"Your words are not going to make this OK. He needs to find some kind of solace within. It can be difficult to resist absorbing the preoccupations of a partner, but I think it's reasonable to distance yourself here. Chalk this up to a quirk or undesirable habit or hobby even and ask that he do his incessant measuring in private. This is his journey and you shouldn't get in his way."
"Any decisions he would make about spending money on an operation, though, should be made in coordination with you, assuming you share finances. The fact is that some penises do shrink with age, for a variety of factors like high blood pressure. Less blood flow can mean there's less in the dick to keep it plump. They can also shift in size due to circumstance ("shrinkage" in response to cold conditions) and erections may range in size, as well, depending on"
A husband repeatedly measures his penis and records results, convinced it is shrinking and considering lengthening surgery. Reassurances from his partner do not resolve his fears. The partner is advised to distance herself, request private measuring, and avoid participation in the obsession. Any decision to spend money on a cosmetic operation should be coordinated if finances are shared. Some penises can shrink with age due to factors like high blood pressure and reduced blood flow. Penile size can also fluctuate with temperature and vary with erection state.
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