The article explores the dangers of living a life characterized by giving excessively and forgiving endlessly, particularly among women and some men. This behavior can stem from early childhood experiences where being 'good' or 'nice' was essential for parental acceptance. It questions the societal pressure to prove one's worthiness through these actions, suggesting it's not necessary to earn self-esteem. Instead, the piece poses a radical idea: what if worthiness is inherent in simply existing?
Many individuals, particularly women and some men, invest their energy into always giving to others, leading to a cycle of forgiveness that can feel dangerous and exhausting.
The societal notion of worthiness often demands individuals to prove their value through niceness and goodness, perpetuated by early familial expectations and bondings.
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