#motherhood

#motherhood

"It didn't exactly go over well. Some of the others tried to smooth things over. One sent flowers, then ignored me when I thanked her for them. Another tried to convince me that everyone assumed I'd been invited to gatherings and just hadn't shown up."

A link soon followed for When Calls the Heart - a Hallmark period drama set in the early 1900s about a wealthy young teacher who leaves her comfortable city life to lead a school in a coal-mining town called Hope Valley. If you'd asked me a decade ago whether I'd still be invested in the show today, I would not have guessed yes. But my sister obviously sensed there was something inside of this wholesome Hallmark series that would hook me, and she was right.

Last week, someone asked me, "Did you always want to be a mom?" My instinct was to say yes - but then I paused. Sitting on the floor with my 15-month-old daughter, I realized I'd never actually asked myself that question before. I'd always imagined what kind of mother I'd be, but not whether I wanted to become one. Motherhood, I would soon learn, has a way of undoing everything you think you know about yourself.

What ultimately brought Oona Chaplin, 39, and James Cameron together was something very different from the glitz of premieres, red carpets, or the machinery surrounding a blockbuster like Avatar. Or perhaps not so different, considering the unmistakable environmental message of the highest-grossing film franchise in history. We talked for about 40 minutes about the earth, says the Spanish actress over a video call. I told him I was living in a treehouse and starting a permaculture project with a friend.

The night before the Thanksgiving holiday, I received a message that I was being let go from my job, leaving me reeling in shock and tears, as I faced a holiday season with five kids and no stable income. As a freelancer, I'm somewhat used to instability in my work, but as my writing jobs have slowly vanished over the course of the past year, having my last contract gig taken away really stung.

I'mma keep them because I like them. Not all the time. Because sometimes I'm like, 'Oh, girl, you are not 24.' But you're f-king right. Oh my God. Am I admitting that I'm not 24? You're right. I'm not 24. I'm 33 years old, and this is how my face looks.

Mom worked for almost two decades after her divorce, but could not financially make up for the years she spent as a housewife. The low-paying jobs she had while married - cleaner, waitress, and such - counteracted her higher income as an administrative assistant. She ended up grossing $575.00 a month from social security, despite the fact that she could have drawn against my father's social security allotment for more than double that amount.

2000-2003: The next Harry Potter book didn't come out for three years. 2022: Right after he was born, my son decided he would never sit in a stroller or a car seat. What is something you had to learn the hard way? Life doesn't pause for anyone. In the past few years, I've started three companies, moved homes and had two babies. There's no perfect moment, just a lot of juggling.

It was 1991, I was in my early 40s, living in the south of England and trapped in a marriage that had long since curdled into something quietly suffocating. My husband had become controlling, first with money, then with almost everything else: what I wore, who I saw, what I said. It crept up so slowly that I didn't quite realise what was happening.

"Perspective is a huge thing. The smaller things in life are so much more precious. Our days are filled with lots of cuddles and laughter and love. It's just endless joy."

In today's era, where beauty typically demands doing the most, it's liberating to opt out occasionally, even if it's just one thing. My FYP was a shrine to chrome hues, 3D and rhinestone designs, aura nails, and more - all of which I'd screenshot to show my tech. People rarely saw me without colorful, intricate tips; they were a source of social-media likes and IRL compliments. Birthday nails were a thing. Wedding nails, too (pastel tie-dye, in case you were wondering).

Tucked away amid tall grasses and verdant woods in rural Montana, it seems idyllic. But Grace (played by Jennifer Lawrence) appears uncomfortable as soon as she sets foot inside her new home. She flops over like a rag doll while her boyfriend, Jackson (Robert Pattinson), explores the building, which he inherited from his uncle. Months later, she and Jackson have a baby. Grace becomes a doting mother.

From the moment Megan Walerius made her appearance in the pods, Netflix gave her a main-character edit: Gwen Stefani's "Rich Girl" soundtracked her walk, the camera zooming in on the glittering shoes and jewelry befitting her nickname, Sparkle Megan. "The biggest reason I think I'm still single, honestly, is that men are intimidated by me - by how I live, my level of success, the car I drive, the house I live in," she said in her first confessional.

"I had Brooklyn. I moved to Manchester, which is where David was living and playing for Manchester United. And by this point, he is on the first team; he's a big star," Beckham told podcast host Alex Cooper. "And it was quite the transition for me because I was so happy to be with David, to have a baby. I felt so blessed, but I felt a bit lost as well."

I'm best known for being a party girl, which I definitely was when I first starred on MTV's "Jersey Shore." These days, I still love going for drinks occasionally, but my whole world is centered on being a mom. When I was first pregnant, people in public would often wonder how I could do it. I heard them asking, "What is she going to do? Leave her babies?" But to me, the transition from party girl to mom always felt very natural.

Growing up, I was lucky enough to have a mom who always built me up. She was good about complimenting me, reminding me to feel confident in myself and however I looked. I struggled with my weight a lot as a young person, flucuating between sizes, and she never once mentioned anything about the size of my body. I feel like she's some kind of magical unicorn considering I grew up in the '90s and early '00s when almond moms were all the rage.

One of the most surprising things about motherhood for me has been discovering just how similar every one of our experiences can be, while also being incredibly different. We're all juggling a million things and feeling overwhelmed, but each of us has different items sending us over the edge - and that is proven true every time moms submit their Scary Mommy Confessions for the week.

Succinctly put, Kylie replied, "Who the f**k is we?" "Men can be so annoying," the wife of Jason Kelce quipped, before admitting, "Now I do think I've corrected myself a couple times on this show about me saying 'we were pregnant' or 'we got a positive pregnancy test.' " However, Kylie strongly related to the pregnant woman, saying, "I completely see where this woman is coming from. Also, being on the other side of things, being out of pregnancy, that feels like my brain during pregnancy.

It's this series of mundane problems that start to snowball until Linda is about to reach her breaking point. And that's where If I Had Legs I'd Kick You, Mary Bronstein's surreal and tense new psychological thriller, holds you in its iron grip, forcing you to feel every new stressor and inconvenience that Linda is experiencing, until you feel like you are about to explode.

I wrote them letters for special days because I asked people who had lost parents what they wanted most from them. I'd write a sentence and sob. But little by little, sometimes at 3 a.m., I wrote them. For weddings, pregnancies, graduations, the first and last day of school. I even wrote one for a grandchild I may never have.

When schoolteacher and influencer Joanna Cluskey was diagnosed with the chronic pain condition fibromyalgia, she worried she would never become a mother - but she has learned how to manage the pain and is now a mum of three A cursory glance at Joanna Cluskey's Instagram page and you might think she leads a perfect life. The 42-year-old mother of three and primary school teacher, from Galway City, also works as a model and a stylist, and has amassed 74.5k followers in just three years on her account, @stylebyjo.

I was on maternity leave and, looking back, I may have been having a manic episode. I'd had a long string of admin jobs that I hated. Usually, it was the case that I didn't know what my job was and nobody else did either. When I was 29, I thought: I haven't really done anything creative or put myself out there. Here I am with two kids, what am I doing? So I signed up for an open mic night.