#household-chores

#household-chores

So, we had a sitter last night that we paid $35 an hour for two kids that were only awake for two hours of the time she was here,

Some couples bicker for the better part of their time together. Others may prefer to simmer in silence until something like a misplaced sock becomes a referendum on the relationship as a whole. Conflict, in its many shapes and sizes, is par for the course in intimacy. For this reason, psychologists rarely concern themselves with whether or not couples fight anymore; all signs point to the fact that conflict exists in some way or another in a majority of relationships.

When we were young, poor, and renting, my husband was always a slob; he never picked up after himself, left his dirty and clean clothes together in a mountain on his side of the bed, would rather die than wash a dish, etc. His car was putrid. As a medium clean person (but not a neat freak), I was annoyed by the clutter and grossness.

The inconvenient rule involves purposely making the laundry inconvenient so that you don't put it off and let the piles grow. This method calls for folding laundry right in the laundry room.

The unequal division of household chores can lead to one person doing most of the work while others contribute little to nothing.