#approval

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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I'm 38 and I just figured out that the approval I spent my twenties chasing was from people who were structurally incapable of giving it, and the chase itself was the proof, not the path - Silicon Canals

Seeking validation often stems from trying to gain approval from those incapable of providing it, rather than a simple self-esteem issue.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The People-Pleaser's Misunderstanding of Another's Approval

People-pleasers seek approval to heal relationships, while perfectionists often withhold praise due to fear of vulnerability and high standards.
Careers
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I'm 66 and I spent forty years being extremely good at my job and last spring I realized I had optimized my entire existence for the approval of people I didn't particularly like - Silicon Canals

Professional dedication can sometimes mask a deeper need for approval from others, leading to personal sacrifices and a loss of self-identity.
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