Our marriage of more than 18 months was refused entry on arrival, left on the tarmac at Dublin Airport, because same-sex marriage wasn't legal in Australia.
I was 15 years old when a friend and I got a job picking mushrooms at a mushroom farm. We were picked up at 6:00 a.m. from a local plaza and driven to the farm two hours away. Somehow, we were separated and put in different grow rooms (which felt more like horse stalls). There were no windows nor electricity for light. There were eight 'pickers' per room; only two wore headlamps. It was so dark I couldn't see my hand in front of my face. We were told we could take our first break in two hours, and then the door was shut tightly. I did my job quietly, feeling around the manure for mushrooms in complete darkness amongst six strange men. It felt like eight hours had passed when the door finally opened two hours later.
In a time of experiencing a profound loss of control in the form of the tumor that was blurring my vision, this felt like a consummate act of taking back my life, or at least my story.
While spending four hours in an excruciating administrative meeting trying to protect student journalism at KU, I opened my phone... and then I saw it. Nick Pivetta, after declining Boston's qualifying offer and then having his market stall like most everyone else this offseason, had signed a contract for the 2025 season.
The initial vision of turning a disused cow pasture into a cherished garden evolved over the years into a lush, self-sustaining forest ecosystem.