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fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

This is how we do it: I'd compare myself with other women and end up having panic attacks'

I had some messed up ideas around a woman's role and the influence of porn on that Jake was my first. I was 17 and he was 18. I lost my virginity way later than all my friends; sex had been so far out of my comfort zone. For me it was like social currency and I put a lot of pressure on myself to get it done.
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fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Really Want to Climax, but My Orgasms Scare the Living Hell Out of Me

A cis woman experiences involuntary, urinary‑appearing liquid release during orgasm that causes shame, partner discomfort, and persistent inability to fully orgasm.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Husband Is Obsessed With Measuring Himself Down There. His Reasoning Is Pure Lunacy.

Repeated measuring and anxiety about penis shrinkage can become obsessive; partners should set boundaries, consider medical causes, and coordinate financial decisions about procedures.
Relationships
fromwww.esquire.com
3 months ago

How Ass Worship Saved My Sex Life

A fetish for ass worship began in adolescence and became a refuge from shame, a substitute for intimacy, and shaped sexual confidence and behavior.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 months ago

My boyfriend sees sex as a competition he is losing. How can I change his mind?

Sexual anxiety rooted in masculine-adequacy beliefs and cultural standards makes intimacy feel competitive; shift focus to mutual pleasure, knowledge, and freedom rather than performance.
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