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How to Make Relationship Conflicts Feel Less Overwhelming

Conflict is inevitable in relationships, but understanding your style can lead to healthier outcomes.

3 Reasons to Forgive

Forgiveness is a complex process influenced by evolutionary factors and social relationships, often requiring careful consideration of accountability.

14 RULES FOR COUPLES FOR BEING MAD.

Anger should not lead to disrespectful communication; clarity and fairness are key to resolving conflicts.

Harriette Cole: Apparently I interrupt too much, and my sister stopped talking to me

Time and sincere communication are essential to mend a broken relationship, especially after unresolved conflict.

How to Make Relationship Conflicts Feel Less Overwhelming

Conflict is inevitable in relationships, but understanding your style can lead to healthier outcomes.

3 Reasons to Forgive

Forgiveness is a complex process influenced by evolutionary factors and social relationships, often requiring careful consideration of accountability.

14 RULES FOR COUPLES FOR BEING MAD.

Anger should not lead to disrespectful communication; clarity and fairness are key to resolving conflicts.

Harriette Cole: Apparently I interrupt too much, and my sister stopped talking to me

Time and sincere communication are essential to mend a broken relationship, especially after unresolved conflict.
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#personal-growth

What's Good for Me Is Also Good for Us

Self-compassion enhances individual mental health and relational dynamics, promoting forgiveness and understanding in partnerships.

People Whose Parents Had A Massive Change Of Heart And Became Better People Are Sharing Their Stories

People can change for the better, and a second chance can lead to significant improvements in relationships.

Dear Abby: My teacher is dead, and I want to tell people how awful she was

Reflecting on the impact of a negative teacher can lead to self-discovery and healing.

Jelly Roll plans to seek forgiveness from victims of armed robbery: 'No logic to what I did'

Jelly Roll emphasizes the importance of accountability, personal growth, and seeking forgiveness for his past actions throughout his journey to success.

How Do You Know if You Are Ready to Forgive?

Forgiveness is a personal journey that varies for everyone, emphasizing the need for individual readiness in the healing process.

Interview with Next Avenue: Chaz Ebert Wants You To Give a FECK | Chaz's Journal | Roger Ebert

Chaz Ebert emphasizes forgiveness, including self-forgiveness, as a powerful tool for personal growth and community progress.

What's Good for Me Is Also Good for Us

Self-compassion enhances individual mental health and relational dynamics, promoting forgiveness and understanding in partnerships.

People Whose Parents Had A Massive Change Of Heart And Became Better People Are Sharing Their Stories

People can change for the better, and a second chance can lead to significant improvements in relationships.

Dear Abby: My teacher is dead, and I want to tell people how awful she was

Reflecting on the impact of a negative teacher can lead to self-discovery and healing.

Jelly Roll plans to seek forgiveness from victims of armed robbery: 'No logic to what I did'

Jelly Roll emphasizes the importance of accountability, personal growth, and seeking forgiveness for his past actions throughout his journey to success.

How Do You Know if You Are Ready to Forgive?

Forgiveness is a personal journey that varies for everyone, emphasizing the need for individual readiness in the healing process.

Interview with Next Avenue: Chaz Ebert Wants You To Give a FECK | Chaz's Journal | Roger Ebert

Chaz Ebert emphasizes forgiveness, including self-forgiveness, as a powerful tool for personal growth and community progress.
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#healing

UC Berkeley alum's memoir reflects on love, loss and forgiveness

Family trauma explored through a child's perspective with themes of forgiveness, loss, and love.

Asking Eric: My sister wants the details of her dead husband's affair

Supporting a loved one through past hurts involves respecting boundaries and considering the impact of seeking the truth.

Shrinking Recap: Jonesing for a Fix

Jimmy's healing obsession distracts from his grief, leading to emotional turmoil as seen in 'The Drugs Don't Work.'
Alice evolves by confronting Louis but struggles with her father's inability to forgive.

How to Let Go of the Past and Forgive - Tiny Buddha

Forgive for your peace, not their worthiness
Be kind to yourself and counter self-criticism with self-compassion

UC Berkeley alum's memoir reflects on love, loss and forgiveness

Family trauma explored through a child's perspective with themes of forgiveness, loss, and love.

Asking Eric: My sister wants the details of her dead husband's affair

Supporting a loved one through past hurts involves respecting boundaries and considering the impact of seeking the truth.

Shrinking Recap: Jonesing for a Fix

Jimmy's healing obsession distracts from his grief, leading to emotional turmoil as seen in 'The Drugs Don't Work.'
Alice evolves by confronting Louis but struggles with her father's inability to forgive.

How to Let Go of the Past and Forgive - Tiny Buddha

Forgive for your peace, not their worthiness
Be kind to yourself and counter self-criticism with self-compassion
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Woman who falsely accused college students of rape in 2006 admits she lied

Crystal Mangum publicly admitted to fabricating the rape allegations against Duke University lacrosse players, expressing regret and longing for forgiveness.
#emotional-healing

Thanksgiving is a great time to forgive those who dumped you for your political views

Thanksgiving is an opportunity to forgive loved ones estranged by political differences, providing a path to emotional healing.

Stop Telling Me to Forgive: Why This Isn't Helpful - Tiny Buddha

True forgiveness requires processing anger and hurt, not rushing to forgive prematurely.

Live to Forgive (book)

Jason Romano's 'Live to Forgive' illustrates the transformative power of forgiveness through his journey with his alcoholic father.

Thanksgiving is a great time to forgive those who dumped you for your political views

Thanksgiving is an opportunity to forgive loved ones estranged by political differences, providing a path to emotional healing.

Stop Telling Me to Forgive: Why This Isn't Helpful - Tiny Buddha

True forgiveness requires processing anger and hurt, not rushing to forgive prematurely.

Live to Forgive (book)

Jason Romano's 'Live to Forgive' illustrates the transformative power of forgiveness through his journey with his alcoholic father.
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#family-dynamics

In painter Titus Kaphar's first film, a troubled father comes back to seek forgiveness

'Exhibiting Forgiveness' portrays an artist's journey of personal reconciliation with his estranged father, reflecting on themes of forgiveness and redemption.

I have spent my life looking after my depressive, controlling mum can I move on? | Ask Annalisa

The relationship between the narrator and their mother has been deeply impacted by depression, control issues, and recent revelations causing a desire for separation.

Making Forgiveness a Part of the Marriage Preparation

Resentments from the family of origin can impact new marriages; forgiveness is key to preventing marital conflict.

Opinion | How Do You Say Goodbye to an Abusive Family Member?

The journey of reconciling with an estranged parent can lead to healing and perspective through creative expression.

I've Had Major Revelations in Therapy About How I Mistreated My Daughter. But She Won't Forgive Me.

Healing estranged relationships takes time and understanding; don't rush forgiveness.

Dear Abby: The fallout from the affair is destroying my sister

Forgiveness can be a complex process, and while some family members may forgive, others may struggle to do so, as seen in the case of the daughter.

In painter Titus Kaphar's first film, a troubled father comes back to seek forgiveness

'Exhibiting Forgiveness' portrays an artist's journey of personal reconciliation with his estranged father, reflecting on themes of forgiveness and redemption.

I have spent my life looking after my depressive, controlling mum can I move on? | Ask Annalisa

The relationship between the narrator and their mother has been deeply impacted by depression, control issues, and recent revelations causing a desire for separation.

Making Forgiveness a Part of the Marriage Preparation

Resentments from the family of origin can impact new marriages; forgiveness is key to preventing marital conflict.

Opinion | How Do You Say Goodbye to an Abusive Family Member?

The journey of reconciling with an estranged parent can lead to healing and perspective through creative expression.

I've Had Major Revelations in Therapy About How I Mistreated My Daughter. But She Won't Forgive Me.

Healing estranged relationships takes time and understanding; don't rush forgiveness.

Dear Abby: The fallout from the affair is destroying my sister

Forgiveness can be a complex process, and while some family members may forgive, others may struggle to do so, as seen in the case of the daughter.
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#murder

Woman who drowned her two infant sons by rolling car into lake 30 years ago is denied parole

Susan Smith was denied parole despite claiming to have found forgiveness for killing her two sons, highlighting the complexity of her actions and public sentiment.

Brianna Ghey's mother breaks down in heartbreaking interview

Brianna Ghey's mother does not blame the parents of her daughter's killers and would be open to meeting them.
She is launching a campaign calling for social media apps to be banned on smartphones for children.

Woman who drowned her two infant sons by rolling car into lake 30 years ago is denied parole

Susan Smith was denied parole despite claiming to have found forgiveness for killing her two sons, highlighting the complexity of her actions and public sentiment.

Brianna Ghey's mother breaks down in heartbreaking interview

Brianna Ghey's mother does not blame the parents of her daughter's killers and would be open to meeting them.
She is launching a campaign calling for social media apps to be banned on smartphones for children.
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#childhood-trauma

Sometimes, Forgiveness Is Overrated

Therapists and scholars are redefining forgiveness and erasing the pressure to always forgive.

HowExhibiting ForgivenessExplores the Limits of Religion and Absolution

Titus Kaphar's film, Exhibiting Forgiveness, explores the complexities of forgiveness and childhood trauma through a fictional lens, diverging from traditional narratives.

I Was A School Bully. Here's Why I Terrorized My Classmates.

Childhood experiences shape adult behavior, often leading to unresolved trauma that affects daily life.

Sometimes, Forgiveness Is Overrated

Therapists and scholars are redefining forgiveness and erasing the pressure to always forgive.

HowExhibiting ForgivenessExplores the Limits of Religion and Absolution

Titus Kaphar's film, Exhibiting Forgiveness, explores the complexities of forgiveness and childhood trauma through a fictional lens, diverging from traditional narratives.

I Was A School Bully. Here's Why I Terrorized My Classmates.

Childhood experiences shape adult behavior, often leading to unresolved trauma that affects daily life.
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Germany seeks forgiveness for Nazi crimes in Greece DW 11/01/2024

German President Steinmeier visited Kandanos to apologize for Nazi atrocities but rejected calls for war reparations.
#resilience

I was paralyzed from the chest down by a school shooter at 15. I chose to forgive him.

Missy Jenkins Smith forgave her school shooter, choosing to live a life free from anger despite being paralyzed from the chest down.

Racing From Trauma to Triumph

Kerry Gruson and Caryn Lubetsky exemplify resilience, forgiveness, and teamwork 50 years after trauma, inspiring others with their journey.

I was paralyzed from the chest down by a school shooter at 15. I chose to forgive him.

Missy Jenkins Smith forgave her school shooter, choosing to live a life free from anger despite being paralyzed from the chest down.

Racing From Trauma to Triumph

Kerry Gruson and Caryn Lubetsky exemplify resilience, forgiveness, and teamwork 50 years after trauma, inspiring others with their journey.
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#restorative-justice

'I still get hate mail for meeting IRA man who killed my dad in Brighton bombing'

Jo Berry emphasizes the importance of restorative justice despite ongoing hate mail after meeting her father's murderer.

I don't blame her': meeting of Esther Ghey and Emma Sutton shows power of restorative justice

Remarkable meeting between mothers of victim and perpetrator.
Unusual display of restorative justice and forgiveness.

'I still get hate mail for meeting IRA man who killed my dad in Brighton bombing'

Jo Berry emphasizes the importance of restorative justice despite ongoing hate mail after meeting her father's murderer.

I don't blame her': meeting of Esther Ghey and Emma Sutton shows power of restorative justice

Remarkable meeting between mothers of victim and perpetrator.
Unusual display of restorative justice and forgiveness.
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#mental-health

Forgiveness: Good for Them or Good for You?

Forgiveness is crucial for emotional recovery and can significantly improve mental and physical health.

You Don't "Need" to Forgive

Forgiveness is not necessary for mental health; it's beneficial but not required.
The need to forgive is often culturally pressured, especially among trauma survivors.
Use flexible language about forgiveness instead of implying necessity.

This Is How "Toxic Forgiveness" Is Damaging Your Relationships

Toxic forgiveness refers to rushed, superficial pardons that ignore emotional processing and lead to resentment.

Woman dies 18 years after Amish village mass shooting left her severely injured

Rosanna King, severely injured in the 2006 mass shooting, died 18 years later, highlighting the long-term effects of such tragedies.

Forgiveness: Good for Them or Good for You?

Forgiveness is crucial for emotional recovery and can significantly improve mental and physical health.

You Don't "Need" to Forgive

Forgiveness is not necessary for mental health; it's beneficial but not required.
The need to forgive is often culturally pressured, especially among trauma survivors.
Use flexible language about forgiveness instead of implying necessity.

This Is How "Toxic Forgiveness" Is Damaging Your Relationships

Toxic forgiveness refers to rushed, superficial pardons that ignore emotional processing and lead to resentment.

Woman dies 18 years after Amish village mass shooting left her severely injured

Rosanna King, severely injured in the 2006 mass shooting, died 18 years later, highlighting the long-term effects of such tragedies.
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Review: A Choir Stands Out in a Multimedia Performance

The multimedia piece explores themes of forgiveness through diverse artistic expressions, poignantly woven together by composer Gabriela Ortiz.
#mel-gibson

Andrew GarfieldSays Hacksaw Ridge' Director Mel Gibson Deserves' to Make Films: None of Us Are Infallible'

Andrew Garfield advocates for forgiveness of Mel Gibson, highlighting his empathy and talent as a filmmaker.

Andrew Garfield dragged for backing Mel Gibson: 'You are a f-ing rube'

Andrew Garfield supports Mel Gibson's capacity for change, sparking backlash on social media regarding forgiveness and accountability for past actions.

Andrew GarfieldSays Hacksaw Ridge' Director Mel Gibson Deserves' to Make Films: None of Us Are Infallible'

Andrew Garfield advocates for forgiveness of Mel Gibson, highlighting his empathy and talent as a filmmaker.

Andrew Garfield dragged for backing Mel Gibson: 'You are a f-ing rube'

Andrew Garfield supports Mel Gibson's capacity for change, sparking backlash on social media regarding forgiveness and accountability for past actions.
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This 'Angels in America' is the theatrical medicine you need

Forgiveness is difficult yet essential; love and justice intersect amidst human limitations in Kushner's 'Angels in America.'

Raptors Film Room: The Real Vince Carter Effect

Forgiveness is essential for celebrating sports legends like Vince Carter, as resentment hinders fan enjoyment and team legacy.
Vince Carter's jersey retirement represents an opportunity for fans to reconcile and appreciate their team's history.
#yom-kippur

How one woman is seeking atonement this year during Yom Kippur

Yom Kippur emphasizes the importance of repairing relationships for true forgiveness.

We non-Jews us should follow the Yom Kippur tradition of asking for forgiveness

Yom Kippur serves as a reminder for all to acknowledge their sins and seek repentance regardless of faith.

How one woman is seeking atonement this year during Yom Kippur

Yom Kippur emphasizes the importance of repairing relationships for true forgiveness.

We non-Jews us should follow the Yom Kippur tradition of asking for forgiveness

Yom Kippur serves as a reminder for all to acknowledge their sins and seek repentance regardless of faith.
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The Bold Compassion of Dear Dickhead

Virginie Despentes challenges traditional literary boundaries by addressing male abuse, yet her new work presents a nuanced perspective of forgiveness.
Despentes critiques the historical expectations placed on female writers to appease male readers.
#communication

11 Ways to Rebuild Trust After a Betrayal (Yes, It's Possible!)

Rebuilding trust after betrayal requires radical honesty and full transparency, creating a space for genuine communication and understanding.

12 Smart Ways To Divorce-proof Your Marriage.

Effective communication is essential for a lasting marriage and should be prioritized over distractions.
Anger management is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship; forgiveness and self-control are vital.
Marriage requires mutual forgiveness to ensure joy and peace, countering bitterness and resentment.
Respect is fundamental; men often equate respect with love, highlighting its importance in a marital relationship.

My Boyfriend Just Revealed What He Did at the Strip Club. I'm Stunned.

Consider the seriousness of the boyfriend's offense and ability to rebuild trust before deciding to end the relationship.

11 Ways to Rebuild Trust After a Betrayal (Yes, It's Possible!)

Rebuilding trust after betrayal requires radical honesty and full transparency, creating a space for genuine communication and understanding.

12 Smart Ways To Divorce-proof Your Marriage.

Effective communication is essential for a lasting marriage and should be prioritized over distractions.
Anger management is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship; forgiveness and self-control are vital.
Marriage requires mutual forgiveness to ensure joy and peace, countering bitterness and resentment.
Respect is fundamental; men often equate respect with love, highlighting its importance in a marital relationship.

My Boyfriend Just Revealed What He Did at the Strip Club. I'm Stunned.

Consider the seriousness of the boyfriend's offense and ability to rebuild trust before deciding to end the relationship.
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from The Conversation
3 months ago

Self-forgiveness is more than self-comfort a philosopher explains

Self-forgiveness involves transforming guilt and shame into positive emotions like respect and humility, highlighting its moral significance.
#resentment

When You're Not Quite Ready to Forgive

Forgiveness can effectively reduce long-lasting resentment; however, individuals must choose when and if to forgive without pressure from others.

What Forgiveness Really Means and Why It's the Ultimate Freedom - Tiny Buddha

Forgiveness is about letting go of anger and resentment, not pretending nothing happened.

When You're Not Quite Ready to Forgive

Forgiveness can effectively reduce long-lasting resentment; however, individuals must choose when and if to forgive without pressure from others.

What Forgiveness Really Means and Why It's the Ultimate Freedom - Tiny Buddha

Forgiveness is about letting go of anger and resentment, not pretending nothing happened.
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#relationships

Honoring all the dads that have made such a difference in their families' lives | Opinion

Gratitude for father figures and the importance of mending relationships with dads.

A Divorced Single Mother Wrote.

Appreciating partners despite their flaws is crucial for relationship harmony and understanding.

How to Apologize Like You Mean It

Apologies involve vulnerability and admitting wrongdoing
Apologies influence forgiveness and can benefit the giver by reducing guilt and strengthening relationships

Honoring all the dads that have made such a difference in their families' lives | Opinion

Gratitude for father figures and the importance of mending relationships with dads.

A Divorced Single Mother Wrote.

Appreciating partners despite their flaws is crucial for relationship harmony and understanding.

How to Apologize Like You Mean It

Apologies involve vulnerability and admitting wrongdoing
Apologies influence forgiveness and can benefit the giver by reducing guilt and strengthening relationships
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TITUS KAPHAR

Kaphar's film explores deeply personal themes of family trauma and reconciliation through the lens of an artist's journey toward forgiveness.
#family

Dave Grohl admits cheating on wife as he announces birth of daughter born 'outside of my marriage'

Dave Grohl acknowledges challenges within his family after the birth of a daughter outside his marriage, emphasizing the importance of trust and forgiveness.

Kim's Convenience sets up shop on London stage | CBC News

Kim's Convenience, a well-loved Canadian play-turned-television series, made its European debut at the Park Theatre in London.
The play explores themes of forgiveness, family, and confection, and tells the immigrant story of a Korean Canadian family.

Dave Grohl admits cheating on wife as he announces birth of daughter born 'outside of my marriage'

Dave Grohl acknowledges challenges within his family after the birth of a daughter outside his marriage, emphasizing the importance of trust and forgiveness.

Kim's Convenience sets up shop on London stage | CBC News

Kim's Convenience, a well-loved Canadian play-turned-television series, made its European debut at the Park Theatre in London.
The play explores themes of forgiveness, family, and confection, and tells the immigrant story of a Korean Canadian family.
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Asking Eric: I let the car thief take the fall for my drugs. All these years later, can I fix things?

Confronting past mistakes can provide closure, but the fear of repercussions may prevent individuals from making amends.
#family-relationships

29 Massive Family Secrets People Uncovered As Adults That Range From Heartbreaking To Downright Disturbing

The narrator's complex relationship with their estranged father emerges through a history of deceit, incarceration, and missed connections.

Rob Schneider apologizes to daughter Elle King after she recalls 'toxic' dad sending her to fat camp

Rob Schneider expresses regret about his past parenting and seeks forgiveness from his daughter Elle King.

29 Massive Family Secrets People Uncovered As Adults That Range From Heartbreaking To Downright Disturbing

The narrator's complex relationship with their estranged father emerges through a history of deceit, incarceration, and missed connections.

Rob Schneider apologizes to daughter Elle King after she recalls 'toxic' dad sending her to fat camp

Rob Schneider expresses regret about his past parenting and seeks forgiveness from his daughter Elle King.
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#love

Anne Elliot Is Twenty-Seven - The Paris Review

Identifying with Anne Elliot's age transitions and reflections on love and forgiveness in Austen's Persuasion.

Babylon Berlin's Volker Bruch is aware the season 4 finale doesn't look for Gereon

Gereon Rath finds strength in love and forgiveness, overcoming his past and stepping into a new, empowered self.

Anne Elliot Is Twenty-Seven - The Paris Review

Identifying with Anne Elliot's age transitions and reflections on love and forgiveness in Austen's Persuasion.

Babylon Berlin's Volker Bruch is aware the season 4 finale doesn't look for Gereon

Gereon Rath finds strength in love and forgiveness, overcoming his past and stepping into a new, empowered self.
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Help! I Confronted My Bully at Our High School Reunion. Now She's Begging for Forgiveness.

Forgiveness is not owed to a former bully, and the impact of their actions cannot be erased by a simple apology.

Kerry mother who lost son in crash pleads with court not to send driver to jail

The family of Tom Gudgeon, who tragically lost his life in a road accident, expresses forgiveness and empathy towards the driver responsible.

Japanese Breakfast at The New Yorker Festival

Writing a memoir requires radical compassion and perspective, leading to understanding and forgiveness.
Writing a book takes time and provides the needed distance for personal reflection and growth.

Grammy-winning singer and 'American Idol' star from NorCal dies a

Mandisa, a Grammy-winning gospel singer and former 'American Idol' contestant, passed away at 47, leaving behind a legacy of forgiveness and inspiration.

2024 Steven McDonald Extra Effort Award Preview

The Steven McDonald Extra Effort Award is a significant and emotional event for the New York Rangers and their fans.
Steven McDonald's legacy of forgiveness and promoting nonviolent conflict resolution continues through the award.

German Bundestag considers COVID inquiry DW 04/04/2024

The COVID-19 pandemic in Germany led to the suspension of basic rights and strict lockdowns globally.
There is now a debate in Germany on how to address the intense period of the pandemic and the political decisions made.

Rob Brezsny's Free Will Astrology

Declare amnesty, negotiate truces, shed resentments. Break habits, discard old stuff. Inspiration from poet David Whyte on forgiveness.
Taurus: Balance diligent work with enjoying life's pleasures. Aim for harmonious synergy between work and pleasure. Prediction of success in maintaining balance.

Rob Brezsny's Free Will Astrology

Declaring amnesty and shedding resentments will be beneficial for Aries.
Taurus is advised to be diligent, relentless, and go after what they want.

Father of slain California man addresses son's killer: 'I forgive you. I really do.'

Father forgives son's killer in emotional courtroom scene
Father emphasizes the power of forgiveness even in the face of tragedy
from time.com
6 months ago

This Psychologist Just Won $1.3 Million for Her Work on Trauma and Repair

The Templeton Foundation awards $1.3 million prize to Pumla Gobodo-Madikizela for exploring forgiveness and trauma after national violence.

J.D. Vance: Winners and losers from Trump's VP pick

J.D. Vance's selection as Trump's running mate signifies a shift towards populism and a break from traditional Republicanism.

Lawyer Suspended For Pooping In Pringles Can Gets His Law License Reinstated

Legal profession's forgiveness - attorney reinstated after poop incident despite ethics violation.
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