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4 months agoPlayful Resistance: Gender Norms as Games
The second Trump administration's actions pose significant threats to the rights and safety of trans individuals.
The experience highlighted a disturbing societal norm where women’s assertiveness is frowned upon, reinforcing the expectation for women to remain polite and accommodating despite intrusive behavior.
This isn't just about solo pleasure anymore. It's about enhancing connection. These purchases are an investment in their partner's satisfaction - and by extension, the relationship. In the past, men have not embraced adult toys in the same way as women, potentially seeing them as a threat to their sexuality or their own sexual prowess in the bedroom.
"We'll always say, 'Have you seen a magician before?' and when they say yes we'll go, 'It was a man, wasn't it!' Rahill laughs. "That's not us doing magic it's because if it was in Ireland, then it definitely WAS a man they saw, if it wasn't us!" This highlights the historical male dominance in magic, reflecting the unique perspective female magicians bring to the art form."