Instead of traditional goodbyes that interrupt the couple's enjoyment, quietly slipping out of a wedding reception allows the newlyweds to appreciate their expensive party.
I come from a Chicago Italian family where weddings are very formal, regimented events. In college, I attended a mid-summer wedding in Iowa held in a church. Nice, formal wedding followed by a backyard reception with kegs of coolish beer and warm ham sandwiches. The members of the wedding party and all the guests changed into shorts, jeans, and T-shirts except for me. I didn't know about the costume change and wore a suit in 90-degree heat and 90% humidity while everyone got shit-faced and food poisoned from the rancid mayo in the potato salad, which I skipped when I saw flies on it. People were shitting behind the garage because there weren't enough toilets for all the sick people.
Rebecca Keren Jablonski, a Manhattan rabbi, shared that she provided her wedding DJ with both a song request list and a do-not-play list, specifically citing Kanye West due to his antisemitic remarks.
For the 17th year in a row, the city celebrated the romantic holiday by arranging for the urban nuptials below the flashing screens of Times Square in shower of love that stopped hurried New Yorkers long enough to take a peek.
"As a mom to a toddler, I LOVE them. I don't want to have to entertain my toddler and ignore the ceremony and the people around me at the reception for hours on end. Weddings are not exciting events for young kids."
Portland Parks & Recreation manages over 200 parks and natural settings ideal for weddings. Reservations for 2025 will open on January 6, starting with in-person requests.
"My ex-boss, an absolutely lovely, hilariously funny woman, was diagnosed with stomach cancer. She had put incredible time and effort into making the day special for her only daughter. One week before the wedding, she died. It had been so quick and shocking. Her daughter did not want to go through with the wedding, but her father and stepfather both insisted because her mother had put such time, love, and effort in."