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fromBustle
4 days agoCrickets In The Family Group Chat? You Might Be Dealing With "Sibling Drift"
Sibling drift is a gradual emotional distancing between siblings that can lead to a lack of connection and communication.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoNobody tells you that the hardest year in a marriage isn't the first, the seventh, or the one after the children leave - it's the year when one of you changes and the other doesn't, and the gap that opens between who you're becoming and who they still are isn't a crisis, it's a question that takes some couples years to answer and some couples never do - Silicon Canals
Marriages fail when one partner evolves significantly while the other remains static, creating an incompatibility gap that becomes difficult to bridge.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoThe hardest friendships to maintain aren't the ones with conflict. They're the ones where both people are growing but in different directions, and neither person is wrong, and there's no argument to have, just a slow widening that nobody caused and nobody can fix. - Silicon Canals
Friendships often end due to gradual emotional distance rather than specific events, highlighting the importance of recognizing blameless drift.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks agoWhy the loneliest people in a room are rarely the quiet ones in the corner - they're the ones making everyone laugh, because humor became their way of being near people without ever having to be seen by them - Silicon Canals
Humor serves as a tool for lonely individuals to manage emotional distance in social interactions.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoPsychology explains people who grew up in the 1960s aren't just tougher - they developed a specific kind of resilience that comes from being raised in an era when emotional comfort wasn't considered a basic right - Silicon Canals
Baumrind's research on parenting styles reveals a decline in resilience among children raised in emotionally distant environments.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThere's a version of clarity that only arrives in your 40s where you suddenly understand your father wasn't distant because he didn't care. He was performing certainty for thirty years and the exhaustion of never once saying 'I don't know' eventually made him unreachable. - Silicon Canals
Emotionally distant fathers often performed certainty to absorb household anxiety, which hollowed them out rather than reflecting lack of care or emotional capacity.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month agoI Know My Tween Daughter's Behavior Is Normal. But It's Really Breaking My Heart.
A parent's reduced communication with their 12-year-old daughter during puberty is developmentally normal; maintaining unconditional love while respecting her need for independence and space is more effective than forcing conversation.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThe hardest conversation in a 40-year marriage isn't about infidelity or money or the children - it's the one where someone finally says "I don't think you actually know me" and the other person can't argue because they realize the version of you they married was updated so slowly they never noticed the original was gone - Silicon Canals
Long-term relationships deteriorate through imperceptible gradual changes, not dramatic events, causing partners to become strangers despite decades together.
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fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoRelationships
I'm 66 and my two sons live twenty minutes away and I haven't seen either of them in six weeks - and the thing I can't explain to anyone is that the distance isn't geographic, it's that they've become polite with me, and polite is the furthest thing from close - Silicon Canals
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1 month agoRelationships
I'm 66 and my two sons live twenty minutes away and I haven't seen either of them in six weeks - and the thing I can't explain to anyone is that the distance isn't geographic, it's that they've become polite with me, and polite is the furthest thing from close - Silicon Canals
fromSilicon Canals
2 months agoI'm 62 and my children barely know me, and I've finally stopped pretending that feels like failure - Silicon Canals
Parents in my generation were sold a particular narrative: if you do it right, if you sacrifice enough, if you show up for every game and recital and school function, your adult children will want to be around you. They'll call. They'll remember your birthday. They'll treat you like you matter. That was the premise, the bargain.
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fromBusiness Insider
7 months agoMy brother is 12 years older than I am, and he let me live with him after college. He's more of a father figure than a sibling.
An older brother assumed a parental, solemn role after parental loss, creating emotional distance and a longing for playful, sibling-like connection despite gratitude.
Artificial intelligence
fromItsnicethat
9 months agoFuturistic, detached and intensely human: Ard Su's editorial illustrations are simple yet unique
Ard Su creates illustrations blending clinical coldness with human warmth, engaging with complex subjects like tech and medicine through unique artistic techniques.
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