many feeling lonely and disconnected.
Books
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Importance of a Few Good Friends

Decades of research demonstrates that high-quality friendships are crucial for longevity and mental health, with strong social connections reducing early mortality risk by two to three times.
Humor
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

People who maintain a genuine sense of humor in their retirement years aren't just naturally funnier - they also practice these habits - Silicon Canals

Maintaining a sense of humor in retirement requires intentional choices: surrounding yourself with people who laugh, learning to laugh at yourself, and staying engaged in activities that bring joy rather than dwelling on complaints.
Real estate
fromtherealdeal.com
2 months ago

Meet David Mitchell: The down-on-his-luck real estate guy Jeffrey Epstein kept close

Jeffrey Epstein invested at least $7 million in David Mitchell's troubled real estate ventures to gain social connections and enhance his stature.
Wellness
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

7 daily practices of people who stay mentally sharp into their 90s - none involve puzzles or brain games - Silicon Canals

Consistent simple daily habits—regular movement, deep social connections, and mindfulness—preserve cognitive sharpness into the 90s.
#longevity
fromMedium
3 months ago

Why remote work stopped working for me

When the lockdowns ended, we had the option to keep working from home and I took it. However, there were still some moments that pulled me into the office, like team building activities, or client workshops. Every time I had to go it felt like punishment, but after a couple of weeks, I noticed something in my mood diary. On the days I went in, I was in a better mood at the end of the day and I slept better.
Remote teams
Beer
fromMarketing Dive
3 months ago

Miller Lite centers IRL social interaction with new creative platform

Miller Lite launched "Legendary Moments Start with a Lite" with Christopher Walken to drive real-world social connections and introduce the Damp January Club.
#healthy-aging
Food & drink
fromBustle
4 months ago

Your Tarot Reading For The Week Of November 24 - 30

The Empress tarot energy brings creativity, abundance, warm hosting vibes, improved social connections, and unexpected kindness this week.
fromArs Technica
4 months ago

Chris Hemsworth and dad fight Alzheimer's with a trip down memory lane

Millions of people around the world are living with the harsh reality of Alzheimer's disease, which also significantly impacts family members. Nobody is immune, as A-list actor Chris Hemsworth discovered when his own father was recently diagnosed. The revelation inspired Hemsworth to embark on a trip down memory lane with his father, which took them to Australia's Northern Territory. The experience was captured on film for A Road Trip To Remember, a new documentary film from National Geographic.
Public health
fromPsychology Today
5 months ago

The Goods That Matter: Real Friends and Deep Connections

when my cardiologist friend-the one who runs marathons and tracks his heart rate variability like it's the stock market-turned to me and said, "You know who's going to live longest? You." I laughed. Actually laughed. "Seth, you're literally the picture of health. You've got perfect labs. You eat salmon and blueberries. I had wine for breakfast." (Kidding. Mostly.) He looked at me with that doctor face, the one that means he's about to tell you something that matters.
Public health
Mobile UX
fromTechCrunch
6 months ago

Airbnb is becoming more social by allowing users to connect with fellow travelers | TechCrunch

Airbnb adds social features to Experiences letting users see and connect with fellow participants, improves search suggestions, and enhances Maps with points of interest.
#happiness
fromSun Sentinel
11 months ago
Miami food

Weekend things to do: Margaret Cho, Beatles by candlelight, Delray GreenMarket finale, Celia Cruz Bobblehead Day

fromSun Sentinel
11 months ago
Miami food

Weekend things to do: Margaret Cho, Beatles by candlelight, Delray GreenMarket finale, Celia Cruz Bobblehead Day

#relationships
fromwww.npr.org
8 months ago

Here, together: Images of community from NPR station photographers

Valentina Stone, 14, sits in her bedroom as her mom, a correctional officer, helps her get ready for a school dance in the mobile home community next to the recently closed Federal Correctional Institution. When the prison shut down, families were told they had to leave, but most can't sell their homes or get back what they invested. This is a huge loss in the Bay Area, where the cost of living is already so high. I was drawn to this quiet act of care between mother and daughter, which felt especially meaningful given the uncertainty of their future.
US news
LGBT
fromTechCrunch
8 months ago

Les Amis, the European app helping women form friendships, launches in New York | TechCrunch

Modern technology aids adults in forming friendships, especially after relocating, with apps like Les Amis targeting specific communities.
fromPsychology Today
8 months ago

The Power of Kindness

Research suggests that when we offer kindness to others, it increases positive emotions and life satisfaction, especially when done autonomously and effectively.
Mindfulness
fromBusiness Insider
8 months ago

I moved to Malaysia in my 30s and struggled to make friends, so I started a club to make the community I needed

I realized I didn't really know anybody. I'd moved around so much by then, and the longest I'd ever stayed in one place was two or three months.
Digital life
fromPsychology Today
8 months ago

Good Gossip: Idle Talk for the Curious and Highly Reflective

Good gossip plays an important role in keeping us connected. It increases group cooperation because it acts as a backstop against some of our individualistic urges.
Relationships
NYC food
fromHighsnobiety
8 months ago

Refresh Your Rhythm: Stef Dag's Guide To Chewing Through the Noise of NYC

'Refresh Your Rhythm' channels the spontaneous social energy of NYC by encouraging connections through simple actions like sharing gum.
Psychology
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
9 months ago

Optimists Are Alike, but Pessimists Are Unique, Brain Scan Study Suggests

Optimists exhibit similar brain activity patterns, while each pessimist's brain patterns are unique, reflecting differences in imagining the future.
fromPsychology Today
9 months ago

Are We Hardwired for Trust?

Trust connects everything-our friendships, families, communities, and even how we run businesses or build nations. It's easy to think of trust as something we're taught by society, but it runs deeper than that.
Philosophy
fromBusiness Insider
9 months ago

Why the next app for relationships won't look like a dating app, according to a VC

"There's an agentic social network basically that I think is going to emerge that is not packaged as a dating app. It's packaged more as this operating system for relationships."
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
9 months ago

Amal Clooney has a strict rule for house guests that helps protect her kids' privacy

"Creating private moments and spaces is becoming increasingly difficult. But that's also why we entertain a lot at home. I now have a phone basket that I use to take everyone's phones away."
Privacy professionals
fromBustle
9 months ago

These 3 Zodiac Signs Overshare The Most

Libras thrive in social settings and often overshare personal stories, driven by a desire for deeper connections. Their open nature fosters intimacy with friends.
Relationships
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
9 months ago

I was getting lonely. Here's what happened when I tried to make new friends in my 30s

Social isolation is a growing public health concern, influenced by changes in living conditions and social behaviors.
Digital life
fromenglish.elpais.com
9 months ago

Remote work, takeout, binge-watching TV... Are we becoming more antisocial?

Excessive technology use is leading to increasing antisocial behavior and self-imposed loneliness in society.
Artificial intelligence
fromFortune
9 months ago

Mark Zuckerberg's dream for AI chatbots to become your friend is as unhealthful as 'junk food,' Hinge CEO says

AI could serve as personalized companions to help combat loneliness, according to Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg.
Wellness
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Why Tennis Pro Jannik Sinner Chose Home Over More Training

Jannik Sinner highlights the importance of recovery through relaxation and social connections after loss, emphasizing the body's needs over mental pressure.
Board games
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Why Is Golf So Fun?

Golf uniquely balances challenge and skill, making it deeply engaging.
It provides psychological escape for adults amid life stress.
The sport creates natural social connections through shared experiences.
Diverse courses maintain long-term interest and motivation.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Humans Are Elephants, Not Tigers

The absence of social connections disrupts our bodily rhythms and emotional well-being, highlighting the importance of relationships in regulating our lives.
fromBusiness Insider
10 months ago

I stopped drinking when I turned 50. Learning to travel sober was the hardest part.

Each course arrived paired with a thoughtfully crafted elixir, like the rhubarb-kombucha aperitif that tingled on my palate, showcasing that sober experiences could be remarkable.
Wine
fromPsychology Today
10 months ago

Friendless and Fine? Rethinking Loneliness

New research complicates our understanding of being 'friendless', revealing that some people find fulfillment in solitude, challenging the notion that it always equates to loneliness.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
11 months ago

College Love Lessons: What High School Grads Need to Know

Don't bring your high school relationship to college. Presenting a partner from high school limits your freedom and ability to form new friendships; it can stifle your growth.
Relationships
fromHarvard Gazette
11 months ago

Things money can't buy - like happiness and better health - Harvard Gazette

Money can't buy happiness, but strong relationships can. And having those ties can bring better health.
Public health
fromThe Nation
11 months ago

How Should Los Angeles Rebuild After the Fires?

All I could think after reading her post was that there had to be a mechanism for rebuilding what was lost, not just the tangible homes but the connections between people.
Los Angeles
#aging
fromBuzzFeed
11 months ago
Wellness

If You Want To Age Well, Experts Say You Should Start Doing These Very Simple Things Immediately

Wellness
fromPsychology Today
11 months ago

The Four C's of Successful Aging

Successful aging is determined by the quality of life, not just longevity.
Focus on doing more effectively and embrace challenges as part of aging.
Maintaining social connections enhances happiness in later years.
Wellness
fromBuzzFeed
11 months ago

If You Want To Age Well, Experts Say You Should Start Doing These Very Simple Things Immediately

Aging well involves physical health, emotional connections, and mental support according to medical experts.
frommindbodygreen
11 months ago

3 Neurologist-Approved Tips To Sharpen Your Mind During Downtime

One of my biggest tips is to know when to unplug. Sometimes we get so flooded with information that it can be extremely stressful.
Mental health
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