The article discusses the challenges of reconnecting with estranged family members, particularly when personal identity and familial expectations clash. The author emphasizes that wedding invitations can sometimes be gestures meant for reconciliation, yet they might not be the best environment for meaningful conversations. Instead of attending the wedding, the author suggests sending a card while considering one's personal boundaries and the importance of communication with loved ones. Reaching out in a safe manner is preferred over forcing oneself into uncomfortable situations at such events.
While the invitation you received was kind, accepting it may not serve you as well as reaching out to your family in a way that is safe for you.
Weddings are also not ideal times for those kinds of conversations. A card is the right move here.
If you want to be closer to your family, first figure out what your boundaries are (ideally in conversation with your husband), and then reach out.
Would you really have enjoyed this wedding, knowing few people and feeling that your husband had been excluded?
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