Experiencing intrusive questions during a photoshoot in an upscale Delhi neighborhood illustrated the societal expectation of women to be polite in uncomfortable situations. Despite irritation from persistent questioning, a photojournalist and the narrator maintained their polite demeanor. This reflects a broader societal issue where assertiveness in women is often viewed negatively. Research indicates that being blunt or firm is perceived as a masculine trait, leading to harsh judgement of women who exhibit these qualities. The incident served as a catalyst for reflection on maintaining boundaries without guilt or societal repercussions.
The experience highlighted a disturbing societal norm where women’s assertiveness is frowned upon, reinforcing the expectation for women to remain polite and accommodating despite intrusive behavior.
We realized the challenge of maintaining politeness even when faced with intrusive personal questions, which speaks to the larger issue of women being conditioned to avoid being perceived as rude.
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