The letter writer struggles with social isolation following the death of her husband, exacerbated by a nervous breakdown that led her to act uncharacteristically towards friends. Despite attempts to reconcile, her friends have not been forthcoming about the hurtful comments she made during this time, and she has been ostracized from her card club. Dear Abby suggests that if these women know about her mental health struggles and still refuse to forgive her, they are in the wrong. Abby advises seeking friendship elsewhere and possibly discussing her situation with a religious adviser.
"I have felt like some of these people are angry with me... I can't remember much of what I did or said."
"Were any of them ever told that you had a psychological break after your husband died? If they knew and cannot understand and forgive your outburst, shame on them."
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