Wellness
fromPsychology Today
16 hours agoWhy Self-Care Feels Wrong When You're a Perfectionist
Self-care is essential for well-being, and perfectionism can create guilt that blocks rest, boundaries, connection, and fun.
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The HALT framework helps you identify the basic states that make everything harder. HALT stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired - and when you're in any of these states, your window of tolerance gets narrower. So before you can think about some elaborate self-care routine, start here: Physical needs: Do you have food that's actually easy to eat? Are you getting actual rest, or just scrolling through your phone?
Sitting in the audience, listening to these professionals in perfect harmony, brought me back to my days in the band. I wasn't good, it was mandatory, and I played the trombone. I desperately wanted to quit. We couldn't have backpacks in school, so I walked through the halls lugging my trombone in my right hand and books under my left armpit. This made me a perfect target for a bully or two to come up behind me and smack the books out from under me.
Some years ago, I was talking to my husband on the phone. He sounded annoyed about something to do with his work, but I noticed an intense emotional reaction in myself. Immediately, my heart contracted and my stomach lurched. I could feel a runaway train of emotions activate within me. My whole body was awash with nausea, and I felt so very uncomfortable.
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