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cleveland
2 days ago
Remote teams

Ask Yadi: I work from home and my husband keeps bothering me, how do I get him to stop?

Establish boundaries when working from home to avoid distractions and interruptions. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
2 months ago
Relationships

My Drastically Changing Sex Life Feels Like Walking in a Minefield

Communicate openly with your partner about boundaries and comfort levels.
Explore personal desires and meanings of intimacy before making decisions. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
2 months ago
Digital life

I Recently Found What My Husband Looks at Online. I Don't Know If My Daughter Is Safe With Him.

Communication is key in addressing concerns about a partner's secret porn collection and habits.
Setting boundaries and discussing discomfort with specific content in a partner's porn consumption is crucial for a healthy relationship. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Digital life

Dear Abby: My son wants me to stay home with their baby, but I have a job I like

Grandma-to-be in Florida doesn't want to be the full-time babysitter for her son's child.
The wife in Washington is upset that her husband looks at pornography and it affects their sex life. [ more ]
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family-dynamics
www.theguardian.com
1 week ago
Books

My mother-in-law pushes to spend more time with our baby. How can I keep her at arm's length? | Leading questions

Feeling emotionally manipulated by mother-in-law post-childbirth, struggling with setting boundaries and maintaining a relationship for daughter's sake. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago
Writing

Ask Amy: Should I let her go ahead with this gender reveal plan?

Establishing boundaries is crucial for new parents, even when facing pressure from family members during significant life events like doctor appointments. [ more ]
Bored Panda
1 month ago
Parenting

Couple Book Thailand Holiday, Choose Not To Take Their 5 Kids, Instead Expect Cousin To Babysit

Entitled parents expect others to take care of their children without permission or consideration.
Working from home doesn't mean one can take on the responsibility of babysitting children at any time. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
1 month ago
Parenting

I've Been Taking Care of a Baby for Free, and I Am Utterly Seething With Resentment

Setting boundaries in family relationships is essential for emotional well-being.
Communicating openly about expectations and responsibilities can prevent misunderstanding and resentment. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
1 month ago
Parenting

My Mother-in-Law Is Writing Scorched-Earth Letters About Me and My Kids

You are not responsible for managing tensions within your husband's family.
Setting boundaries with toxic family members is necessary for your well-being and your children's best interest. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
2 months ago
Digital life

Help! Our Relatives Gave Our Daughter a Makeup Gift Card. She's 11.

Setting boundaries with gift-giving in family relationships is important to manage expectations and values.
Communication is key in navigating delicate situations regarding gifts within family dynamics. [ more ]
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intimacy
www.theguardian.com
1 week ago
JavaScript

My partner hates my pubic hair but I refuse to shave. What now?

Respect partner's boundaries in intimate matters to avoid negative associations with sex and potential sexual dysfunction. [ more ]
www.theguardian.com
2 months ago
Relationships

For years, I saw sex as a competitive sport. Then I realised how empty I felt | Cornelia Holzbauer

Casual approach to sex can lead to confusing sex with intimacy
Setting boundaries and respecting oneself is crucial in sexual encounters [ more ]
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Scary Mommy
1 month ago
Parenting

This Dad's Checklist Of Household Tasks His Kids Must Do Before Any Screen Time Went Viral

Setting boundaries around screen time can motivate children to prioritize physical exercise and other tasks.
Parental guidance on screen time can impact children's mental health positively. [ more ]
Scary Mommy
3 months ago
Parenting

This Grandpa's Sweet Gesture Is The Perfect Example Of Boomer Parents Respecting Boundaries

A TikTok mom shared a heartwarming anecdote about her dad respecting her boundaries with her children
Her dad adapted by bringing healthier alternatives to candy as treats for his grandkids [ more ]
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www.scientificamerican.com
1 week ago
OMG science

Where Is the Edge of the Solar System?

Sharp boundaries can mislead when applied to inherently fuzzy concepts. [ more ]
BuzzFeed
1 week ago
Parenting

7 Boundaries Adult Children Should Consider Setting With Their Parents

Setting boundaries with parents is crucial for well-being and relationships. [ more ]
Someecards
4 months ago
Parenting

Woman asks if she should babysit her husband's ex's brood of kids. AITA?

The woman refuses to babysit her husband's ex's seven kids in addition to her own children, causing conflict in their marriage.
Many Reddit users agree that the woman is not in the wrong and should not be expected to take on such a responsibility. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
4 months ago
Parenting

My Mom Keeps Trying to Force Expired Thanksgiving Leftovers on My Kids

Communicating directly and setting firm boundaries can be necessary when dealing with someone who insists on serving expired food.
Continuing to educate and provide information about food safety can help the person understand the risks and make changes. [ more ]
Marketing
Bustle
1 week ago
Marketing

What Happens If Your Therapist Is A TikTok Star?

The rise of therapists on social media platforms like TikTok blurs professional boundaries and raises ethical concerns. [ more ]
Fast Company
3 weeks ago
Marketing

How leaders can be vulnerable on social media without being TMI oversharers

Your real and authentic personality must be on display at all times on social media. [ more ]
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Irish Independent
1 month ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: I detest my husband because he keeps making me feel like his sex toy

Communication is key in addressing issues in a relationship, especially around boundaries and respect.
Sexual objectification and unwanted advances can negatively impact a marriage over time, even after many years together. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

My Friend Just Asked Me for the Most Absurd Favor. It Involves My Husband.

Examine unusual reactions to understand underlying causes.
Communication about boundaries and feelings in open relationships is vital. [ more ]
The New Yorker
2 months ago
Relationships

Scenes from My Open-ish Marriage

Open marriage can lead to unexpected consequences, like sending intimate messages to the wrong person.
Miscommunications can occur in unconventional relationships due to blurred boundaries and arrangements. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
2 months ago
Relationships

I'm Dying to Get Back in the Game After My Divorce, but This One Sex Move Is Holding Me Back

Communicate boundaries clearly in sexual relationships.
Engage in sex without feeling pressured to conform to cultural norms. [ more ]
House Digest
1 month ago
Web design

No Demo Reno's Jenn Todryk Expects This Design Trend To Take Off In 2024 - House Digest

Having closed spaces in homes provides boundaries and offers cozy, warm areas for various activities.
Closed-concept spaces allow for more creativity in design with more wall space for artwork and decoration. [ more ]
YourTango
1 month ago
Education

Teacher Called Into Principal's Office After Refusing To Give Out Her Personal Address To A Student's Parents

Teachers often establish boundaries to separate personal and professional lives.
Parents may struggle to understand and respect teachers' boundaries around privacy. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Career

Harriette Cole: Being the oldest child has ruined my life

Feeling misunderstood as the eldest in a traditional Filipino family can be emotionally overwhelming.
Establishing healthy boundaries and finding a balance between caring for siblings and oneself is crucial in such situations. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Career

Harriette Cole: I inherited money and my siblings didn't, and they're being difficult

It can be challenging to navigate family dynamics when dealing with inheritances and financial assistance
Seek professional help to ensure that you are making informed decisions and following legal requirements [ more ]
Entrepreneur
3 months ago
Career

The Biggest Threat to Your Boundaries | Entrepreneur

Identify your nonnegotiable activities that make you happy and create boundaries around them.
Prioritize your nonnegotiable activities to ensure you have the energy and focus for work and other obligations. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Career

Ask Amy: Can I ask her to give back the birthday present?

It is not appropriate to ask for a gift back, even after a divorce.
Setting boundaries is important, even in difficult situations. [ more ]
HuffPost
5 months ago
Career

3 Signs Your Co-Worker Is An 'Energy Vampire'

Energy vampires drain people's energy merely by talking to them.
There are proven strategies to defeat energy vampires and regain your time and energy. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
5 months ago
Career

Ask Amy: How can I avoid the vortex of the other grandmother?

Establish clear boundaries with your daughter and her mother-in-law regarding visitation and alone-time.
Focus on giving attention as a grandparent rather than receiving it. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Digital life

Miss Manners: They think this joke about my name is funny, but I don't

Acknowledge and address potentially uncomfortable social interactions with grace and humor.
Establish clear communication expectations when sending invitations.
React politely to unresponsive invitees and set boundaries without feeling guilty. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Digital life

Ask Amy: I invited them to dinner, and they actually expected me to pay

When inviting someone to join you for a celebration dinner, the expectation is usually for you to treat them.
In a situation where you have romantic feelings for a close friend who is also in a committed relationship, it is important to consider the potential consequences and navigate the situation with caution. [ more ]
Slate Magazine
3 months ago
Digital life

My Boyfriend Has a New Request for When I Go Down on Him. I Have Concerns.

Incorporating teeth/chewing into oral sex
Communicating and exploring boundaries [ more ]
www.theguardian.com
3 months ago
Digital life

Should you share passcodes? Four rules of phone use for couples

Going through your partner's phone often leads to a losing battle and embarrassment for everyone involved.
People have different ideas of what boundaries are when it comes to privacy in a relationship. [ more ]
Bored Panda
5 months ago
Digital life

Spouse Is Oblivious They Follow SO Around During Business Calls, Learns Not To The Hard Way

Working from home can lead to blurred boundaries between work and personal life.
Research shows that women often struggle to establish boundaries and negotiate distribution of work and responsibilities. [ more ]
The Paris Review
3 months ago
Books

Ananda Devi and Callie Siskel Recommend - The Paris Review

Intimacies is a novel about the psychic effects of inhabiting another person's mind.
The narrator grapples with a sense of self and the boundaries between self and other. [ more ]
The Ringer
3 months ago
Music

'60 Songs That Explain the '90s': George Michael's Fight for Freedom

George Michael's song 'Freedom! '90' is about declaring his freedom from the expectations of his fan base.
The song emphasizes the importance of love, mutual respect, and healthy boundaries between a pop star and their fans. [ more ]
www.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Mental health

Ask Amy: My parents are upset about my rules for seeing the baby

It's important to support a partner with anxiety and depression after childbirth.
Setting boundaries with family members who make parenting critiques is necessary to protect the emotional well-being of the new parents. [ more ]
Rubyflow
4 months ago
Ruby on Rails

Test Doubles: Testing at the Boundaries of Your Ruby Application

Test doubles are versatile components used in software development for testing purposes.
Strategic use of test doubles can help maximize their potential while minimizing associated risks. [ more ]
www.nytimes.com
5 months ago
Wellness

4 Tips for Booze-Free Holiday Fun

Saying no to alcohol during holiday celebrations can prompt uncomfortable reactions and increased peer pressure.
Practicing what you're going to say when people offer you a drink and setting boundaries can help navigate alcohol-free holiday seasons. [ more ]
BuzzFeed
5 months ago
Career

This Man Was Laid Off, And His Girlfriend Refused To Cover His Half Of The Rent - Now, People Have Thoughts

The commenters believe that the couple in the situation are not compatible and should consider ending the relationship.
Both parties are at fault for not respecting each other's boundaries and expectations.
The relationship is deemed unreasonable and possibly never was. [ more ]
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