#past-relationships

#past-relationships

When I met my husband, I was doing an on-again/off-again dance with a man I'll call Noah. The gist of our 10-year relationship was that I wanted to be "on" and he seemed content to be on-again/off-again ... forever. This is not a man I want popping up in my dreams. And yet, even though my marriage is pretty good, as marriages go, I can never seem to get this guy out of my head.

I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't feel the way you feel. But I would love it if you asked a couple of questions about those feelings.