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1 day ago
Privacy professionals

Miss Manners: I don't want to sound so curt when they ask about wedding gifts

Couples can graciously decline gift registries by prioritizing guests' presence over material items.
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Is 'Normal' a Concept That Limits Acceptance of Difference?

The concept of 'normal' has transitioned from a statistical average to a social standard.
Human society must overcome the bias of similarity in pursuit of inclusivity.
True inclusion requires distinguishing 'normal' from 'ideal' within social frameworks.
fromThe New Yorker
5 days ago
Photography

The Secrets of Physique Magazines

The first exposure to physique photography can evoke a complex mix of excitement and embarrassment in young boys discovering their sexuality.
#etiquette
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Women

Miss Manners: Someone should teach Gen Z how to do a toast

Proper toasting etiquette highlights the importance of tradition amidst modern language shifts.
Maintaining professionalism is vital, even in awkward situations.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Relationships

Miss Manners: Our houseguest was offended when I asked about the broken items

Addressing guest behavior is important for household harmony.
Gift-giving should feel sincere and thoughtful.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago
Food & drink

Miss Manners: How can I wear jeans and a T-shirt if my husband is dead?

The bereaved can use subtle symbols to express mourning without conforming to strict Victorian norms.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: What should a houseguest do when the host commits a crime?

Guests have a responsibility to speak up when unlawful actions occur, even in social settings,
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: How does one give a wedding gift without a checkbook?

The times are changing regarding gift-giving traditions, with online money transfers becoming more prevalent but less personal.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago
Pets

Miss Manners: She was late, so I left. Was I the rude one?

Social etiquette demands respect for time and clear communication, which often goes unreciprocated in friendships.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Women

Miss Manners: Someone should teach Gen Z how to do a toast

Proper toasting etiquette highlights the importance of tradition amidst modern language shifts.
Maintaining professionalism is vital, even in awkward situations.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
Relationships

Miss Manners: Our houseguest was offended when I asked about the broken items

Addressing guest behavior is important for household harmony.
Gift-giving should feel sincere and thoughtful.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago
Food & drink

Miss Manners: How can I wear jeans and a T-shirt if my husband is dead?

The bereaved can use subtle symbols to express mourning without conforming to strict Victorian norms.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: What should a houseguest do when the host commits a crime?

Guests have a responsibility to speak up when unlawful actions occur, even in social settings,
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago
Miscellaneous

Miss Manners: How does one give a wedding gift without a checkbook?

The times are changing regarding gift-giving traditions, with online money transfers becoming more prevalent but less personal.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago
Pets

Miss Manners: She was late, so I left. Was I the rude one?

Social etiquette demands respect for time and clear communication, which often goes unreciprocated in friendships.
more#etiquette
#public-behavior
fromwww.nytimes.com
1 week ago
NYC music

Opinion | I Was Sure I Knew Why New Yorkers Blast Their Music. I Was Wrong.

Playing music from cellphones in public reflects a clash of personal expression versus communal annoyance.
Our perceptions of public music play can shift based on individual experiences and cultural contexts.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago
UK news

You be the judge: should my boyfriend stop spitting in public?

Cultural differences in habits can cause misunderstandings in relationships.
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago
NYC LGBT

16 Times People Acted Really Bizarrely In Public

Public displays of bizarre behavior can be astonishing and normalized in big cities, as revealed through various accounts on Reddit.
fromNew York Post
7 months ago
Writing

Mom's vacation ruined by stranger's 'gross' habit at hotel pool: 'Entitlement at its worst'

Public grooming acts, like cutting toenails, can violate social norms and cause discomfort in shared spaces, as experienced by a vacationing mother.
NYC music
fromwww.nytimes.com
1 week ago

Opinion | I Was Sure I Knew Why New Yorkers Blast Their Music. I Was Wrong.

Playing music from cellphones in public reflects a clash of personal expression versus communal annoyance.
Our perceptions of public music play can shift based on individual experiences and cultural contexts.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago
UK news

You be the judge: should my boyfriend stop spitting in public?

Cultural differences in habits can cause misunderstandings in relationships.
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago
NYC LGBT

16 Times People Acted Really Bizarrely In Public

Public displays of bizarre behavior can be astonishing and normalized in big cities, as revealed through various accounts on Reddit.
fromNew York Post
7 months ago
Writing

Mom's vacation ruined by stranger's 'gross' habit at hotel pool: 'Entitlement at its worst'

Public grooming acts, like cutting toenails, can violate social norms and cause discomfort in shared spaces, as experienced by a vacationing mother.
more#public-behavior
#mental-health
Media industry
fromEntrepreneur
1 week ago

Why Our Screens Are Programming Society for Dysfunction | Entrepreneur

The absence of media regulation has led to a normalization of toxic content that negatively impacts mental health and social values.
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Are You Terrified of Feeling Embarrassed?

Perfectionists often feel misunderstood and overly critical of themselves, leading to isolation and shame.
Media industry
fromEntrepreneur
1 week ago

Why Our Screens Are Programming Society for Dysfunction | Entrepreneur

The absence of media regulation has led to a normalization of toxic content that negatively impacts mental health and social values.
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago
Miscellaneous

Are You Terrified of Feeling Embarrassed?

Perfectionists often feel misunderstood and overly critical of themselves, leading to isolation and shame.
more#mental-health
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago
Environment

Shoes on at home or shoes off? If you care about your health, it's a no-brainer | Polly Hudson

Wearing shoes indoors can pose health risks, but societal pressures prevent widespread adoption of shoe removal practices.
#parenting
NYC parents
fromNew York Post
1 month ago

A mom hits 'new low' with birthday party request from hosting parent

Host parents face unusual demands for birthday parties in 2025, highlighting growing entitlement issues among guests.
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago
Parenting

If People Want Kids On Screens Less, We All Have To Learn To Tolerate Kid Behavior

Parents face a dilemma in restaurants with young children, balancing expectations of behavior with reality.
fromScary Mommy
1 week ago
Parenting

Is It OK To Drink At Your Kid's Sporting Events?

The acceptability of drinking at children's sports events is widely debated among parents.
fromScary Mommy
5 months ago
Digital life

PSA: Stop Talking To Moms Through Their Baby

Speaking to new moms through their babies is condescending and frustrating, exacerbating their already challenging experience of motherhood.
fromNew York Post
6 months ago
NYC parents

I was shamed for taking my baby to a kid-free wedding - and was even told my daughter 'doesn't fit the family'

Navigating child-free wedding policies can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, especially when last-minute changes occur.
NYC parents
fromNew York Post
1 month ago

A mom hits 'new low' with birthday party request from hosting parent

Host parents face unusual demands for birthday parties in 2025, highlighting growing entitlement issues among guests.
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago
Parenting

If People Want Kids On Screens Less, We All Have To Learn To Tolerate Kid Behavior

Parents face a dilemma in restaurants with young children, balancing expectations of behavior with reality.
fromScary Mommy
1 week ago
Parenting

Is It OK To Drink At Your Kid's Sporting Events?

The acceptability of drinking at children's sports events is widely debated among parents.
fromScary Mommy
5 months ago
Digital life

PSA: Stop Talking To Moms Through Their Baby

Speaking to new moms through their babies is condescending and frustrating, exacerbating their already challenging experience of motherhood.
fromNew York Post
6 months ago
NYC parents

I was shamed for taking my baby to a kid-free wedding - and was even told my daughter 'doesn't fit the family'

Navigating child-free wedding policies can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, especially when last-minute changes occur.
more#parenting
#tipping
fromNew York Post
1 week ago
Dining

Should you tip for fast food or takeout?

Tipping at fast-food establishments is increasingly common, yet many customers feel it's unnecessary and awkward.
Quality of service significantly impacts whether customers choose to tip.
from24/7 Wall St.
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

These Are the Biggest Cash Tips Service Workers Ever Received

Tipping plays a critical role in the financial support of service workers, often supplementing their low wages.
fromNew York Post
1 week ago
Dining

Should you tip for fast food or takeout?

Tipping at fast-food establishments is increasingly common, yet many customers feel it's unnecessary and awkward.
Quality of service significantly impacts whether customers choose to tip.
from24/7 Wall St.
6 months ago
Miscellaneous

These Are the Biggest Cash Tips Service Workers Ever Received

Tipping plays a critical role in the financial support of service workers, often supplementing their low wages.
more#tipping
#communication
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Tolerance Can Be a Virtue, Up to a Point

Failing to call out unacceptable behavior normalizes it, sending a message of its acceptability.
Silence in face of arrogance and insensitivity damages those affected, contributing to victimization.
Establishing boundaries is essential to prevent others from disrespecting you.
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What if Everyone Were Autistic?

Autistic communication is often direct and truthful.
Many with autism struggle with heightened sensory experiences.
Intense and restricted interests are hallmarks of autism.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago
Wine

Miss Manners: I was called a thief for getting fizzy water without paying

Clarifying restaurant policies on soda water is crucial instead of relying on assumptions.
fromInverse
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Awkwardness can hit in any social situation - here are a philosopher's 5 strategies to navigate it with grace

Awkwardness in social interactions stems from the absence of a guiding script, leading to feelings of discomfort and uncertainty.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Tolerance Can Be a Virtue, Up to a Point

Failing to call out unacceptable behavior normalizes it, sending a message of its acceptability.
Silence in face of arrogance and insensitivity damages those affected, contributing to victimization.
Establishing boundaries is essential to prevent others from disrespecting you.
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What if Everyone Were Autistic?

Autistic communication is often direct and truthful.
Many with autism struggle with heightened sensory experiences.
Intense and restricted interests are hallmarks of autism.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago
Wine

Miss Manners: I was called a thief for getting fizzy water without paying

Clarifying restaurant policies on soda water is crucial instead of relying on assumptions.
fromInverse
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Awkwardness can hit in any social situation - here are a philosopher's 5 strategies to navigate it with grace

Awkwardness in social interactions stems from the absence of a guiding script, leading to feelings of discomfort and uncertainty.
more#communication
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
2 weeks ago

I decided to adopt a baby at 47 when my first 2 kids were headed to college. I was surprised by the way people reacted.

Adopting a child in your 40s, especially as a single parent, can elicit unexpected reactions and social stigma.
#family-dynamics
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago
Parenting

Dear Abby: Do I have to change my eating habits when I'm in public?

Embrace personal eating habits without feeling pressured to conform to societal norms.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago
Travel

Miss Manners: Don't they know that work email isn't private?

Handle email issues with direct questions about better addresses and encourage personal communication.
When being manipulated, kindly inquire about the details without taking on extra responsibility.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago
Parenting

Dear Abby: Do I have to change my eating habits when I'm in public?

Embrace personal eating habits without feeling pressured to conform to societal norms.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago
Travel

Miss Manners: Don't they know that work email isn't private?

Handle email issues with direct questions about better addresses and encourage personal communication.
When being manipulated, kindly inquire about the details without taking on extra responsibility.
more#family-dynamics
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago
Women

Miss Manners: I undress in front of a man, and then this happens

Criticism of personal choices during intimacy is rude and reflective of unsuitable potential partners.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Does FOMO Sabotage Your Eating Goals?

Social situations can derail healthy eating goals.
FOMO influences our food choices at gatherings.
Self-control struggles intensify in group settings.
Misguided perceptions of social norms impact dietary habits.
fromdefector.com
1 month ago
Brooklyn

Watching Secret Mall Apartment' In The Secret Apartment Mall

The underground art scene in Providence birthed a secret apartment in the mall, captured in a documentary premiering in 2025.
Paris food
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I moved to France 16 years ago. Adjusting to local culture has been tough, but there have been pleasant surprises.

Cultural differences between France and the UK include drinking habits, meal duration, and social politeness.
fromHarvard Business Review
1 month ago
Left-wing politics

What It Takes to Fix a "Mean" Workplace

Many workers believe U.S. society is becoming increasingly uncivil, citing reasons such as political polarization and online behavior.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Dining

Miss Manners: My friend won't answer the phone. What should I do now?

Flexibility in communication preferences is key when dealing with delayed phone calls.
#cultural-commentary
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago
Miscellaneous

Do Girls Really Mature Faster Than Boys - Or Does Society Just Embrace Boyhood?

The perception that girls mature faster than boys may reflect societal biases rather than actual differences in maturity.
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
Mental health

Non-Americans Are Sharing The 15 Oddest US Traditions They Can't Believe Are So Popular

Casual greetings in the US often lack sincerity and are not meant to elicit honest responses.
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago
Miscellaneous

Do Girls Really Mature Faster Than Boys - Or Does Society Just Embrace Boyhood?

The perception that girls mature faster than boys may reflect societal biases rather than actual differences in maturity.
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
Mental health

Non-Americans Are Sharing The 15 Oddest US Traditions They Can't Believe Are So Popular

Casual greetings in the US often lack sincerity and are not meant to elicit honest responses.
more#cultural-commentary
London food
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Loud Zoom calls, hogging space, spending a pittance: no wonder laptoppers' antics irk cafe owners | Emily Watkins

The rise of remote work in cafes may lead to changing social norms concerning laptop usage.
Freelancers cherish cafes for the variety and atmosphere they provide for working.
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago
US Elections

People Are Predicting The Once-Popular American Traditions That Will Disappear In The Coming Decades, And Good Riddance To Some Of These

Some American traditions may fade within 25 years, as participants observe shifts in community engagement and preferences.
Independent films
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I'm all for strange': Sister Midnight's Karan Kandhari on his punk rock debut, two decades in the making

The film 'Sister Midnight' challenges traditional gender norms through humor and a bold narrative centered on a woman's struggle for identity.
fromPsychology Today
4 months ago
Miscellaneous

The Pressure to Stay Silent When An Abusive Person Passes

It's normal to experience mixed emotions after the death of an abusive person.
fromPortland Mercury
4 months ago
Cooking

You don't have to like it

Disliking someone's choice doesn't necessitate commenting or bullying.
Respecting personal choices is important in social interactions.
#gender-issues
fromThe Atlantic
5 months ago
Women in technology

The Retrograde New Debate About Women in Combat

Trump allies perceive changes in social norms as failures of DEI efforts, undermining women's contributions in military roles.
fromScary Mommy
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Woman Calls Out Corporate Christmas Parties That Don't Allow Spouses

Corporate Christmas parties can create uncomfortable situations, particularly for young women, due to the absence of partners and the presence of power dynamics.
fromThe Atlantic
5 months ago
Women in technology

The Retrograde New Debate About Women in Combat

Trump allies perceive changes in social norms as failures of DEI efforts, undermining women's contributions in military roles.
fromScary Mommy
5 months ago
Miscellaneous

Woman Calls Out Corporate Christmas Parties That Don't Allow Spouses

Corporate Christmas parties can create uncomfortable situations, particularly for young women, due to the absence of partners and the presence of power dynamics.
more#gender-issues
fromwww.nytimes.com
5 months ago
Digital life

The Big Question: What Is Underrated?

Many elements of daily life are underrated and deserve more recognition for their cultural value.
fromPsychology Today
7 months ago
Miscellaneous

Speaking the Unspeakable: What Holds Us Back from Sharing?

Memes go viral by engaging emotions and social norms, which enables them to be easily shared.
fromThe New Yorker
7 months ago
New York City

Which Party Has Cornered the Tattoo Vote?

Tattooing among politicians is a growing trend, reflecting changing societal norms and acceptance of body art.
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