"I'm a cis woman in my early 40s and I have spent my years unable to fully let go when I orgasm. The few times I have, I've released so much liquid it looks like I wet the bed. In formative experiences, it was really embarrassing and my partners were noticeably uncomfortable, including wanting to get up and wash the sheets right away."
"I always pee right before sex. I've never been pregnant, so this is not a post-birth situation. And at least as far as I've been able to find by reading first hand accounts of how it feels and watching videos, it doesn't seem like the sensation is squirting. It's made me really unable to let go and orgasm in front of anyone or when masturbating by myself,"
A cis woman in her early 40s reports recurrent involuntary liquid release at orgasm that often appears like bedwetting and has provoked partner discomfort and embarrassment. She has orgasmed fewer than five times over nearly 30 years of sexual exploration and is vigilant about urinating before sex. She has not been pregnant, so this is not related to childbirth. The sensation does not match descriptions of squirting in her research, and the releases occur as contractions begin, causing ongoing sexual inhibition, avoidance of orgasm with partners, and distress about the source and control of the fluid.
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