The author reflects on her experience adopting a child at age 47 while her two older children were preparing for college. Initially filled with excitement, she faced unexpected reactions, including skepticism and concern from friends and acquaintances about her decision. She highlights a societal taboo surrounding motherhood at an older age, particularly as a single woman. Despite her desire for a third child, she encountered a mix of surprise and judgment when announcing her plans to adopt after her divorce, revealing the complexities of motherhood across different stages of life.
At a party, a guest I barely knew pulled me aside. Gayle, in her 60s, had a worried look. "Let me ask you something," she said. "What made you do this?"
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