Unfortunately, you cannot force someone to be interested in anything. Willingness is a key component to developing interest. My plea for those in this situation is to not overpersonalize the lack of interest shown so far, but instead communicate what you want directly. You are not without options to address this, but there are effective and ineffective ways to handle it.
You've picked the venue, argued over the guest list, and made peace with the cake being vegan. But have you thought about what happens after the confetti settles and the honeymoon photos start collecting likes instead of memories? Wedding planning is often romanticised, but smart couples today are treating it as something more serious: a launchpad for long-term partnership. In Britain too, where tradition still carries weight and expectations run deep,
A new nationwide review of U.S. engagement behavior has identified the months when Americans are most likely to get engaged, revealing a strikingly consistent annual pattern shaped by emotion, family traditions, seasonal timing, and practical planning needs. The analysis, conducted by Mark Broumand, examined Google Trends search patterns alongside national marriage statistics to better understand when proposals happen, when planning accelerates, and how seasonal sentiment influences one of life's biggest milestones.
I invited a small group of close friends, ordered a round and let the night unfold without expectations. No theme, no outfit planning and definitely no after-party. This was not my usual approach. I typically mark birthdays with intention and spectacle, but this year I wanted quiet. I wanted something that didn't require logistics, spreadsheets or a credit card statement I'd be afraid to open.
If you'd asked me what to do before you got frustrated with your sister and expressed it, I would have encouraged you to be a bit gentler with her. The commentary about insanity and moving on was unnecessary. She's obviously very hurt (making irrational demands, yes; but in pain, too) and didn't need to be told anything that would make her feel worse about herself.
Guest Jimmy Fallon asked Kelce whether he and Swift had started the wedding planning process, and specifically wanted to know about the music. "Are you gonna do DJ or band? Are you thinking about all this stuff?" he asked, with Kelce revealing, "Yeah, I think we're live music kind of people, you know?" That might also include karaoke, after Fallon praised Kelce's surprise karaoke performance with his brother, Jason, in July at the American Century Championship.
You can be proactive about this and you can make a plan for de-escalation if your prophylactic measures fail. Mother and daughter being close is a wonderful thing. Being 'prone to fighting' is not.
Planning a wedding is exciting, particularly creating a registry where you can select everything from kitchen gadgets to home decor just like online shopping.
